My girlfriend is the manager of a call center in the Philippines (where I also currently reside as an expat). The owner of the company is in town from America and they are flying to a conference, they will most likely stay in the same hotel but I haven't asked about the details.

 

Her boss is a middle aged beta that constantly gives her ultimatums because she is always late but never goes through with them. She talks shit about him when we are together and one time she even told me that he asked her if she was dating someone and when she said yes; he told her to break up with me.

 

Last week he offered her a down-payment on a car that would technically be hers but also be used for more potential work travel when he is gone. When she came over she was looking at cars and asking my opinions on them (we like to travel around the province but we don't have a vehicle).

 

I am thinking about asking her about the room arrangements because I was reading a post on here about how some guys girlfriend was going to stay in the same room as her coach and that was an immediate next because of her even entertaining that idea, also her boss is a literal Jew so I wouldn't be surprised if he tried to pull something like this.

 

Should I casually ask her what kind of room she's staying in? Maybe something like "Hey I hope your jew boss isn't cheaping out on your room too bad" Not implying that they'll be sharing a room but if they are sharing a room I'm sure she'd mention it offhand therefore earning a hard next. Or should I just keep my trap shut, and chalk this whole thing up to insecurity?