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Daily Grannypill #2

KeepCopingBuddy · 2023-10-21T15:50:17+00:00

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October 21, 2023

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Title	Daily Grannypill #2
Author	KeepCopingBuddy
Upvotes	8
Comments	10
Date	October 21, 2023 3:50 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/17d5kf5/daily_grannypill_2/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/daily-grannypill-2.1235884 https://theredarchive.com/post/1235884

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I suppose it's hard for me to see this because so many women that I've talked to (including my own family) just always have some perpetual victim card thing going on with dating.

From this, I constantly get the vibe single women are offended of this salient observation whenever brought up (even indirectly at times I notice they anxiously go on the defensive) because intrinsically to them it's akin to admitting you've lost the dating game even on easy mode.

And too many women would do almost anything to avoid short-term embarrassment or even temporarily inflate their ego given a social opportunity all at the expense of long-term embarrassment.

I don't know if it's just socially engineered that they don't think far ahead enough to question their current behaviors or choices and do a quick cost-benefit analysis objectively, or if it is something deeply rooted in biology typically they just don't think like that and will almost always fall victim to subjective rationalizations even on a groupthink level (I e. the bandwagon fallacy fools them into thinking they are being objective).

I wish these weren't my observations either because I really do want to respect women as a whole more, but not at the expense of being bullied or heckled into it, or lying to myself.

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