Been seeing this girl for a few months. No real red flags to speak of. We were dating non-exclusively for a while before agreeing to try out an LTR. She usually takes long to reply to my texts (2-3 hours) and leaves her phone lying around but when she's out with friends and having a couple of drinks she sometimes takes 3+ hours to respond which is kind of irritating.

I haven't been doing much wrong - I fuck her well and she's said I've given her the best sex she's ever had. I was at a party with her last night and she had her hand on my leg/arm for most of the night. I lift, good job, reasonably attractive, make her laugh etc.

But this isn't the first time she's been out and taken ages to respond.

I know the worst thing to do would be to ask her to text when she's out or to respond earlier (showing weakness), but at the same time I'm not too pleased by this kind of behaviour.

Am I looking too far into this?