I'm among the new influx following the 'most hated sub' boom, and not sure if I buy into everything said around here, but have done this for a while and it seems to work. I realized that Superman is how I should be socially.

The real me is a lot like Clark Kent; shy, smart, kind, and utterly undesirable to women.

So now socially, especially around women, I try to be like Superman; strong, invulnerable, utterly confident, and totally unavailable/aloof.

I now have an awesome job and am single by choice, not by failure. What does TRP think about this admittedly simple strategy?