Am I a pussy? Or am I just still blue pilled?

redpilledjoe · 2018-02-01T20:58:05+00:00

Probably the most cringe worthy thing about me is that I like to have an emotional connection with a girl before we have sex.

This is not BP. What would be BP would be feeling like you had to put on an act to be a "good guy" by going through the motions of an emotional connection because you thought that's what you "were supposed" to do.

TRP is about being introduced to a set of tools that you can pick and choose from to help achieve your real goals for what you really want.

RedSkeller · 2018-02-01T20:58:48+00:00

Probably just guilty because mom/dad/sister told you it was bad to lead women on and date more than one at a time or be inside more than one in a span of a couple hours. Either way you need to keep that shit to yourself and if you want to beat it, expose yourself to more of it. I used to be that way many years ago but any time I get a new girl and start fantasizing, it's time to go out and add another to the mix.

RAiderNat88 · 2018-02-01T20:59:47+00:00

I just don't seem to resonate with some things posted here, specifically sex. It sounds weird but I prefer companionship and having a closer relationship with someone than a ONS

You must be really young, guess you'll just have to learn the hard-way, we'll see ya in a couple heartbreaks buddy.

vandaalen · 2018-02-01T20:52:46+00:00

http://archive.is/yxzC1

anonlymouse · 2018-02-01T21:09:44+00:00

Probably the most cringe worthy thing about me is that I like to have an emotional connection with a girl before we have sex.

Is this based on past experience? Like do you automatically develop an emotional attachment with a girl you've had sex with once?

2comment · 2018-02-01T21:10:09+00:00

The recent ex-smoker still whiffs smoke in a room with a tinge of nostalgia rather than non-smoker revulsion. Nothing time won't fix.

Probably the most cringe worthy thing about me is that I like to have an emotional connection with a girl before we have sex.

This is okay and normal. I think you're trying to overcompensate. The way BP guys get off the rails isn't the fact that they want to be emotionally connected to their women, it's HOW they're connected; trying to make their girl their mother/boss/world or whatever it is with constant validation-seeking behavior and all the submissive/nonmasculine traits that go with it. That's the unhealthy part. Being emotionally distant is better than that, but not necessarily optimal. Kind of like walking with a crutch is better than walking on a broken leg.

I insult and neg a lot

Again, I think you're overcompensating if this is true in a fake it till you make it kind of way. Oh well, keep going, give it time.

abdada · 2018-02-01T20:52:00+00:00

Do you have mantits? Maybe you're estrogen dominant?

Metalgear222 · 2018-02-01T21:25:37+00:00

you haven't yet swallowed the pill. Reading everything here doesn't do shit unless you take action and change your attitude.

stillah · 2018-02-01T23:19:31+00:00

low t

sobrage · 2018-02-01T23:27:54+00:00

Some people don't understand that every guy is different. Its totally fine man, it doesn't make you a pussy nor a bp

sihitu123 · 2018-02-01T23:56:18+00:00

Manners maketh man.

I'd say purple pill atleast then, but what you need to understand is that TRP is a degenerative reaction to womens hypergamy. It's a return to very animalistic behaviour. Instead of bettering the society, it chooses to reap the fruits without planting any seeds. In TRP, the men are enabling women to be whores just to get sex which in turn lowers morals even more. I know it's a political climate yada yada which pressures a lot of men going trp way but still, in the end it just leads to demographic nightmare.

Your outlook is correct, it would be most beneficial to society if that interests you. TRP promotes plating but what man would ever want to LTR another mans plate, it's madness.

Merwebb · 2018-02-02T03:54:38+00:00

LTR is red pill on European extreme difficulty.

I too think the same as you, as many others around here, just have in mind that it takes a lot more work to adjust to this red pill mindset while having a relationship and not just trying different stuff on different women.

Oneitis lurks in every corner.

endlesstrials · 2018-02-07T22:15:12+00:00

Lol you are a fucking pussy bitch.

Title	Am I a pussy? Or am I just still blue pilled?
Author	redpilledjoe
Upvotes	2
Comments	33
Date	February 1, 2018 8:48 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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