Ltr Gf is saying I treat her as a friend and don't do small little things for her. Says she wants to be spoiled and feel like my gf. Says I make lots of negative jokes about her. She sat in a seat at a restaurant that we normally don't sit in and I sat at my regular. She asked me to me over and I refused she finally moved in front of me but not without a change in mood etc. She actually told me she wants to be spoiled and treated as special. I show her love IMO and express it but I've been less expressive lately (matching her effort)

I also took her to lunch by surprise and she complained about using her gas and it was out of the way. She later appreciated the lunch.

Lately I've been matching her level of effort and apparently it's starting to bother her. Sex really doesn't happen unless it's me so I don't exactly feel like doing all the little cute shit I've always done for it not to be appreciated etc. I've been going about things on my own and not giving in to little things lately showing that she cant use me for trivial shit.

She also acts extremely childish on her period which I understand hers can be very uncomfortable and painful. However she acts like a brat and gets a terrible attitude. It makes me not want to be around her.

Need some advice on how to handle this.