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CutLiver/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:06 PM
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The girls I've been with all tell me I'm "smooth". I'm just being myself and doing what has worked with all the women I've been with in the past. After you get with a few, you'll figure out what works and what doesn't work. "Game" is nothing more than confidence imo. Guys who can get laid easily have it, and guys who try to imitate it might get laid now and then but you really just need to develop it through experience. The main issue with "nice" guys is that they're afraid of how women will rea…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 12:01 AM
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I'm going to work but the tldr I guess is that the girl I was super into is a girl I wouldn't even be interested in if I saw her today. She was nothing special and had a shitty personality tbh. The last girl I was with/am still talking to but she's out of state is a 21 year old model. Went through 7 girls within that time period (the first girl rejected me a little over a year ago). The first of those 7 was below average looking. The rest are all beautiful women imo. And one of them was a 9 mont…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:23 AM
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Honestly dude, just go on tinder and bang an "ok" girl to get it out of your system. Might not work out, or she might push you for sex. Just get drunk and get it over with. It'll give you a little confidence boost, which is probably all you need.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:45 AM
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Nice guys are pussies who get pissed when they're rejected because they acted like a pussy. Simple as that. They're completely different.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:42 AM
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Who cares
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:38 AM
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They've given you free reign to google shit. Get good at googling and figure it out. In the meantime look for a different job because it sounds like a shit company to work at if you're the only guy.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:36 AM
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Your friend is insecure. People can tell, don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:23 AM
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Getting rejected by a girl I was really into. After that, I just stopped caring about women being into me. Basically I just kept doing the same stuff, going out, talking to people, and after being successful a lot I realized that a lot of women are into me. I was just being an insecure pussy due to my inexperience.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:17 AM
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She was moving out of the state and she had told me this when we met. Normally I wouldn't do that, but I liked her a lot and wanted to spend time with her before she left. There's also something to be said about just being with one girl for a while. I personally don't like rotating rosters coming in and out constantly. Too much work and too much time to get the same result - sex.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:31 AM
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The guys who say they've never been with a fat/ugly chick or one that was below their standards are delusional or simply liars. We've all got at least one or two we regret. That's part of learning about yourself and what you want in a woman. No shame in it. And nothing to be embarrassed about.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:26 AM
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Yep. It's simple and straight forward. You're not wasting anyone's time. I met a girl last Friday night, used this and had her in my bed Saturday night, and Sunday night, and Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. The key is not to become texting buddies. Relationships develop in person, not over the phone.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:23 PM
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You've been on two dates. You owe her nothing. I would just text her. "Hey I had fun, but I don't think we're right for each other. It was nice meeting you though and I wish you the best"
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:13 AM
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"Hey, this is (name) - hot guy from (place you met her)." That's my go-to. After that, go straight into asking her out. A typical exchange goes something like this: Me: "Hey, this is CutLiver (hot guy from the bar)." Her: "Who?" "Lol, jk. How are you?" - (A lot of girls will see that you're being cocky and make a smart-ass comment. That's a good sign. Then they'll ask a boring question like "how are you?" or "what's up?" It really doesn't matter what they say. Don't get in a back-and-forth conve…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:08 AM
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Good job, bro. In my experience, girls like that are tons of drama and they're usually pretty stuck up. Even if you do end up hooking up with them, they'll constantly be playing games. Women are a dime a dozen... Have standards and only give your attention to the ones who are crazy for you. After all, you are the prize.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:50 AM
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Eh, whatever. The dude's a little bitch. The girl might be a little offended, but who cares. You weren't talking shit about her... you were speaking some basic truths about women in general. In the future, it's best to keep this stuff to yourself for the most part and only ever bullshit about this with other guys who get it, and do it in person. Bottom line - Girls don't like guys that worship them. It creeps them out. By him showing her this stuff, it only solidified that he's putting her on th…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:37 AM
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Dude, if you actually ever want a chance to do anything with this girl then you need to blow her off. But honestly, why do you want a girl who has already told you she's not interested in sex with you? I would send something simple like, "No worries. It was nice meeting you" and forget she exists. She sent you the first message because she likes the validation you're giving her. Then she sent the second one because somewhere deep down there's a small part of her that's actually decent, and it's …
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:24 AM
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I never fell in love with her. Unfortunately she fell hard for me and she's a complete nut. I don't even think it's all about her having a kid. I mean, that's probably a part of it but she's just a psycho. I should've seen the signs and ended it way sooner.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:15 AM
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Wish I would've taken TRP's advice on this one. 4 days later and she's acting like a complete psycho. I'm legit kinda scared for my own safety. She seems like a stalker.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:13 AM
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Met a new one last night. I don't have a problem finding women.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:24 PM
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Yeah dude I am addicted to drama.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:49 AM
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Yeah that's usually how it goes. Today she made a comment about her being my friend, or "whatever" I think she is. She definitely wants commitment.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:04 AM
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Lmao, this sounds so simple but it's fucking spot-on.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:55 AM
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Well, I just got out of a relationship a few months ago, and I really want to hook up with this other girl who's hitting me up. She already told me she's DTF.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:53 AM
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No. It saturates you muscles with water. It'll give you a few extra reps each workout, it's not gonna make your dick hard
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:52 AM
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I would turn it back on her. Say something like "Well, do you want to meet up with him?" If she keeps prying, saying something like "Idk, do you want me to?" then just keep deflecting. Something like "I can't control you". Don't approve of it and don't disapprove of it. Basically don't show your cards. She's trying to make you jealous and it's kinda fucked up on her part imo.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:46 AM
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Dude she's not going to leave. She started a fucking blog and wrote a post about me and it was all about love and how I'm unlike any guy she's ever met before. She even used a picture she took of me where I had my shirt off and I was playing guitar (she used a filter so you can barely tell it's me, but still...) Then she told me about a trip she wants to take to Peru in 2 years and said I should start saving up lol. She's 28 by the way. I would expect this kinda thing from a 20 year old.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:40 AM
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The key is to find a girl who's in the middle. She doesn't completely avoid you but she also doesn't blow up your phone. In my experience, it's kinda tough to find a girl who's not on one end or the other.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:19 AM
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The grass is always greener on the other side. If she was texting you constantly like my girl, you'd be longing for the days when you barely heard from her. I literally can't send two texts in a row to mine without her replying to the first one right away. And unless I completely ignore her, she'll text me all fucking day. Having someone text you all the time gets annoying fast. Doesn't matter how good looking they are. Sounds like you've already got oneitis.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:14 AM
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The fact that you're even asking this means you aren't alpha. Why do you give a shit about what they think about you?
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:15 PM
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Be thankful that she's not blowing up your phone. The girl I'm seeing right now wants to text constantly and it's annoying as hell. I wait around 20-30 minutes to reply to her and before I can send a second text (about 10 seconds later) she'll already have replied to my first one. I'm actually considering breaking things off with her because it's getting that annoying.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:12 PM
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Condoms help with this. Plus I already talked with my girl and she said she would get an abortion if an accident happened.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:00 PM
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Someone's bitter. Chad is such a stupid fucking term. No wonder a lot you guys on here take it the wrong way. All "Chad" is, is a mindset. Not giving a fuck, saying what you think, and being fun and social are all skills that anybody can learn. Self-confidence can be developed by anyone. And you don't need to look like Brad Pitt. The moment you throw all those self-destructive thoughts out the window is the moment when you can actually start improving yourself. Pitying yourself and thinking you'…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 07:12 AM
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Do what you want to. It's a hobby you enjoy, not your life's work. In no way is that immature, and if any girl tries to get you to stop doing hobbies, no matter how "childish" society tells you they are, drop that girl. Some people collect action figures or comic books, some are into cars, some are into video games, some like to read, etc.... you happen to like messing around with legos. Own it and don't be embarrassed about it.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:18 AM
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When she said it, I would've laughed and said something playful like "Oh, is that so? You know you can't resist me." If a woman ever says something like that, just make a joke out of it. If it gets to the end of the night and she actually denies sex, then soft next her for playing games. The only person you're hurting by denying her sex is yourself. You need to grow some thicker skin. When it comes to sex, don't play games like some women do... it's childish. But it honestly sounds like your gir…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:42 PM
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Troll
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:51 PM
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Nah dude, he's going to be ripped at 6'1 and 125 lbs. I think he should keep cutting. After all, the holocaust look is so in right now.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 05:43 AM
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I pay $25 (20 + $5 tip). Compared to a $10 haircut this is what I get: A guy who's been cutting hair for 40 years. Same barber every time. We can bullshit instead of sitting in silence or going through the "interview" questions workers at chain salons ask everyone. I get a perfect fade every time. Without asking, he'll trim my eyebrows randomly. The first time he did it I was like "what the fuck" but it looked good. Now I trim them regularly. I get my neck shaved with a straight razor. Free bear…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:03 AM
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Any girl you're with is going to talk to other guys. You gotta get over your issues. You have a few problems most likely. Maybe you're out of shape, or you don't make that much money, or whatever. Something's causing you to feel inadequate. So step one is fixing that. Step two is getting out of the scarcity mindset you're trapped in. If you had an abundance mindset you wouldn't be worrying about anything your girl is doing, because you would know that she's easily replaceable. You're a bit screw…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:55 AM
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Is your name Patrick Bateman by chance?
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:35 AM
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When it comes to women, you need to have boundaries otherwise they'll walk all over you. The best way to handle an argument over something dumb is you simply sit there and let the other person make a fool out of themselves. You don't say anything... you just lead them on by saying things like "Oh, really?", "Is that so?", or "Go on, get it all out". Say it in a calm way and keep your shit together. Never raise your voice because there's really no point. Once she's done, either leave or tell her …
/r/askTRP11/03/18 05:31 AM
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They're coworkers. They're not friends, even if it feels that way at times. Still, be friendly, go out if they ask you to, and flirt as much as you want to. Just don't take it farther than that. Believe me, that's a shitstorm you don't want to deal with.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 03:29 AM
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Always with a kiss. If you take them back to your place and they hit you with LMR, back off and try again after making out for a while. If they say no again, leave it at that. In my experience, about 50% of girls will sleep with you on the first date. The other 50% think that doing that makes them a slut, so they'll wait until the 2nd or 3rd. I've never gone past the 2nd date without having sex though. If it doesn't happen on the first date, it's not a big deal... act like a gentleman and walk t…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 03:24 AM
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Don't shit where you eat. Make friends with the good looking girls and if they ask you to come out for drinks, go. But don't try to do anything with them. Focus on the hottest friend they bring.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 03:20 AM
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Why would you want to hang out with a bunch of girls? The girl I'm seeing actually has decently cool girl-friends, but I'd still rather rip off my left nut than hang out with them. Anyway, read the sidebar. Start lifting.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 03:20 AM
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Stop giving a fuck. If you feel like saying something, don't be afraid to say it. If you feel like doing something, don't be afraid to do it. You need to remove the filter in your mind that's basically causing you to put on an act. Let your actual personality come out and you'll start to gain confidence. And let go of the past. There's nothing you can do to change it so you need to move on.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:20 PM
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It's your boundary, so I can't really argue with what you did. But I think you have some major insecurities you need to work out of your system. This little tantrum just exposed them. I'm not going to comment on whether you made the right decision or not, but if you do try to work things out after this it's going to be a carnival of awkwardness and fighting, not only with her, but with her friends. You might be better off just moving on and chalking this one up as a learning experience.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:18 PM
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Maybe I'm a freak, but I do heavy full-body workouts every other day and I still struggle to fall asleep before 2am.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:31 AM
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I honestly laughed out loud at this post because it seems so preposterous that shit like this is even a problem. I treat every girl I'm with good and I've never even considered to worry about a rape case. I guess it does happen though.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 06:11 AM
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It's not passive aggressive if you simply don't want to deal with something. Personally, I don't want drama in my life so if anyone is causing it I'm not interested in being around them.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 05:54 AM
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This exactly. And it's not completely relevant, but not being afraid to say shit to girls is key. If they piss you off, let it be known by ignoring them and taking away your attention. They'll figure out what they did wrong.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 04:58 AM
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I'd want my daughter to be with an alpha
/r/askTRP24/02/18 12:52 AM
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There's really no wrong way to respond to nudes. If she's sending them she already likes you.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 05:03 PM
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When she comes crawling back, do the dirtiest shit you can think of to her then kick her out. Use a condom and pull out so she can't claim her new homeless baby is yours.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 03:24 AM
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...maybe you aren't attractive enough? Idk, it works for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 01:39 AM
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It's not feigned indifference though, it's actual indifference. It takes experience to get to that point, but once you do, women will pursue you like crazy.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 10:45 PM
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Easy way to test if you are doing this right: are you ditching women who fail? If you're asking "how do I look like I am vetting her", you're doing it wrong. If you're ditching half the women who would like to fuck you, then you're vetting them. Then you tell women you see when you do it. They'll appreciate that you haven't done the same to them while realising that you still might. Never tell them you won't. Very true. I went on three dates this month and I never contacted two of them for a sec…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 10:29 PM
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I do well with women too, but like you, I have a tendency to get comfortable and think stuff like good morning texts are ok once we've been together for a while. My ex even begged me to send her good morning and good night texts, but I have a feeling they turned her off. The girl I'm seeing now has recently been talking about how I never text her and it confuses her, and she says she's always thinking about me. She sends me nude pictures while she's at work and I don't open them until the next d…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 06:00 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_cnbV_OSi4
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:25 PM
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What effect does it have on you mentally? I'm inerested in trying it, but I don't want to waste money if it's just a placebo.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:23 AM
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Nootropics don't do shit. If you want a natural herb that does make you more outgoing, buy some kratom. Maeng da strain is the best and it's cheap as fuck on kratomusa.com or other similar shops online. If you buy it at a local headshot they'll charge you up the ass though
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:20 AM
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Based on your post, you don't want to be in a relationship with her. That makes things pretty simple. You know what you have to do, man. So do it. Tell her you don't feel like you have a future together and "it's not fair to her" to keep the relationship going. I prefer to say something like "if we're meant to be together, then we will be". That leaves the door open for you to re-initiate contact in the future.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:14 AM
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Did you test positive for something? There's not enough info here, bro. Most STD's wouldn't show up if you caught them recently, like with the friday chick. Some of them wouldn't even show up within 2.5 weeks. I think you probably got this a while ago. But if it's something like herpes HSV1, almost everyone has it and you could've caught it years ago. I wouldn't go blaming bitches you've been with recently, especially if you used a condom.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:05 AM
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Lmao. Ok, bud
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:12 AM
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how does that help OP at all? You're just being a douche
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:08 AM
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She's not interested. Move along and quit contacting her. Unless she reaches out to you, she's dead to you. If she does reach out, set up a date.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:58 PM
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She's not your girl anymore. Why do you care?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:56 PM
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But why would op need to wear a condom when he's sucking dick?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:56 PM
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Adding to this, it might be best to go to a red pill doctor and get some red pill antibiotics if things aren't improving.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:55 PM
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You ignore any attempts to make you jealous. You should have an abundance mentality, which means any girl who causes drama like that isn't a high priority.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:53 PM
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This is where young guys find TRP, go total redpill rambo, and start fucking up relationships with their friends / women they know at school. The guy has a complete misunderstanding of the material here.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:53 PM
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No, DO NOT call her. And no, from what I read you were fine, not a dick, but even if you were you shouldn't care. You have severe oneitis, bro. Quit overthinking stuff. You should focus on other women so you're not so hung up on this one.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:51 PM
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Just keep treating her like you are, like a little girl and be playful/fun. Don't get upset if she cancels plans, just act like it doesn't matter to you. If she keeps doing it, quit making plans with her and wait until she asks to see you. My ex would get super tired because of her schedule and she wouldn't want to make plans some times. If I made a big deal out of it, it totally turned her off. If I acted like I didn't care, she would be begging to see me the next day and asking what I was up t…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:26 PM
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I got all the same stuff from my last girl. I'm 26 and she was 35. Talking about marriage, having my kid, cooked for me constantly, sex on demand, all that shit. Women's emotions can change instantly, and I can tell you that she's not going to be that good girl all the time. I ended up breaking up with her and I can tell you it's a waste of time to try an LTR with a woman that much older than you. Especially if she's saying she has concerns about it. That's never going to change. Treat her like …
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:21 PM
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So passive-aggressive...
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:16 PM
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One thing you'll notice when you start standing up for yourself is that other people, and especially women you're dating, will buckle very quickly and apologize when you make them aware that they've crossed a boundary.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 06:14 PM
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Chill out bro lol
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:42 PM
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Lmao I'm stealing that
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:41 PM
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She went home, then texted me right before Christmas saying that she is too old for me and we should break up, wanting to be staying friends. This is a case where you should actually listen to her. Your reply was good... you can't be just friends, so the ultimatum was necessary. What you need to know is she wants a FWB relationship, but you're giving off LTR vibes. Back off and treat her as a plate. That's all she wants and it's all she's good for. I talked to her 1h on the phone, trying to reas…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:31 PM
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According to the study, strength was responsible for 70% of a guy's attractiveness. Leanness and height only accounted for an additional 10%, meaning they had a negligible impact. I didn't say anything about BMI in that comment so I'm not sure what your point is. BMI is a shitty measuring mark for fitness anyway if you lift. Most of the scales are from the early-mid 1900's and don't account for muscular men.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 05:16 PM
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Never ask a girl her n-count. She won't tell you the truth and it shouldn't matter to you anyway. Never tell a girl your n-count. In fact, never give her a number at all. The best response if she asks you how many women you've been with, is "enough".
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:13 PM
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I'm 26 and a full-time student. The company I was working for for the past 3 years shut down in November and everyone got laid off. The income loss is the biggest problem. I'm currently looking for a full-time job to keep afloat, and once I land one I'm basically not going to have a life.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 04:58 PM
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Riding a bike is dangerous now? Is she your mom or your girl? ...I'd honestly bounce out of that relationship.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:36 AM
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This long-distance girlfriend of 3 years of mine Mistake number 1 I threatened her Mistake number 2 I sent her a box full of expensive gifts and chocolates Dude, why?! Mistake number 3 wrote a 30 page long letter What a fucking waste of time. Ugh... mistake number 4 The aim of all this was to make her feel bad and regret her actions. Super immature. Grow up. Mistake number 5 I want to know how she feels and what she wants to talk to me about. That's natural, but you need to murder that voice in …
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:31 AM
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I'm not even invested in this girl. I've considered dropping her already... but there's no way I'd give up the gym for some random bitch who wants a flabby boyfriend. Lifting is a huge part of my mental health, and I love going to the gym.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:10 AM
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Yeah, same girl. She's trying to lock me down but I'm resisting her attempts or just plain blowing them off. I've reduced the frequency of our dates because she's coming on really strong, and I told her I want to take things slow. I agree, it's her version of a shit test and she's insecure.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:09 AM
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She does complain about her body regularly, and she asked me if I'll train her if she comes to my gym, which I said I would try to do. And she constantly makes comments about fucking other girls up if they try to make a move on me, which I just laugh at.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:08 AM
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They want a faithful provider and they desire a strong lover. Both are unconscious but the first tend to hit her conscious mind more often, and doesn't make her feel like a slut. Very true. The thing is, I provide nothing for this girl. She's a full-time working professional and I'm a full-time student. She knows I don't have money and I don't give a shit if she likes it or not. So far, it seems to be driving her crazy. I was never like this with women, but the way things ended with my ex change…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:05 AM
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I completely fucked up buying gifts for my ex. I'll never make that mistake again. I literally show no effort with this girl and she's head over heels in love with me.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:58 AM
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Exactly. I'm just trying to understand the hamstering. I think the simplest answer is the right one. She's insecure and nervous that I'll get attention from other women. She's even mentioned "cutting a ho" when another girl tried talking to me at the bar lol. She says it in a joking way, but she says stuff like that constantly. This bitch might be crazy
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:54 AM
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She already does. Didn't even have to tell her to
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:52 AM
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Dude. What a fucking bitch. Be glad you're rid of her.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:52 AM
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True. I just feel cold because I have no patience and I drop girls for the littlest things. She was on her period the other night and said I just want her for sex jokingly, and all I did was laugh, tell her it had been a long night, and walk her out the door to her car.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:20 AM
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I have already been a cold asshole to her, trying to show her that I'm not going to put up with her pouting/whining. She tries in bed at least. And she swallows (I didn't even ask). She's a good person, I might just be a cold asshole... I'm pretty numb to women right now since I broke up with my LTR recently. I don't have patience for them unless they knock my socks off, which this girl hasn't.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:43 AM
1

Tinder, bro. I have so many girls wanting dates that it's ridiculous. Unfortunately when I meet them, most of them are weird as hell. This girl is at least hot, but she's pushing commitment on me and I've already had to tell her to slow down multiple times. If I don't hang out with her she pouts.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:39 AM
1

Same boat. She's asking for commitment and I have 2 dates with 2 different girls lined up this week. Sort of just using her as a stopgap, as fucked up as that sounds...
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:27 AM
1

I have a feeling that would just make her more nervous
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:21 AM
2

If not drinking alcohol is adealbreaker for a bitch, thank God for sorting her out that early. What would you want with an alcoholic? Chill out bro.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:19 AM
1

Is yours lame in bed too? This girl give amazing head but she's a total starfish sometimes.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:18 AM
1

If not drinking alcohol is adealbreaker for a bitch, thank God for sorting her out that early. What would you want with an alcoholic?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:17 AM
1

Dude there's nothing wrong with someone who drinks occasionally.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:38 PM
1

I'm probably around 15%. Top 2 abs are visible... And yeah, I have well defined shoulders/biceps/forearms with some vascularity. I used to be very insecure about not having 6-pack abs though, and what I found is that no girl I've been with cares. They appreciate a flat stomach and big pecs/shoulders/biceps/back. All of them have told me I'm in amazing shape and they wished they were as in as good of shape as I am. I think we as men tend to be a little too hard on ourselves when it comes to being…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 11:26 PM
1

Cheers to you, bro. If that was your first ONS, I can understand it might be confusing. The thing is to not take it personally. It doesn't mean shit about you. And you don't want to be in a relationship with a girl like that anyway.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:10 PM
1

She wanted a ONS. You gave it to her. Forget she exists and move on.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:54 PM
2

"I miss fucking you" I use that all the time and it pisses them off but they're always horny when we meet up.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:52 PM
1

I always hug and do a side kiss like a lot of latin-american people do, but I tend to date latinas since I'm in Miami.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 09:33 PM
1

When she arrived I got up and kissed her. Bold move. I'm surprised she let you right away.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 09:22 PM
1

Well, the study also mentions that the perceived "strong" individuals were actually physically stronger than average. And "lean" guys were only 10% more attractive, so lean-ness doesn't necessarily mean as much as people think it does, at least to college-aged Australian women.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 09:10 PM
5

I like it too. I think I'm going to start using that instead of morbidly.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 08:14 PM
1

I love mortally obese women.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 07:32 PM
1

I know... I know... it's a radical idea, but this study suggests that's exactly the case. (/s)
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 07:31 PM
1

Don't even react. There are two possible scenarios that are taking place: She's actually sleeping with that guy and she's posting that stuff to try to get back at you and make you jealous That guy is an orbiter friend/gay friend who she's not sleeping with, but she's trying to make it look like she is to make you jealous. Her friends might even know the guy and know that she's joking. Either way, she's immature and not worthy of an LTR.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:49 PM
2

Here I am trying to keep my plates under wraps out of respect, or at least not flaunt my savagery, and she’s sitting here bragging. But you did flaunt it. You shouldn't be outright telling them you're seeing other women. You should be waiting for them to ask then mildly hint that you are, but don't confirm it. Beyond that, you shouldn't care what she's doing when she's not with you. She's a plate.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:45 PM
1

I had that talk with her the last time I saw her. Told her I just wanted to take things slow and not rush into a relationship. She seemed cool with it but a little disappointed. I didn't specifically tell her that I wanted to see other people though, and according to her, she asked me some commitment based questions last weekend when I got super drunk at a bar crawl. She asked "Are you my man?" and apparently I said yes. I don't even remember that but that's no bueno.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:40 PM
1

I'm very careful about that, but yeah, it is a fear of mine. She has already brought it up though and said that if anything were to happen on accident (condom breaks, etc) she would get an abortion. I didn't even suggest it. So that's a positive sign imo.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:37 PM
1

Oddly enough, for people my age, that is usually part of it. Its worth noting that I met her on tinder. I meet all my girls online because I tend to stay inside most of the day and work on my classes, make music, and write.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:36 PM
3

I don't have a car. I'm a full-time student and I go to college online. It's not really practical to have a car due to insurance rates + the parking rates at my apartment building + the fact that I do school online. Instead, I use uber if I need to go far and ride my mountain bike anywhere that's within 3 miles, like my gym. If I was going anywhere far away, my ex would drive me while we were together. Now the girl I'm seeing drives me. (I don't give a fuck if anyone thinks that's beta. I'm not …
/r/askTRP20/02/18 06:41 AM
2

I can probably do three months. It's not like I'm going to be on a stage. There's no deadline. The slower the better. But if you're anything like me, you'll get impatient and cut your calories drastically. Try not to do that. Your workouts will suffer. I usually don't eat at all before I work out. I tend to cramp, especially on the treadmill. I just discovered C4 and I like it, although I can't tell if it's really working. Eat an hour or two before your workout, and drink coffee if you don't wan…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:51 AM
1

5'5", 158lbs. Probably no more than 13lbs in total. That's a good goal. I would recommend trying to do that over 3 months though if you want minimal muscle loss. Really. Fuck. I fired it was about mid length. A couple of the articles I read said eight weeks and one was as low as ten days. (Which I didn't buy for a second. That's a fad diet, not a cutting system.) The diet you use doesn't matter. Count your macros. Get 150g of protein a day and fill the rest of your calories with whatever you wan…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:10 AM
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Kindness is helping someone when they NEED something. Niceness is helping someone who COULD HAVE DONE IT THEMSELVES. This is actually a great way of putting it. I'm seeing a girl right now who constantly asks me dumb questions like "Are you ok?", "Are you comfortable?" or "Do you need anything?" while I'm just sitting minding my own business. That is niceness, and it's a huge turnoff because it's annoying. Sometimes I just want to tell her to chill the fuck out and stop being so nice. Like asotr…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:20 AM
1

You need to provide more information. How much do you weigh and how much are you looking to cut. Why are you trying to cut within such a short time period? (4 weeks isn't that long) What do you currently do for exercise?
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:09 AM
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One thing I always do is act like I'm leaving when the girl says something that's questionable. I do it in a joking way though. For example, if I'm on a date at a bar and she says she's never seen Star Wars, I'll give her a look of disbelief, then motion like I'm getting up to leave and say "I don't think this is going to work." Or I'll say something like "Oh my god, you don't like (a band I like)?! There's no way we're going to get along. It was nice meeting you." Then I turn around on my stool…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 02:00 AM
4

No shit, right? I'm just surprised he didn't smirk at either of them
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 12:47 AM
1

If you want an insecure girl then go ahead and try that line. Any girl with self respect would just think you're being a dick if you said that to her.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:29 AM
1

Cutting is easy. Go in a caloric deficit. You can do this by reducing the amount of food you shove in your face hole, or you can increase the amount you exercise. Or you can do both. It's that easy. Look up your TDEE here and eat less than it.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:12 AM
1

It's worth noting that all of these examples are absolutely horrible if you're meeting a girl for the first time.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:07 AM
1

It's mostly true. Looks will get you farther than game with most women. A few years ago I was 275 lbs... fat as fuck but still cocky and carefree. I couldn't even land a date with 4s and 5s. Today I'm 205 lbs, strong and pretty jacked, and I tend to get pretty much any woman I go for.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 11:11 PM
11

bitches < friends Yeah, and don't forget that. It's easy to go out on a Friday and end up inside a girl at the end of the night. It's a lot harder to find a bro that's going to have your back through thick and thin.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 10:57 PM
1

That's probably the dumbest thing I've heard all week.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 10:53 PM
1

Controlling behavior is born from a scarcity mindset. There is absolutely no reason to control a woman, unless you're afraid you're going to lose her to another man. Once you gain self-confidence and truly believe that you're a catch, those thoughts will go away. Sure, your girl might flirt with other guys, or even cheat on you. But that's an indication of her shortcomings, not yours. It's absolutely pointless to try to control a woman you're in a relationship with. The only thing it will do is …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 10:47 PM
1

That was only one incident in a long line of strange occurrences. When he put his favorite girl in the office in charge of some of my work and had me report to her I eventually got completely fed up and just stopped giving a shit entirely. This girl knew jack shit about coding and design, yet he basically demoted me and gave her the lead role for a new website we were putting up. I literally had to sit behind her and tell her how to insert sentences and paragraphs into a website using HTML, whic…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 08:28 PM
1

It's not only the stuck-up, "no-nonsense" women ruining the workplace environment; it's also the beta men and whiteknights who find themselves in leadership roles. At least in my workplace, double standards ran rampant and humor was either looked down upon, or actively discouraged by my CEO, who was the very definition of a white knight. The women could literally do and say whatever they wanted and he wouldn't do a thing. My head of HR/accountant and were friends and there was always some sexual…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 08:00 PM
1

I still dream about my most recent ex. There's nothing you can really do about it, but seeing new women is the best answer. Even though you've been rejected, you just gotta keep trucking along. If I were you, I would try to find a hobby to take my mind off things. And if you have her on social media, delete/block her. If there are any things in your place that remind you of her, put them somewhere out of sight.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:42 PM
2

Yeah, it is, but at least in my case it created huge insecurity issues for her. And I was just texting platonic female friends from my childhood. Don't try to hide it, just tell her straight up it's a friend.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:38 PM
1

It's there if it's there. If it's not, it's not.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:37 PM
1

Not at all really, as long as you're comfortable with it.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:36 PM
11

There's not enough info here... like how old you are, how close you live to her, etc. But this is retarded - then I won't miss you next week She should be begging to spend time with you. She's not. You absolutely need to dread the shit out of her. Some advice - ignore her next couple texts for hours. Tell her you were busy, but don't say what you were doing. If she pushes for an answer, tell her you were with a friend. Don't say who. Let her ask if it was a girl. Don't answer. Just laugh it off …
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:16 AM
2

Pretend you're interested in what they have to say This is basically it. Pretend you're interested in all the boring shit other people have to say. Eventually you might find someone who actually has cool shit going on in their life.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 06:44 AM
1

Ear muffs, kids She doesn't want you to rape her. She wants to be dominated. There's a distinct difference, she just doesn't know how to explain it. My ex wanted the same thing. And this is an absolutely great thing. If you're not used to it, start with this: Next time she comes over or you go to her place, you start dominating her right when you see her. For example, right when she walks in the door, give her a quick kiss, then put your hand on the underside of her jaw like you're choking her, …
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:58 AM
1

For me, it's very easy to maintain abundance even when I'm exclusive with a girl. I have a little black book of women I can contact and have in my bed within a day or two. Plus, I'm always gaming new women. If I wanted to, I could go out right now and have a random woman in my bed tonight. That's how good I've gotten at gaming them. They might not be a HB9, but I can pull single girls like I can write a song on my guitar - fast and with barely any effort. I have been stuck with oneitis before, a…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:40 PM
7

Who gives a shit what she thinks? She's a cheating bitch. You made a mistake by telling her you'd be her friend and minimizing what she did to you, but at least you recognize it. NEVER tell a woman you're breaking up with that you can be friends. You can't. And they'll just use you as an emotional tampon if you try to be. Take this as a learning lesson and vow to never put up with that ever again in your life. And if a woman does do that, cut her out of your life completely without apologizing. …
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:35 PM
2

Dude, just ignore her. Nothing good can come from arguing with women, and especially women like her. At best, you'll "win" the argument. At worst, she'll twist your words and you'll come off looking like a masoginistic asshole to the other people at dinner who are too afraid to say anything they're actually thinking (ie, not "politically correct" bullshit).
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:30 PM
1

Lol, I said exactly that to my ex and she threw a huge tantrum. When she cooled off she was horny as hell though.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:28 PM
1

Absolutely a comfort test. I'm just not used to getting them this early (only 3 weeks). My last girl wanted to fuck non-stop for the first 2-3 months, then she pulled out the comfort tests. It hasn't even been a month with this girl, which tells me she's going to be a pain in the ass.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:00 PM
1

Normally I would do that, but the fact that she brought this up so quickly pissed me off. I dealt with the same shit with my ex but she didn't bring it up until we were together for almost 6 months.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:56 PM
1

She just called me and apologized, then asked if she could come over tomorrow.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:55 PM
1

In OP's case, he absolutely has oneitis. But in general, you can see one girl and not have oneitis.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:49 PM
1

Wrong. You can be seeing one girl and not have oneitis.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:31 PM
14

Maybe it is that simple, maybe not. It's hard to say what goes into the mindset that would drive somebody to do these things. I know the common sentiment is that these kids are monsters or mentally ill, but the way I see it is, it's really fucking sad that kids get to the point where shooting up a school is even on their mind. I feel bad for the victims, but also I have to wonder what happened in this kids life that drove him to do it. Most people they've interviewed said they weren't surprised …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 08:39 PM
1

I want to follow my own path, accomplish my goals, THEN have a woman who I think is worthy of me come into my life. You'll be surprised how quickly this happens when you actually start doing it. Sure, you'll have a lot of girls who continue to act like they're the catch, because every single person in their life tells them you should be the one chasing. But once you stop giving a shit and treat them like they should be chasing you, they will. For me, it happened extremely fast, to the point wher…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:08 AM
3

Wut?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:49 AM
2

You came on a little too strong and she's backpedaling. Most guys would take that and start pursuing hardcore, which would just make her take a step back and be even more distant. Imo, she's attracted to you, but I think she's probably telling the truth and she's afraid of a relationship. So what do you do? Don't act like other guys. Keep doing what you're doing. Be distant and mysterious. She's going to start wondering why you aren't pursuing her a bunch and it'll drive her crazy. When she want…
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:47 AM
0

I totally agree. Some guys just naturally have more feminine traits, yet they're still alpha when it comes to relationships and women. Russell Brandt is a great example.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:43 AM
5

Lmfao at the "women are like Mexicans"
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:33 AM
6

It's called the red pill because this is the truth, you just haven't woken up to it yet. Just like in the matrix, most people don't want to know this shit, and would rather live in their comfortable fake reality where women are precious little snowflakes. In reality, they're like men in a lot of ways. They want sex and they want to do freaky shit. But unlike men, deep down, most women also want someone to take care of them and spoil them, which is why they will marry beta-bucks guys once they're…
/r/askTRP17/02/18 02:21 AM
1

Yeah, I chuckled at the bicep thing too. Oh well, he's feeling confident. That's a good attitude to have for someone who's inexperienced.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 01:33 AM
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TEXTING IS FOR SETTING UP DATES Read that over and over again and get it drilled into your head. Set up a fucking date with her right now. Ask her this exactly - "when are you free to get together again?". If she tells you a day then set up a date. If she doesn't give you a concrete day or several days then she's not interested. It's that easy. One text and you can know if she wants to see you again or not.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 01:32 AM
75

Timmy's dad beats him Timmy's mom mentally abuses him Or Timmy's dad is gone, and mom is absent Timmy is "weird" Timmy gets bullied None of the girls at school like Timmy Timmy isn't good at sports Timmy has no talents Timmy has little-to-no friends Timmy has no future Timmy is mad at the world Timmy is frustrated because he's not "normal" Timmy sees the news glorifying shooters Timmy sees a chance to be something People will remember Timmy's name The girls will remember Timmy The bullies will b…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 01:21 AM
5

It's hilarious how people in the media talk shit about an ideology that basically focuses on having a purpose and pursuing it, getting in good shape, and having an amazing time in bed.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 01:09 AM
12

You're overanalyzing everything. It's not uncommon for girls to want to wait until the 2nd or 3rd date to have sex. Some will on the first, but in my experience those girls are usually sluts. Instead of asking her when you'll meet up, tell her "I'm going to X on Y night at Z time. You should come." That's how you ask a girl out. Or ask her when she's free and set up a date based on her answer. For example: You: "Hey I had a great time the other night. When are you free to get together this week?…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 10:59 PM
1

Yeah, this girl isn't a plate though. I'm not seeing anyone else.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:29 PM
2

ICF 5x5
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:36 PM
1

Fuck stronglifts. ICF 5x5 is basically the same but you'll actually get some hypertrophy gains.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:35 PM
2

Don't change just because she thinks she wants it. Obviously if she wanted an emotional weakling she'd be with someone else. Also, cut out the long phone conversations, or cut them short.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:33 PM
1

She has a kid so she can't spend the night. She lives with her mom but has to be home in the morning to take him to school. So sleepovers are out of the question. I'm also a full-time student and she knows my schedule so I can't use the "work" excuse.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:31 PM
2

Find me sound evidence that shows that meal timing has any significant effect on long-term body composition.* No good research shows this. Daily calories and total protein intake determine body composition long-term. Yes, there may be advantages to perhaps having protein after a workout through the mTOR pathway/protein synthesis, sure. But the effect isn't black or white. Think about it from a logical evolutionary perspective first. If you stumble upon a kill when you're hunting is your body goi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:42 AM
1

Just gonna leave this here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8yy3q9f84EA
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:24 AM
12

She'll be back.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:22 AM
2

You need to find that on your own. If you don't want something then I can't make you want it.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:21 AM
-1

Yes, I know getting a bicep pump is freaking awesome - but you should deadlift and do pull-ups instead. Focus on compound movements and mix up low reps with heavy weight and higher reps with lighter weight for hypertrophy. You should do both. Any decent program will focus on compound lifts but also hit the arms/traps/lats/calves/etc. with accessory lifts. If you're just doing compound lifts and variations of them you're missing out. Protein timing can help, but it's not important long-term for b…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:19 AM
4

Give him some time. I went full redpill rambo and did some really dumb shit in the first couple months after I found this community. It's empowering, and if you're inexperienced you can take it too far.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:07 AM
8

It's not one of the standard redpill recommended books, but "How to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne is full of good info and it's an easy read.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:03 AM
3

I struggle with listening to women too. I don't think it's necessarily ADD so much as that shit they usually talk about is just boring.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:54 AM
2

You need to find a purpose in life. Once you have goals, you won't want to get high and play video games all day. For most people this is a career, or a hobby/"side-hustle". Find your purpose.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:52 AM
2

I did this last night but she wanted to fuck all night. After the 2nd time I thought we were done but then she wanted more. She ended up staying up until 5 in the morning and honestly I would've rather just had her leave.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:46 AM
3

I swear women are worse than the biggest betas if you reject them. They'll pull the most passive agressive stuff (like this girl is doing to you) and try to make you jealous in obvious ways, whereas guys will generally be upset/angry at first, then take a step back and re-evaluate things logically, and eventually accept a breakup after some time and move on in a healthy way. If you find a girl who talks shit about her exes, she'll most say similar things about you when the relationship ends. Tha…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:44 AM
2

I leave shit on my facebook. Hell, I have pictures of me and my ex on there and I don't even talk to her. I just don't see the point of deleting it because it was a part of my life. If the girl I'm seeing now got jealous over that I would tell her to fuck off and grow up. That just screams insecurity and it's not attractive at all.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:39 AM
3

In the future, never do lunch dates with any woman until you've had sex with her. That's what friends are for. Your dates should be at night with a plan that leads to sex, or during the day when you two are alone and you can escalate. Your mission as the man is to lead her to bed. That doesn't mean you go straight to trying to get in her pants, but the entire date should be a build-up to sex. Start with light touching (kino), then build up to a kiss, then making out, then back to someone's place…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:38 AM
1

Always plan stuff at least a day ahead of time. People have lives. She had another guy lined up. Ignoring her 9pm text was about the only thing you did right
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:34 AM
1

There's a search bar. Go to the main sub and type in "shit tests".
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:31 AM
1

If you aren't already, start lifting.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:30 AM
2

4th date and you haven't hooked up? Honest question, are you in high school? If so, then it's kind of understandable, but try to escalate next time you're with her.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:27 AM
2

I agree, a "K" can get the hamster going for sure, but saying "Call me if you change your mind" is not weak. You're basically saying, "I'm interested but I'm not going to pursue you, so if you want some D then get in contact with me. Otherwise don't contact me." It clarifies what you want and makes it so that if she does contact you she should expect to get together and hook up. If it's some girl you don't have history with, sure, go ahead and drop a "K" on her. If it's a LTR, or long-term plate…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:21 AM
2

To each their own. I prefer to leave the door open for any girl I've been with as long as we parted on good terms.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 02:58 AM
1

Well, that's tough but just try to avoid her as much as possible. You need to try to distract yourself, and there's no better distraction than other women.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:08 PM
7

"Ok. Give me a call if you change your mind"
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:41 PM
3

Exactly. The first night, no. But if it's you're 3 or 4th time, there's nothing wrong with asking what she's into or how she likes it. It goes both ways. If she's doing something I really like I'll encourage her to keep doing it, and if she's doing something that's meh I'll tell her to do something else.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:30 PM
2

i'm scared Quit being such an emotional bitch. You should never be afraid of losing a woman. You should be happy with them, but just as happy without them. You obviously haven't read the sidebar thoroughly, let alone internalized it.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:04 PM
4

I'm above average. Still, I always say it's small and exaggerate. "It's like an eggo waffle - about an inch long, and 5 inches thick".
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:01 PM
2

You shoud have gone for the lay the morning when she was at your house. Beyond that, it sounds like you failed to escalate properly, and thus you got the cheek. I would chalk this one up as a learning experience and move on. If she reaches out, set up a date and properly escalate this time. If not, oh well.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:57 PM
1

If you can actually do it without getting feelings involved, turn her into a plate and tell her you two are just having fun and aren't exclusive. If you can't do that, block her on everything and ghost.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:53 PM
3

Completely block her on everything. Facebook, phone number, any other social media. Download tinder, okc, and any other dating apps you want to and focus on gaming other women online and in real-life. I broke up with my LTR on Christmas day. Now I'm seeing a new girl and she's worlds better. This girl has everything going for her that my ex didn't have, and I rarely even think of my ex anymore.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:50 PM
3

Same shit works on every girl. You might have to escalate slower, but the "nerdy, shy girls" are usually the horniest in my experience. Once you do have sex be prepared to have a clinger on your hands. Just got done fucking a "good girl" I met a few weeks ago 3 times tonight in the span of 3 hours. She wanted to go a 4th but it was 3:30am and I was spent.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:24 AM
1

For sure, dude. PM me an email address and I'll send you a plan and some other info. It's all on my gmail so it's easier for me. Basically I'm just going to send you a modified version of that ICF program and some tips for getting the most out of it right away. Beyond that, go to the app store and download Jefit. You'll be using that to log your workouts. And go to your gym as soon as possible and let me know if they're missing any of that equipment I mentioned earlier. As far as the hiking vs. …
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:16 AM
2

If they do then I'd absolutely recommend Ice Cream Fitness 5x5. My lifts have exploded since I started it. Went from a 145lb bench to maxing out at 240lbs; my squat went from 145 to 275 for 5 sets of 5; and my deadlift went from 190 to 315. I did train previously, but I quit for almost a year and this got me stronger than I ever was. That's over the course of 3 months. There are some exercises I'd recommend switching out or dropping completely though, and the workouts can get a bit long. If it s…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:25 AM
2

Got any good sources for workout routines? Depends on the equipment they have there. I know it's a long shot, but do you possibly have a link to their site? Or do you at least know if they have a bench, squat rack, and barbells? Most rec centers should have this stuff but some places only have dumbbells for liability reasons.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:14 AM
1

My ex was super jealous. She'd pull this kind of stuff all the time, then she'd use it as justification to meet up with guy friends and shit to try to make me jealous. It didn't work on me because I knew exactly why she was doing it, but personally I don't even want to deal with women like that. They're insecure and immature.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:12 AM
6

You sound a lot like me. This is probably going to sound weird, but if drinking helps you relax, then keep doing it. But limit yourself to 2 or 3 drinks, and once you get past the initial ONS's cut the drinking out when you go on a date. Take the girl somewhere where you can be active. A park, kayaking, hiking, bowling, whatever. If you want a quality girl you should avoid picking them up at bars or clubs though. Might not be a bad idea to cut alcohol out of your life completely. If you haven't …
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:05 AM
6

Take out a sheet of paper and write down every negative thing about her. Review that list whenever you're missing her. Delete/block her on social media. If she tries contacting you ignore it. 2 months and she's banging two gay guys? Come on man... be glad you're rid of her. Get in the gym and get in shape. It's obvious you have little-to-no self-confidence. You probably aren't going to want to hear this but I think you'll be better off if you put women on the backburner and focus on yourself for…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:59 AM
1

No response. Answer in the morning. And lol at the edit.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:54 AM
7

Are you two exclusive? If you are, then you shouldn't be wasting time messaging other girls on OKC. Most of them are fugly anyway and it's just going to cause issues like this. Flirt with them in real life if you think you need to stay sharp.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:53 AM
1

Side note I didn't sleep with this girl yet, been close to it but wasn't in the mood so I didn't make a move. Kind of a big sidenote there, bud.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:52 AM
1

"I was hacked"
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:01 PM
7

Go out and get rejected by a bunch of hotties. That should show you what being "nice" gets you.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 07:57 PM
2

EDIT: For more context. We have an annual college event where everybody just makes out. So we made out, she gave me her number, and a week later we get dinner. Two days later, she asks me to go to the ball with her, to which I agree. We had a great time. Texting continues--it is fun and interesting. We had plans this past sunday to hang out, but her friend was in town and she couldn't make it. Then I get this on monday. Shouldn't have become her text buddy. Texting is for setting up dates. She's…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 07:54 PM
1

Ignore her as much as possible. If you're forced to talk to her keep it short. If she asks "why are you acting weird" or anything like that just laugh it off, say "what do you mean?" and leave. Tell her you're busy if you have to. In the meantime, focus your attention towards other girls.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 07:53 PM
8

You did not come off as mean. That's just your BP conditioning. You stated exactly how you felt and didn't apologize for it. Feels weird, huh? You don't want to be friends, so don't agree to being friends. NEVER agree to being friends with a girl you were involved with. Why the hell would you want to hang out with someone you want to have sex with, and never be able to have sex with them? That's orbiter behavior. Instead, state what you want and walk away. If she reaches back out, don't get in a…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 07:22 PM
1

If everything you said is true and she does turn out to be pregnant, there's no way the kid is yours. On another note, this girl is hooking up with other guys without using protection. Is that really someone you want to be sexually involved with? I mean, plates can fuck other guys but they should be practicing safe sex, just like you should be. If you got blackout drunk and didn't use a condom you'd be running the risk of catching something. Not worth it imo.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 07:11 PM
1

You should have replied, "I'm good. We should grab a drink and catch up. When are you free?" Always assume they want to meet up with you when they reach out.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 05:42 PM
2

Just go slower and listen to her. Had to do the same with my ex because she was tiny (5'0''). If you're above average then sometimes it can hurt them. Go slower and work up to going faster.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:03 PM
1

Well, now that you said that (lmao) you can only really continue on with the cocky asshole persona you've thought up in your head. Say "I'm used to getting what I want". That should kill the conversation then you can move onto girls who aren't super uptight boner-killers.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:50 PM
3

You've unwittingly been playing all the right moves. You didn't get butthurt about her flaking, and you told her to contact you when she figured her shit out, which is exactly what you should always do. Never shut a door. Leave them open and walk out. What you should do now is assume she wants to see you. Tell her it's good to hear from her and you should "get together to catch up". Set up a date and have a place to go back to at the end of the night.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:46 PM
3

3rd date and you still haven't gotten any? Not a good sign. I would try one more time then say fuck it and move on.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:41 PM
15

Nice job bro, just don't tell her about it. It's none of her business and you're better off keeping it discrete.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 06:00 PM
9

For real though, my last GF was kind of like this. She never went so far as to pull the "getting a ride from a guy" card, but she wouldn't have an adult conversation about our issues and instead she'd act super immature, like your girl is doing. She brought up taking a break a few times and each time I told her "Ok, but a break means we're breaking up." She never followed through with it once I said that. Eventually our problems were just too much to ignore though and the relationship had run it…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 05:58 PM
15

Well, now you're free to see other girls.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 05:53 PM
0

Jesus christ bro. This is longer than most chapters in a novel. Condense it and post an actual question
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:42 PM
1

I'm guessing you have no experience dating. Probably a virgin in fact.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 04:37 AM
1

Sometimes you can close on the first night, sometimes not. Doesn't matter either way.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:53 AM
1

Let me put it this way to you, dude. Would you rather have sex with her the first night, or have her absolutely obsessed with you every night after that? When they view you as boyfriend material, they'll do whatever the hell you want once you do start having sex. The girl I'm seeing right now didn't put out the first night, then we fucked like rabbits the second time I saw her. I've only been on one more date with her since then and it ended with her swallowing. I didn't even push it on her eith…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:11 AM
1

While you're fucking her, spit on your thumb and start rubbing her clit with it in a circular motion. And it's normal for some girls to need to be on top to come. One of my ex's was the same way sometimes. Vibrator should be the last resort imo, but it's not a horrible idea. If it makes sex better then who cares?
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:06 AM
2

Best of luck, buuuuuuuuddy
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:03 AM
2

Sluts will. Most "good" girls will wait until the 2nd or 3rd.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:01 AM
3

That said, I think agreeing to go on a 2nd date with her on Valentine’s Day will make my smv seem low. Even if she doesn’t realize it, I think my agreeing to go out with her on Wednesday will make me less attractive to her. You're being a dumbass. Go on the date, bro.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:00 AM
1

Nope. I would dip out of there just like you did.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 02:54 AM
1

You did but at least you recognize it. No worries man. I didn't message the girl I'm seeing right now for 4 days after our first date. I was just busy with other stuff. She didn't message me either. Didn't matter.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 02:51 AM
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It hasn't even been an entire day. That's not radio silence, it's called being fucking normal. I think you have oneitis bro. Anyway, I'd suggest you wait 2-3 days then send a "I had a great time" text. If she says she did too then set up another date. This is basic shit.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:40 PM
1

Yes. If they flake they're not that into you. Move on.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:38 PM
1

Do you have a question?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:37 PM
15

No group dates until you've fucked her.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:36 PM
2

Because tv, movies, and society in general have been pushing this shit on men for the last few decades. It's like that scene in every teen movie where the guy stands outside a girl's house and holds a boombox up playing a love song. The media writes it because it seems romantic, but in real life it's just pathetic.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:35 PM
1

Upvoted for giving up music. Lmao Some of the shit on this sub is classic
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:23 PM
3

That isn't even A&A. You could, I don't know, just tell her what you're going to do.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 08:49 PM
5

Lmao at calling yourself an "incel" at age 17. You're not even an adult dude. You found this sub already so you're going to be way ahead of the game in university. If you're not actually being weird, your friends probably just aren't used to the new you. If they're not treating you well then distance yourself more.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 08:27 PM
2

No gift for that girl. In fact, you should dump her. Who the hell goes to the movies by themselves because they had a bad day? Sounds like BS to me.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 08:20 PM
1

Ghost her.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 05:32 PM
1

I prefer to smoke sparingly. Like maybe once every two months, but usually not even that often. I used to smoke an eighth a day, but now I don't smoke at all. I'm a lot more productive and I have way more energy. That's just me though.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 11:08 PM
1

If you get a girl's number at the bar, wait 3-4 days. Chances are she gave her number out to other guys too and they'll all be texting her the next day. Stand out a bit and wait.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 11:04 PM
3

How bout those Cavs trades though
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:45 PM
3

It means they don't shave their armpits. If you don't like it, find another girl. Personally I'm not into it.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:44 PM
3

The best method for me was getting in a relationship with a manipulative bitch, then breaking up with her and realizing I could get basically any girl I want.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:41 PM
3

Don't chase. You did nothing wrong if you didn't promise exclusivity to either of them. People date around all the time, it's pretty normal. Just keep doing what you're doing and keep seeing the one who was cool about it. Plates crash. You lost one, oh well... time to go shopping. On a side note, I had this exact thing happen to me. One of them flipped her shit and said we were done, then I banged her that night. It happened again with her and yet another girl I was seeing about 3 weeks later an…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:39 PM
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Not trying to rationalize with her. Treat her like you would treat a child throwing a temper tantrum - Ignore them, then talk to them like an adult when they calm down, which is most likely days later.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:36 PM
22

You will never win. Very few women will ever stop and think a situation through step-by-step like most men do. It's like a preist arguing with a scientist. They might find a common ground, but the priest has inherent limitations to their thinking that fundamentally block them from fully understanding the scientist's point of view. In the end the scientist will keep trying to explain things logically, but there's always that "feeling" in the back of the priest's mind that won't allow him to accep…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:16 PM
15

After her first barrage of texts I would only send one. "I don't know where all of this is coming from, but I said I was going to see you and I'm still planning on that. I'll see you tonight at (time)." Then I wouldn't respond to anything.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:12 PM
1

Get in the gym and start running a strength program like ICF 5x5 that progresses linearly. Start getting monthly haircuts at a barbershop, not some $9 greatclips or whatever. Short on the sides, slightly longer on the top. I go with a #1 on the sides faded up to a #5. Browse the mensfashionadvice sub by top posts all time for some simple style tips. Buy some cologne. I like A*men by Mulger. Don't go too cheap on cologne but don't spend too much. $50 for around 3 fl oz is decent. Simply exercisin…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:03 PM
1

They have a boyfriend 99% of the time. Just ignore it and treat them like any other girl on there.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:37 PM
86

She's a psycho. And you failed the shit test hard by trying to rationalize with her... Never try to explain a situation to a woman. They're emotional beings and they don't think like we do.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:46 PM
1

Jesus christ you're clingy. Your oneitis is going to drive this girl away unless you take a step back and quit caring so much. She should be the one worrying about where you are and what you're doing.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:42 PM
5

These type of girls are hard to find. I agree they can be a bit annoying, but it's a hell of a lot better than being with a girl who's constantly insecure, nagging you and bitching about stuff all the time.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:39 AM
6

This is what I do. When things are getting hot and heavy, TELL HER TO SUCK IT. Don't say "will you suck my dick baby?" Look her in the eyes and say "Suck my dick". It's literally that easy.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:34 AM
4

All girls are self-conscious about their bodies. That's nothing out of the ordinary. In terms of losing attraction, clinginess is the number one killer for me. It doesn't matter how hot she is; if I feel like I'm her only source of happiness I get turned off fast.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:07 AM
1

The point is that he already made plans, and if he cancels them it's going to cause a shit ton of drama because girls make a huge deal out of valentine's day. If he wants to break up with her then yeah, go ahead, but he obviously doesn't want to. He should've dumped her on the spot when she said that shit but he didn't.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:39 AM
2

Nope. I don't have a car and my ex drove me everywhere. I paid for gas twice over the course of a year, and that was on roadtrips. I bike and use uber if I have to go more than a few miles. If a girl makes a big deal out of that then I don't want to be with her. My ex didn't care and the girl I'm seeing right now doesn't care.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:38 AM
1

When it comes to almost everything in life, some people are going to be on the left, some are going to be in the middle, and some are going to be on the right. The same thing applies here. For example, some of the "veteran" guys here will absolutely slam you if you say you're dating an older woman. Does that make it wrong? Not in my book. But I don't take everything here as gospel. The overall message is about empowering men who have been told in some way, shape, or form that how they feel isn't…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:39 PM
1

TRP is not about treating anyone like shit. It's about empowering yourself as a man so you can get what you want out of relationships with women. That includes making yourself the best version of you that you can be and not apologizing to anyone for pursuing that. Some guys like to spin plates, others prefer LTR's, and nobody actively promotes treating women like shit. Is dominating a woman and making her obsessed with you treating her like shit? Not in my book. At least, I've never had a girl c…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:19 PM
-1

He already has plans with her so it doesn't really apply. You don't flake on your girl on valentines day. The holiday is pointless, sure, but that would cause way more drama than it's worth
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:27 PM
1

Two days between dates is a little too soon imo. If she brings up getting together again before then, go ahead and ask her. But if she doesn't I would wait longer.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:55 PM
-1

You can't cancel plans on valentines day with your girlfriend, bro. Soft-next her until then. Don't explain why you're doing it. If she asks just say you're busy. Make shit up if you have to. You need to start becoming more distant from her, because right now you are not her #1 priority. It's time to start dread-gaming her. Hit the gym more often, withdraw attention, start dressing better, and be friendlier with other women when you're out with her. Whether or not you want to bring up the fact t…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:36 PM
1

I would agree with you if you said psychiatrists, because 95% of them just pump out antidepressants for people who, like you said, are struggling to adapt to the modern world. You make a point though when you say OP should tell people to lift and eat right. The issue is whether his BP clients will listen or not. A lot of people are simply lazy, and seeing a therapist won't do shit if they don't accept the problems they have. Unfortunately the fairy tale, rom-com, bullshit view of the world has b…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:29 PM
4

I would soft-next her for this: Started comparing her to the girl he is getting hitched with and asking emo questions like "What does she have that I don't?" then telling me how she feels inferior to the girl. Let her be emotional on her own. This is a backwards form of disrespect towards you, and personally I wouldn't want to listen to it. If she's still in love with him (which it sounds like she is) then why the hell should you waste your time on her?
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:13 PM
2

You took yourself for a ride by obsessing over a girl who clearly wasn't that into you. Learn from it and move on. It's for the best.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:10 PM
1

Psychologists don't just go on to become counselors dude. Psychology is used in almost every field in some form or another... I think you're talking about straight up therapists. But even then your viewpoint is still far off-base.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:09 PM
9

Ghost. No point in calling her out and it'll just make her think she made the right decision.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 06:26 PM
4

If she said she wants to see you again then set it up. The only time you wait is when she doesn't say that. In that case, 3-4 days is good. One date per week is good until she starts asking to see you more often, which she should fairly quickly.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 06:24 PM
1

Why the hell do you even care, dude? You sound like a pussy
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:09 PM
1

Did you bang her good? If you did, don't worry about it. If not, your days are numbered.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:03 PM
6

Jesus christ dude. Lmao
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:02 PM
1

Find something about them that's unnatractive and focus on it. You need to learn to treat all women the same. Basically, treat them like any guy you would talk to, but be flirty.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:58 PM
3

Do what you want. Any girl who's asking you to be her boyfriend that soon is nuts. Think of it this way - you're teaching her a very valuable lesson about clinginess and the effect it has on guys. But in the future, I'd recommend you don't have sex with girls you're not attracted to. It lowers your self-worth. Plus, it puts you in a situation where you feel the need to write a post like this.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:51 PM
0

If you want her back, watch this and follow it exactly. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_cnbV_OSi4 But honestly, you shouldn't want her back. You have a scarcity mindset and she'll have you by the balls if you go back to her. If you try standing up for yourself, you'll just break up again. You're going through a denial stage right now... truth is, if the relationship was great it would've never gotten to this point. Like fnordsnord said, she's already over you. Now she's just texting you to kee…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:47 PM
2

I don't care too much about being lean. In my experience, girls don't care how lean you are when you can throw them around like a rag-doll. As long as you're not fat, strength is more attractive.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 06:32 AM
2

If you'd like the erection to go away, you can light a match, blow out the flame and put the hot ember on your wrist. And that will focus the brain elsewhere, and you will lose your erection. If that doesn't work, take your finger and flick your testicle, and if you do that till it hurts, your erection will go away.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 06:27 AM
1

Use the energy you would use for porn on real women, not your flashlight I fucked my flashlight but I got glass shards in my wang
/r/askTRP09/02/18 12:47 AM
1

Probably did, but I had no choice in that matter. I was bringing in over 15k/month as a one man team heading a department but the other workers didn't do shit and my boss was absent and retarded. Try explaining that to a woman though and it's like you're speaking swahili.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 12:35 AM
2

Invest in your health. Eat a clean diet, exercise, stay away from drugs, and drink moderately. Don't get wrapped up in situations where peer-pressure puts you in a bad position. If a friend is only your friend because you do drugs with them or drink with them, they're not a friend. Don't worry too much about getting laid. Enjoy your youth, have fun, and the women will come. Don't rush to settle down. Live a wild life while you can. Those years are running out. Save your money if you can. Don't w…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 11:45 PM
1

I don't really evalutate people on their SMV. But I'm a student and he has a business. I'm pretty strong, so even though he might be a PT my body is way better than his even though I'm only in the gym 6 hours a week. Plus, not to brag, but I'm pretty damn good with women, which made my ex jealous all the time. I lost my job because my company shut down, so I decided to go back to school and less than a month later we broke up. So she obviously wasn't going to stick with me through rough patches.…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 11:34 PM
1

The next guy can have her. She's 36 and she's running out of time. I'm 26 and I have no idea what I was thinking wasting a year of my life on her.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 11:21 PM
1

She hasn't said anything nasty to me. Just the opposite actually. She told me she fucked up and I was a great guy, then I banged her. Now she's just sending jealous texts about me being with another girl, so I blocked her. I'm not going to unblock her. My life is way better off without her. I already lift a shit ton and maybe I'm just a sociopath but my eating and sleep returned to normal after maybe the 4th day of being broken up. And yeah. She was a shitty girlfriend. I realized that pretty qu…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:46 PM
2

30 lbs in 6 weeks is absolutely insane dude. Don't do that. Shoot for 10 lbs max.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:26 PM
1

Me: You're like the 5th person I've matched with from [campus] today and I don't even go there... Her: lmao well maybe you should go to [campus], it's a sign. Me: I would leave there with more hickeys than skin haha. Her: Someone's super confident in themselves. Why don't you come down and test it for yourself. Should have given her your number right there and set up the date. I would have said something like "Why don't you text me - (number)"
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:14 PM
7

Very ghetto acting This alone would be a next for me. I don't really care about whether they drive, have money, or who they live with but I prefer a woman to act like a woman.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:12 PM
1

Read it multiple times. I'd say 5 or more times.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:09 PM
1

I'm actually glad that we broke up. It gave me a lot of insight on what I want from a partner and what I'll tolerate. The new girl I'm seeing is a lot more feminine, submissive, and she treats me like a god so it was for the best. My ex's manipulation tactics were working on me though. Just getting me pissed off out of the blue when I was having an otherwise awesome day. It felt great to delete her on everything.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:07 PM
1

Already have. It makes moving on a lot easier.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:04 PM
5

From my experience, a lot of girls hate being called stuff like that unless it's a gay friend calling them it or one of their girlfriends. I wouldn't recommend it. The exception is when you're having sex. I call every girl I'm with my little slut and make them repeat it back to me. It turns all of them on. It gets to the point where I don't even have to say anything and they start saying it on their own.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:04 PM
1

Being a whiny bitch isn't going to make her more invested in you. If she asks you stuff about your past just be vague... if you do decide to tell her anything bad that happened in your past, put a positive spin on it. But I would suggest not bringing up negative things.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 06:00 PM
3

I've been in her place (if she is telling the truth). Sometimes you get out of a relationship and try to date again too soon and it just feels weird. I've also been in a spot where I got out of a relationship and set up a date with a girl, but I met another girl before that date that I liked more. There's really no way to tell, but the correct response isn't getting all butthurt over it. I would just say "No worries, hit me up if you change your mind" and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:55 PM
1

Lmao at getting a nice body being an easy task. Tell that to 85% of the guys out there who, if they have the energy, do some cardio and lift for 2 hours a week. I'm in the gym for around 6 hours a week and even I feel like I could be doing more. Getting a nice body is hard work, man.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 04:21 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5gmafv/how_to_open_and_close_a_guide_for_beginners_long/
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:17 AM
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Who knows man, she might be busy with school, or she might have another guy on the side, or she might just be mad. Just do what I wrote in my first post.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:15 AM
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It's only been a few days dude. She's in school and she's just a FWB. Give it some time. Whatever you do, don't text her again. Wait to hear from her. I would suggest doing a cheap date activity to make her feel like you're not using her. 99% chance that's what she's irritated about.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:08 AM
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You're in interstellar orbit, bud. Abort the mission. For future reference, if a girl is ever talking about her sex-life and it's not about you and her or you're not in bed with her, you're being her gay male-girlfriend. My most-recent ex had tons of orbiters who would ask her to hang out when she was with me and she would literally text them stuff like "Sorry, I'm exhausted. You know the sex with CutLiver is always so good". Fucking brutal stuff for those guys, but me and her laughed about it.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:03 AM
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“I had fun, did you have fun?” I nodded and smiled at her and she stormed off “ugh” and said something under her breath Sounds like a comfort test. I wouldn't soft-next her for that... but now that you have you need to wait it out. She'll probably text you something along the lines "are you mad at me?". All you have to do is reply with something like "Why would you think that? Should I be?". Then she'll say no, you say you've been busy but you want to see her and set up a time/place.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:01 AM
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I used to think it was good material, but they tend to try way too hard. If you're going for super-rich sluts then it's probably effective, but if you're a regular dude, all you have to really do is get in good shape, dress decently, have a sense of humor, and get rid of expectations (stop giving a fuck). You don't need to pick girls up and carry them down the street or get them to make-out with other girls. If you're not rich, 95% of girls will just think you're weird.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:57 AM
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Multiple venues, escalate, bring them back to your place with a good excuse - I use "let's go play Super Mario at my place". Once you get in, show them your room and make a move. If they're into it, then there you go. If they're not, then see how the rest of the night goes and if they're showing interest try again. If she says no, just leave it. You don't want to come off as a pushy creep, because a lot of girls have internal rules about not sleeping with anyone on the first date. Most of them w…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:50 AM
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Yeah, you just neet to lose some weight. I had a face like a goddamn chipmunk at 25% and my jaw is pretty defined now that I'm around 16-17%.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:46 AM
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Hard next. She's lying to you and looking for other dick. This one goes in the trash, bro
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:58 AM
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"Ok, if you're not sure then let's do it another night. When are you free?" If they don't offer another time, hard next.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:19 AM
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Glad it helped you out bro
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 11:54 PM
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He's not 100% RP, but he's got some great material and the shit he preaches works. IMO, if you're in a relationship or you're looking for a relationship then this guy's material is extremely valuable. If you just want to spin plates then it's still valuable, but some of it might not apply to you.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 07:31 AM
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If you want to keep some mystery and not be her texting pal, stick to texting for setting up dates for the most part. If you ever get the feeling that the conversation is boring, it's best to just let it die.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 07:29 AM
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I almost always wear chinos. Dark green, khaki, and black with polka dots are the ones I wear most. They go good with a casual t-shirt if you're just going to the store, but throw on a v-neck or henley and you're ready to go out to the bar. Chinos are the MVP of pants imo. Jeans are nice too, but finding a good pair that fits properly is a pain in the ass. Also, I'm in a place where it never gets below 60 degrees, so my style choices are limited. For winter vacations, I go with a short-sleeve sh…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 07:22 AM
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You drink, jerk off regularly, and you do drugs. All of those will kill your boners pretty quick bro.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:26 AM
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Most people who lift 5 or 6 days a week are running splits. Compared to full body workouts, you can recover faster and the parts you're hitting are staggered so fatigue isn't much of an issue. Workouts are generally shorter too, compared to programs that have you doing 3 full-body workouts a week for 1.5-2.5 hours per workout. As long as you're eating in a surplus and getting sufficient rest, neither should burn you out.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:50 AM
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I haven't even seen most of the seinfeld episodes. Not a bad idea.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:21 AM
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Actually, that's a good point. None of them have done shit to deserve a valentines dinner or whatever the hell people do on valentines day. I didn't even think of going out to game single girls. That's a way better idea
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:02 AM
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^
/r/askTRP02/02/18 05:48 AM
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Recently got out of one... In my case it was pretty much every time we met up. If we were spending the entire day together we'd have a session in the morning and one at night. Occassionally we'd do it 3 times a day, sometimes not at all. She was always tired from working graveyard shift though, plus I acted like a pushover sometimes which made her want me less. At the beginning of the relationship before we were exclusive it was 3-5 times a day sometimes. 2-3 times a week is pretty normal if you…
/r/askTRP02/02/18 03:46 AM
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Ugh don't you have anything better to do? That's just excessive. And during her period ? Lol
/r/askTRP02/02/18 03:44 AM
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Ignore it. Keep doing what you're doing. She's got a set of internal rules she's following and she's upset that she broke one of them. Doesn't mean shit.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 11:03 PM
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"I'm not interested in being friends. If you change your mind give me a call." Then quit contacting her.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 11:01 PM
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How do I change her mind? Why would you want to? She doesn't want anyone to know about you, dude. That says a lot. Have some self-respect and quit thinking of ways to lock her down.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:55 PM
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Doesn't matter if it's a girl or one of my buddies. If I invite them out, I plan on paying. Not saying that's how everybody should do it, but it's what I do.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:50 PM
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What else would y’all recommend to increase my attraction so that initiates to hang out more often? Withdraw your attention. When she takes a step back, you take two steps back. It sounds counter-intuitive but it works. Use your extra time to hit the gym.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 08:00 AM
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One night stands usually wouldn't happen if the people were sober. If I'm on a first date I'll usually get a little tipsy, but after the 2nd or 3rd date I prefer sober. Getting drunk dulls your senses, and if a girl's really drunk she'll usually dry up a bit. Plus, being hammered gives me really bad whiskey dick so I can't perform well.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:57 AM
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Driving on the way back to drop her off I told her “so here’s what’s going to happen: You’re either going to get all embarrassed and start flaking; or we’re going to hangout this weekend.” She responded with “Saturday sounds good” When you brought up flaking, you communicated that other girls flake on you (you're not a catch). You also showed neediness... basically saying "you're not going to flake on me are you?". And you showed even more neediness by setting up the next date while you were on …
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:53 AM
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Sober is better. Drunk sex always takes longer for me. If you can't hang out with them and have sex with them sober then what's the point?
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:41 AM
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If I invite a girl out for a date then I'm gonna pay just as a matter of principle, but I only do drinks for the first date. No dinner. No appetizers. 2 or 3 drinks max. If she offers to pay then I split it or I tell her I'll grab the next round and we switch venues. If she doesn't at least offer then there won't be a second date.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:39 AM
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I had a girl jokingly call me a creep to my face when I was with my LTR. She said it was because I was always hitting on girls. Then she came onto me when I saw her on my own a few weeks later. If you're not an actual creep, then usually they're jealous and pissed that you're not hitting on them. As usual, a good comeback is just to agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 06:41 AM
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Why is she getting pissed if it's an open relationship? Your girl sounds like a pain in the ass.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 06:35 AM
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You need to pull way back. There are very few instances where you should tell a woman that she's acting like a bitch. Instead, you show her. How? By withdrawing the most valuable thing you have, your time and attention. I can tell you from experience that when they start acting like this, it's never a good sign. It is normal with some girls, but a good girl won't pull this shit consistently. To be blunt, she's 20, dude. This relationship isn't going to last forever, and you need to take a good l…
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:06 AM
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I kind of came off like an asshole with that post. Honestly you sound like you could've hooked up with her if you'd stayed. It's just little things. The first 3 dates are really important for making her feel comfortable. After that, you could pull something like this and she'd probably overlook it.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:58 AM
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No problem dude. And when I said you seem like a dick, I'm not saying that's a problem. I'm a dick too. The thing is that I know I am, and I've learned to still be sociable despite it. It took a while for me to realize how judgemental I can be, and realize that it was something I had to actively fight in conversations. You can do the same thing if you want. You just have to force yourself to be a little open minded.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:47 AM
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Honestly, you sound like kind of a dick. People are interesting, dude. Everybody you meet has their own unique life story and perception of the world. That's pretty fucking awesome, don't you think? I used to be really introverted, but the reason I was like that is because I was super judgemental of people who weren't like me, so I didn't want to listen to them. In my mind, they didn't offer anything of value because the way I thought and did things was the right way, and anybody who didn't foll…
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:14 AM
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Lmao. Your title should have been "Girlfriend's family thinks I'm her boyfriend".
/r/askTRP01/02/18 03:51 AM
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Did I hurt your feelings? lol
/r/askTRP01/02/18 03:16 AM
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Fucking retarded idea. Three things will happen: 1.) on the off-chance you do actually get laid (which probably isn't going to happen since you're thinking of shit like this) you'll land a girl who has no integrity. 2.) They'll see the ring, assume you're married, and want nothing to do with you. 3.) Nobody will even notice, and you'll still end up alone at the end of the night because you're a weirdo who thinks of stupid shit like this
/r/askTRP01/02/18 03:02 AM
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Sure, but be prepared for the inevitable "you just want me for sex".
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:58 AM
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You need to act sexual if you want to be more than a friend. And you need to do it early. You can want sex all you want, but if you're not acting sexual then women will assume you're not confident, which is very unnatractive. It's obvious you have self-confidence issues since you said you're a 6 in looks. Cut that shit out, dude. Get in the gym and make yourself a 10. The bottom line is that if you don't think you're the shit, why would any girl think you are?
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:56 AM
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Status is, and always has been about your influence on people and the world. You can gain influence in a number of ways, but generally it's all about having resources, or having the social skills to obtain resources. Status is also related to your group of peers. The best way I can describe it is that status is exactly like an XP bar in an RPG. You can be the biggest hot shot in a group of low status people, but as soon as you get placed in a group of higher status people you're starting from th…
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:53 AM
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She didn't show any colors. And what are you talking about "relationship trap"? Lol You showed your true colors - that you don't know how to set up a proper night out with a girl. You want to meet for drinks, switch venues, then go back to your place. It's fucking easy.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 12:12 AM
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Why would you plan a date if you already have plans to go out with friends? That's insansely dumb. The entire point of dates is to create an opportunity for sex to happen. Instead of doing that, you got the girl all hot and heavy, then you went to hang out with another girl. Too much IDGAF, bro. You should have picked a different night for the date, escalated, and taken her back to your place.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:12 PM
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Did you ever hear the tragedy of Darth Whatsthisgard, the barfing pussy toucher?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:55 AM
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You shoulda left when she asked you to, bub
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:31 AM
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From California That explains it
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:27 AM
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There's nothing wrong with sending a "how's it going?" text if you've been gone that long. When they answer, let them know you've been in and out of town but you want to see them when you get back.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:26 AM
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me - * smirks and chuckles *
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:23 AM
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"Ok"
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:22 AM
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Why? She'll lie anyway.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:19 AM
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This. NEVER again. If she hits you up, cool. If not, she's dead to you.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:18 AM
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Did you learn your lesson? Never expect them to show up if you meet them online. If they do, assume they're VERY interested in you. I always set the date at a bar 2 minutes walk from my place. That way, if they do flake it's no big deal. If a girl flakes on me once I quit contacting her completely... I don't have a problem getting dates though so I don't really care.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:16 AM
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No point. Have her come over for lunch/coffee, or get the coffee to go then immediately go to your place to netflix and chill.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 11:51 PM
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She was in the Marine Corps and they helped pay for her schooling.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 11:47 PM
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When she works out, use positive reinforcement. Say she comes back from a jog - tell her "You look so sexy when you're all sweaty after a run. It makes me want to rip your clothes off." You can't outright tell her to workout, but comments like that will go a long way.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:14 PM
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betabux Did you miss the part where I'm broke as shit and she's got a good, steady job? I don't give a shit about any girl's sexual past, either. She could've fucked 50 dudes for all I care. As long as she's clean and she fucks good I'm cool with it.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:09 PM
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Yep. Women tend to put themselves in the woman's place. So his friend is probably thinking "well, if it was me I'd want to know why he isn't pursuing anymore." They don't put themselves in the guy's place. You should really never take any advice from a woman, unless they're successful and it's related to business.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:48 PM
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Go no contact. If she reaches out, try to set up a meet with her. If she refuses, you only try one more time. After that, if she texts you just exchange 2 or 3 texts then tell her you gotta run because you're busy. Never ask her out. If she asks you out in the future then feel free to meet up with her, but in the meantime you should be seeing other women.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:24 PM
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She hasn’t let me fuck her yet because she told me she swore to herself she wouldn’t fuck me. This girl has an internal set of rules she's following. I don't usually waste my time with girls like that. With that said, if a girl makes you wait she's generally better LTR material. I just fucked a girl last night who said she wanted to wait so I didn't think she was easy. That was our 2nd date. It's all about escalating properly and knowing how to push and pull. If she resists, try again in 20 minu…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:20 PM
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Wife beaters aren't stylish at all. Get some $8 V-necks at Target or off Amazon. Cheap and you'll look like you know at least something about how to dress as an adult.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:16 PM
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LMAO
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:13 PM
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I had something like that happened. Girl told me if I didn't vote for Hillary we shouldn't go any further. Ghosted the bitch
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:12 PM
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Mah brotha of african descent from anotha momma
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:09 PM
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Ghost. Never take advice from women when it comes to relationships. Doubt you'll ghost her though because you "caught feels" for her and you haven't even fucked her. You've got a serious case of oneitis, my dude.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:06 PM
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If it is herpes, you have to come to terms with the fact that she might have cheated on you. There's also the possibility that the test she got didn't pick it up. It can go undetected. A lot of STD tests don't even include it unless you ask for it specifically. It's also possible she contracted it in the time between when she got tested and when she met you. Either way, use protection if you ever fuck her again. And take a good long moment and think about whether you want to be with someone who …
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:05 PM
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There's an adjustment period. Give it 6-12 months.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:03 PM
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Maybe not. I had 4 girls for a while and it took way too much time. I'd blow them off so they'd get whiny and I didn't want to deal with it.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:10 PM
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I honestly don't know. That's what I got from the way she described it.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:08 PM
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2 years?! Shit dude... if I see a girl for more than a month I feel like I'm committing.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:53 PM
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Well, I'm not really into spinning plates right now. I have a ton of shit going on in my life and I don't want to have 3 or 4 girls begging me for attention... been there done that. She's already begging to see me again and we've only had sex once. And I feel you on the nights thing. I prefer to have my space though so I'm cool with it.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:51 PM
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I honestly want nothing to do with the kid if it means he'll look up to me. I'm not a role-model by any stretch. I'm assuming she would be hesitant to have me meet him anyway.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:47 PM
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She's a respiratory therapist. Basically, above a nurse, but not a doctor. She told me a ton of shit about it but basically she just helps people with asthma or other breathing problems. I'm definitely using protection. She even asked for it so that's a green flag.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:46 PM
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Well, the thing is that I'm a full-time student with no job. Meanwhile, she's a medical professional with a good job. She knows all of this so I don't think she's interested in me for money. And she got pregnant at 19, so I'm guessing the dude was a highschool boyfriend or something... doubt he's dead. I'd like to keep things casual but I'm not sure what she's looking for. Seems like she wants a relationship because she was worried about having sex so soon because she thought I would think she w…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:19 PM
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Hey dude. I'm glad you're not taking this thread the wrong way. It might seem like I was making fun of you, but myself and most of the other guys here have been in similar situations. It's good that you recognize your mistakes. Honestly, I think you could be easily landing girls like this if you wanted to, it would just take some minor tweaking of your strategy (losing the niceness, going for the kiss/lay when she shows interest, etc.). Whether or not you want girls like this is up to you though…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 09:00 AM
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The right response is you let her choose. If she chooses to dance with him and grind on him, you leave and find another girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 07:57 PM
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What he should have done is gone for the lay when they got back to his place the first time. Fuck going out to a bunch of other bars or clubs. He already had her. He was just too much of a nice guy to make a move.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 03:47 PM
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Because TRP automod removed it when I put the link in. Thanks for posting it.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 03:31 PM
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I can't link it. The sub is dating_advice
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 03:27 PM
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You're viewing these girls as special snowflakes because they sing songs and say Amen every Sunday. Spoiler: they're not. Some of them probably do things behind closed doors that you'd be uncomfortable doing with a drugged out hooker. The only difference between them and "normal" girls is the normal girls don't try to act like angels all the time.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 08:33 AM
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Lmao yep Borderline autist but his reply was pretty funny
/r/askTRP29/01/18 08:28 AM
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That's cool. My point is that 1.5 pounds over a month isn't really bulking. You can gain more than that if you drink a lot of water during the day. Sounds like you're doing a recomp, which is totally fine as long as you're gaining strength. Gains will run out though. That's when you need to seriously bulk and look to put on at least 4 lbs a month.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 08:21 AM
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"I don't mind. He can keep you busy when I'm not around." Personally, I'd drop her just because I wouldn't feel right banging a chick with a BF, but how you handle things is up to you.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 08:18 AM
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Kick that bulk into overdrive. Shoot for a pound a week. 1.5 lbs a month is nothing. I fluctuate 4 lbs from day to day depending on how much water I drink, how much I eat, and whether or not I've taken a shit.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 08:08 AM
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I know, right? I almost wonder if he's trolling
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 07:51 AM
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There's a theosophical quote that reads "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear." I don't know if that guy is ready.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 07:49 AM
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Here's the study. It was conducted in Australia, actually. Not sure why I was thinking California. http://rspb.royalsocietypublishing.org/content/284/1869/20171819
/r/askTRP29/01/18 07:46 AM
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"I love spending time with you and you love spending time with me... Let's just have fun and see what happens" Jesus christ, dude. 4 dates and she's already catching feelings? Either you're a god under the sheets, she's super inexperienced, or she's a bit of a nut.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:29 AM
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I can't find it right now but I just read a study that was conducted at a large university and it showed there's a direct link between a woman's level of attraction to a guy and how much he can lift. I want to say it was done at the University of California but I honestly can't remember off the top of my head *it was Griffith University in Australia. Anyway, none of the guys' faces were included in the pictures that the women saw... just their bodies. It concluded that women are attracted to str…
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:23 AM
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No. Fat, sloppy and weak is way more attractive.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 01:59 AM
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If you just want her as a plate then do what fnordsnord suggested. If you want a LTR you have to do shit like this, as boring as it might be. At least in my case, I realized that some of the bfs/husbands my ex introduced me to were actually pretty cool dudes. I'm still friends with a few of them.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:35 AM
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Lifting takes barely any time at all. Quit doing time-wasting shit like browsing reddit.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:32 AM
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Steaming pile of shit? Lol. I'm in shorts and a t-shirt right now with my window open.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:13 AM
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Yup. Privacy. You obviously weren't around when guys were getting doxed for posting on TRP.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:10 AM
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Not posting that just for privacy, but I'm in a popular tourist area about 15 miles away from a major city in Florida.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:48 PM
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Age range doesn't really matter. I talk to girls 18-35. The younger ones are flaky as hell. Girls right around my age (mid-20s) are the most reliable when it comes to actually setting dates.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:45 PM
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Yeah, it's about integrity. As a man, if you say you're going to do something, you should do it. If that means committing to one woman then so be it. If OP wants to cheat he shouldn't be in an LTR.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 07:15 PM
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This is a basic shit test, dude. Re-read the side bar, and go to the main board and search "shit tests". Basically when a girl says something like that it's a really good sign. It just confirms that she's thinking about fucking you, so all you have to do is agree and amplify. I would have said something like "Are you hitting on me?" and laughed. That's honestly one of the easiest shit tests to pass. You failed, but it's not a big deal and she's probably still into you. Don't contact her at all. …
/r/askTRP28/01/18 07:08 PM
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Just treat him like you would treat an ugly girl. Be friendly and polite at work, but if he asks you to hang out make up an excuse or just straight up tell him you're busy. If he drunk dials you, deny the call or put it on silent and ignore him. If he brings it up say you were busy or sleeping. Just ignore ignore ignore until he gets the message.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 07:04 PM
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If they don't go along with it, you either have to steer them back to it after saying a typical hello, or just ignore them. I'm only interested in girls who show a high level of interest in me. The other ones are just a waste of time.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 07:00 PM
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Imo, you played it perfectly. Just ignore the dude. He's insecure.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 06:56 PM
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Ehhh, not worth it. She's pissed at me anyway. Might as well just use it as an opportunity to cut ties completely.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 06:17 PM
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I don't plan on ever seeing her again, but that's absolutely true. Horrifying is an understatement.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 05:30 PM
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I'm not even thinking of a relationship right now, but the age thing doesn't bother me. That's one part of TRP that I disagree with. I'm not into 18-21 year olds... they're way too immature.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 05:14 PM
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For the conversation: In the one you posted you were kind of vague about the actual date. You said there's a coffee shop and a nearby bar, and maybe you'd go for pizza. No bueno, amigo. You pick one place and stick to it. If the date is going well at the first place, then you bring up the second place and tell her you two should go check it out. Don't mention multiple places in your message though. It needs to seem spontaneous. And if it's an evening date, always go to bars, not coffee shops. Wh…
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:38 PM
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You're not getting girls because you're stuck in the cycle of self-pity. You need to learn to be happy with yourself. Lift more, get in great shape, and try to not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:21 PM
1

Only text for logistics. If she texts you, you can reply, but don't try to have a relationship through texting. The phone is for setting up dates/hangouts.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:17 PM
4

You're not going to get a 6-pack in a week. You aren't going to lose a KG of fat in a week. And you shouldn't be adjusting your diet/lifting routine just to impress some random woman who already told you she's just using you for your looks.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:15 PM
1

Eating is the hardest part for me. I'm 6'3'', 208 lbs and it has been a real struggle bulking because I don't get hungry as often as I need to eat. Another issue is having the correct form on major lifts. As a tall guy, you need to adjust your form on pretty much all of them. Squat with your feet wider, deadlift with your feet wider, bench with your grip wider... the benefits outweigh the drawbacks though. Being tall and build is a major leg-up when it comes to dating.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 02:52 PM
2

Bulk for another two months then cut.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 04:51 AM
1

Well, she paid for some drinks last night without me even mentioning anything. That's a good sign that she's not using me, imo. Plus she makes good money and I'm a full-time student, which I told her. If she was looking to use a guy, I doubt she'd have asked to see me again.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:49 AM
2

Lmao I was honestly just trying to be nice with that text. Guess it came off a little different though.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:40 AM
1

Dude, you asked her to go out the next day? That IS too fast. She's not your girlfriend. Generally you only want to do one date a week to start. After the 4th or 5th date she should be hitting you up, then you can do 2 a week and go from there.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:38 AM
2

Go bowling if you want. Don't expect sex, but you can try to make a move. Don't talk shit about the guy, whatever you do. In fact, try to completely avoid talking about him or the breakup. Just show her a good time and treat it as a normal date.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:27 AM
1

Sounds like your best friend is a good dude. Personally, I wouldn't cut the other ones out of your life completely, but next time they need a favor I would (politely) tell them to fuck off. That's shitty of them.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:24 AM
9

Women love muscles. Any woman who says she doesn't is either lying to make a guy nearby feel better, or she's out-of-shape, insecure, and doesn't feel like she could keep a guy who's in-shape.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:21 AM
3

But on the first date? I mean, I had to convince my ex that it didn't gross me out at all and we were banging for a month before she got it.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:16 AM
1

Yeah, that's how I view it too. I usually sleep with around 75% of the ones I go out with on the first date, so when they don't put out it's kind of refreshing. Now that I think about it, I tend to get bored with the easy ones fast and drop them pretty quickly.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 12:48 AM
5

Ghost her it is. It's probably for the best anyway.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 12:46 AM
1

Sometimes the same thing happens to me. I hooked up with a chick 3 weekends ago and slept with her on the first night. Reached out to her once and she couldn't come over. Haven't heard from her since. I wasn't that into her, so I'm not pursuing her at all, but it's funny how she doesn't make any effort either. To be honest, I was a pretty shitty lay that night because I got way too drunk so maybe that's it.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 12:44 AM
2

Maybe I was subconsciously. You're probably right
/r/askTRP27/01/18 09:39 PM
3

Well, I'm not going to kick a girl out just because she doesn't want to have sex on the first date. And I don't really consider that a shit test. I'm more into LTR's than having plates, but I don't have any expectations for any of the girls I'm seeing. If it happens it happens. I was more interested in seeing what other guys thought about girls who do this.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 09:35 PM
3

Where did I make a rookie mistake? Lol. I'm not saying she's a special butterfly. Do I like her? Yeah. I'm still seeing other girls though. And she's two years older... that's not really a big difference. My last ex was 9 years older. I like older women.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 09:24 PM
11

That's possible.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 09:12 PM
1

You will always discover something you don't like. It's pointless and it only shows insecurity. If you ever find out your girl is cheating then drop her and never look back, but it's a waste of time to snoop and it will only make you more insecure. Plus, would you want her looking through all your shit? I wouldn't. I like having some privacy.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 08:51 PM
6

K
/r/askTRP27/01/18 08:45 PM
2

I'm far from a rookie, bro. And I don't feel like I've entered into her frame at all. But ok
/r/askTRP27/01/18 08:45 PM
3

It's nothing to get sad over. It's completely normal and a lot of people go through this when they've recently gotten out of a relationship with someone who was untrustworthy. There's no magic trick that's going to make you forget about the past. What you need to do is change your attitude right now. Take a second and decide if you're willing to trust her completely. If you are, then from this moment forward you need to stop digging for signs and decide to trust her. If you keep digging, you're …
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:20 PM
3

I just got out of a LTR a month ago and I already have 2 other girls and her to pre-occupy me. And you're right, it doesn't matter how good she looks if she doesn't satisfy my needs. My ex didn't put out the first 2 times we met up so I guess I view these types of girls as LTR material more than the ones I hook up with the first night.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:12 PM
2

That explains it then - you're insecure because you're projecting the actions of a girl in your past onto the girl you're currently seeing. No worries, bro. I've been there. What you need to do is let the past go and realize this is an entirely different person who deserves a fresh chance with you. Projecting your insecurities onto her isn't fair, and it's only going to cause you to do things that will drive her away. Imo, there's nothing here that would indicate she's done anything. You're digg…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:05 PM
11

This chick was definitely giving off the "good girl" vibe. She's seems stable, didn't drink too much, paid for me without me asking, and she seems kind of reserved. I'm still seeing other girls, but she's the hottest one by far.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:59 PM
4

I don't even own a car. I use a bike to get around locally and uber if I need to go far. My ex would pick me up and drive everywhere if we were going out. It's only "blue-pill" if you feel insecure about it. Personally, I didn't really give a shit.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:54 PM
7

You're insecure and you don't trust her. You're already paranoid that she's cheating on you after 3 months... that's not a good sign, man.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:44 PM
7

I can't simply ignore her as I wouldn't be able to do that to anyone. Lol. Here's what you do. Tell her you're not looking for a relationship right now and you just want to be friends. Oh, and dude. Grow a pair of balls and do whatever the hell you want, even if that includes ghosting people. You don't owe anyone shit.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:37 PM
1

Depends on the situation. When I was with my ex, I would go if I was invited and it was something I was interested in doing, otherwise I wouldn't. I'd rather be doing my own thing than hang out with a bunch of women who are gossiping about nonsense. In this situation, you should go if you want to go. You can always go off on your own and have your own space.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 10:46 AM
3

I was on a date tonight. Ran into my ex and a few of her friends. Talked to the friends and everything was good. They know I'm a decent dude. Didn't say a word to my ex. She texted me "Have fun on your date". Didn't respond. Imo, that's how you should handle it. Leave your ex in the past dude. Don't try to do the "I just want to have sex with her with no emotions involved" thing. It doesn't work.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 10:42 AM
3

Sounds fun. Enjoy that, bro.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 10:26 AM
1

You need to find better girls.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 01:28 AM
1

This. One a month is pretty damn good if they're decent looking, OP.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 01:23 AM
5

No, your response was perfect. Don't put up with it. Call her out on it next time it happens and either leave, or quit contacting her until she reaches out and apologizes. If you "get used to it" you're telling her it's ok. It's not. She's being immature. The most valuable thing you have as a man in a relationship is your attention. When she acts like this you need to withdraw it.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 11:29 PM
1

Give her a pass tonight. Don't make sex out to be a big deal... if you do it will only dry her up.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 11:28 PM
4

In a new relationship, people can hide who they are for the first 3 months. The girl you're seeing right now is the real her. This is only going to get worse, dude.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 11:24 PM
3

I'd like to see you and the other 4 or 5 guys who say this isn't original post something useful.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 09:36 PM
5

No problem, brother. Despite what people on here tell you, I don't think you should ever end a relationship on bad terms. Yeah, she'll probably find another guy in the US, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. In every relationship you have with women, you need to come at it from the point of view where you're giving something to them. Never go into a relationship looking to get something. That's the healthy way to live. And even if it doesn't work out, at least you'll know that what you did w…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 06:12 AM
7

Don't break up with her right now. Enjoy your time together. Then break up with her before she leaves and explain why you need to do it. The truth is that you can't be with someone you love for several days or even weeks a year. They need to be part of your life consistently. If you love her, tell her you love her but you don't think it's fair to either of you to stay in the relationship. If she cries or protests your decision, tell her that you just can't do it. Repeat that it's not fair to eit…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:56 AM
10

DO NOT pay for her. If you do that, you might as well get a prostitute.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:49 AM
17

Bang him. Make yourself his chad
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:48 AM
4

In 5 years, most of those friends will be stuck in your city working shit jobs and continuing to do drugs. You'll be in good shape, in college, and on your way to a kick-ass job. That's just how it works. Depression is temporary. Success is a constant battle that you need to fight every day. It sounds like you're doing that already at age 16. That's impressive, dude. Don't sacrifice your future success for temporary popularity. Keep lifting, kill your classes in school, and hang out with people …
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:42 AM
-2

My mission doesn't matter to you. What you should do is write down your goals. Short-term and long-term. Put your list of short-term goals somewhere where you'll see it every day. Look at your list of long-term goals once a month.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:33 AM
10

Fuck your "friends". Keep lifting and stay away from your "best friend" who would rather deal drugs and get fucked up than hang out with you. Those type of people are only going to drag you down. It's better that you learn this now than two years from now. I've been in your exact situation, only I did hang out with my "best friend" who was a dealer and all we did was get fucked up every time we hung out. That isn't friendship, bro. That's a bond formed with the help of a common substance abuse p…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:27 AM
7

Bros over hoes all day, dude. But still, talk to your bro. Ask him what he's doing. Come at it from a mindset of curiosity, and if necessary, put your foot down by telling him it's not cool to ask your girl out without you being there, but be a bit gentle with him. If he's as beta as you say, chances are he's pretty desperate and he mistook her politeness for being attracted to him. Guys like that will throw their friends under the bus to get a chance at a girl, but unless he really crosses a li…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:17 AM
2

Ice Cream Fitness 5x5 I would add more chest and abs exercises though. For the chest, do incline presses with the dumbbells braced together over your chest. This will hit your upper-inner chest. For abs, add decline sit-ups or leg raises - 2 sets of 30 reps every workout. On every friday (or whenever your third workout is), hit the chest hard by increasing your 5x5 to a 10x5 pyramid format. For example, I'll hit bench 5x5 at 205 lbs regularly, but on Fridays (or Wednesdays) I do 5x5 until I'm ex…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:01 AM
3

Get her to take birth control. Then you can cum inside her whenever you want.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:59 AM
6

I don't believe you for a second. You have a six figure job and you're complaining that you're lost? You're lying out of your ass dude. Maybe some of the other guys in here don't see it but it's pretty fucking obvious that you are. Even if you're serious (maybe a 5% chance), you need to get a grip on your life.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:57 AM
1

I've been on this sub for years under different usernames, read the sidebar plenty. You can read all the stories you want brother, it doesn't change the fact that if you're with someone for a long time, you're going to have feelings for them. The guys on here who pretend they don't are either lying or they're sociopaths. Women are the same way. They'll move on and date other guys but if you have history with them and you don't act like a little bitch, a part of them will always want you.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:28 AM
1

You can get into another relationship and still have strong feelings for someone/be confused. I'm dating new girls right now and I still have strong feelings for my ex who I broke up with recently.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 01:11 AM
1

It's possible she's still seeing her ex, and it's likely she still has very strong feelings for him. All you can really do is continue to do what you've been doing and always be upbeat. This girl might be treating you as a rebound, dude. Learn to deal with that possibility, because it is what it is and you can't change it. Just have fun and don't take her too seriously. And continue seeing other girls.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 11:09 PM
5

True, but it's still a shitty opener. It's better to write a good one and copy/paste it for every match.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:05 PM
67

Those girls have a boyfriend more often than not. They put the friends thing in there in-case they get caught. That way they can say "I was just using it to find friends".
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 09:57 PM
2

Yeah, because it's such a time waster to put 5 pictures up, write a two sentence profile and spam the same message every time when you match.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 09:53 PM
1

You're insecure.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 06:11 PM
2

gay
/r/askTRP25/01/18 06:10 PM
10

Yes, most of them are obvious. It's ridiculous how many guys struggle with this stuff though. I asked one of the girls I went out with if I could see her tinder messages and 95% of them were just guys saying stuff like "Hi", "Hey :)", or "You're cute". It was pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 06:02 PM
5

I think you can skip the number, it just makes them more likely to show up. Plus, it shows me that they're interested. If a girl isn't willing to give me her number then I assume their attraction level isn't much higher than 50%, in which case I'm not going to invest much attention in them.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 05:57 PM
7

If it's not useful to you then ignore it.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 05:55 PM
14

I'm posting what works for me. If you don't like it then do your own thing.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 05:54 PM
0

Ask them when they're free, then set the date.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 06:51 AM
0

Keep it to yourself, yeah. But if she sees it, so what? Just tell her you're interested in relationship psychology. I showed The Rational Male to one of my exes because I wanted to see how she'd react. Ummm... don't do anything like that lol. It's a bad idea. But read what you want, and if she snoops and finds out, just tell her you're interested in it.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 03:19 AM
9

It's a numbers game, bro. Not much you can do about it except go on a lot of dates and weed out the weird ones. Eventually you'll find what you're looking for. Keep dating, and write down a list of traits your ideal woman would have. When a girl doesn't have at least 5 of your top 10 most important qualities on that list, drop her. For example, my list is: Dark hair, between 5'0'' and 5'5'', dark eyes, feminine, ambitious, sexy, fit and active, generous, good cook, and funny. Every time I meet a…
/r/askTRP25/01/18 01:19 AM
4

Nice troll attempt. Try not to be a retard next time
/r/askTRP25/01/18 12:00 AM
18

I would tell her. There's no use hiding that shit bro. You got laid off. That isn't your fault. If she isn't going to stick with you through a rough time then it's better to find out now so you can drop her if you want to.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 11:58 PM
2

My rule is that I ask them out twice. If they don't go along with it or offer up a different time to meet then I never ask again. If she contacts me and we meet up, the rule of asking twice starts over. Like bowlfish said, cut out the haha's/lols unless it's actually something that's funny. After her last message I would've just said "K" and left it.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 11:29 PM
32

I was in this exact same scenario. LTR of 8 months, company shut down so I got laid off. For me, it ended in a breakup after a month. She started to throw cheap shots at me even though I had plenty of savings and was applying like crazy. Started distancing herself and acting weird/untrustworthy. One thing you need to do is keep focusing on your own shit. Don't contact her more than usual or anything like that. If she's loyal, she'll stick with you. My girl wasn't, but I'm glad I found out sooner…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 11:26 PM
1

Date other women. The "obvious" answer is indeed the right one.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 07:18 PM
89

Let me guess... you're meeting them online?
/r/askTRP24/01/18 07:17 PM
2

So what if she does it in a group? The next time she does it, confront her after the group and tell her to stop doing it. Quit being a pussy and stand up for yourself. If you don't like her doing it then tell her to stop. You don't want to do it in-front of the group because everyone will take her side and act like you over-reacted. She'll get a pity party and you'll be known as the guy who freaked out over some "minor" touching. They'll make it out to be like you have a problem. That's just how…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:54 PM
2

Never ask a girl for advice on this kind of stuff. They'll lie to make you feel better about yourself. I guarantee they're all wishing they had a Channing Tatum boyfriend instead of their dadbod guys.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:50 PM
0

Kiss them. Even the ugly ones get guys complimenting them all the time.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:48 PM
2

You need to put your serious face on. Tell her straight up, "Please don't touch me. It's not professional and it makes me uncomfortable." You can't be much clearer than that. Do it in private though... you don't want to call her out in front of your other coworkers. If she continues to do it, tell her again to stop and that you're going to report her if she doesn't.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:43 PM
1

Never agree to be friends. If you ever get that line from a woman, your response should be "I can't be just friends with you. I want more than that, so please don't contact me unless you're open to something more. If you change your mind give me a call." That's showing her what you want, and it can't be any clearer. Then walk away and stop contacting them completely.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:40 PM
2

You need to tell her to quit touching you. I had the same thing happen with a female coworker who ironically just so happened to be the head of HR, so one day when she did it I put my serious face on and told her not to touch me ever again. She looked at me like I just murdered a bunch of puppies. It was pretty hilarious... it put her right in her place, she apologized, and I never had that problem again.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:36 PM
8

They make everything easier. For example, if a girl messages me first on tinder I will ask her out for a date within 2-3 messages. Haven't been turned down yet. These girls will drive an hour to see you, pay for drinks all night, stuff like that. They're viewing you as the catch, which is how it should be. Girls who play hard to get are a waste of time imo. You're better off gaming girls who show interest from the beginning. To do that you need to be able to recognize signs of interest, and when…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:33 PM
2

You're thinking of this like she's in the position of power. Your response should have been "To fuck her".
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:35 AM
1

No need to be nervous, bro. She asked you out, which indicates a high level of interest. She's into you. Basically, just act like you did on the train and kiss her when you're going to part ways. Say "we should just get this out of the way" and go for it. She did ask you out so she might offer to pay, but... it's a coffee. I would offer to pay. Like I said, she likes you, so the date will go well as long as you don't act like a weirdo or say dumb shit. Afterwards, don't text her. You want her to…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:33 AM
13

She did her job. You broke the law. You got caught and you're acting your age by thinking about getting revenge. You're an adult now. Grow up. You're acting like a spoiled little bitch.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:53 AM
22

I always have them bring an original copy of their birth certificate along with two forms of photo ID.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:50 AM
2

Keep lifting for starters. The only book I would recommend is "How to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne. Other than that, you need to do some work on your mindset when it comes to women. Learn to treat them like they're all the same. Even if they're gorgeous, they still burp, fart, and shit. Hot girls are actually easier to game than average looking girls because most guys never have the balls to hit on them. Treat them like a bratty little sister and joke around with them. It takes practice but after…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:47 AM
5

She wants you to be her gay male girlfriend. Don't show her attention. She's just using you to boost her ego.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:41 AM
-2

You want a naive, poor woman? Lol You sound insecure
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:39 AM
1

Where do you look? Everywhere. The grocery store, starbucks, at the mall, online. It's good that you know what you want. But you're going to have to sift through the dirt to find your diamond.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:38 AM
3

A man helps take care of any children he has.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:36 AM
7

There's a saying that goes something like "you will attract that which you are." In essence, it means that you will attract people who are similar to you. Quit getting wasted to the point that you're fooling around with the ugliest girls. And fyi, you're not going to find a high-quality woman in a nightclub. The problem I see from your post is that you've lowered your standards by getting with ugly women, so that's what you believe you deserve. Quit settling for ugly or chubby girls. You're lowe…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:34 AM
1

My thoughts are: who cares Spoiler: if she's not asking for exclusivity, there's a good chance she's seeing other guys and you'll never even know I would prefer her not to be thinking "oh if this doesn't go well there's always the guy tomorrow". Why? Does it make you feel special? You're not. You shouldn't even care what's going on in her world. You should be focused on your own goals and priorities. Don't raw dog it. Put a sock on it. Her sex life when she's not with you is none of your busines…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:24 AM
1

Pretty simple fix. Keep the back of your hand in-line with your arm, like you're punching the ceiling. The barbell should be resting in the lower part of your palm, not in the center.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 02:40 AM
2

Uhhh, that's the whole point.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 02:34 AM
2

Lift. The end.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 02:33 AM
38

I... just tell them what I do. Call me simple.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 02:32 AM
6

This post is retarded
/r/askTRP24/01/18 02:32 AM
2

Small talk, be friendly but don't talk for too long.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 02:31 AM
5

I have this girl who's always sending me snaps like this. She lives in another state though. I never respond. Nothing at all. She's just looking for attention and it's not worth my time. I suggest you take the same approach. Snapchat is a complete waste of time anyway. The only reason I have it is so that I can give it to younger girls and use it for discrete messaging. I've literally never sent a snap to anyone. It's just like facebook. It's a way for insecure people to get attention and stroke…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 01:38 AM
5

Quit spreading your personal info at work. Leave it as is and start being smarter about who you tell that stuff to. (Only brothers and close friends should know that stuff, and even then, you should keep that stuff to yourself whenever possible)
/r/askTRP24/01/18 01:35 AM
2

Why are you ghosting her? Why did you even think that calling her "wife material" was a good idea if you don't want to get married? Why are you acting like a dumbass? She's right to be pissed in this situation. You should have never said that shit. And after 2 years it's no wonder she's thinking about marriage.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:20 AM
2

Yup. Confirmed. OP is retard.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:18 AM
8

"If you want to hang when you get home give me a call, but I'm eating at 7" It's a very subtle shit test to see if you'll bend to her. You pass it by sticking to your own schedule and letting her know you're not going to change what you're doing just to see her. I'd bet that she'll hit you up when she gets home. If not then who cares. Rub one out and see her friday.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:12 AM
1

Yeah, it's a good idea. I always say, "we should just get this out of the way" and go in for the kiss. I've never been turned down. It breaks the ice for the 2nd venue and makes her feel like you're going on a second date.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 11:35 PM
2

You're projecting your experiences with men onto all men. That's a short-sighted viewpoint to have. Good luck having a healthy relationship with any guy if you judge them like you're doing right now. You have trust issues, probably not your fault, but that's your reality. Maybe one (or several guys) cheated on you, and that sucks. But not all guys do. Some of us have moral codes we live by.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 10:27 PM
1

In that case, no. Hard next.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 06:47 PM
1

Yeah, I said shit like that when I broke up with my first girlfriend. Learned a lot from that breakup. Now I don't say anything close to that... It's just letting your emotions run wild. You're better off not saying anything and soft-nexting them. If a girl has interest in you then she'll be back... hell, I just got a text last night from a plate I ghosted 8 months ago. She has a boyfriend but she's still texting me. Most guys on here will tell you to go no contact with ex's, former plates, etc,…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 05:21 PM
3

A habit takes 17 days to form. After that, keeping it is all about discipline. You need to be able to force yourself to do things.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 04:21 PM
0

Not all men are like that. If I get into a relationship with a girl, I cut off contact with all the other girls I was seeing.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 04:20 PM
1

I'm the same way. I look at my friends' girlfriends completely differently than I look at random women. No way would I fuck up a friendship that I've had for years just for a piece of ass. There's plenty of women out there, but it's hard to find good friends you can trust.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 12:33 AM
0

1st of all, never go to a movie for a date in the first month. You're trying to get to know her... she's trying to get to know you and a movie just gets in the way. Definitely don't do it on the 1st or 2nd date... 2nd of all, like redpilljoe said, it's way too soon to invite her over like that. You need to give her an excuse to come over. (Dinner and a movie with some wine is standard). If you don't then she'll feel like you're "just using her for sex". 3rd of all, you did fuck up with your resp…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 09:46 PM
1

For sure man. Best of luck to you
/r/askTRP22/01/18 09:30 PM
1

That's completely normal. You've been rejected essentially by someone you love. One thing that helped me to snap out of it was this exercise: Take a piece of paper and a pen and write down everything that's bad about her. Is she naggy sometimes? Write it down. Does she lie? Write that down. Does she want sex less often than you? Write it down. Eventually you're going to have a really long list. Never show her or anyone else that list, but look at it when you're missing her. There are better wome…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 09:27 PM
1

Nobody cares what you're doing. Literally nobody. Like fnordsnord said, the gym is like a meditation temple. When I'm there I'm focused on myself, not the guy next to me. You need to stop caring and just go lift some weights. Start with a program like ICF 5x5 and build strength. Lookup form for all the major lifts on youtube (bench, squat, deadlift, row, OHP). All of those people who are lifting would probably be happy to show you the form if you asked them in a polite way. My gym bros are some …
/r/askTRP22/01/18 09:22 PM
11

Good on you. Bros before hoes
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:17 PM
1

Just broke up with my girlfriend on Christmas. I'd recommend getting back in the game right away. You're feeling a lack of confidence right now because she basically rejected you, and the best way to get rid of that is to have another girl in your bed. It'll help with moving on. As for the "asshole moves", you need to let that stuff go. It's in the past. Learn from it and quit dwelling on it. Distract yourself with hobbies and get your online dating profiles set up asap.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:15 PM
1

Some girls like you to take the lead. Nothing wrong with that, but you have to be careful not to come off as needy. Only hang out with her once a week. You might be contacting her so often that she doesn't have a chance to miss you. Or she just expects you to hit her up so she's always waiting for you to do it. Most girls are like really shy dudes... they're terrified of rejection. So, some of them will barely ever initiate dates.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:11 PM
2

Idk, man. I do things a little differently. I figure since I'm the guy I should be setting dates, so I'll set up the first few. By week 3 or 4 they're usually hitting me up to hangout anyway, which makes it easier. Maybe you need to step up your game in the bedroom?
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:16 AM
2

If you've been seeing them weekly for 1-2 months and they're not contacting you then you've done something wrong. Generally if they're interested they'll hit you up, even if it's just to talk. Ask them out twice, max. If they don't agree then stop asking them and move on with your life. If they hit you up asking to meet you then meet with them. If not, then they're basically dead to you.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:09 AM
1

Give it some time. Eventually you'll be more energetic than everyone else and you'll view your sobriety as a strong-point. I used to feel that way too. Then I went out a few times and watched how ridiculous some people get when they're drunk. Meanwhile, I'm standing there sipping a coke zero having just as much fun, plus I'll be able to get up in the morning and go to the gym with lots of energy instead of laying in bed all day nursing a hangover.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:06 AM
1

Don't become an alcoholic. It will tear your life apart. I've been there... Happily sober now and alcohol is just a shitty thing to put into your body. It's loaded with calories, damages EVERY organ in your body, makes you tired, gives you headaches if you have too much of it... the list goes on. Yes, it's fun, and you'll be more social. But if you're using it as a social lubricant, then you're using it as a crutch. I envy people who can drink moderately. Personally, I can't. If I have one, I'm …
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:03 AM
1

If you've already got her tits out then she's giving you validation. No need to play games once you get to that point.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 02:36 AM
1

You're basically living the dream. Those conversations are the worst.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 02:32 AM
1

Don't add her. Just wait for the date. She might be a total weirdo that you want nothing to do with.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 01:39 PM
3

She lied to you already about passing out. That's not a terrible lie because she just didn't want to reject you outright, but I would soft-next her. If she hits you up in the future asking to meet-up then set a date, but the ball is in her court.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 01:37 PM
9

"Awww, so you had a crush on me?" Just play it off and make a joke out of it. Treat her like a little kid. If she was really interested she would have pursued you.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 06:00 AM
3

She's attracted to you. That's what it boils down to. Speaking from experience, older women are great to have as FWB, but they usually don't make good LTR's. One of my ex's was 9 years older than me and she was insecure. Great sex though. And she'll probably spoil you with gifts and stuff if she's anything like my girl was.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:57 AM
2

Never contact her again. Repeat, never contact her. If she contacts you, tell her to come over and bring some wine/beer/liquor/whatever so you can make dinner. If she won't, then tell her you gotta run and end the conversation. Do that twice, max. After that, you only respond to her messages with 2-3 texts, then end the conversation saying "it's been nice talking but I gotta run". At that point, she needs to be the one to set up a date/fuck session. She's an ex. She's the lowest priority on your…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 04:18 AM
1

Invest. In a gym membership.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 04:09 AM
1

I moved states, had no friends, and had absolutely no problem picking up girls.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:45 PM
1

You can have no friends and have high SMV. Of course, if you hang out with complete losers it'll affect you, but if you're picking up random women then ideally they won't even know who your friends are.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:39 PM
2

Yeah, I know... We exchanged messages for a while and flirted back and forth. Eventually, she asked me to come move in with her and her friends lol. I wasn't about to move 200 miles and switch universities though.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:35 PM
7

It's better to try and get rejected then to just not fucking try and wonder "what if" This so much. I never even made a move on the girl I wanted most throughout middle school and high school. She was the hottest girl in school by far... so damn gorgeous that I thought there was no way she would go for me. One night she even came over to my house with my buddy and his girl to watch a movie and she asked to "see my room... alone" after drinking some, but I was so damn unconfident that I didn't ev…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:05 PM
1

Night game is a lot better quality imo. You can go on "instant first dates" pretty often too if you know what you're doing. The absolute hottest girl I've ever been with was a completely random pickup when I was just out doing my thing with my brother... This 24 year old Colombian psychologist with a perfect ass and the best pair of fake tits I've ever seen. I'm a dumbass for not pursuing her more. But that's off topic. You're right, online dating is crap if your not in a big city. Hell, I'm in …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 05:30 AM
4

Man, I don't even waste time with that stuff anymore. I only do drinks, because it's cheap and if I don't like her it's easy to leave. Same bar every time. It's 2 min walk from my place and there's a back exit so if I don't like her I can put some cash on the counter for my drinks, say I'm going to the bathroom, and leave. If I do like her, then I'll switch places after 2 drinks and go to another bar with games that's one block away. I've been on 5 first dates in the past 9 months and didn't go …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:57 AM
5

You're better off teasing them. Like Corey Wayne says all the time, it's a scientifically proven fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. Just think about it. If you're always telling her how beautiful she is or how much you love her, is she ever going to wonder where she stands with you? Is she going to worry about you leaving her for a better woman? Nope. Not unless she's insecure. In that case, you don't want her anyway. You're better off letting her wonder. She'l…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:48 AM
3

You need to stop caring so much about what other people think.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:45 AM
-1

Hell no. You determine your own value.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:43 AM
1

You already asked her out. It's on her now, imo.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:07 AM
2

INSECURE INSECURE INSECURE. Almost all girls do this. Who gives a fuck?
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:04 AM
16

So let her do it with someone else. Cheaters are the lowest of the low, and I wouldn't want to be a part of it. Not to mention there's a chance the dude could go psycho on OP when he finds out. It's not worth the headache just to get laid.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:03 AM
5

3rd'ed. You never mow another man's lawn on purpose. That just ain't right.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:59 AM
12

I watched one of my exes go from someone who would own up and apologize for the smallest things, to a complete bitch who would deflect everything and blame all her problems on me. Why? Because I didn't call her out on it enough. As a man, you should never put up with blatant disrespect from your woman. If you don't nip it in the bud and tell them to cut that shit out early-on most women will walk all over you.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:54 AM
4

Dick
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:50 AM
1

I agree. I'm just giving him an explanation for why she's thinking that way.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:16 AM
30

My ex had a few good ones. "I'm sorry you feel that way" was her go-to. It was funny because she got in an argument with a co-worker and the co-worker told her that exact thing, and she complained to me about how that "isn't a real apology". I was like, yeah no shit. That's what I tell you all the time. If she's a decent girl she'll actually own up to shit and apologize.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 08:10 PM
3

Lmao. If you want a fuck-buddy then that's all good, but if you're in a LTR you gotta do stuff with her.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:52 PM
1

You took too long. Always go for the lay on the first date. Arrange things so that you're close to your place and give her an excuse to come up to your apartment so that it can "just happen". I have a super nintendo with mario, so I always ask them if they want to come back to play. Then when we're inside I just show them my room. I haven't touched that nintendo in about 6 months.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:44 PM
7

If you don't date your girl, another man will. This applies no matter how long you've been together. Sounds like you stopped dating her and just see her to have sex.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:39 PM
3

Yeah, in your case, it's not really worth it. Especially since you're in university.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:34 PM
2

That's the key though. You aren't friends with them. You never contact them for any reason, and if they contact you it's purely to hook up. You go about your life with one more name in your little black book. They're the lowest thing on your list of priorities. I do get where you're coming from though and there are definitely reasons to cut some of them loose for good when it's over. It really depends on how your relationship was and how things ended.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:28 PM
1

Big comfort test.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:16 AM
5

If you do this, please post her follow up rage texts. They're hilarious.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:05 AM
2

I do the same thing. The only problem is if OP wants her back as a girlfriend then he shouldn't do this. Ex's are just fuck buddies to me. If I never hear from them it's fine, but if I do, I'm not going to pass up an easy lay.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:04 AM
2

In the future, if a girl denies sex like that, just shrug it off and act like you don't care. Getting pissed about not having sex shows neediness and a lack of abundance.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:00 AM
8

There was phrases from her later like: "Oh, see, you've gotten a rival!" I would dump my girl on the spot if she said something like that. From the sounds of it, she probably cheated on you. Don't contact her anymore. You won't get anything out of it and it'll just piss you off. Use this as a learning lesson about how to recognize signs of a woman losing interest, work on improving yourself right now, and work on your insecurities. Let your anger at this situation fuel your self-improvement.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:51 AM
3

Maybe she's telling the truth? Just a thought.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:46 AM
1

Why? It's not your fault she's ruining her life.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:44 AM
12

After reading his post, I kinda wanna fuck megan
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:41 AM
5

I would probably fuck with her and text her back something like "K. Happy new year!" then watch her explode, but this bitch sounds crazy so might not be the best idea.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:39 AM
13

Yeah man, you handled it perfectly. Didn't lose your shit, and you're not giving her the satisfaction of "being friends". Never do that. Personally, I think no-contact is appropriate in a lot of cases, but sometimes I leave contact open because I figure why not? At the very least you can turn her into a sex-pal. Usually they'll come back, then you just treat them as a plate. But I never contact my exes. No birthday messages, holiday messages, anything like that... If they contact me I'll respond…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:24 AM
1

It's a good book. I've read it twice. On my third read-through right now. His advice works, and he doesn't sugar coat things. Just straight to the point.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:11 AM
2

I've never encountered anybody who wasn't friendly at my gym. Sounds like OP is overthinking this because he thinks he's a newbie. Truth is that most people don't even talk to each other at the gym... they just have their headphones in and maybe ask to work in, or for a spot if they're going for a 1RM. And OP, nobody cares what you're lifting. If I see someone working out, I respect them for trying to improve their body. Everybody starts out weak anyway.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:06 AM
2

I think I saw one of his videos on the main RP board a while back. He helped me realize I was being an idiot for wanting my lying, manipulative ex back.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 04:38 AM
2

But sex is a need and I feel like it’s the only thing I need in my life right now in order to feel “complete”/happy. When you grow up more you'll realize sex isn't that important. And just because you're having it, it doesn't mean you're going to be happy. You become complete on your own.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 12:58 AM
2

The minimum equipment is probably going to cost you as much as having a gym membership for about 2-3 years, so if you plan on moving, the gym is the better option. With that said: Bench Squat Rack Olympic barbell at least 6 - 45 lb weights at least 4 - 25 lb weights at least 4 - 10 lb weights at least 2 - 5 lb weights at least 2 - 2.5lb weights You can accomplish a lot with that. You can bench, squat, deadlift, overhead press, and do rows for strength. You can curl with the bar and the small wei…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:28 PM
3

She'll never confess. She's a liar, so why would she tell the truth now? Good thing you found out now and not 6 months from now. I've dealt with one myself. They're insecure, shitty people, who have no integrity. Let her enjoy her CC ride. She'll end up old, ugly, and single, or she'll marry some beta who she'll cheat on.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:22 PM
7

Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=su2nCp4AkKI I broke it off with her and told her it was because if her disrespect dishonestly and if I didn't respect myself enough to leave that she would not respect me. YOU HANDLED IT PERFECTLY. Listen bro, I'm in this exact situation with my ex right now. Same exact lie. Same exact outcome. Take your emotions for this girl out of the equation and think of it as if this was happening to your best friend. What would you tell him to do? Well, th…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 07:00 AM
7

Pro tip: Never ask a woman for advice on anything. Look up some basic style stuff for guys and follow that. Basically just cut your hair short on the sides and a little longer on top, use forming paste to give it a little wave or spike, grow some stubble or a short beard, wear pants that aren't super baggy, t-shirts and wear some stuff on your wrists. Watch on one arm, bracelet on the other. When I go out I just wear some dark pants with a dark v-neck shirt or a light-colored short-sleeve henley…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 06:30 AM
1

Long story is too short
/r/askTRP16/01/18 06:30 AM
6

Dude. I'm a full-time student and unemployed because I got laid off. I'm 26, a recovering alcoholic, and I go to an AA meeting every day. I don't have a fucking car. I ride a bike everywhere. And I have multiple girls hitting me up all the time. I have to turn them down. I could call one right now and she'd be here in 20 minutes. You know why? Because I own that shit and it doesn't bother me. I have goals, I'm in great shape, have style, I can have conversations with people for hours, and most i…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 04:28 AM
1

Do you think Lebron got good at basketball by sitting in his room all day? Nah, man. He practiced. You need to practice. Start talking to all the service workers you encounter. Restaurants, grocery stores, wherever. Talk to those people. Not just, "hey" and "thanks". Make comments about stuff you see, even if it's awkward. Eventually, it won't be. If you're out buying something ask a girl her opinion on the thing you're buying. Doesn't matter if she's fat, ugly, gorgeous, or a 90 year old grandm…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 04:09 AM
3

Corey Wayne https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ
/r/askTRP16/01/18 04:03 AM
1

Yes. Find an older woman.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 04:02 AM
1

Some of this shit on here about never getting attached or opening up to any girl is so fucking dumb and it only communicates insecurity. Being vulnerable (aka honest) helps you grow as a human being. It only sucks when the person you open up to uses that vulnerability to hurt you. If they do that, then dump them. Learn from it and find a new woman. I've seen 40-year-old guys who just fuck girls and hang out and almost all of them have the emotional maturity of a 20-year-old. Those dudes are livi…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 03:53 AM
1

The best sex I've ever had was with girls I emotionally connected with. I think most guys would tell you that.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 03:46 AM
2

Keep teasing her like she's a bratty little sister. Never fall into the "nice-guy" role and try to please her/put her on a pedestal. Just have fun and be playful. Always treat her like you're still in the early stages of dating. She might fight back against it and test you... if she does then act like it doesn't matter and make fun the situation. Love should never be serious.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 03:10 PM
3

Same here. Without drinking, nightclubs are borderline depressing to me.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 06:43 AM
2

When she hit you up she was basically asking you to ask her out. Ask her when she's free. If you're free at that time then meet up. If you're not then suggest a different time. Not trying to be a dick, but this is basic stuff man.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 02:45 AM
7

He's still a padawan. Give him time.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 02:06 AM
3

You can use the force to fap, but that only leads one to the dark side.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 01:21 AM
4

If you've been seeing her for less than two months then it's too much imo. Longer than that and she's starting to fall in love with you/"be exclusive" talks will come up... stuff like that. If you want that then go ahead. But you should never tell them to come over/meet up after the first couple months. They should be begging to see you. If you are asking them to come over after seeing each other for 2 months then there's something wrong. She should be chasing you. And if that is the case, I wou…
/r/askTRP14/01/18 06:18 PM
6

Lying in itself is a red flag. So yes. Also, her sleeping with a married man is a big red flag imo. If somebody willingly hooks up with someone that they know is in a LTR/Married, they're a person with low integrity. You can argue the morals of that but integrity is important when it comes to relationships imo. Her deception is understandable in this case, and her telling you about it is good, but those are still two red flags.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 06:08 PM
23

Ummm, chicken and broccoli bro. Put the chicken in the oven until it's crispy. Boil an inch of water then throw the broccoli in. Put a top on it and let it simmer for 10 minutes. That's all you have to do.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 02:26 AM
1

Just open up tinder. There are plenty of girls out there. Personally, I wouldn't pay to hook up with one. Maybe that's just me.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 02:20 AM
2

Some things you need to realize... You love her. Nothing wrong with that. You need to work on yourself. Get rid of your fat. Move on.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 12:29 AM
1

Never pay to have sex. You did fine. I took over an hour my first time. Not much better imo.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 12:19 AM
1

You already told her what you wanted. Quit texting/calling/facebooking her. If she hits you up then assume she wants to meet up and invite her over.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 08:02 PM
3

Work out. You sound like you have low testosterone. Why the fuck wouldn't you want to fuck, dude? Sorry to be blunt, but your shit is fucked up. Go to a doctor.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 06:59 AM
5

Never talk about a relationship. Let her bring it up, and when she does, just tell her you want to "have fun and see where things go".
/r/askTRP07/01/18 06:44 AM
1

Keep it up. Don't ask her to do shit. She's older and I guarantee she's insecure about the age difference. Let her pursue you. Who gives a fuck about Hugh Jackman?
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:56 PM
1

Oneitis is a mindset. You can be with one girl and not have oneitis. You need to treat her like you have other options. If she disrespects you, then stand up for yourself. Never be a girl's bitch. When you do that, you lose her respect. It is normal to be attached to a girl. That's been normal for millions of years. But cut that shit out. When you experience enough relationships and you value yourself, you'll understand that YOU are the catch. She is not. I'm sure it sounds completely alien or c…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:53 PM
2

No shit man. Women are different. This is MY opinion. You might feel completely different and that's fine. I think women with 10 more years of experience are better in bed. What a radical idea.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:48 PM
1

I just put it in my post bro. I like women 10+ years older than me. I'm 26. My ex is 36 and a fucking rockstar in bed, a great cook, and just bought me breakfast this morning. I fucked a 23 year old last night and she was a wet sack of potatoes. I'm sure she hasn't cooked a fucking egg in a year. I'm never calling her again. I'll take an older woman every time. I fucked a 22 year old recently and she was needy as fuck. My life is a drama free zone so I cut her loose without a second thought. Tha…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:43 PM
3

I like older women. They're better in bed and they spoil me. Younger women are boring as fuck imo, or they're needy, or they're show-offs. When you get with a chick 10 years older than you, you'll understand.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:40 PM
2

Hormones, dude. Get used to them. She's got you by the balls now.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:39 PM
1

Absolutely. Anybody who's a normal human being will. Vandaalen is either putting on an act, or he's a legit stone-cold motherfucker. Personally I get attached to girls as soon as soon as they tell me they love me. It's a normal reaction imo.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:38 PM
4

The point is that this guy is emotionally attached. If he wasn't, then he wouldn't be asking this question.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 08:33 PM
1

The only point of life is to reproduce. Everything you're thinking about is only important to you because you think it's going to get you pussy. Very few people live for themselves. Deep down, every single living thing strives to reproduce, whether it be a plant or a lawyer. Because we're intelligent creatures, we have the ability to override that thought process, which is what you must do. Your point in life should be to be proud of yourself. If that means quitting your job and flipping burgers…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 08:26 PM
2

Hey brother. I just want to say that you're not in a bad spot. You're 23. So what if you lost your job? You have YEARS in head of you. Take it a day at a time. By simply realising that you need to improve, you're ahead of 95% of the other guys out there. Go to the gym. At the very least, go 3 times a week and bust your ass. That will put you ahead of 95% of the other guys out there. You see the fat slobs working at McD's? Do you want to be them? Fuck no. You see the fat dudes working at Wells Fa…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 08:26 AM
4

Nope. Jealous girls = insecure girls. It's nothing to freak out about, but keep an eye on it. She'll probably try to one-up you. She might text a "guy-friend" to get a coffee. Personally I don't deal with jealous girls anymore. But that's just me.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 08:14 AM
12

1st of all, you're not a woman. You don't write like a woman. You write like a guy. I'm a writing major, have collaborated with hundreds of women, and I've never seen a woman write like you. You write with no emotion. It's a dead giveaway. Therefor, I'm either witnessing the second coming of Christ, or you're a lesbian, or you're a guy spewing bullshit on this sub for your own personal entertainment/research. 2nd of all, you're a liar. You're doing research, you're curious, and/or you're doing a…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:43 AM
3

Don't feed the troll.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:28 AM
1

Where did I say "free" time? Nowhere. You're looking for excuses. Everyone has shit to do. If you don't want to lift then don't. It takes very little effort, a bit of motivation, and a shit ton of discipline. People who make excuses don't get anywhere. Go ahead and be one of those people. It just makes it easier for those of us who make the effort. I would ask you what you're doing for 6 hours a day. Probably wasting time "relaxing". Well, buddy, people who relax don't do shit with their lives. …
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:11 AM
1

If you can keep emotions completely out of it, then yes. That's not exactly easy though, no matter how stone-cold you think you are. I recently split with my ex - less than two weeks ago - and we fucked last weekend twice. There's no damn way I'm going to get back with her because I despise her as a person, which is the only reason I will keep seeing her. I'm going on a date with a different girl tonight and another one tomorrow night, so I'm not concerned if I never hear from her again. IMO thi…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 10:46 PM
5

So you'd rather be weak? You sound like a dumbass. 1 hour a day is 4% of your day. 4.5 hours a week lifting is 2.5% of all your time in a week. If you wouldn't trade 2.5% of your time in a week to get healthy and look good then you're an idiot. I lift and play guitar. And I'm fucking great at guitar. Neither of those hobbies has ever cut into my time for the other.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 10:04 PM
1

Go to the gym.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 08:51 PM
8

Don't feed the troll.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 08:00 AM
3

"Leave. Say, "We're not playing that game." And leave." "Leave" Just leave her, OP.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 07:59 AM
3

You: "Sure, I'm cool with being friends with benefits." Her: "No, just friends." You: "I can't be just friends. I think you're a great woman and I enjoy our time together, but I'm not interested in anything platonic. Give me a call when you change your mind." Then radio silence. Watch this guy's videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1ux4BA2qOY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IwOVvFAiUHQ
/r/askTRP05/01/18 05:36 AM
9

Run. One of my ex's was like this. Literally word for word for numbers 1-5. She's insecure and insecure people don't make good LTR's. They will flirt with other guys, lie to you, and even cheat on you if something goes wrong in the relationship and another guy gives them butterflies. You already know you're going to break up in 8 months so why are you with her? Because you have a scarcity mindset. Tell her you want an open relationship or a FWB relationship and start looking for a replacement. I…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 05:24 AM
1

I'm pretty sure that's a Seaworld documentary.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 05:22 AM
1

To be blunt, you're weak. When you get those numbers up, your muscles will get bigger. Stop what you're doing now and start doing ICF 5x5 - it's a 3 day/week program based off of stronglifts, but it adds accessory lifts for bodybuilding. For reference, I started it in the middle of November and my lifts have gone up a ton. This is where I started and where I am now. Bench - 155 for 5x5 => 190 for 5x5 Squat - 155 for 5x5 => 235 for 5x5 Row - 145 for 5x5 => 185 for 5x5 OHP - 70 for 5x5 => 110 for …
/r/askTRP05/01/18 05:16 AM
1

What are your lifts at roughly? Bench/Squat/Deadlift/Row/OHP? 190lbs is good for your height. You can be big at that weight. I would eat at maintenance and lift heavy on a strength program like the one I mentioned.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:59 AM
2

There's a huge piece of missing info here. How tall are you? Without that to go on it's hard to give you advice. Also, just because you lose 15 lbs, it doesn't mean you're going to be at 15% BF. You would need to retain all of your muscle and lose 15 lbs of pure fat, which isn't going to happen. It's just not realistic. If you're a beginner lifter, I would recommend that you eat at a slight deficit (300 calories) and get on a linear progression-based strength program like ICF 5x5. That way when …
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:43 AM
1

My last ex did this. Said I was immature. So I added her back. Still fucking her, so it's all good. And honestly, I think it is immature to delete them. That was a part of your life, no reason in cutting it out entirely, unless you're so emotional that you can't move past them.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 12:22 AM
7

"As to getting over your ex, eh. A LOT of guys highly recommend banging at least five (or ten) other women to get over your ex. I guess it works for a lot of people? Me, I think that the BEST revenge is living WELL. CRUSHING it at school/work. Better car, better apartment, more travel. Hotter women. Better food. SUCCESS. THAT's how you get over an ex." This, OP. Be successful. Women come and go. What you do with your life defines you. Also, don't forget to work out. A strong, healthy body is som…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 12:17 AM
5

she admitted to mental issues and drugs - HUGE Red Flag I even saw a few cuts on the top side of her wrist - Red Flag because of excruciating pain in my left nut started to kill my form. Started worrying this bitch could have STD's or some shit - You don't catch an STD that fast, dude She didn't ask for a condom - Red Flag, and never have sex with a random chick without a condom. at the moment she's been 'busy' - probably lining up another guy IMO, you should abandon ship on this one. She's not …
/r/askTRP05/01/18 12:16 AM
3

Yes, it's a terrible idea. Are you retarded? I told one of my ex's best friend's that she was hot one night when I was super drunk and never heard the end of it. My ex was insecure about it for the rest of the relationship.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:53 PM
1

Who gives a fuck about her past? You're having sex 15 times a week. Be happy. Quit looking for shit to be insecure about.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:51 PM
3

Around 3 months for drastic physical changes that you notice yourself. STAY CONSISTENT
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:48 PM
3

"Fuckboi", "Creep", "Asshole", etc. All of these are just labels jealous girls will give you if you're successful with women. If you get offended by it you'll look weak. Laugh it off. Never acknowledge it as anything more than a joke.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:07 AM
1

You were being too over-emotional. And you're insecure. Don't go through girl's social media/phones/whatever. By doing that all you're doing is showing that you're insecure, and you will ALWAYS find something that you don't like. Why? Because you're looking for it. So even if the girl is a freaking angel and she says one little thing bad about you, you're going to latch onto that. That shit will eat you up inside, making you even more insecure and needy, and eventually you'll drive the girl away…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:57 AM
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