So my wife has filed for a separation due to my drinking, narcasistic ways, controlling, emotional abuse and harassment. Anything you can name. We’ve been together since school, married, three kids, the Australian dream I guess. I recently went through a detox program due to her handing me papers saying I can’t see the children until it’s done, doing this also cost me my second job ( I work for myself). In the last 5 weeks it’s been crazy, I’ve done therapy together and see someone myself because she asked. I have no family, and the friends I thought I had she got into there ear, even to the point of checking up on me at work through a work colleague. This last week has been the hardest, I’m shunned from her family, she’s mad about money. I’m lost. I’m just looking for advice, help, anything really. I’ve got nothing left in my body to continue.