Hi Guys. I have been reading on this forum for a while and also getting inspiration from the RSD guys. I´m at the level where I can easily approach any girl in public and tell she she´s cute or whatever and close a number of instant date.

But when it comes to dating, I want to spice up things. Last date was a bit boring, I was a bit nervous and it became awkward. We just sat opposite of each other and talked, sometimes I ask girls out for coffee. I don´t drink, so I dont ask them out for drinks. I wont to keep it easy, so no heavy dinner stuff. Maybe because I do not have goals with the date? Based on my situation right now, I am living at home and can´t bring them back home, so the date is usually just to get to know the person.

Any advice on what can be done at a first date? and how I can spice things up? With girls that I know from before its more fun since we have things to talk about and some inside jokes.