Not so much an angry rant so much so a ''tired of this bullshit claim'' type of post because everywhere you see there is always this constant bitching that men don't see each other as bros rather as mere enemies and rivals all the time

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Well let's get at it

How are men supposed to bond when our spaces are being invaded left and right? Is just so funny to me how feminists keep neutering and sanitizing male spaces to make them as inclusive as possible, but when it comes to feminists they're allowed to have their gyms, public transports, bars, restaurants and much more

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Yet, where else do men have to go? There are virtually no reserved spaces for men anymore, all of our get-togethers are under constant attack. From sports to religious institutions to video games to jobsites to the military, where are men supposed to come together and see each other as bros?

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The other counter-response I have to this victim-blaming is that if you look through history, our group dynamic is literally work and productivity-driven, so while yes we do have a social component, make no mistake when men work together towards a common is some serious problem solving put into action, but what is happening is the elites and the stat don't want this to happen because they know if the average men came together and united they know the corrupt government would be overthrown. Also, we have a society that is constantly shitting on people's competence because competence, unlike status, actually has to come from within, but because our society is actually afraid of full-on raw competition, then we get a society that's more status and wealth driven, as opposed to one focused on competence, talent and hard work

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Remember that on average us men have action and competence-driven hierarchies built into us, while we men do like to engage in our fair share of peacocking, you think I care what vehicle you drive makes me think of your work ethic or what you bring to the table?

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Now obviously while I did mention that society should be more encouraging of raw competition, that doesn't necessarily mean it always has to be thru violent or over-powering means, that's why we developed these outlets for our competitive desires and instincts in the first place be it sports, video games, debate clubs or hell even the military, but even society is already hijacking those outlets and instead of promoting fair play and raw competition, we always end up handicapping or rigging things all in the name of participation trophies anyways

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So don't give me these damn BS that we men don't care about our in-group socialization, because I can come up with any counter-argument to this out of the playbook

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Society just doesn't respect men's way of being and instead wants to keep on sanitizing and neutering us

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It all starts in the school system, boys are stripped of their masculinity right away, no running around, no banter or teasing[I can be behind a strong anti-bullying culture, but banter and teasing are critical for developing proper social skills, especially us men who are pushy with each other anyway], no roughhousing, no cussing, no engaging in controversial or emotionally-charged topics, no being loud, the list goes on and on

Well is it any wonder our men are growing all directionless and confused?

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