Cause I can give a whole lost of think that were mainstreaming back in the days and how closely we were to normalise "Chad and Becky " kind of relationships :

_ Sex in the first date and noods were the norm if Becky want to date Chad

_ More efforts from Becky's part.

_ accepting that Chad is cheating

_ Abuse and hitting the girl were more normalised

_ Admiration of Chad while she get ignored aka toxic relationships

_ being mean to the gf while she is lovey dovey

_ 24h sexualization of the gf

_ the gf always apologising was a common theme

_ Chad is the one who broke up with the gf

_ a huge humility and modesty from the gf as she is trying to be a " wifey material"

_All of this painted women as this angels who can't do nothing wrong and a lot of men ate it

_ So can we say that men just couldn't see every women crying for a Chad so he choosed to be the simp and offer women a whole new kind of men( the emotional , femboy kind of bf) cause this is the only kind of men we see now .