Hello all, so I am a STEM student, and I have to admit that the university culture and some classes that you could take at university are just not it, boys. I am not going to give any sage advice here as much as I will just describe my experience, and my lesson from it.

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I had to take this once class where the professor went on, and on, and on about how males are fragile, privileged, toxic, and have a toxic ego, a fragile ego, are mollycoddled and have it much better, and have unrealistic standards etc. it was exhausting.

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I did not learn anything. I did not become a better person because of it. It did not help my social anxiety or help me become a more knowledgeable and engaging person to talk to.

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Now, the class that I took does not matter, because it is important to also take "political" classes which address issues such as racism, sexism, conflict, etc. however, as a man, some of these classes are just not for you and will not help you grow as a strong, level-headed man who can be independent, reliable for his loved ones, and supportive to the society he is a part of.

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So, check the course content of your classes in advance and avoid these soul draining courses, do not delay registering, and while I pride myself for having never used ChatGPT for my essays, sometimes it is worth it in hindsight.