“Just be lowinhib bro.”

As an autistic guy, I can say 100% that low inhibition does not and did not work for me. If I wasn't larping as a timid, quiet, submissive, and studious Asian guy, it was pretty much game over. Confidence, being assertive, and not giving a fuck caused people to think I was an asshole sperg, and I had absolutely zero friends.

Since I don't give a shit anymore, my inhibition is lower than ever, but nearly so is the number of friends I have.

In moments of lucidity, that also doesn't matter too much to me since normies seem to like throwing autists under the bus.

Society pushed me to its very edges, and during my journey of self-advocacy, a huge period of existential questioning, and finally clawing my way back from the brink of ending it, no one in my life cared. Meanwhile, my cousin got mildly depressed over a breakup, and her entire family (including my parents, who knew I was close to roping and screamed at me in response) did everything to support her. So now, I truly give no fucks about things like stimming or having a monotone voice/"dead eyes" because I fucking own my autism and have resolved to always be myself. And guess what, people seem to think even less of me than they did before, when I was masking heavily and dying inside.

I have asked other autistic guys about this, and their experience unfortunately lines up with mine.

In my experience, a sexually successful lowinhib autistic person is either a woman, a chad, a white normie in an ethnic enclave, or a walking oxymoron.