Hi everyone, I need to talk, don't have family or friend and my head is spinning! my fiancee just told me that he doesn't love me anymore, after 9 years together, 3 of which his feelings for have been unsure apparently. he feels we are more like friends than a couple and doesn't see a futur together. he recently had a crush on his co-worker(nothing happened or will) and it made him realise he doesn't feel this way for me anymore. we have 2 kids together(2 and 4) and I'm feeling sick in my stomach thinking I could lose everything. He said he needs time to think but I'm so scared it's already too late. we never had a conversation about him feeling like this so this comes as a big shock for me. What can I do? I don't want to pressure him but i wan to show him we can make it work. I love him and can't see my future without him by my side. We've had hard times because we're on temporary visa, having no friends and no family means we don't go on date or connect as couple much but I didn't think it was to the point of having no love. I'm a Sahm and very busy with my kids so it's possible this is related.

I don't know if it's even possible to save this situation or I am kidding myself? It's a living nightmare, we don't touch anymore, even though we were kissing cuddling and having sex a few days ago. this sudden lack of physical touch/affection is very hard to handle. We had big long-term projects together, getting married, travelling around our country and buy a house. i wish to have a male perspective and may be explain what he's going through, what i can do ?