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Do you agree with this statement: “If you can’t get dates, it’s your looks. If you can’t sustain long-term relationships, then it’s your personality.”

Diligent_Jacket_6132

August 28, 2023
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Title Do you agree with this statement: “If you can’t get dates, it’s your looks. If you can’t sustain long-term relationships, then it’s your personality.”
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Diligent_Jacket_6132

Upvotes 3
Comments 10
Date August 28, 2023 8:19 PM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/163wsvn/do_you_agree_with_this_statement_if_you_cant_get/
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[–]kukkle1111 15 points16 points17 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

“If you can’t sustain long-term relationships, then it’s your personality.”

No, that’s also because of your looks. The woman will tolerate as much shit as she feels you’re cute/handsome enough to get away with.

[–]Diligent_Jacket_6132[S] -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would actually disagree. The woman will eventually reach her breaking point and leave the Chad for another Chad. It just depends on how attractive the Chad is and if there is another Chad available to replace the current one.

[–]Gold-Cat382 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Women tolerate Chad but only to a certain point.

What’s that certain point? depends on the level of Chad.

ultragiga Chad will get away with anything bar abuse

Just gigachad? Cheating behind her back multiple times, once or twice and she’ll get over it.

Chad? Nasty personality and she’s out after a few arguments asking him to change

Average male? Doesn’t agree with her on a minor point and she’s out

[–]Diligent_Jacket_6132[S] 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s beyond over for average betabuxx male. The woman will hardly tolerate any form of abuse but with Chad that tolerance is MUCH MUCH higher. I’ve seen cases where the woman will apologize for the Chad’s abusive behaviour towards her.

[–]TemporaryBoat2 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

With the first one even abuse is debatable. Some will excuse it away or say she can change him.

[–]SoulBadguy0408 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Definitely think looks get you in the door but it's not like pretty people are exactly immune to being broken up with and I guess maybe personality plays a role in that unless the woman is moving up then probably still a looks issue

[–]No_Evidence_5152 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

more nuanced than that

[–]Existing_Group_5372 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

First part yes, second parts no because it also depends on money/status

[–]Anticoom 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In most cases, looks get you in, personality let's you stay

[–]ExplorerFeisty2631 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I disagree on the first part, but whole heartedly agree on the second - if you arent compatible or you are just a (for example) narcissistic abusive prick, no one will stick around

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