Every now and then, and I'm sure most of us can relate, you come across a guy who comes off as alpha as fuck. Tall, fit, calm, in control, etc. You interact with him and say damn, that's a man's man.

On the other side of the coin you also come across a man who's tall, fit, calm, equally good looking, but something about his vibe just screams little beta bitch. He may be fit but it seems try-hard, like he works out every day desperately trying to prove to the world he's not a loser and despite physical results it's not working. It's like they've been reading TRP but haven't put the pieces together correctly. These men are much more common than the former.

My point is, one of these men is a role model and the other is not, and I can't always put my finger on what the actual difference is.

Thoughts?