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| 10 | Red Pillers in DisguiseWhen I was younger, an older friend told me: "Put a penny in a jar every time you have sex the first year of a relationship. Take one out each time after the first year. You'll never empty the jar." This is what most men believe, because it is what they experience. Intense interest in the early days, that dies off once the relationship becomes secure. BP men moan as their sex life declines. They try offering her more security. More gifts. More commitment. And in return they get less and less sex… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/17 12:42 AM |
| 13 | Women are not compassionate, at least not to men in the sexual marketplace. Ever.someone who can’t improve her emotional state and thus is of no use to her. This right here is the key. Forget the details of the OP's story for the moment. Absorb the lesson he's sharing: If you can't change a woman's emotional state, you have no value to her. You serve no purpose. You have no worth. If a girl is having a shitty day and you can't make her feel happy, you are pointless. If she's bored, and you can't excite her, you are useless. If you are struggling to succeed with women, focus … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/17 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Enjoy the Decline is the Death blow on SocietyTruth. You can lease the dream, but sooner or later reality calling in that note. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/17 09:55 AM |
| 9 | Cuckoldry. SJWs. Hamstering. Everything so wrong with modern sexuality, in this one comic. (Not Safe For Work)You can choose to do that, but it is an optional and separate service (and cost). A lot of doctors will refuse to perform vasectomies unless you unequivocally state that you are 110% committed to never having another child. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/17 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 03Agree with all of this. Adding one more bullet point: She used bait to land you. Makeup, push up bras, extraordinary sex, etc. That's how they "date up." If you're still staying after she's no longer bothering to bait the hook, you are clearly not above her. She can get a bigger fish. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/17 07:46 AM |
| 5 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 03Communication is only 7% verbal. The other 93% is tone, body language, and subtext. If you respond to the substance of a shit test, even if you're completely correct on every point, your score is 7 out of 100. Congratulations. You flunked. This is why you never "won" an argument with your ex-GF. You failed when you lost your cool and entered her frame. (7% from some soft science bullshit article I read years ago. Don't get lost focusing on the number. Doesn't matter if it's 20, 30, or even 40. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/17 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 03I don't think "annoyance" is enough. OP is right, it has to be an enemy. You need additional pressure, a burden that must be endured. Not easily avoided. You can bond with your coworkers while under a shitty boss. Or a fellow divorced man battling family court. But as the OP said, those are fleeting. When the obstacle is past, the bond withers. I grew up in extreme poverty. My neighbor was the same. We spent 15 years together facing the same daily challenges. Even after we both became successful… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/17 07:15 AM |
| 15 | This better not have been any of youSadder still, most of these guys aren't clueless. They know they have no chance. But they've fooled themselves into thinking they don't have any other course. Zero abundance mentality, 100% oneitis, and covert contracts, all rolled up into one miserable pile of shame. Knowing they're failing, but not knowing why. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/17 10:07 AM |
| 31 | Tax Lawyer here - What is a Trust?If you are a divorced dad with minor children, set up a living trust immediately. It guarantees that your money goes to your kids and not your ex-wife. Make the trust the beneficiary for your retirement and investment accounts, as well as your life insurance. Pay for their college, not her Lexus. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 07:55 AM |
| 19 | ‘Not here to Fuck Spiders’ – 3 Steps to Sexualise an Interaction and Prevent the Friend-zoneI was not born alpha. After far too many years of whining and self-pity, I started focusing on my career, health, and happiness. As I grew and improved, I began attracting women. They saw an alpha, but I was still acting beta one-on-one. Posts like these are for men in that transition stage. Guys who are finally getting some attention, but are shooting themselves in the foot. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 09:18 AM |
| 1 | My God..I've been reading the Red Pill for years without doing shit but yesterday night I had one giant epiphany.Bingo! "Continuous improvement spiral" -- exactly! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/17 12:02 AM |
| 2 | My God..I've been reading the Red Pill for years without doing shit but yesterday night I had one giant epiphany.100% agreed. Exercises such as this are best done only a few times a year. If you find yourself without direction or motivation, give it a try. It is a good way to discover (and track) what you care about. The objective is to set some immediate goals and get yourself in motion. Not a binding contract for life. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 11:50 PM |
| 262 | My God..I've been reading the Red Pill for years without doing shit but yesterday night I had one giant epiphany.My tip for you (and everyone else) is to write down the answers to these questions: What am I doing tonight? What am I doing this weekend? What am I doing next week? What am I doing next month? What am I doing this summer? Nine birds in a tree. Five decide to fly away. How many birds are left? Nine. Deciding to do something is not the same as doing it. You made a decision to change your life. Excellent. Now you need to make a plan. Put it in writing. 90% of you won't bother doing this exercise. … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 12:14 AM |
| 13 | Why Hot Girls Need To Have A Bitch Shield And Why High Value People In General Need One.There is power in saying no. This has been a core concept of TRP since the beginning. My challenge to you: Spend the next two weeks developing your "bitch shield." Make it strong. Be difficult, obstinate, unshakeable. On the third week, keep a daily journal. Just a few notes, nothing elaborate. Then give us a summary of what did and did not change. Complete this exercise and then tag me in the post. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/17 08:47 AM |
| 76 | I think I just got redpilledMaybe, maybe not. But always better to try. Worst case, she rejects you sooner. Better to strike out early than waste time and money chasing a lost cause. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Fuckonomics 205: Beating Briffault's Law and Covert Contracts by engaging the SMP on a CASH basis (2017 Update)Same for a lot of other women who initially show interest but after they see I am stern and uncompromising they just back out. Women have evolved to sniff out a "good deal" You are absolutely correct, this advice will repulse many women. The blue masses have spoiled them. Even average girls are now accustomed to being fawned over like a 10. They can get what they want elsewhere far easier and a lot cheaper. Treating her "normal" indicates that you think your SMV is higher than hers. But it only … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 05:11 PM |
| 9 | A 4 day getaway - leveling up. Feedback wanted.You asked what you could do better... First and foremost, going back out with a girl who already turned you down is setting yourself up to fail. Find someone new. Yes, you were able to measure your improvement, but with any other girl this adventure would have been an unqualified success, not a "happy with my progress so far" moment. Later at dinner she told me how she had a one night stand situation and I called her out on her shit about the "kissing unless I'm dating" comment. She was mortifie… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/16 12:28 AM |
| 95 | 14,000 words worth of TRP wisdom - a compilation of every TRP quote I've compiled in the past 14 months.I haven't been active here in far too long. For years, I kept a similar file. Half are quotes I thought were exceptional. The rest were ideas of my own, that I intended to flesh out into full-length posts, but never did. Women have traditionally sought to suppress their approach invitations so that only the boldest, and hence most desirable, men would solicit them. Women are also hypergamous, which is inherently unstable for them, because it is hard to keep a man that is, by definition, too good… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/16 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Loser! - Why late bloomers still retain those negative feelings even after they start doing well in the game, and majority of it has nothing to do with women or sex.I didn't get it because of how fucked up women act and how fucked up society is for allowing them a free pass to act like it. I treated them how they said they wanted to be treated. That is tantamount to them lying. Your mistake was believing them. That is why you failed. Not because they lied, but because you ignored the smell of bullshit. You wanted to believe the lies. In the words of Black Phillip: "It is always your fault." Own your mistakes. Quit blaming others, The good news: life doesn't… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 11:32 AM |
| 27 | No close but a lot of fun.Doesn't matter if it was just a baby step, you're taking RP out into the real world. You are testing and discovering how much you can get away with. It is exhilarating. Enjoy it. We were raised to be polite and not intrude. But most girls are sitting around, bored, waiting for something to happen. Bring the fun and excitement, and you can do shit others only dream about. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 06:28 AM |
| 14 | Try The Oldschool WayTerrible advice. Women have a dualistic mating strategy. If you are not going to be the AF, you leave yourself only one other choice. "I really want this to last, and it's not easy for me to control my sexual desires as a man, so please understand this is for us" I had a closeted gay friend in high school. This is the kind of shit he used to say to keep his "girlfriend" at arm's length. Read more. Learn the fundamentals. You're not ready to be giving advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 12:53 AM |
| 41 | I know just the girl for you!No one wants to date ugly people, not even other ugly people. They date each other because they're usually the only choices. Most people date at their own level. Which is why average & hot girls get upset when approached by inferior men. Those guys are (unintentionally) calling her unattractive. OP raised his value. He became hotter. So now girls can set him up with their hotter friends. It isn't shallow or illogical. There's no malice or secret agenda. It's just how the world is. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 06:24 AM |
| 5 | Child GameThis approach is great, but as the first guy said, it is not enough. Part of growing up is breaking the rules. Your kid is going to come back, weeks or months later, and open that cabinet. You may come home to find paint spilled all over your garage floor. Punishment is part of parenting. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 06:48 AM |
| 12 | [Field Report] A real life example of the "On Attraction" postI don't get this mentality. OP has some advantage we don't, so let's dismiss everything else he has to say. It's no different than when short guys or brown guys start whining: "Of course you had success, you are tall/white/whatever!" It's bullshit. Envy blindness. If OP had said he is an accountant, he would have been ignored. [...] accountants are seen as boring guys who never do anything fun. The OP explained how he was doing fun stuff. He was part of the alpha pack. Displaying high energy, da… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 06:32 AM |
| 6 | [Field Report] A real life example of the "On Attraction" postI can make it even shorter: "Girls are available." Sure, that statement is true, but it's absolutely useless. Everyone knows that bit. The surrounding details are what matters. Do yourself a favor and learn to read. This FR was written in response to an even longer piece. Ironically, that article explains why your "Med School" envy is silly. Either do the required reading, or get the fuck off TRP. The rest of Reddit is full of resentful, lazy men with short attention spans. We don't need them he… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 06:01 AM |
| 48 | Misogyny is a blue pill ideology. TRP merely tolerates it as part of the transformation.Pay attention, gentlemen! This is the entry point to the Acceptance stage: The fact that our differences are biological means they are also immoveable. These are permanent and constant differences that you cannot change. [...] You have got to reach a level where you quit wishing for change Biology is undeniable. Reality does not change to fit what we think is fair. Accepting that is not a defeat. It is liberation. All that time and energy wasted on anger is now free. Put it to good use! | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 11:46 PM |
| 2 | What I Learned About my Time Offline: How Hypergamy WorksDo you meet your own standard? Are you out there kicking ass? Or are you just a keyboard warrior, sitting in judgement of others? Men who are trying to do their own thing are (almost without exception) positive, energetic, and enthusiastic. That doesn't match how you just described yourself. Yes, most people are dull and boring, just as you described. They shuffle through life on autopilot. But not all men are like that. Get out there and build your empire. While you're chasing your dream, look … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety lowers your social status.Good luck, brother. You can beat this. You already know how to be disciplined. Use that. Ask the nurse what you need to do. Get actionable items and follow through. Try tracking your moods as I suggested. One of the most useful things, for me, was realizing I wasn't depressed/anxious 24x7. I thought I was, but the journal proved otherwise. Emotions are fleeting. Most episodes are brief. I also discovered some days I didn't have any episodes at all. When I was depressed, I'd forget or dismiss tho… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 02:19 AM |
| 10 | There Is No Such Thing As A "Natural Alpha"Genuine dark triads are mentally ill. Their illnesses are much more likely to hinder than help. Functional and successful dark triads are a very tiny subset of an already small group. Many people have observed that CEOs and politicians display DT-like behaviors. That doesn't mean they're actually mentally ill. Rather, they've found it necessary to behave in ways similar to a "natural" dark triad. Having met a few Fortune 500 CEOs, I'd actually argue the environment of their position shapes them,… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Anxiety lowers your social status.See my other post in this thread. I outlined the most effective techniques to beat anxiety. If your condition isn't chronic, you probably don't need drugs, but all the rest will definitely help. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 07:21 AM |
| 15 | Anxiety lowers your social status.I don't know shit about PTSD, but I am personally familiar with GAD and depression. Apologies if you've heard all this advice before. Effective treatments for chronic anxiety and depression are therapy, exercise, and medication. Most therapists also recommend keeping a journal of your moods. People with severe conditions have the best results when they pursue multiple strategies simultaneously. Therapy does work, but finding a good therapist can take longer than the treatment itself. Do not be p… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 06:46 AM |
| 19 | Applying The Red Pill: An AnalysisI think he's holding onto outdated ideas. Women today are following the optimum strategy for them. In the past, a woman had to marry young and strive to create a lifelong bond. She had one shot at selecting the correct mate. That usually meant choosing security over excitement. Modern women can have both. They spend their best years pursuing exciting men who won't commit. Science (and common sense) says this drastically reduces their chances of finding a lifelong partner. They seemingly don't ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 07:54 AM |
| 22 | Do Not Ask Women How They Feel; Tell ThemYou are correct that women seek emotional fulfillment from everyone, not just their spouse/boyfriend/whatever. But if you want to remain her AF, you have to say "no" 9 times in 10. They may want you to need them, but the moment you do, that wild AF attraction is gone. Cad is speaking from that frame. Any attractive woman, married or single, already has a collection of needy guys offering her comfort. Keep yourself out of that crowd. She is attracted because you're not one of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 09:30 AM |
| 15 | Do Not Ask Women How They Feel; Tell Them100% agree. You kill the snake by chopping off it's head. One of the greatest things about TRP is that there is no head. There's plenty of leadership, plenty of experienced men worth listening to, but there is no solitary, canonical voice. Not only does this protect us, it also allows our collective knowledge can be used by any man, within the boundaries of his own individual moral code. Saying, "this doesn't fit my code," is fine. But trying to silence discussion via an appeal to authority -- "… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 09:12 AM |
| 54 | What you didn't know about Emotions and PeopleIf you'll just listen, I'll give you my secret. Completely and absolutely free. But you gotta wait for it. I only share my secret with the worthy. The other Endorsed Contributors would kill me if they knew I was giving our secret away for free. You're still reading? Great. You are worthy. Are you ready to hear the secret? OK. 1, 2, 3... Buy my shit. That's all you gotta do. Give me your money and you'll get what you want. I bet you're thinking, "It can't be that easy!" But it is. Tom gave me his… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 08:09 PM |
| 11 | Playing the game in your 30s being the AF and not spending a dime on a woman. Too good to be true?Do you fuck tactfully? Of course not. Be a man. Take charge. "You get this round, I'll get the next." | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Any tips on how to help my teenage(13M) son to be more red pill in general, mostly in social interactions?I wish my parents had signed me up for dance lessons. I plan to do that for my son, even if only for a month or two. For many of us, junior high dances were some of our first big social experiences. Just knowing how to hear and move to a beat will give him an edge. | /r/RedPillParenting | 25/11/15 09:02 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Forgive me brothers, for I have sinnedEven when you don't know where you want to go, you get there quicker when you keep moving in the right direction. (Good Lord, I sound like Winnie the Pooh...) | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 08:25 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Forgive me brothers, for I have sinnedThe reality of the current market is that no matter what, 20% of men will take all the women. However, you must understand that this is a transient state, and cannot last. History makes this abundantly clear. Everything changes, but this current phase may last longer than your lifetime. Assume that it will, and endeavor to become a top 20% man. That way, you succeed regardless. work on getting other men to WAKE UP. That is just another fantasy. There will be no beta uprising. (Spoiler alert: The… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 08:13 AM |
| 19 | [FR] Forgive me brothers, for I have sinnedI was born and indoctrinated to be a beta male. Naturally alpha males usually seem to be so happy with their lives The natural is a myth. Yes, some guys are lucky, they are born with a headstart. Good genes, rich parents, whatever. But, muscle doesn't build itself, and daddy's generosity has a limit. That natural you're admiring? He built on his gifts. You can too. I don't get it. What's TRP's endgame? I don't see the point TRP has no endgame. It isn't a plan, it's just knowledge. What are you g… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 07:02 AM |
| 7 | It doesn't get mentioned that much but location is one of the most important things in all of this.There is a GEOTRP subreddit. It was never very active, but it's still linked on the sidebar. You might not find anything, but worth a quick search if you're considering a move. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Fight For The Cause!I sense you are implying that in general one should not waste time on things that are hard to win I implied no such thing. I wrote quite deliberately exactly what I meant. It certainly wasn't some pussy "never fight" anything message. A hard challenge is great, and may indeed be worthy of your effort. But an impossible challenge is foolish, a waste of your time. Changing biology is impossible. It can't be done. No movement has that power. Hypergamy and male disposability are never going away. Fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 01:54 AM |
| 11 | Fight For The Cause!Agreed. Obviously, men can and do band together, but it is never for a male cause. Anything we do -- including Watt's development of steam technology -- is for the benefit of the group as a whole. We go to war for our nation. We labor for our family. We uncover knowledge for our species. Women are always under our umbrellas. That is our nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 08:21 AM |
| 17 | Girl on OKCupid subreddit keeps telling herself that she's attracted to betas - and then learns that her "perfect, amazing" boyfriend is a RedPiller.Emotion is emotion is emotion. Stronger the better. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 01:48 AM |
| 61 | Girl on OKCupid subreddit keeps telling herself that she's attracted to betas - and then learns that her "perfect, amazing" boyfriend is a RedPiller.Don't you watch TV? Have you never been to a movie or read a book? Planning takes all the magic out of it! It's more romantic when it just happens! Total bullshit, of course. Nothing just happens. Every step is considered and planned, at least somewhat. Women are passive, but men have to act. We can't wait for the right moment, we have to make the moment happen. But they need it to to appear effortless. Young women overwhelmingly believe they are special snowflakes. They don't want to admit they… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 01:46 AM |
| 28 | Scott Adams summarizes some key points about beta malesI know this is a bit off topic, but I wanted to address the concept of a beta uprising. It is pure bullshit. There never has been, and never will be, any beta uprising. In times of genuine hardship, "betas" are forced into the conflicts they usually avoid. Think of the World Wars, the Great Depression, etc. Real life and death crises. Avoiding conflict is the #1 defining beta trait. But when you force them to fight, what happens? Not all, but many, stop being afraid of conflict. They are tested … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Eric S Raymond, Open Source community giant, prominent Linux Kernel maintainer and a man of tremendous stature, sticks his neck out to warn about SJW/Feminist "Honeytraps".their success shows that bleating works. It works for women only because they are a protected class. It doesn't work for the MRM. It won't work for techies either. TRPers fail when they attempt to take down SJWs with logic TRP doesn't try. We aren't activists. We're not fighting. Granted, TRP is not a homogeneous group, there are some exceptions, but by and large, we don't engage SJWs -- we shun them. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 07:02 AM |
| 33 | Dan Bilzerian Sleeps With Bodybuilding.Com Founder Ryan DeLuca’s Wife...and posts it on instagramWho gives a fuck? What are you so excited about? Rich guys get bimbos, bimbos are unfaithful. Even the bluepill knows that. Gossip mongering shitpost. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 06:37 AM |
| 4 | Should mydaughter be directed to red pill women?I agree with the other commenters. RPW isn't going to help. There is no silver bullet, no quick fix. You have to do this yourself. Be as involved as you can. Talk to her when she's willing to listen. It might be a while. Ex's whisper poison in their children's ears. You can reach her, but first you have to get past any barriers. That means earning her trust and respect. Be rational and reliable. You're there for her, but don't let her manipulate you. The odds are greatly against you. Any advice … | /r/RedPillParenting | 08/11/15 08:27 AM |
| 7 | Hooking Up When You’re an Anti-Rape Activist - Comedy GoldShort answer: It filters more and runs faster. There are a lot more reasons to switch. ABP is shady. But this is TRP, not a tech forum. If you want the full details, Google it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Kickstarter for a movie about men's rights that's called "The red pill"Feminists are not afraid of men. Men are weak and beaten. Capitulating to the mob, left and right. The war is over. Feminism won. But they are afraid of other women. They know how quickly and easily they can get kicked out of the club. They're not scared of hearing speeches from beta male Internet nerds. They're afraid their reputation will be linked to something that is not viewed as 100% pro-Feminist. They're afraid that even the pretense of fairness will damage their social standing within th… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Some tips for those starting outAnger is only one of the phases. Wait until you get to grief. That kicked my ass the hardest. It is a long road to acceptance. The most efficient route is to allow yourself all those feelings. Don't suppress them. It is also a long road from skinny/fat to athletic. Stick to your schedule and work your plan. Discipline is the God all great men worship. Stay on both roads. Progressing on either one will help you accelerate the other. Your goal is a strong mind and body. That is an admirable pursui… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Beating down the doubt and taking the risk! 47MI'm in my 40s. Before TRP, I had some happiness, some fulfillment, some action. I was above-average. A 70th percentile male. Good enough to have some fun, but still below the bar. I was foolish and got married. Became comfortable and lazy. The divorce was predictable and expensive. After embracing TRP, it's a night and day difference. I am much happier, much more fulfilled, and having much more sex. I may not be top 20% compared to all these young studs, but measured against other guys in our ag… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 06:59 AM |
| 6 | 40 things college girls say and what they actually meanNo one is perfect. We all slack. We all get comfortable. Laziness is every man's top vice. Every stumble and failure is life giving us a kick in the ass, so we get it back in gear. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 05:44 AM |
| 3 | That awkward moment when the Left must choose between Richard Dawkins and "X is a social construct"I wholeheartedly agree, especially as we continue through this election cycle. Yes, you'll see some expert examples of holding frame. And some examples of those who break frame and ultimately fail. Those are the only relevant lessons. Everything else is pointless theater. Aligning yourself with either side, letting yourself be distracted by the media circus, believing that any of these professional liars are worth a damn -- this is pure bluepill folly. Any RP man should be able to see through th… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 05:36 AM |
| 12 | Diagnosed with cancer: need a Red Pill Plan (pt. 2)I'm not going to share my tragic story. You have enough on your plate already, you don't need mine. Instead, I want to talk about what came later. At first I was surrounded by sympathy and love. Family and friends were great. They really tried. But no amount of kindness could lift me from my misery, and eventually they were exhausted. I don't blame them. They had to get on with their own lives. So I was left alone. I no longer recognized the man in the mirror. Never mind the physical changes, hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Sex and the City was a major cultural influence that caused so many post Wall 30 year old Spinsters to formAgreed. Reliable BC was the other factor in the equation. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 03:43 AM |
| 54 | Sex and the City was a major cultural influence that caused so many post Wall 30 year old Spinsters to formSATC was behind the curve. I saw real life women doing that shit at least a decade earlier. I'm in my 40s. I'll bet we can get a few 50+ brothers in here to tell us that city girls were like that in the 70s and 80s too. The CC took off once women started earning their own money, rendering the male BB strategy obsolete. That is the cause, not some vapid TV show. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Single dad, need some helpTherapy does help, but it takes time. However, there are too many shitty, useless therapists. Some are incompetent. Others are charlatans, who will endlessly milk you for money. If after 5-6 sessions, the therapist can't explain what is going on with your daughter, it is time to try a different therapist. A good therapist will be able to explain the problems and outline a plan to make things better. Unfortunately, finding a good therapist can take longer than resolving the underlying issues. Goo… | /r/RedPillParenting | 07/10/15 02:04 AM |
| 30 | Here, in video form, I present to you the young American women of today.Ultimately the same. You're both chasing silly numbers. The games have points, levels, etc. Social media has number of likes, shares, etc. Both are pointless treadmills. Endlessly going nowhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 05:36 AM |
| 15 | Here, in video form, I present to you the young American women of today.I've met many women who started watching sports because it was the only way they could connect with their fathers. Some genuinely come to like it. Girl I'm dating now is actually fairly knowledgeable about cars. More than capable of doing small repair jobs. Restoring classic cars was the only thing her dad was passionate about. When they desire a man's attention, they enter his world. Make sure you have something. She can't enter your world if it is empty. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 05:31 AM |
| 1 | [Career] Tips from an Attorney about starting your own businessGovernment business grants are indeed easier to obtain as a woman or darker skinned person. The wife, mother, or sister of the guy who really runs the business. The paper-only minority figurehead is so common it's practically a stereotype. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 10:25 PM |
| 2 | [Career] Tips from an Attorney about starting your own businessThe EntrepreneurRideAlong subreddit is worth a read for anyone who's never seen it. Don't bother subbing, just read the sidebar/top posts. It is essentially the story of a guy who identified a pair of low-entry markets (maid and lawncare services) that had primitive online presence in his city. His competition, some of which had been around for decades, were still doing business as if it were 1990: relying on yellow pages and circulars to find customers. These were sub-bluecollar industries that… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 10:20 PM |
| 87 | "13 Men Reveal Their Thoughts About Marrying Their Long-term Girlfriends." Buckle up.a three-way relationship with the government Too many men learn this the hard way. Every marriage is a threesome: you, her, and Uncle Sam. The early years, you barely know Sam is there. A license for the marriage, and some minor changes at tax time. Other than that, it is pretty easy to forget all about him. Life is good. But Sam is just being patient. The marriage hits a rough patch after your first kid is born. Fortunately, things get better. You both genuinely enjoy being parents, so a couple… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 03:30 AM |
| 17 | Dan Brewington & Why Family Courts Should Be Abolished for Courts of Law.Lovely choices you present here: Leave your home, family, and friends. Rebuild your entire life and career in a foreign land. Marry a retard and hide her away from any outside influence. For 99% of men, "don't get married" is the only valid option. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 06:08 AM |
| 9 | Rant for my beta friendYou're procrastinating. Wasting your time and mine. Log out and get off Reddit. Turn off the TV. Put your phone on mute. Open your books and study. Pass your damn classes. If your house is on fire, you don't have time to cuddle in front of the TV. You shouldn't be wasting "energy points" thinking up retarded dating/RPG analogies. Go put out the fucking fire. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 06:07 AM |
| 9 | Rant for my beta friendWhat if I put the ice cream in my mouth, let it melt, savor the taste, but spit instead of swallow? Those unattractive female friends are safe, comfortable, and familiar. Is that what you want? A cheap feelz fix? Do you really think it will be satisfying? Do you really think you'll be content with just a cuddle? Of course not. You'll fall back into old habits. Piggy wants his ice cream. Don't use monk mode as an excuse. TRP is an applied philosophy. You have to get out there and meet new women. … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 04:43 AM |
| 8 | Death Denial and its ManifestationsAcceptance of death has long been regarded as a required step on the path to maturity. Freemasonry (in some jurisdictions) has a ritual where the initiate is left alone in a closed room to meditate on his life. He is then supplied a pen and paper and told to write his Will and a farewell letter to his family and friends. He is forced to confront his own mortality before he can proceed. To acknowledge the inevitable. This life will end. I will die. "OK," you say, "I know I will die. Everything en… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 07:33 AM |
| 13 | Fastest way to dry up a pussy (courtesy of r/deadbedrooms)You should develop this into a top level post. It is good material. The only thing I'd add, is to cultivate multiple social circles. I have my conservative community group, my crazy drinking friends, and my intellectual/art/music crowd. There is almost no overlap between those circles, so not only do I appear to have 3X the friends of the average guy, my nights out have built in sense of variety. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 09:36 PM |
| 8 | The First A Man in Demand Conference – My ThoughtsI was only there for part of the morning. I was in town for business, and got called away at lunch due to a client emergency. Sadly, I wasn't able to return, so missed both Christian and Rollo's presentations. I also had a "this is going to suck" first impression. But what I saw of the speakers was solid. I agree that the Q&A segments were the strongest. Better than the prepared material. They were very interactive and much more natural off script. The audience was much better than I expected. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Defining (and Destroying) Your CodeIf anything, it is a conspiracy organized and imposed from the bottom. The masses hobble themselves, and then cry foul when the unencumbered outpace them. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 01:07 AM |
| 23 | Post-wall women tells the truth, that you become invisible after 50.I think the biggest shock to me was realizing that my entire worldview had been wrong FOR DECADES. Also known as The Red Pill. A sudden awakening where you realize that everything you were ever told, everything you thought you knew, was nothing more than a "polite" fiction. A thin paper covering over what would otherwise be a transparent and obvious mating dance. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 10:47 PM |
| 10 | Women want to enslave you.Do you even know any Muslims? Look closer and you'll see plenty of henpecked husbands. A Muslim wife may publicly present herself as subservient, but watch for the husband's quick glance to check her approval when making a decision. That weak fuck will answer for every misstep at home. Don't doubt it. Cultures, nations, and religions may differ, but AWALT. People are people. Some are strong, most are not. The weak are controlled by their women. Presentation is not reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 09:57 PM |
| 2 | StrategyThis post is honest and accurate. Anyone who finds it objectionable needs to set aside bias and read it again objectively. This should all be common sense. Lazy people are lazy and make lazy decisions. Stupid people are stupid and work harder, not smarter. The wise man takes the best course to reach his goal. Sometimes that will be the easy path, other times it is the hard path. But it doesn't matter: he picks whichever is best for him and his goals. This is about remaining flexible, self-aware,… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Men's Fashion Basics 101Ditto SoCal, Phoenix, Vegas, etc. Too many fashion rules are written for colder climates. We don't all have traditional seasons. Follow what works, ignore the rest. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Men's Fashion Basics 101That may not be a bad rule of thumb, but I still encourage doing some reading. Most sites will identify 6-9 face types and make recommendations for each. You may need a friend's help to properly categorize your face type, but it's worth doing 30 minutes of reading and an hour shopping for something you wear 15+ hours a day. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Men's Fashion Basics 101Less about fashion, and more about your face. Google "best frames for face shape". If you're still uncertain, go to a frame store. Pick a frame of each style recommended, and ask the clerk's opinion on which looks best. Repeat that at a few stores and see if you get similar answers. Unlike a piece of clothing, you'll be wearing these frames every single day. It is worth the time to get it right. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Men's Fashion Basics 101For shirts, pay attention to where the shoulder seam falls. It should hit your natural shoulder line. This is the one thing a tailor can't fix. If you're too tall/big/muscular fit into off-the-rack shirts, do a Google search for "made to measure." Take your best fitting shirt, measure it, and these sites will make a shirt specifically for you. It's cheaper and more reliable than buying the wrong size and having it fixed. I've had great results with Modern Tailor and Tailor Store. Once you get yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 03:41 AM |
| 39 | Breaking Up is Easy to DoI had a few of those explosive breakups in my pre-TRP days. Not a single one since. Back then, I was trying to win girls by showing them what a great BB catch I was. Stable, supportive, and empathetic. When a woman settles for a BB, she does not expect to be the one getting dumped. Her SMV is above his. She will rage! Post-TRP, I present myself as an alpha. Fun, wild, and exciting. Like a thrill ride, it isn't meant to be permanent. I am not offering stability or support. All discussions of long… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 09:06 AM |
| 67 | Breaking Up is Easy to DoLike how you should treat your boss when telling them you are moving to a new job. Exactly. Perfect analogy. Any time a subordinate gave notice, I never once gave a shit when they said they "enjoyed working here" or that I "was a great manager" -- all those statements come with a huge "but" attached. They don't change the facts, so leave it unsaid. Keep it short. I'm busy, and you just added to my work load. I now have a vacancy that needs filling. (And so does my latest ex-girlfriend... ba dum … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 07:05 AM |
| 94 | Breaking Up is Easy to DoA few notes on logistics: Plan the breakup. Do this at her place or somewhere you can leave. A crowded coffee shop or restaurant is not going to prevent a crazy woman from making a scene. The "public shaming" may make it worse. If you have mingled possessions, don't bring it up. If she mentions it, tell her to call you in a 3 or 4 days and you'll make a plan to exchange belongings. If she fails to return something of yours -- live with it. You should recover anything genuinely valuable prior to … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 06:39 AM |
| 186 | I am the guy in the NY Post article about the wife addicted to Ashley MadisonSnippet from the TRP comment on NYPost site that led OP here: Tom Petty -- ...you should read the subreddit theredpill. You are/were the beta provider for your wife and your wife want(ed) alpha DlCK. All women are like that. Which elicited this reply from OP: Matthew -- Agree with some but not all. She didn't want sex as much as attention. You are absolutely correct, she wanted attention. Specifically, she wanted attention from exciting and interesting men. However loyal, faithful, and dependabl… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Help! Vegas Club Game as a Very Short GuyClubs are loud and expensive. You already know that. Conversation can be impossible, so attractiveness and physical game are what you need. Your entire group needs a high energy level. You all must be extremely extroverted, dressed to kill, and top 20% in looks. Even one dud can sink your whole group. While some of the girls you'll see at Vegas clubs are simple tourists, many of the hotties are semi-regulars. They fly in 4-10 times a year to party. This is their territory. They are the experts a… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/15 08:56 PM |
| 3 | My No More Mister Nice Guy recovery postRPMat's advice may have been correct for previous generations. Stand up for yourself and be respected. But feminists run the schools now, and they believe today's boys are tomorrow's monsters. I'd say keep your head down and stay the course. I remember 9th and 10th grade dragging on forever. In contrast, the last two years of high school fly by. You'll have more and more independence. You'll soon have a part-time job and/or a car. Get a gym membership. Join a team sport if it isn't already too l… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/15 05:06 AM |
| 165 | Women get stupid little dogs and baby them because they should've had kids already.Men, by contrast, treat their women like infants. Catering to her every whim and frivolous desire, lest she pout or cry. I think this whole phenomenon is a direct result of Feminism. In the Good Old Days, these men would've taken command of the relationship and established firm boundaries, eliminating her desire to act like a pseudo-infant. Hell, women are only acting that way because they're so desperate for a real man. They lower and lower the bar, behaving so immaturely that even a wimp could… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 05:59 AM |
| 13 | The Beta Mindset: Believing in FairnessThe man who rises from nothing may be rare, but those who squander their potential are all too common. We are all born with some advantages, big or small. Great men utilize and build upon these gifts. They become more than they were born with. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 06:47 PM |
| 7 | Body Language, Social Dominance and TRPYou've missed the entire point. There are so many things happening before your 3-step PUA interaction even begins. First, she sees you. With a single glance, she has subconsciously judged you in several categories: Genetic - height, facial symmetry, hair, ethnicity Fitness - weight, physique, size Social - style, companions, status Proper posture and body language gives an stronger, improved impression in all three categories. If she likes what she sees, her glance will linger. If you are alert,… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 09:08 AM |
| 11 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Her value is less than mine. We'll talk about what I want to talk about. Sounds all "Internet Tough Guy" when I write it out like that. Nothing could be further from the truth. For years I struggled with low self-esteem. Finally, I quit looking so much at myself, and began watching other men. I quickly realized I was holding myself to unrealistic standards. TRP talks about striving to become the top 20% of single men. Laughably easy! Half of all men are making ZERO effort, and the majority of th… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 12:29 AM |
| 22 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.For anyone who needs a more detailed explanation... Her: What do you do for a living? Me: We don't have to talk about work. I don't care WHAT you do, I want to know WHO you are. What makes YOU interesting? You're now demanding she demonstrate her value. She is auditioning for you. Basic bitches will be dumbfounded. They have no answer. Their life is bars, friends, and television. Watch them squirm, unable to answer. But if you meet a woman who can pass this screening, be prepared to answer those… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 07:58 AM |
| 1 | With TRP, age is just a number - an older perspective♂ Expertly stated. Biology encourages men toward behaviors that were optimal for millennia, but are counterproductive in the modern world. Only through vigilant awareness can we subdue and overcome those instincts. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 03:10 AM |
| 11 | Rollo Tomassi in Vegas – Man in Demand ConferenceI will already be in Vegas that week, so I bought a ticket. If it is the loser cringe fest you predict, I'll simply walk out early. I will have lost $47 and a few hours on an otherwise empty Saturday morning. That's an insignificant cost to me. This isn't some $800 PUA ripoff. It's dirt cheap. I've been around TRP for a while. Will I learn anything new? Maybe. Maybe not. But I expect, at the minimum, I'll have some conversation and a drink or two with some like-minded men. I don't expect some $4… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 01:56 AM |
| 10 | Every man can score hot women.You slept with her already. You self-identify as average. Presumably you did all the things she listed: taking the lead, making her feel good, being spontaneous. My conclusion: She wanted to hook up again. You're a past partner, you don't increment her N-count. You've proven you're not going to get awkwardly attached. She wanted a discrete, no strings, one night stand. You are the ideal candidate. Everything she said, all that crap about average men, she was not giving general advice to the mass… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 12:34 AM |
| 3 | 50 Shades of Red - Wisdom for Men About WomenIt is a maxim, it applies to most cases. If one partner has a SMV more than 2 points higher than the other, then yes, the lower person may tolerate a demotion. But this is not normal, people usually date at their own level. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 01:43 AM |
| 17 | 50 Shades of Red - Wisdom for Men About WomenAlpha and beta are broad generalizations. It is important to recognize that both offer traits women desire. Life isn't as simple as fucks vs bucks. An alpha is strong, exciting, and protective. A beta is stable, supportive, and empathetic. In a long-term relationship, all of these traits are necessities. In a LTR, you must be the right man at the right time. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 01:39 AM |
| 9 | Conning the Con-Woman, or being an Alpha Agent of Righteous KarmaThis is weak advice. Yes, you can make it work, but you'll be batting uphill. Striking out with women you don't even want before finding one who buys your lies. Post-Wall marriage-seeking women are especially on guard. They are trying to aggressively screen out time wasters. Guys who won't commit. Empty promises mean nothing to them, they've heard it all before. They want proof. She isn't opening her legs unless you're demonstrating provider qualities. That means paying for shit. The older the p… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 07:51 AM |
| 12 | "It Didn't Mean Anything!"Glad my post has led to so much great discussion. Allow me to confirm this: A woman that old, who is even mildly attractive, has undoubtedly turned down multitudes of "good men" who tried to lock her down into an LTR. During our first month of dating, she bragged about having turned down marriage proposals from two previous boyfriends. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 03:20 AM |
| 23 | Dirty SheetsI'm not cut out for branch swinging. I don't think most men are. Better to have that clean break. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Dirty SheetsRepeat after me: "I do not owe her an explanation." You have decided to end the relationship. It doesn't matter why. You have nothing to gain by trying to explain your decision. It will only make it worse. Stick to the facts: The relationship is over. You are not changing your mind. She is going to be unhappy. No one likes being dumped. But you are no longer her boyfriend. It is not your place to offer her comfort. Any attempt to soothe her will only make it worse. Once you leave, she will call … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 01:46 AM |
| 17 | Dirty SheetsSperm are tiny. Less than 1% of your cum. You won't notice any difference after the snip. I stained her sheets plenty... just not that time! Search online if you want more info. There are a lot of pages about vasectomies. Very common procedure. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 02:00 PM |
| 20 | Dirty Sheetsdo you honestly think she cheated just because "she wanted dick"? I have a feeling there's more to this than what she's telling you. You never truly know the mind of another. I could string together an endless list of maybes. Maybe I didn't give her enough commitment. Maybe I gave her too much attention. Maybe she wanted to sabotage the relationship. But I saw no signs of her desiring an exit. If anything, she was being both more affectionate and more sexual. Regardless, I believe what I posted … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 12:42 PM |
| 84 | Dirty SheetsI don't mind the questions. Why monogamy? Time, reputation, and stability. I'm a dad with a busy career. I simply don't have time to spin multiple plates. I'm also a bit older, with a big family, and fairly active in the community. Dealing with one woman at a time, I can screen them more carefully and eventually let them meet my kids, family, and community. No one looks twice if you have a couple girlfriends a year. It is considered healthy and normal. Personally, I like relationships. More spec… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 12:28 PM |
| 93 | Dirty SheetsStick to very low N count women or don't take the risk at all. Both those options suck. I'm too old to date girls in their early 20s. They annoy me. Every attractive post-college aged girl has a high N count. Without exception. So I choose option #3. Accept the risk, know the consequences, and enjoy the ride. It may not last, but the next rider is always just around the bend. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 11:09 AM |
| 18 | Dirty SheetsI've been in love before. I wasn't in love with her. I have the normal healthy range of emotions. Did I feel hurt? Absolutely. But it washed over me pretty quickly. I simply wasn't that invested. Chalk some of it up to age and experience. After a divorce and a half dozen other LTRs, you learn to recognize the difference between new relationship infatuation and enduring love. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 10:50 AM |
| 188 | Dirty SheetsValid concern, but... I already had my kids. Got a vasectomy years ago. Results verified by the urologist. She's known since the first date. It was never a secret. Some of her coworkers and family know as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 10:04 AM |
| 19 | Cheating wife tells her lover (me) how loyal she REALLY is.Sure, you can be the most alpha TRP husband ever. Tall, handsome, rich, and famous. So what? Still doesn't matter. Years pass and infatuation fades. Familiarity breeds complacency. Then boredom. Then contempt. Way back in the 80s, there was a popular picture of a shirtless, hunky guy with the caption: "Remember: No matter how handsome he is, some woman out there is tired of putting up with his shit!" Men aren't much different. That hunky guy photo was an imitation of the older and more popular v… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/15 08:26 AM |
| 8 | A high SMV is not going to get you sex with attractive women, especially not by itself.Opportunity is a multiplier. We do not stress this enough. Step 1 is to improve yourself. Increase your SMV. Looks, money, status. This is your product. Step 2 is maximizing opportunity. Finding the group, venue, culture, society, locale, etc. where you will encounter and interact with many different attractive women. This is your market. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 06:58 AM |
| 6 | That inexplicable 'gut feeling'. Trust it.When you are spending that much time with a woman, your attention is no longer meaningful to her. Not only is it taken for granted, it actually becomes annoying and unwelcome. You are sensing when she feels that way. It triggers those false alarms. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 04:42 AM |
| 36 | I think I finally understand why my girlfriend still loves going to bars while my enthusiasm has waned"She was the one flirting with me, not my problem I'm a sexy motherfucker. In fact, take it as a compliment. You have what all these other bitches want." That first sentence is solid gold. Cocky, funny, and lighthearted dread game. A+! But you undermine it with the explanation. "In fact..." and everything after is too direct. Don't spell it out for her. Let her make the conclusion herself and the lesson will be more memorable. Less is more. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away.You said it yourself: it is the energy, not the words. So quit trying to be intellectual. When they want action, give them action. At a party, attract them with your energy. Get them up and moving. Dancing or circulating. Lead them somewhere quieter. Now you can converse and escalate as normal. As for nightclubs... Do you have an athletic build? Enough to put you in the top 10% of men? If not, skip the club and go to the gym. Assuming you qualify, you'll be running a purely physical game. Here's… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 07:26 AM |
| 8 | This is absolute Gold: Maggie Gyllenhaal gets introduced to the wall by Hollywood producer. Reddit SJWs and middle-aged women go ape shit in the comment sectionPretend you're stuck with flawed vendor hardware. You can't fix it and you can't replace it. The vendor closed shop ages ago. There won't be any upgrades or patches. You can bitch all day and night, but it won't change the facts: This is what you got, and you're the one responsible for making it work. Fortunately, the platform's been around forever. Most bugs are well known and documented. Once you learn the workarounds, you can get it running. Your code may not be clean or elegant, but it works… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 06:14 AM |
| 28 | Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away.Experience. I can talk to anyone about almost anything. Like the gym, success is achieved through repetition. But for some immediate, actionable advice: Broaden your knowledge. I read Google News on my work breaks. The headlines and a few sentences of each story give me a dozen potential topics. Not just news, politics, and sports, but also entertainment, health, and culture. Make sure to add a section for your city and state. Life and schooling should have already given you some general knowled… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 07:41 AM |
| 20 | Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away.I dislike labeling people as Alpha or Beta. We use a lot of generalizations (because they are incredibly effective), but this one is too often crude and forced. I prefer talking about alpha and beta personality traits. We are all a mix of both. Alphas are aggressive, dominant, protectors. Betas are cautious, caring, providers. Every one of us has some measure of all those qualities. There is no pinnacle. No final form. We all know that a 100% pure beta would be the ultimate wimp. But likewise, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 07:02 AM |
| 12 | Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away.The men-women-children-puppies analogy is concise and accurate, but I'll try to offer a more direct answer. Love is real! It makes you feel alive. Happy, wonderful, and unstoppable. But it doesn't last. It is a hormonal high. A biological response, one rapidly diminished by time. The first time you fall in love you are completely overcome by feelings, totally open and exposed. It feels amazingly free. But one way or another, you are destined to get hurt. Youthful relationships end in cliche hear… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 06:36 AM |
| 14 | For the Girl Writes What fan boys, Karen Straughan lays down her opinion of TRPIf your population reduction conspiracy were correct, they would be aggressively pushing for the development of male birth control. Reality is otherwise. The problem with all grand conspiracy theories is simple: There isn't some monolithic group in a single smoke-filled room. There are thousands. Thousands of different, little, sometimes overlapping groups. Each pursuing their own agendas and constantly stepping on each others toes. Their inefficiency and confusion defines the scope of our freed… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 12:33 AM |
| 6 | The Asexual Female?I've been in more than a couple of relationships now where the woman eventually said she wasn't into men at all. They either left me for a woman or the straight ones cheated on me with another man Once is a fluke. You have a pattern. Giving without getting. The conclusion is obvious: You are not attractive. Physical, personality, or both. You need to change. You need to improve. Put aside this pretend relationship and dedicate the time to bettering your body and your mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 12:48 AM |
| 10 | Debtors prisons are an essential tool of our new public policy (1 in 8 men in jail for child support arrears)In the US, child support laws vary from state to state. So there isn't one answer, there are 50+. But for most cases, it is the same as in your country: A percentage of income. The crux of the problem though is twofold: If your circumstances change (lay off, pay cut, strike, injured, etc.), getting the payment amount lowered is a deliberately slow process. You may have to show multiple years of lower pay before a change is ordered. Penalties and interest continue to accrue. Even if you get the a… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Fuck Your Echo ChamberI don't know how to reply to you anymore. All you do is regurgitate a mixture of the same keywords and sentences. Feels like talking to a madlibs bot. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Fuck Your Echo ChamberI care about TRP. This forum and the men here helped me. They reinforced some things I knew, and taught me some things I didn't. I want to see TRP continue, so I contribute when I feel I have something to offer. Sometimes that can be as simple as calling bullshit on bullshit ideas. Other times it takes a lengthier explanation. Yes, I have a strong point of view. If you think I'm wrong, nothing is stopping you from posting a counter argument. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 02:46 PM |
| 10 | The hardest job on the planetNo one is discrediting the gender. Have women made accomplishments? Yes. But largely in spheres that men have ceded to them. Forget disposable fashion and other frivolities. I raised this topic on something far more important: parenting. Why are most of the primary caregiving parents female? Because the men are investing their time on providing security for their families. They deem this more important and difficult, so they leave the woman take charge of the easier task of taking care of the ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 12:54 PM |
| 13 | Get a hobby/ passion. Get good at it.And when you get to that point, and you've stopped trying to get your personal validation from "we got laid that night" [...] channel your energy and time into something that has the potential to benefit YOU later on in life, not by pussy but by money. We pass through different stages in life and our desires change. I'm in my 40s now. I've reached the point where money is no longer validation. To me, your motivated by money mentality is equally small-minded as the hedonists you criticize. Life i… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 09:03 AM |
| 17 | The hardest job on the planetBullshit. You are ignoring every point he raised and instead claiming he can't attract "decent women." This is a perfect example of post-modern discourse. Ignoring the topic in favor of attacking the author. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 07:34 AM |
| 14 | The hardest job on the planetI wrote an article almost a year ago, titled "The Greatest of All Parents are Men" Your "average dad" defers parenting to his wife, so that he can focus on providing greater security to the whole family. He willingly surrenders that space to her. But when a man CHOOSES to be a father, when parenting becomes his PRIORITY, no woman can match him. My argument, put simply, is that a determined man will surpass women, even in the most feminine of skills. Read the rest here: r/TheRedPill/comments/20sl… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Game over without good looks?I'd love for you to make a top level post of your experiences and perspective on TRP. One of the reasons I brought up guys with real disabilities is because I've seen too many posts from crybabies whining cause they're average. "I'm 5'7" and a 6, I guess there's no hope for me..." They make me want to scream. Motherfucker, go spend 30 minutes on Youtube and watch what some real men can accomplish even though they're wheelchair-bound, missing limbs, etc. They overcome genuine disadvantages and st… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 01:43 AM |
| 18 | Game over without good looks?Agreed. There are some guys who will never hit the top 20%. Sad fact is, some have no chance at all. Birth defects, crippling disease, chronic inbreeding, whatever. Some things are outside your control. Life isn't fair. However, 20% is just a goal. The theoretical bar where women start perceiving a man as "above average." A level most normal guys can achieve with 1-3 years of hard work. But don't give up, even if you suspect that is out of reach. If it takes all your effort and you can only crac… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 01:32 AM |
| 27 | On the value of quitting your jobHanding out apple cider and donuts at a clothing store? Must have been a Lane Bryant. I told him it was "$50 to find out." It always amazes me how many guys stumble upon their true career by accident. ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 01:09 AM |
| 33 | [Mod] May 2015 TRP Address 110,000: Surpassing mensrights - the men who saw the problem, then doubled down on their worldview.your only value to become a man is in what you can build, provide, or do. And past benefit does not provide future value. You must always be useful, or you are otherwise not. It doesn't matter if you were president. You keep on going. But we don't expect that from women. In fact, we don't even think of that for women. Womanhood is a state of being. Manhood is a state of action. You will occasionally hear a woman who has been diagnosed infertile claim she "no longer feels like a woman." The same … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 01:18 AM |
| 34 | Because White men won't commit...BB doesn't get laid on the first date. She doesn't work for BB. BB works for her. Before he gets to sniff that ass, BB has to demonstrate a willingness to pay, pay, pay. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 05:46 AM |
| 4 | Spontaneous Conversations - Do Not Let Yourself Be Cold CalledSolid response. Made me reevaluate your experience. You have obviously put some thought into this. The clarification "conversations with serious implications" changes the tone considerably compared the the original examples in your OP (unexpected call, raise request). Your concerns about conditioning expectations, owning your time, and defusing emotion are all valid and wise. With one small quibble: Smaller clients are delegated to reps, low-level employees to managers -- but my door was always … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 04:14 AM |
| 14 | Older men don't do better because they're older, they do better because they're better.While I agree with your overall message... The 30 year old guy who gets college girls has to work a lot harder than the 20 year old to get that same girl. Not quite. As a 40-something man, I'm not making any additional effort on a particular girl, rather I've built a framework that makes me attractive to MOST girls. The "work" has already been done. My old guy framework is the exact same we preach to all you young guys: fitness, status, and money (freedom). | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 03:16 AM |
| 6 | Spontaneous Conversations - Do Not Let Yourself Be Cold CalledDelay is better than fumbling, but expertise beats both. I have no problem with a new manager or young man using these tactics when caught off guard. So long as he learns and is better prepared for the next occurrence. It takes time to build experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 02:43 AM |
| 19 | Spontaneous Conversations - Do Not Let Yourself Be Cold CalledThis is a good post, but notice that you are able to handle your GF in realtime. You're not sending her to VM or telling her to come back later. You don't do that, partly from necessity, but also because of practice. As a man, you've experienced hundreds of relationship freak outs and shit tests. Some you may struggle with, but most you probably brush aside without hesitation. You introduce delay into your interactions with employees and clients because you need time to think and prepare. This i… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 02:19 AM |
| 17 | Woman posts in /r/nofap with strange logicWomen could sense when you masturbated about THEM Do you even read the garbage you write? The internet dissipates the desires. Yes, and your Internet ramblings are masturbation. Quit posting so much shit. You're jacking off in every damn thread. 25+ posts a day every fucking day. Go direct that energy towards something more productive. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 06:01 AM |
| 25 | Ex-wife who received billion dollar divorce settlement -- and appealed because she said it wasn't enough -- has her appeal dismissed due to greed.An extra $1000 would change your life? Then get the fuck off Reddit and go earn it. You've made over a dozen posts in the last 24 hours alone. How many hours does that represent? A tiny fraction of the time you've wasted on this site. You could've been finding shit to sell. Or working an extra shift. Or learning a skill to get a better job. Blows my mind people are so lazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 05:41 AM |
| 13 | The TRP Field Toolkit - Part 1: Attitude, Ego and IDGAF♂ New guys -- read this and then read it again. Accomplishments do not stand on their own. You have to have the internal steel to stand without them. Call it frame, fortitude, character, strength, or whatever. Do not focus on your accomplishments, focus on the drive that led you to pursue them. When you build your frame upon that drive, even your failures can become strengths. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 05:26 AM |
| 7 | Anyone ever LTR'd/married a woman that had a lower SMV than you because you wanted to avoid the bullshit?she has a 7/8 on her arms so she "BELIEVES" she is a 7/8 Well said and to the point. Women are defined by their men. If an injury or illness dropped your SMV to a 4/5, she'd feel like her value was dropping as well, and she'd likely respond by dropping you. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 05:13 AM |
| 9 | Girl forgets to lie about her n-count, makes lame attempt to reduce number, shows AWALT.I doubt 8 was an honest answer. When a girl thinks you're a sex god, she doesn't want to appear too innocent. Once a girl thinks you're relationship material, she doesn't want to appear too experienced. I don't bother asking. You'll never know the truth. Hell, she may not know her own number. Every girl has couple nights where she got blackout drunk and she isn't sure how far things went. Any number is bullshit. Why ask her to lie to you? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 07:48 AM |
| 17 | Bear Grylls the Island (keeping you guys updated)It is frequently said that the popularity of zombie/apocalypse stories are men desiring the return of a more primal system. Those without TRP knowledge are surprised that so many women are also fans of these fantasy shows. None of us want a catastrophe, but we all know such trials would make us grow. Both genders prize the men forged in difficulty. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 07:36 AM |
| 1 | The Five Stages of Red Pill, and how to read r/TRP textpostsIt is OK to be angry at the people who lied to you. But I suspect you're also angry at yourself. You were the fool who believed their bullshit. It is easy to forgive yourself for being fooled. Everyone, everywhere, RP and BP -- we all get got. It is unavoidable. However, once you've acknowledged your mistakes, it is impossible to forgive yourself until you make a change. Running is great, but it is solitary. If you want to be happy, you have to get out into the world. Getting out doesn't mean hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 07:09 AM |
| 2 | The Five Stages of Red Pill, and how to read r/TRP textpostsYou'll find this quote in the sidebar: Anger is a legitimate emotion in the face of injustice. You have good reason to be pissed. Don't try to suppress it. Let yourself be angry. We were lied to by those we trusted: friends and family, teachers and government. It is normal and healthy to feel upset by this revelation. But it will eventually pass. You'll realize that most the "liars" were really just fools, repeating the same bullshit they'd been taught. It is hard to hold a grudge against the ig… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 07:36 AM |
| 11 | AF/BB in action: guy's wife admits that she used to give blowjobs to his alpha roommate while they were in college.Of course we will. For one night? Yep. Luckily, she wants a relationship, so you're probably safe. No guy would ever lie to a woman, promising a relationship just to get sex. Even if guys were willing to lie, I'm sure she'd only be "fooled" by these hotter guys maybe five or ten times. Yeah, marrying an ogress sounds like a foolproof plan. You figured it out! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 01:28 AM |
| 0 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 2]A customer talks to one server. The server talks to 40+ customers per shift. If you're young, waiting tables isn't a bad part-time/summer job. It ain't a cure all, but it will expand your comfort zone. I worked a few months at a shitty chain restaurant. I didn't magically turn into a extrovert, but I did improve. I remember watching the really good servers. While I was struggling to talk to customers about the weather, they had people opening up about their personal lives. They had positive ener… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 05:00 AM |
| 15 | Reddit CEO bans salary negotiations because women are poor negotiators.You are correct. Many companies got quite frustrated with India. So now we find them engineers in Southeast Asia and Eastern Europe. Quality in SEA is still unpredictable, but Romanians and Bulgarians are highly skilled and reliable. They are true geeks who grew up hacking, not Indian "PHP School" drones. Outsourcing is not a "bad idea" that will go away. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/15 02:18 AM |
| 25 | “You wouldn't worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” ― Eleanor RooseveltThat quote does not belong to Eleanor Roosevelt. "You probably wouldn’t worry about what people think of you if you could know how seldom they do!" -- Olin Miller (1937) Even better is this similar, but much older version: "If any man would consider how little he dwells upon the condition of others, he would learn how little the attention of others is attracted by himself." -- Samuel Johnson (1751) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 04:40 PM |
| 113 | My girlfriend told me what I expected her to sayLot of guys giving you shit for spending money on a cliche Valentine's Day. Whatever. TRP is a philosophy not a religion. You are allowed to break the rules. Yes, your date was by the book, 100% predictable, but your girl is only 18. It's still new to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 06:15 AM |
| 12 | Never sacrifice a thing. Make her sacrifice for you.A good woman wants to know your preferences, especially when it is something you care strongly about. If she is invested in you, she will pay very close attention to those details, and will be incredibly proud when she successfully demonstrates how well she knows you. Instead you communicated a lack of trust: "I'll get it myself, you'd just fuck it up..." You may not have said those words, but that was the subtext. Not only did you deny her a chance to prove herself, but by reducing her agency, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 12:56 AM |
| 0 | Being an Oak in a Pregnancy/Young Kids situationIt is tax season, and I am short on time. I shouldn't be here at all... ;) You are welcome to expand upon my comment and make it into a top-level article. Please do! Those tips could be made less generic and more RP-specific by delving into more specific topics, such as: How to maintain frame with medical professionals How to calm a panicking mother Preventing her from overspending Leveraging well-intending, but meddlesome family Brainstorming lists is easy. Writing full articles takes me hours.… | /r/RedPillParenting | 07/04/15 12:25 AM |
| 25 | Never sacrifice a thing. Make her sacrifice for you.Many of us have trouble asking women to do stuff. Break that habit and establish precedence early. If you're hosting a BBQ, you have no problem asking Tom to bring some beer. Or chips. Or ice. He will gladly grab any of those. What if you told him you needed shampoo? Tom would probably look at you like you're crazy. WTF does that have to do with a BBQ? There's no logical connection. With women, no such logical connection is needed. You invite her to do something with you, have her bring somethin… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/15 06:38 PM |
| 17 | Never sacrifice a thing. Make her sacrifice for you.I'll be that asshole. Without even reading this And I'm pretty sure the gist of your life's story revolves around a love of inserting large objects up your own lazy asshole. You aren't expected to read every thread posted here. No one has that kind of time. But commenting without reading? Why? What value do you hope to add? Best case: You restate what OP posted... to an audience who already read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/15 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Being an Oak in a Pregnancy/Young Kids situationGreat submission. I 100% agree with the necessity to be proactive. 90% of the shit that happens in the first 3 years is predictable. Assuming your kid has no special needs, there isn't much variety. They all tend to follow the same script. (OP's advice above is great... the rest of my post is more focused on babies/toddlers.) A little preparation goes a long way. Do your homework. You don't have to become an expert, but you don't want to be standing there armed with nothing but a blank stare. At… | /r/RedPillParenting | 06/04/15 05:45 AM |
| 21 | Tips on how to cope with feeling like other people are watching you - Social AnxietyYou've probably seen some variation of this popular quote: "You probably wouldn’t worry about what people think of you if you could know how seldom they do!" -- Olin Miller (1937) Even better is this similar, but much older version: "If any man would consider how little he dwells upon the condition of others, he would learn how little the attention of others is attracted by himself." -- Samuel Johnson (1751) Reflect upon this. First you realize how little people are noticing you. You become less… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/15 07:46 PM |
| 13 | Documentary on Porn Shows Interesting Red Pill Perspectives [NSFW]Your answer combined with fake7272's is the sad truth. Same story for club chicks, bottle bitches, strippers, and even bartenders. Any girl who's job/lifestyle has guys drooling over her night after night. Sex, validation, and money are thrust in their face 24x7. Eventually all three lose their attraction and they turn to artificial excitement. For the last 50 years, the universal nightclub pickup closing line has been: "Wanna go get high?" Don't want to play with drugs or druggies? Stay out of … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 12:43 AM |
| 6 | Other guys in their early 30's... becoming more ambivalent about dating?You're overestimating women's valuation of monogamy. That's only first base in girl game. Women 21-26 aren't looking to settle down. Not even close. They are young and empowered and want to fully experience all life has to offer. The dominant older male is just one checkbox on their carousel list. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Other guys in their early 30's... becoming more ambivalent about dating?Politely disagree. I'm offering much more than a "better than being alone" scenario. This is an experience for her. Yes, I'm calling all the shots, but that's part of the attraction. I take charge and they love it. I'm providing an exciting yet stable AF outlet. She can have a wild time with an older man, while still being covered by the socially-acceptable "relationship" blanket. We both win. See my response to Soultrane below for further detail. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 12:27 PM |
| 9 | Other guys in their early 30's... becoming more ambivalent about dating?Nah. No need. We usually part amicably. Keep in mind, I'm 40+ and dating girls in their early- or mid-twenties. These aren't desperate post-Wall women. They're still in their prime. Not looking for or expecting this to end in marriage. Most importantly, I never present myself as BB. My lifestyle is comfortable, but not extravagant. Yeah, we'll do some holiday gifts and weekend getaways together, but there are no lavish presents or trips. I don't lead them on with false promises. There's no decep… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 12:04 PM |
| 10 | Shit Tests Are Attempts To Renegotiate For More In Exchange For LessPrenups protect the rich from the poor. If you aren't already rich, what's the point? You've nothing to protect. Future income is not covered. We had a lawyer post an AMA in TRP recently. He wrote a lot about prenups. Real advice. I suggest you go read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 11:01 AM |
| 5 | Other guys in their early 30's... becoming more ambivalent about dating?High school is a fish bowl. An artificial environment. Be patient. Work on yourself. Prepare. You'll have a head start once released into the wild. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 06:46 AM |
| 10 | Other guys in their early 30's... becoming more ambivalent about dating?The trick is to run the relationship entirely on your terms. Complete control, she's just along for the ride. It's easy when you go into it with your eyes open, knowing there's a preplanned expiration date. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 06:43 AM |
| 25 | Other guys in their early 30's... becoming more ambivalent about dating?I'm in my early 40s. My sex drive is still very high. But I no longer find thrill in the chase. Been there, done that. The game is just too repetitive. Too many late nights, too much alcohol, too much hassle. I can't do that every weekend. So I do short-term relationships instead. I don't have the time or patience to keep multiple plates spinning month after month, so I pick the best plate and offer a monogamous commitment. In any relationship, the first 3-6 months are the best. The least drama,… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 05:21 AM |
| 16 | New father, horrified by what our current mainstream American society wants my son to become.How old is his little brother? You don't know, so get off the soapbox. No one suggested that shit is appropriate for an 8-year-old, but zombies and tits are perfectly normal when you're a teen. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 11:48 PM |
| 23 | How Men Love / Male CommitmentAt best, they support us enough to allow them to continue taking from us All you new guys, take out a pad of paper and write that sentence 20 times. That is the best you'll get from your woman. There is a limitation -- a "glass ceiling" -- on how far any woman will go in support of a man. She will only reinvest a portion of the sum (time, attention, money, help, affection, care) that you are giving her. Beyond that point, you become a bad investment. Your girlfriend's clock is ticking faster tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 02:39 AM |
| 11 | The ring is back on my fingerA truly Alpha male never loses his wife. Post hoc ergo propter hoc. If you lost your wife, you were never a "true" Alpha. This is bullshit. On multiple levels. any branch swing must be "up" in rank LTRs, especially marriages, are not based upon being ultra alpha. They require a mix of alpha and beta behaviors. Both strength/arousal and comfort/security. The right amount at the right time. Since you can't read her mind, mistakes are inevitable. Only those with no knowledge of Heirarchy [sic] fail… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/15 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Girls can smell beta from a mile away, yet the second you stop, they are like whaaa?Girls rarely mention sex unless they're thinking about sex. But, I wasn't there. Maybe you're right. However, if you went from making out on date #3 to hugging on date #4 you fucked up. That is undeniable. Caution is fine, but don't be paranoid. Unless you're dating Wall aged women, most often a girl's "ulterior motive" is having sex without feeling ashamed. You have a lot of reading to do. It's worth it. Dig through the sidebar. In the meantime, feel free to use /r/asktrp for personal questions… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 05:35 AM |
| 11 | Girls can smell beta from a mile away, yet the second you stop, they are like whaaa?However, 1st date, she Freudian slipped about not generally the type to hook up with guys at bars That's not a slip. She flat out told you she wanted sex. "I don't normally do this... but I will tonight!" You didn't make the move. That's why she started seeing you as a beta. Girls don't want 5 sexless dates any more than you do. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 04:25 AM |
| 22 | Updated Glossary of Terms and AcronymsCovert Contract - An unspoken deal with terms the other party would never agree to. Most typically seen by orbiters trying to negotiate desire: "If I do a favor for her, she'll go out with me." Postmodern Discourse - Rather than responding with logical arguments, attempting to silence any further debate by labeling the opponent as bigoted, misogynistic, homophobic, etc. STR - Short Term Relationship. Time Ho - A girl who pretends to be interested, even though she has no attraction to you. Seekin… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 12:06 AM |
| 2 | How do you find the time to find women?There are times in every man's life where there just aren't enough hours in the day. Right now you're focused on your education, career, and body. You need to make approaching girls fit into your schedule, rather than trying to add more on the pile. I posted this in another thread yesterday. Tweaked it a little to focus on your situation: You probably do all your shopping at the biggest, cheapest grocery. That's fine, but choose a few items to get exclusively from Whole Foods, Sprouts, or whatev… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 11:31 PM |
| 6 | Post-wall woman writes 9 paragraphs on r/okcupid convincing herself that she's more sexually desirable than younger girls. Comedy gold.I agree. Back in high school, I was far more comfortable talking to the 8 and 9s compared to the 6 and 7s. I believed I had zero shot with the hotties. None at all. And no chance meant no risk. The above-average girls were actually within my reach, so I was far more worried I'd screw up. Of course, my anxiety was very noticeable and that screwed me up again and again. I wasn't rejecting the 8 and 9s, but I definitely wasn't showing any interest. Turns out, some of them were attracted to me, but … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Don't Obsess Over SexI've had someone recommend that I spend six months of deliberate practice with pickup just to get the skills down and gather the necessary experiential frames of reference, then when I'm proficient at it completely deprioritize it as it should be. I'd advise against it. Yes, you need to make some time for game. But work it into your daily life. Don't build your life around it. Two examples, day and night: You probably do all your shopping at the biggest, cheapest grocery. Choose a few items to g… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 06:21 AM |
| 130 | I started working on not being a nice guy at the age of 24, and started seeing results. 1.5 years later, I am starting to realize that I am consciously exploiting women for what I want. I am still not happy.I despise the fact that I am not perceived as a sexual being If you are having sex, clearly you were perceived as a sexual being. Your true gripe is that you're not a sex symbol. You're unrecognized when walking down the street. Just another face in the crowd. Most of us are. Not just 80%, probably more like 99%. You have to be pretty abnormal to stand out while just standing around. There's a reason musicians and celebs have an entourage. Without the stage and spotlight, most are unrecognizable… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 05:55 AM |
| 20 | A Cause For Concern - 27 personality traits to avoid in women.I don't mind it being edited, but some key points were lost when my comment was condensed. Explanations why certain things are warning flags. A tidy condo, for example, is not a warning flag on its own. I also think the distinction between a normal party girl and a professional is important. All party girls supply sex for access to trips, gifts, money, and drugs. The professionals treat it like a business. They are essentially part-time call girls. Unabridged version follows: Some additional sig… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 04:58 AM |
| 10 | If a woman lives in or has lived in Party World, she's already an Alpha Widow.I was getting a service for free that other men paid several thousand for. But that's like bragging because you received a free pop from the Coke machine. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 11:20 AM |
| 38 | Don't Obsess Over SexIt's important to find something in life that you love more than love, and more than sex, because then you always have a safety net when you fail, and you can live off of that rather than becoming a victim to the high price tag that comes with many modern women. This is the meat of the post, guys. You shouldn't be asking: "How do I get out of this dry spell?" Instead start asking: "What do you successful guys love more than sex?" All you thirsty fucks will get a girl some day. What then? If you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 10:55 AM |
| 48 | TRP and My NeighborsWomen don't understand the definition of "never." Having drinks with a couple. The girl was my fuckbuddy, many years ago. We remained friends after. Her boyfriend is an old buddy of mine. He knows our history. She's gossiping about a girl we all know. "She had sex with him on the first date. I'd never do that!" "You did with me," I reminded her. "Me too," says her boyfriend. She isn't phased at all. "Yeah, we did. But I never do that. Not on the first date!" | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 07:44 AM |
| 48 | If a woman lives in or has lived in Party World, she's already an Alpha Widow.Some additional signs of a party girl: Mention any club/rave drug. She can tell you all about it. Often with an OMG-so-crazy personal story. Believes money isn't important. It just appears when you need it. Endless stories of vacations overseas. Traveled more than most people 3X her age. Every job she's ever had was glamorous, impractical, and short-lived. "I owned an art boutique in SoHo for 6 months!" (Until her "ex" quit paying the rent...) Endless and vague list of former boyfriends. Some mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 03:23 AM |
| 10 | Some Miscellaneous Modnews.The key word in the prohibition is postmodern. [Postmodern discourse] will typically try, not to answer opponents with better arguments, but to silence them completely as ‘hateful’, ‘intolerant’, ‘bigoted’, ‘misogynistic’, ‘homophobic’, etc. As OP says in the next sentence, you are free to disagree and debate so long as you "keep it about facts and principles, not feelings or morals." | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 06:18 AM |
| 14 | [FR] “What makes you think you have a shot with me?”Shit tests, or, more properly, fitness tests, are a GOOD thing. They indicate that, yes, she is attracted to you, but she's not completely sure. When you blow them away, as OP did, the tingles magically commence Swear I post some variation of this every week. Thank you. Tests are your opportunity to be evaluated. They are the chance to prove your worth. A quality man should welcome shit tests, because he knows how to handle them. He can prove his value. An athlete does not hate the judges. A RP … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too.I agree 100% with everything you've said. Your statements are perfectly in line with what TRP believes about marriage. My only correction was when you said you weren't! ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 01:21 AM |
| 4 | Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too.Of course it doesn't sit well with TRP. I'm married. TRP tells guys not to marry because the odds are against us. The fact that you personally beat the odds does not change the math. I'm glad you have a happy marriage. But I'm not going to recommend single men take that gamble. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too.You don't have to be an asshole, but you can't be a nice guy. It isn't black or white. Putting yourself first is selfish, but it is also necessary. Every great man in history has made time to pursue their dreams. They willfully place their own goals above those of others. Yet being selfish doesn't necessarily make them villains. The selfless man accomplishes nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too.Good advice. Better still, make it two questions, not one. Wife and mother are separate roles. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 12:22 AM |
| 8 | Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too.What would you think of a man who falls in love with every woman he meets? Imagine if he buys an engagement ring any time there's a third date. Not once or twice, but a hundred times with a hundred different girls. Pretty pathetic guy, yeah? Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. If you're letting everyone in, you're a shameful gatekeeper. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too.Her first step in her decline as a woman is facing the Wall where she realizes: SHE WILL NEVER GET THE KING ALPHA We already have a term for this: Alpha Widow. When a woman realizes the best man is behind her, that she can never again obtain that peak. There is no hard timeline. It is not the start of her decline. More often, she doesn't realize it until several years after the Wall. Likewise, her settling for a BB provider can come before or after this realization, and before or after the Wall.… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 12:10 AM |
| 13 | Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too.we have to be completely honest to everyone we meet No, only be completely honest with yourself. Everyone else, you should award the level of respect and trust they've earned. With men, you can occasionally be generous. Give them the benefit of the doubt and show some small, extra honesty. With women, caution is the safer course. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 11:53 PM |
| 14 | Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too.It is in her financial best interest to postpone. She's in your wallet. If you're married, the rule of thumb is every 2 months of marriage is 1 month spousal support. Why should she rush? You are the man. We are the responsible gender. We are the ones who take action. Either regain your frame, or take the loss and walk today. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Why Get Married? (Part 7/7: Divorce, Assets, Alimony, and Child Support)♂ Thank you for completing this series. I found the historical context very informative. A much better general overview than I've seen before. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 11:49 AM |
| 6 | Watch your mouth, fap less, lift more. Simple advice, but difficult to apply.Knowing that all I can do is lift, read books, and self improve increasingly makes me feel trapped. Those are things that you can also do in prison. I don't understand this statement. Why is that all you can do? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 08:43 PM |
| 41 | How to create an interesting conversation out of nothing?I'm not going to offer you any specific tips. Honestly, I don't think you've figured out what you want yet. Who do you want to be? I will make two general points: POINT #1 I am the type of guy that is only approached when people need me... Just like everyone else. Alpha, Beta, male, female, celebrity, or bum. Doesn't matter. No one approaches someone unless they want something from them. It is your responsibility to have something to offer. You have tech knowledge? People will come for you for t… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 10:32 AM |
| 1 | The Education Gap♂ A quick Google search supports your claim. I was unaware female onset was that delayed. My only experience with schizophrenia involves a close school friend who became ill during his teens. I had done some reading, but clearly not enough. Thank you the the correction. Very interesting. Is there any theory on why women develop symptoms so much later? Edit: For the curious, the average age of onset is 18 for men, and 25 for women. Males typically become ill between 16 and 25. Women develop schiz… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 12:39 AM |
| 3 | The Education GapGrading bias is a factor as well. There have been multiple studies showing boys' scores improve when tests are anonymous. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 11:36 PM |
| 2 | The Education GapNot that late. He was 10, so mom was late 20s. More likely, the mental issues predated the divorce, but his father had been providing stability, coping, and cover. With his father's presence removed, the truth was revealed. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 11:33 PM |
| 63 | The Education GapI was the same way, brother. Understand completely. Never met my father. Raised by a single mother, a widowed grandmother, and two divorced aunts. Zero male family members. My childhood was a tempest. No stability. Gas or electric was shut off every other month. Random boyfriends would "rescue" my mother... for a month or so. Pathetic men, often with substance abuse or mental health issues. When I was 14, my grandmother was hospitalized. My mother and her sisters were in hysterics. I had to step… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 02:06 AM |
| 5 | Rapper Ludacris wins custody over his daughter and receives child support from ex!Cool, no worries. May want to edit your post to mention possible hoax. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 02:59 AM |
| 11 | Rapper Ludacris wins custody over his daughter and receives child support from ex!Wouldn't be first time a mainstream gossip magazine got suckered by the Internet. I'm staying skeptical. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 02:57 AM |
| 110 | How TRP has changed my relationships with my parentsGiven the ludacris trolling we've had today, I was slightly worried this would turn into a FR... ;) Good job, man. Glad things are going well for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 02:09 AM |
| 38 | Rapper Ludacris wins custody over his daughter and receives child support from ex!Yep. We've been trolled, guys. Good job, /u/yesidoes -- ya got us! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 11:19 PM |
| 4 | FAQ MegathreadYou are trying her out for compatibility. Tell her you're doing this [to] "See if we like each other". [...] They aren't used to being screened. This advice is golden. Only suggestion is to change the line to: "Let's see if there's a spark." Remember, in women's fantasies, attraction is a magical connection outside her control. Something that just spontaneously happens. This is bullshit. Men make attraction happen. But get her looking for a spark and she's more likely to feel one. You're also ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 07:01 PM |
| 7 | If you're not inherently "alpha" / "dark-triad", then what is the point of spending so much effort being someone that you're not?Kill your ego. Beware any internal belief statements that begin "I am (am not) the type of person who..." Those are all lies and you know it. It is a false identity. Whenever you act contrary to these beliefs -- and you will -- you experience some level of self-loathing, shame, or guilt. That is stupid. We are all hypocrites, every damn one of us. These all/nothing declarations are sabotaging thoughts. Setting yourself up for failure. Accept your faults and eliminate these beliefs. You are who y… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 09:23 AM |
| 59 | Tinder is about to die; another reason online dating is a waste of your timeYou are wrong. Tinder is going after beta bucks. Guys who need 1,000 swipes to get a single match will have to pay for premium. Chicks will happily continue being selective, swiping only 2-3 men a day, for free. The Passport feature will also be used primarily by men. Guys changing their location to another city a few days before a business trip. Thirsty men hoping to line up a date with a local girl. Chicks don't need to do any advance legwork. Attractive men can still have success using Tinder… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 07:14 PM |
| 41 | TRP is not another PUA. You can't just use it as a technique to land a girlfriend/wife. Truth cannot be compromised. You need to do the work and really change your thinking to reap its rewards.Upvoted. But time for some fundamental reminders... Alpha/Beta is an analogy that frequently fails in the animal kingdom. It performs even worse amongst humans. It is a lazy shorthand at best. Alpha and beta are terms best used to describe behaviors, not people. Straight talk is masculine, direct, and powerful. We frequently use broad generalizations and analogies because they are useful and compact. But we know they ain't 100%. Disclaimers (such as this) are assumed and considered unnecessary. … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 10:02 AM |
| 51 | Understand your womenthe fact that you have a daughter and your wife still has these kind of conversations with you All women do this. All of them. Doesn't matter how RP you are or were. They're going to test you. They need to test you. It is simple biology. As a RP man in a LTR, you WANT your woman to test you. When a woman comfort tests you and you pass, she feels comforted. When a woman shit tests you and you pass, she is attracted. In both cases, her belief in you is confirmed. She is reassured. She chose a good… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 07:08 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Tinder: Dates, Profile + fishing this past week (first week on tinder) What worked and what didn'tHe is right. Girl #4 is a classic Time Ho. You really think she was too innocent to comprehend multiple sexual comments? Is she 12? No. You're openly displaying desire. She acts oblivious. You reward her with more attention. And more and more and more. Those weren't walls, they were hoops. All that chasing, and you "barely got a kiss out of it." Unmatch, delete contact, move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Beauty, Charm, GameHe said: she [...] doesn't Shit Test I replied: All women shit test. [...] A "charming" woman might shit test less often You replied: Yes all women shit test [...] it is possible for a woman to be a pleasant person Our statements are functionally identical. Women shit test. Even good ones. He is stating that good women do NOT shit test. He is wrong. You said shit testing is ingrained in their biology. I said it predates language. Again, we're saying the same thing. He claims some women are diffe… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Beauty, Charm, GameWe should all call bullshit when someone posts "Princess Charming" nonsense on TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Beauty, Charm, GameAs a woman ages her physical atrributes decline, but if her Charm remains strong and she remains a good co-captain that doesn't Shit Test then it makes sense to continue to have warm feelings of Beauty towards her. Fairy tale bullshit. All women shit test. All women. Your mom did it. your grandma did it. Your great grandma did it. Shit testing predates language. A "charming" woman might shit test less often, but she still fucking does it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 03:07 PM |
| 9 | Dressing older as a younger guyIt can work, but be careful not to make yourself look boring. Husband material. Girls aren't attracted to older men because of our fashion. They like our stories, status, and experience. They hope to tag along on our next overseas adventure. We can dodge the "husband material" label because we have the advantage of NOT being a peer. We are outsiders. You are not. Regardless, I'd keep at least one "young" accessory. Belt, watch, shoes, whatever -- something that is hip and modern, not classic. A … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 03:48 AM |
| 23 | Dating and the Alpha Single Dad (part 2) : Beware the Dummy Datethis single Mom of two gently put my arm around her. She said “I don’t really like public displays of affection.” “I want to go, but not get into anything heavy. Maybe just dinner.” Strike one, strike two, strike three. All before the second date. First of all, I meet for drinks first. Have one drink and determine if you want to escalate. If she wears a ball cap and no makeup, the date ends at the bottom of the first glass. Much better approach. If the plan is to get dinner (never on the first d… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 10:53 PM |
| 32 | "I'm a strong, independent woman"!The women who make these statements are trying to convince/motivate themselves. Your mom didn't have to say it. She had already internalized it. She believed it and made it real. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 08:20 PM |
| 17 | What if women don't have higher rates of mental illness at all? (a tough pill to swallow for feminists)It's both. Activity holds depression at bay. Depression saps your desire for activity. Some days you win. You get out and live, laugh, and love. Everyone thinks you're fine. This is the active depressed person. You see them all the time and don't know it. Other days the depression wins. You stay up all night with booze, Netflix, Internet, whatever. You call in sick at work. Sleep until 3pm. No big deal, assuming it only happens once or twice a month. But once the depression starts winning more o… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Realistic ExpectationsThis is an important lesson to learn. There will always be someone better. We don't tell guys to be the top 1%. The 20th percentile is where the RP bar is set. You can get there by being a generalist. Climbing higher requires specialization and sacrifice. Diminishing returns of happiness. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 03:04 AM |
| 8 | The future and RedPill. How will longer lives, automation of industry, less jobs, genetic manipulation and other factors affect our behavior and sexual strategy?Another old guy here. We were promised all this back in the mid-80s. Every single item on your list: 200-year lifespans, robots, VR, artificial babies -- we were told we'd have them all in the year 2000! There have been advances in each, absolutely. Maybe 10% of what was promised. But the humanity-redefined stuff is always "10-20 years away." I agree with the other guy. Not in my lifetime. But, just for kicks, here's my RP take on each: Longer Life - Unless they can figure out a way to replace o… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 02:43 AM |
| 1 | My first experience with a deceitful woman; Can't wait to have moreFirst, congrats on trying it in the real world. Keep at it. TRP is an applied philosophy. You have to use it to understand it. Don't try to be clever. Be direct. Guys ask out girls every day. You don't need to be original, just get the job done. A simple approach is better than letting opportunity pass because you couldn't think of something clever to say. Two attempts to contact is the maximum. Noon and 5:00 was fine. But by 7:00, you knew you were being stood up. No need to call. No passive-ag… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 09:44 AM |
| 13 | Realistic ExpectationsA mod deleted it. In fairness, the guy's post was pretty thick with pep-talky statements: "You can be a millionaire in X years!" I don't blame the mods for removing it, or even some people being critical of his claims. But it wasn't a shill. Multiple people in earlier threads did ask for his story. Some guys got butthurt because his story wasn't new or exciting. There was no magic solution. Just the same old practical advice, being in the right market at the right time. Most rich people get rich… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 06:08 AM |
| 2 | The facets of AWALTThis is a mild form of what we call a Covert Contract. You're thinking: "I did a favor for this girl, she owes me a favor in return." But you never said that to her, and she never agreed to it. The contract exists only in your mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:24 AM |
| 43 | Realistic ExpectationsWere you an expert the first time you stepped in the gym? Too many of these guys are still on the couch. Trying to assemble some perfect plan before they take action. They need to quit reading about it and start doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 04:50 AM |
| 18 | Realistic ExpectationsI agree! But act on the best advice you have. Don't wait around for the perfect solution. Start now. You can always keep learning. You can always improve and refine. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 04:22 AM |
| 37 | Realistic ExpectationsYeah. Another excellent example. In all these cases, the answer is too simple and requires too much effort. Laziness is the enemy. Waiting for a perfect solution instead of trying a realistic approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 04:13 AM |
| 11 | Monogamous LTR vs Harem style many girlfriendsShort term relationships of 3-8 months with just one excellent girl, what I refer to as the George Clooney method. I've been doing this for the last couple years. I'm a divorced dad with a fairly successful career. I don't have time to spin multiple plates. I've often said here: "The first 6 months are the best 6 months." The beginning of a relationship is the fun part. That's the part I enjoy, so that's what I'm after. Those early months, when everything is still new, fun, and exciting. After t… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 10:41 PM |
| 12 | Medical Misinformation to disguise paternity?If you get that "I'm pregnant" call and you aren't married, I'd advise you to hang up and call a lawyer immediately. The vast majority of paternity fraud occurs amongst young, unmarried couples. Do not acknowledge or accept any responsibility. Do not accompany her to the doctor, do not speak of it to any family or friends, do not do anything until your attorney says it is OK. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 01:38 PM |
| 17 | Medical Misinformation to disguise paternity?10% of children have "mistaken" paternity Most studies put the figure around 4%. HOWEVER.... In cases where the father questions the paternity, the percentage of fraud skyrockets to 27%! Trust your gut. If you have any doubt, demand a test. (Source: http://jech.bmj.com/content/59/9/749.long) | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 01:18 PM |
| 7 | The Rational Male – Memento MoriI socialize and work with a lot of old (65+) men. Several hundred of them. 10% are lonely old men. They had a wife/family their whole life and now they're gone. He's the last man standing. I think we can all understand and forgive his grief. 20% are miserable old men. They had bad fortune or just bad attitudes. Some people will never be happy. I have less sympathy or patience for them. They got knocked down, and never got back up. The rest are by and large quietly content. They have some great s… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 12:07 PM |
| 34 | Please, stop complainingNot only is your post yet another complaint, it is also concern trolling. If you have read the sidebar, you saw this quote: Anger is a legitimate emotion in the face of injustice. New guys are having their eyes opened. For the first time, they are aware of injustice. Of course they're going to vent. The Mod team has repeatedly said they will never prohibit these anger phase posts. If you have read the rules, you know concern trolling isn't allowed: Concern "I feel like this sub is focusing too m… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 11:30 AM |
| 12 | Socialism, Feminism, Marxism, and the Four Basic Types of Human Interaction.This is beautifully presented. This model applies to relationships, groups, and governments. I'm in a bit of a rush, so just a couple stray observations: Trust is a meta currency. It is a shortcut to more beneficial systems. Think of the Old Boys Club, networking, etc. Once in power, socialists frequently use force to eliminate suspected bad actors. Proof is seldom required, only suspicion. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Posture, lifting, and confidence before anything else...Good job. Good gains. Sobriety in alcohol settings is an added positive. The fact you're confident while others require a crutch is noticeable. If any of you are a gym rat who's sworn off alcohol for fitness, you can still volunteer to be the designated driver. It'll get you out to socialize. Provided you don't act like a wallflower, you'll likely serve as the hub of your group. From afar, that appears as leadership. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 12:49 AM |
| 5 | [PSA] Self-Pity Race/Age Whine-Posts = BanhammerAll women want the same man. Their "type" is successful, confident, interesting, and strong. Physical factors (age, race, height, weight, etc.) are merely shortcuts to evaluate a man's potential. They are crude generalizations. Stereotypical indicators of the likelihood you will achieve those four desired traits. In other words: Physical traits only matter BEFORE you've become successful, confident, interesting, and strong. Achieve those four and you'll have access to all sorts of women. You'll … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 12:31 AM |
| 46 | On living abroad and the experiences you'll haveSome of you disbelieve his story. Doesn't matter. He is right. Go live somewhere foreign. Learn how to earn and survive in an alien culture. Throw yourself into another world. Even if you never experience the wild sexcapades he describes, you will live a more vibrant life than you will staying somewhere familiar. You'll test and prove your capabilities, building confidence and self reliance. If you choose to return, you'll be coming back with a collection of memories and stories that will make y… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 11:56 AM |
| 8 | Suggestion: Take A Break From Reading TRPTRP is an applied philosophy. If you aren't using it in the real world, you're only getting half the value. Take a 2 month break from TRP. Do away with all passive recreation (Internet, video games, television) if you can. Force yourself out in the world. You'll come back with a new perspective and many lessons learned. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 12:39 AM |
| 8 | How many of you tried numerous relationships and found they're just not for you?Put your cards on the table. Call a urologist and schedule a vasectomy. See if she still marries you. Not joking. It's a win-win for you. Do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 11:36 PM |
| 21 | True LoveYes, you almost certainly will. Put a reminder in your calendar for a month from now. All their old relationship problems will have resurfaced by then. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 09:15 AM |
| 22 | Guys in our 30s and 40s, we have it made. This pussy is our "competition."The greatest strength of youth in one word: RISK! You can take chances we cannot. Devote a year or two to becoming an artist, musician, or an athlete. All three endeavors where youth is an advantage. Chase a dream with all your passion and watch the panties drop. Be young, be stylish, be hip. If your dream fails, so what? You have time to recover. There's no stable career, cash flow, assets, or 401k at risk. "When you ain't got nothing, you got nothing to lose." --Bob Dylan | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 05:56 AM |
| 20 | Butch-dyke feminist takes high T, and it shatters her worldviewMen can not control their sexual urges and other factors any more than a woman can control having her period Shitty analogy. Men can totally control how they behave when experiencing sexual desire. Just as women can control how they behave while menstruating. So why do we forgive them when they slip? Because women are the gender without self control. Everyone knows it. Even them. ... we need to collectively realize ... needs to be accepted ... I feel when women can accept ... MRA bullshit. This … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Here's my Red Pill Story and a Lesson at the endOne common weakness amongst men is a lack of desire to change when they're happy. These men, when content, never improve. It is a mix of laziness, security, and naivety. They are satisfied with the status quo, and foolishly believe it will last. It is not coincidence that so many of us went through Hell before finding the RedPill path. We discovered the hard way that you can never be idle, you must always be growing. We learned how to defeat laziness and contentment. As csehsz said: you may have… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 11:31 PM |
| 17 | Are You Using "Monk Mode" To Avoid Discomfort?Just a reminder to any new subscribers... Monk Mode is not a starting point. TRP is an applied philosophy. You need to put it into practice. Introduce it into your current daily life, as is, right away. Push through all the distractions and obstacles. Continue until you start seeing some improvements. With women, fitness, career, whatever. Only after experiencing those initial gains should you consider Monk Mode. Monk Mode isn't magic. It is simple. You're just temporarily setting aside some dis… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 06:31 PM |
| 72 | The straw that broke the beta's back.The girl wanted to see two dudes fight. Or at least a cheap laugh. She's showing off to her friends. "I can make men do anything, even grab another guy's butt." What's sad is you're so blind you'd give her what she wants. It isn't strength motivating you to throw that punch. It's weakness. Lashing out because reality didn't conform to your ego. Puppet on a fucking string. OP ignored the guy and confronted the girl directly. He did it right, he went to the source. He quit being a pawn in her game… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 05:39 PM |
| 8 | IdealismBeing a housewife married to a hardworking man was cool in the fifties. The only reason women ever chose to be housewives was because labor used to be hard. Plowing a field or making dinner? Digging a ditch or changing a diaper? Building a road or running sweeping the floor? Sweaty work in a hot factory or taking the kids to the park? Pretty clear choice. Modern office work is not physical. It is not demanding. And it pays as good or better than those hard jobs. So why stay home? Being a housewi… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 02:24 AM |
| 11 | Guy exposes a cabal of reddit SJWs and their ties to the admins of reddit and creates a watchdog sub. Then the shit hits the fan.Funny, I read 1984 and F 451 during the Reagan/Thatcher era. My impression was they were leftist books. At the time, jackboot thugs, doublespeak, government in your bedroom, morality police, subverting schools, censorship, and anti-intellectualism were the tactics of the right. Conservative authoritarians. Isn't it funny how the left gained dominance and ended up using the same playbook? Politics is like women. Stop listening to what they say and pay attention to what they do. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 10:14 AM |
| 7 | Tolerate FailureMy Three Generation statement refers to the current generations that grew up under Feminism's rise (60s & 70s), conquest (80s & 90s), and dominance (00s & 10s). They were raised to deny and reject the reality of traditional gender roles. The Feminist system is broken. It is a horrible culture full of flaws. As you said, "the end product of foolish decisions and blindness." I agree 100%. Our core beliefs are in alignment. I'm simply making a few finer points: Shit tests, hypergamy, etc. are not t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 03:07 AM |
| 9 | Tolerate FailureYou do shit test your boss. We all do. When he fails, you go grumble to your buds, "This fool shouldn't be in charge." If he fucks up severely enough, someone will try to replace him. Charm is the behavior when status is without question. STATUS IS NEVER WITHOUT QUESTION. It is always being evaluated. Shit tests existed before Feminism. It existed before language. Apes shit test each other. I am not disputing the value of charm. I dispute its connection to shit testing. I am also an older guy. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 08:27 PM |
| 20 | Tolerate FailureNot just hyper-cognizant, but hyper-sensitive. It is like a raw, exposed wound. you can control every aspect of the world around you One of the biggest cognitive biases around. Probably the most frequent source of anxiety disorders. A poker player can practice his skills for thousands of hours. He can study his opponent's game and utilize betting strategies to maximize his odds, but he can never control what card is on top of the deck. Poker is a game of skill, but there is still an element of c… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Tolerate FailureShit testing is not the opposite of charm. Nor is it a lack of respect. It is a tool all women use to measure all men. In the academic world, they call them fitness tests. She is verifying you are still fit for leadership. Nothing more. In fact, the more unshakable your frame, the higher value you appear, the more likely you are to be tested. Passing her tests is a turn on. No woman punches the skinny guy in the arm. Every one of them slugs the beefy dude's shoulder. Because they know he can tak… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 07:26 PM |
| 3 | "I'm OK with sharing you with other girls, although I don't like it"Good shoes demonstrate: You recognize and value quality Able to maintain their condition Attention to detail Maturity/dignity True for any accessory, not just shoes. Watch, belt, tie, jewelry, whatever. If you're over 30, aim for a timeless, classic appeal. (Feel free to break the rules with one item, but only if it is special or unique.) If you're under 25: Ignore the previous paragraph. Embrace your youth. Cool and trendy will look better on you. Enjoy it while you can. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 11:39 AM |
| 8 | Blissfully unaware of the wall, NYMag reporter recommends "voltron" style of hypergamous multi-man relationships.Exactly. Spinning plates works for men because we can still settle down in our mid-40s. A 45 year old man can toss a dart with his eyes closed and hit a 30-something woman desperate to marry. A 45 year old woman? The only guys who want her are 60+. She'll walk him to the grave while serving as nurse, cook, and maid. Hoping and praying he leaves her something. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 10:45 AM |
| 7 | Blissfully unaware of the wall, NYMag reporter recommends "voltron" style of hypergamous multi-man relationships.in the span of 3-5 years. The ones who hit the Wall hardest are frequently in a relationship during those years. Imagine a woman at 30, still having fun being single. Center of attention at her local hangout. She meets a guy and they're together for 5 years. Whatever the reason, they split. Stepping back into the dating scene at 35, she's in for a rude awakening. She isn't invisible. Thirsty guys are still thirsty. But where have all the good men gone? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Why does RP fear marriage?Did you even look for the answer before asking this question? A prenupt usually only protects assets you already own. She'll still get half of everything you make during the marriage. A prenupt can be ignored or thrown out. Common reasons: She did not consult an attorney before signing. The same lawyer represented both bride and groom. She signed under duress -- a wedding date was already set, plans announced to family, etc. A prenupt can not specify child support or custody. The main reason mos… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Going after girls from wealthier/more affluent backgrounds.I've never seen any correlation between socioeconomic status and looks, ether. Go look through some pre-WW2 photos. As the country became richer, women became significantly more attractive. A lot of what used to be exclusive to upper classes is now mainstream. Corrective dentistry and braces. Dermatology. (When was the last time you saw a college girl with excessive moles/warts on he face?) Corrective surgery, from nose jobs to LASIK. Hell, even contact lenses used to be a luxury. Pretty much ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 05:28 PM |
| 9 | Wrong Friends Turn You Into A Shadow Of A ManNot a bad piece. Read a couple related articles. You're heading in an interesting direction. This article is about living an honest life. Being authentic. Uncensored and exposed. TRP does a good job advocating honesty in some regards. Show her your intention, don't pretend to be her friend, etc. Useful advice and correct. We talk a lot about caution here, too. Don't shit where you eat, don't talk about TRP, etc. Again, useful and correct. (Especially for new guys. You have to learn the rules bef… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 08:38 AM |
| 5 | The backlash has begun, how far will it goWhen the cabin loses air pressure, you put your own oxygen mask on before helping your child. So what? Both analogies are irrelevant, because both are disaster scenarios. We are not living in a catastrophe. It isn't Armageddon. This broken feminist society is the new normal. It's just life. Accept it. Make the best of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 09:19 PM |
| 67 | The backlash has begun, how far will it goTheRedPill is not concerned about fighting back. This is not MensRights. We are not activists. To understand TRP, you must first acknowledge that the battle is over. This war was fought in the 1970s and 80s. The Feminists won. We lost. Accept it. Learn to enjoy yourself within the broken system they have created. The old rules are dead. We live in an unfair society. One where 80% of men suffer, but 20% are allowed to thrive almost unchallenged. (Perversely, that 20% has more freedom than men did… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 07:58 AM |
| 4 | I'm thinking it's better to poach a girl and let her swing branches up to you then wait for a guy to widow herI made an incorrect assumption that you were a much younger guy. Apologies for any confusion. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. You choose when it becomes a relationship. Just as it is your job to attempt to escalate sex, she should be the one pushing to escalate commitment. Don't give it up too cheaply. Women don't respect men who commit too soon. As for cheating... We all know that women will cheat on a BB with a more exciting AF, but the opposite is true… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 07:33 AM |
| 18 | I'm thinking it's better to poach a girl and let her swing branches up to you then wait for a guy to widow her2 out of 3 of them [...] were widowed by the last guy An alpha widow is a woman who has experienced the best possible man she will ever encounter. Due to her diminishing SMV, she cannot reach that peak again. So unless you're dating post-Wall women, she isn't an alpha widow, your SMV is just too low. Fix it. Improve yourself. I have never let a girl branch swing to me. There is nothing wrong or dishonest about branch swinging. From a girl's point of view, it is smart strategy. Not letting go of … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 06:27 AM |
| 20 | Why Don’t Men Hate Being Single As Much As Women Do?You're spot on about identifying stress as the factor for both genders. Good summation. Occasionally nice to see it presented without jargon and acronyms. So, after a bunch of failed relationships, he realizes that he's happier and less stressed out when he's single. Back in my late twenties, I realized that only the first 6-12 months of a relationship are any fun. The only reason I stayed longer was laziness and scarcity. I thought it would be hard to find another attractive girl. Too much work… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 02:02 AM |
| 17 | The Golden CockClub girls are druggies. Bar girls are alcoholics. You are neither, so stay away from both. As my mom used to say: "If you don't want a drunk, don't shop at the drunk store." You say you lift. That means you're eating a lot. Do it right and include some fresh foods in your diet. Whole Foods, Sprouts, Trader Joe's, whatever equivalent is in your city. Make it a daily stop. Those places are a goldmine. Packed with fit, healthy, attractive women. In far better ratios than you'll find in any bar. Yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 02:42 PM |
| 36 | How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on TinderI tried a similiar post titled "Real vs Imaginary SMV" and it was brutally attacked You got corrected for misusing common RP terms and criticized for posting too often, when it was obvious you'd only done a surface reading of the material. My comment even said "I don't want to discourage you..." That was sincere. There was no brutal attack. Just one single post. Don't act like a victim. I wasn't trying to chase you off. Your partial reading is more than many subscribers have done. You clearly ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Where are we going?We all talk about never discussing these concepts until someone asks us first... well how is that supposed to work with my son? He may not ask until it becomes too late. I do set better examples for him to observe You may want to pose these questions on /r/RedPillParenting. The only brief answer I can offer is to reinforce what you already know. An example is worth a hundred lectures. For your older kids, do what all dads have done for the last 100+ years. Go on a camping/fishing trip. A weekend… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 05:13 AM |
| 32 | LTR shit-test by giving "Too nice to say no" as excuse for giving her number out.She made it clear she didn't want me to think she was interested, but she obviously is. Why else would she give out her number to another guy? Chill. Yeah, he was probably a decently high value man. A potential branch. But this is just a garden variety shit test. All she's really saying is "Other men think I'm attractive, you should value me more." She wants jealousy, she wants attention, she wants drama. Don't play the game on her terms. Remember which gate you control. "You want to take a brea… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 02:55 AM |
| 15 | Want to Redpill up? READ THE MATERIALS.You read the story but missed the message. You skipped everything, skimmed along until you found something easy to read, and then dropped some low effort, off topic comment. You are precisely the type of subscriber who needs to be beat over the head with this stickied post. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 01:49 AM |
| 59 | "It was like sex with a friend" #struggleneverdiesMany of you missed the point: The sex was good. She enjoyed it. She enjoyed him. But he didn't call her. She realized it was a one night stand, and that made her angry/sad/whatever. So she rewrote history. The quotes are from a week later. Face saving rationalization. Remember high school? A 9th grade girl gets dumped, heartbroken and crying, she tells everyone that will listen: "I never liked him anyway!" This is the adult version of that same childish behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Simplified action plan to spin plates♂ Mistakes are the best teachers. Just do it. Take a chance. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Carpe diem... All tired cliches. Yet every great man throughout history has lived his life according to some variation of this belief. Switching from thinking to acting is the greatest and most important lesson any man will ever learn. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Simplified action plan to spin platesI finally understand that there isn’t one woman who will do all this, rather it is the role of the woman at the moment, and it will be a revolving door of actresses playing the part, fading in and out Great quote. I deliberately chopped off the end of the sentence. Women will come and women will go. Sometimes you will know why, sometimes you won't. Doesn't really matter, does it? She had fun, you had fun, and the next fun girl is just around the corner. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 12:35 AM |
| 5 | Active & caring father teaches his sons "man lessons" and makes sure to include his daughter as well. Mother does "woman lessons" too. Women in /r/DIY explode with how OP is indirectly responsible for why their own lives are ruined.Children deserve a strong father. It is his duty to teach them what it means to be a man, a husband, and a father. Their father is the yardstick against which they will measure all future men. These lessons are imprinted during youth. "I'll fix it after they've grown up," is the same as saying "I'll fix it once it no longer matters." | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 11:18 PM |
| 11 | Sex is the ultimate motivator, and when it's abundant, what's the point of trying?Drop the alpha/beta distinction for a moment. All male currency used to be more valuable. It used to include safety and security. Those are now provided by the state. It used to include social standing and reputation. Those became less meaningful with the decline of religion and tradition. Affection and attention were another coin. Now so diluted and common, you stand out by not offering them. Even income, literal coin, has been undermined. She can earn as much as you, you're just more driven, m… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 07:12 PM |
| 12 | Mental Trick: How Would You Fail?Changing your perspective is very powerful. It is a proven way to find your blindspots and weaknesses. Good stuff! There's even one further benefit: "...why don't you just ask yourself what you do want, you idiot!?" Sometimes you don't know what you want. You don't have a plan, just an unsorted collection of ideas. Or maybe there are real options, but too many choices and you can't decide. You can still use this technique. State with certainty what outcomes you would refuse to accept. List resul… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 01:52 AM |
| 7 | Good news everyone, I am NOT the Father.Laws vary by state and country. In my state, marriage status (single/separated/divorced) does not change the formula. The three primary factors are: Percentage of custody Income disparity Number of children The base formula itself is very simple, but there are pages and pages of special rules: If one/both parents are disabled, business owners, active duty military, out-of-state residents, if the child has special needs, etc. My state is at least sensible in that there is a per child cap. An uppe… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 01:08 AM |
| 13 | Good news everyone, I am NOT the Father.Laws vary by state and country. There is some crazy shit on the books. Don't expect common sense from the law. OP: Talk to a custody lawyer. Initial consults are usually free, and your case is so simple that may be all you need. Cover your ass! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Narcissism: The Nuance Between Ego & ConfidenceGenuine narcissists are rare. If you meet an amazing, enthusiastic, eager girl, odds are it is legit attraction. You'd be a fool to pass her up. Either way, treat her like any other girl you're pursuing. Withhold validation. Make her earn your approval. A normal girl will play along, happily chasing the carrot. Because it's a fun game. A narcissist will chase the carrot because she needs it. Validation is her drug. Extreme neediness is the red flag, not the super powered social skills. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Narcissism: The Nuance Between Ego & ConfidenceGood post on Ego/Confidence. Useful stuff. In examining the traits and techniques of narcissists, we learn much of social interaction. Lessons we can apply. Studying individual narcissists themselves is less useful. OP rightly doesn't spend much time writing about them. They are broken people. Such examination only benefits those forced to deal with one. The rest of my post will do that. In a sense, it is off topic. You have been warned. My ex-wife was a narcissist. I can confirm and expand upon… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 05:24 AM |
| 8 | 45 Tips Every Man Needs to Know: Some solid Red Pills being offered up by the mainstream mediaYou haven't read the book you're criticizing. You paid to attend a sales pitch and you call others a sucker. Do you still dispute my diagnosis of lazy and ignorant? I trust you learned from your mistake in purchasing that seminar. You're not likely to do that again. I hope you (and others) learn from your mistake in this thread. TRP is not the place for lazy one-line quips. They do not add value. They're just noise. Wasn't my intention to single you out. I'm just vainly pushing back against the … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 03:23 AM |
| 8 | 45 Tips Every Man Needs to Know: Some solid Red Pills being offered up by the mainstream mediaI think you're full of shit and trying to spin. If you really had knowledge, then you willfully chose to make a stupid post. How is that any better? You could've posted your seminar story immediately instead of an ignorant one-liner. Take your bullshit back to reddit. Contribute or STFU. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 01:56 AM |
| 14 | 45 Tips Every Man Needs to Know: Some solid Red Pills being offered up by the mainstream mediaBook is about a dude who had a poor dad, but a rich dad later became his mentor. He contrasts the different advice the two dads had to offer. WTF is with all the lazy, ignorant posts today? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 01:18 AM |
| 8 | [Discussion] Relations with 'good' exes / dumped her long time ago.Normally I'd agree with the other guys, exes are a waste of time... but so much changes in life between 17 to 21. You guys were only together for 7 months. Shrug. Go for it. Have a fun nostalgia affair. But don't stop juggling other girls, cause this won't last. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 04:37 PM |
| 23 | Real vs Imagined SMVI do not want to discourage you, but this is going to be harsh. Hopefully you'll take it as a wake up call. You don't understand what an Alpha Widow is. She does not "live her life overestimating her value" -- she is pining for a peak she can never again achieve. Most experience low self esteem and depression. There are plenty of legitimate criticisms that can be made of PUA tactics, but the entire point of fake it until you make it is to "make it." If a man is actively working to make it real, … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Paternity Testing the KidsYeah, that's presumed paternity law in a nutshell. The crazy thing is, those laws actually benefit a lot of BB guys too. Spend 5-10 years raising a kid and you're going to have a strong bond with it, blood or not. Those laws actually help non-biological dads maintain contact with the children they raised. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 07:52 AM |
| 5 | Paternity Testing the KidsHere is the original post: https://archive.today/5mc3U There were some great comments, but a few people misread my article as a claim that women were deliberately setting out to orchestrate paternity fraud. Ha! Most women barely plan past the weekend. There is no malicious scheming. They are not evil masterminds. They are simply lazy and privileged. We've all met countless single women who run both a BB and an AF. One man buying her dinner, the other in her bed later that same night. Her competi… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 07:38 AM |
| 13 | Paternity Testing the Kids$80 is a bargain for peace of mind! Glad it worked out for you, bud. Not just the paternity. Congrats on turning your marriage around! Married men don't need to demand a test. Your own story proves that. Paternity fraud is low, estimated at 4-10%. The majority of married women are being honest. Frankly, even if they're lying, you may already be on the hook. Google "presumed paternity law" if curious. You can be held legally responsible, even if later tests prove it wasn't yours! But when there i… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 07:04 AM |
| 6 | The "excuse me?" shit test: breaking sexual rapport to see how you handle it. Opinions wanted.Dance monkey Dance... He is referring to the hoops this girl made you jump through before she opened her legs. Personally, I don't consider that a big deal. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. She wanted to see some proof from you before she opened her gate. That is a desirable trait in a LTR. His suggestion for a soft next is due to your final line: Or, more specifically, she wants lovemaking. He is suggesting you take control of the sex. Frankly, I don't think a soft next is necessary. I th… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 04:25 AM |
| 7 | Always hide your effortTRP is not a limbo contest. Try going OVER the bar for a change. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 12:23 AM |
| 7 | Always hide your effortPeople want to hear there's a 'magic trick' you might be willing to share Yep. Fitness, career, dating, or whatever. For the majority of people, once you explain results require work, they vanish. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Why do sluts slut it up? The evolutionary basis of sluttiness♂ The Mars is for your OP and your many comments throughout this discussion. Religious people are happier [...] they have been brought up with certain spiritual patterns that successfully create happiness and peace. Those practices are inextricably bound in a dogmatic religious vessel. There is power in rituals. Always have been. The ancients knew and utilized this to survive and prosper. Life is just too big. You have to surrender your desire to control everything. Only then can you influence s… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 07:14 AM |
| 6 | Why do sluts slut it up? The evolutionary basis of sluttinessI'm upvoting you, because everything you said is technically correct. However the three virtues you've identified are (not coincidentally) the traditional targets of feminism: Virginity - Young girls are being taught not to fear or be ashamed of sexual exploration. Abstinence is openly mocked. Youth - Young girls are being taught to postpone marriage until after they've chased their dreams. Try to be a popstar/doctor/lawyer first. Marriage is a "fall back" position. Family - Feminism's target si… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Found a good one, should I stay?You should've opened your post with this info. It changes the entire discussion. Know why you have an open agreement? Because you're not in a real relationship. This is a daydream. Time to wake up. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 09:37 PM |
| 3 | How to improve confidence and defeat approach anxietyI tried many tricks over the years. Yes, they work. You get a temporary boost of confidence. But I wanted the real thing. I wanted to banish approach anxiety for good. A permanently confident attitude requires more than just a few victories, you need an established history of successful experience. It is no different than any other skill. An amateur musician dreads performing in front of others. The professional has no such fear. He's stepped out on that stage hundreds of times. He trusts his ab… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/15 09:56 AM |
| 45 | How to improve confidence and defeat approach anxietyTricks are temporary. I overcame approach anxiety by asking myself "What is confidence?" I thought about this for days. Wrote a bunch of long-winded essays on the topic. Then I started paring it down. Reduced it to a single sentence. Confidence: Having made a decision, acting upon it without hesitation. Accepting that definition, led me to conclude: Hesitation is the opposite of confidence. Hesitation is the birthplace of anxiety. The PUA community used to advocate the 3-second rule. Probably st… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 10:02 PM |
| 12 | Tom Leykis Auctions 3 Hours of His ShowYou need your own show. Fuck this sketchy auction. Let's crowdsource that. I listened Leykis around 2001-2002. It was a good 101-level intro, but very formulaic show. It got really repetitive really fast. More noise than signal. Nothing close to the depths of modern RP theory. I haven't listened to him in years. Has the show adapted? Has he kept up? Is he still relevant? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Acing the test: How to use a shit testThe dispassionate and detached mental capability of men does not come naturally to women. It is not a woman's default state of thinking. Women can think rationally, but they must exert extra effort to suppress their solipsism long enough to think "like a man". And to sustain such effort is an even taller order. Someone posted a comment few weeks back about ADHD drug usage among women engineering students. They are altering their brain chemistry to think more like men. Math and computers don't ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 11:01 PM |
| 38 | Acing the test: How to use a shit testYou know, stupid, trivial, and glib as that sounds, if that's all some guy processed from these discussions, so long as he didn't overdo it, he'd be more aware and knowledgeable than most husbands. It's a low bar. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 10:19 PM |
| 21 | If you don't know, with absolute certainty, that she is girlfriend/wife material, then she isn'tI grew up rural. Those girls only act innocent. Pretense is necessary when everyone knows everyone else. The minute a new guy rides into town, it's a race to see who gets him first. Rednecks aggressively mate guard for a reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 06:29 AM |
| 16 | 2015, The Future and Direction of TRP, and a new announcement.I've posted this 4 or 5 times now. No one gives a damn about men. Not even us. Some guy posts about getting divorce raped? Expect a dozen responses saying: "Sucks bro, but your fault for getting married." Boys' Rights are a different story. The public will listen. Both men and women. All but the most militant feminists will support such a movement. Changes in school programs reducing physical activity. Policies that discourage and penalize masculine play. Disparity in grading processes. Lack of … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 08:59 AM |
| 7 | In online dating, 6 woman behave like 9, and 9 males deserve a 6. Here is an exampleYoung, hot chicks have short upbeat profiles I made the same observation playing around on OKCupid over the holidays. The attractive women I've met off that site all talk about how they had to remove stuff from their profiles. They are drowning in messages. One girl said she had to delete her entire list of TV shows and music because "it matched her with too many guys." I don't think the site is actually coded that way, but whatever. I think guys see one common interest, and suddenly they feel q… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 07:41 AM |
| 18 | Ghosting (MGTOW) vs. swallowing The Red PillYes, we all felt that way. Depression is one of the 5 stages of swallowing the red pill. /r/TheRedPill/comments/1x0gln/the_five_stages_of_red_pill_and_how_to_read_rtrp/ My advice: Don't drop out (MGTOW) before you make an honest and sincere attempt at applying TRP. Learn - Read the sidebar. Read the top "RP Theory" posts. Ignore the anti-feminist stuff. Ignore rants and bluepill examples. Lift - Put 3 solid months in the gym. You will see results. You can do any beginner program, but honestly, s… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 01:47 AM |
| 19 | Ghosting (MGTOW) vs. swallowing The Red PillMonk Mode is NOT the starting point! TRP begins with learning, approaching, and lifting. Monk Mode is for breaking plateaus after you have done the reading and made both physical and sexual gains. Yeah, there are no rules, but if you start with Monk Mode, you haven't started at all. You're just procrastinating. MGTOW is not Monk Mode. MGTOW are men who learn RP strategies, but chose not to pursue women. For some guys, it might just be a temporary phase, for others it is a lifestyle. They've chos… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 01:29 AM |
| 68 | Older players (late 40s/50s & up), tell us what you would do differently if you could go back 20 years looking through the RP lens.♂ I saw this headline and immediately started composing an essay in my head. I'd have said a few things different (my kids are worth it), but you covered the bases. Especially this: I wouldn't have hesitated to kiss the girl. Ever. I'd just be forward with my desires. Get the fear of rejection out of the way immediately instead of "waiting for the right moment". The most significant improvement from when I was 20, 25, 30, and even 35? I no longer hesitate. No more counting to three. No testing h… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 09:20 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach girls with low self-esteem?Low self-esteem girls are to be avoided. Hit it and quit it. Severe mental issues and bad life decisions. Chronically unfaithful. But it sounds more like your question is about approaching girls who are shy or timid. Do not use compliments, they will be viewed as subterfuge. Tease and play. Call her a brat. Build comfort and rapport. But once you get a foothold, you must escalate. Hesitate and you're friendzoned. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 12:22 AM |
| 22 | Yahoo's pseudo news trawl drops a red pill bomb....if a woman wanted to. And there is the clause that matters. We are asking so very little here. I called this list the bare minimums. Yet a large number of women are not interested in making any effort to please another person. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 07:21 PM |
| 12 | Yahoo's pseudo news trawl drops a red pill bomb.she had no interests in really being a mother. That's a separate problem and an even bigger red flag. "Be a competent mother to your kids" should be on the list. So should "Brush your teeth" and other things too obvious to state. But you're over-correcting by suggesting her only interests should support the role of mother. Even with a demanding child, a parent can still find an hour a day to stay up-to-date on an interest or two. It is a means to unwind. Reading a book or website while junior na… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on SMV, Frame, and a Framework for the So-Called "Alpha Mood" (Tl;dr included)You have to establish frame with a therapist same as anyone else. Halfway through your second or third visit, bluntly ask: "What am I doing wrong? What do I need to change?" If their answer is vague, call them out. "If I'm going to continue therapy, I need you to be more specific." Don't wait until the end of the session. Demand clear statements and actionable advice. You'll either get the answers you need, or realize the therapist is useless. I recommend the same approach with any medical profe… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 06:45 PM |
| 31 | Yahoo's pseudo news trawl drops a red pill bomb.Good article. I think this is a decent list of bare minimum requirements, and surprisingly fair for coming from a female writer and couples' mediator. Two nitpicks in your summary: Have more interests than just being a mother (that's actually kind of questionable). Why would you consider that questionable? It is essentially just rewording the last point: "Don't be boring." Once you have kids, far too many of your conversations involve childcare. I can't count how many times my ex and I discussed… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 06:19 PM |
| 23 | FR: Getting Subway at the mall leads to plate (your posture is fucking important, nonverbal cues, communication, frame, direct game, etc.) and a HUGE red pill momentAmen. Forget killing Hitler. If I had a time machine I'd go whoop my own ass. I'd beat him bloody. That bastard screwed me over so many times... | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/15 04:59 PM |
| 13 | Why are creative types more attractive to women?Good answer. Two more: Artists are risk takers. Success in art/music is a gamble. Women are risk adverse. They are attracted to men who take risks. Most practice is done in private. Few see the years of hard work. When they achieve success, it looks like sudden overnight fame and fortune. Women are attracted to men who appear to win without struggling. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 08:03 AM |
| 3 | The best answer to the Slut/Stud debacle.To quote David Bowie: Fame makes a man take things over Fame lets him lose, hard to swallow Fame puts you there where things are hollow Fame | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 07:33 AM |
| 36 | /r/Tinder pats itself on the back for being "edgy" for discussing a 100% redpill Tinder profileExactly. Even the "fake job" joke. This Tinder girl is just some dude trolling. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 07:28 AM |
| 27 | TIL that Barack Obama's wife once threatened to divorce him after he lost an electionYeah, and every time I call someone an idiot, I'm really hoping they'll wise up. Idiot. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Biology of Dads (RP Documentary)(Importance of Fathers)(CliffNotes Included)You could crosspost this to /r/RedPillParenting I haven't had time to watch the vid yet. Cliff notes sound solid though. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 06:23 AM |
| 9 | Red Pill truth hits the front page, no one realizesThere was a thread on here some time back. Can't find it. General consensus was to reach the top 5% you have to specialize. You can hit 20% by being B+ in every category -- but to climb higher, you have to dedicate yourself to one specific aspect. Greatness requires focus. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 06:19 AM |
| 4 | (FR) The Zen Approach/Outcome Independence/PeacockingI'm not claiming this is the only or best way to open a group. This advice was intended for a guy going out by himself for the first time. His goal was to not be the sad guy drinking alone at the bar. This 3 table "system" is easy and guaranteed to avoid that outcome. Don't just scout for girls, be on the look for possible friends. If any of the groups truly welcome you, go back to them. "You guys are awesome. I'm just starting to meet people around here. Can I get your numbers? Let's do this ag… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 03:57 PM |
| 3 | (FR) The Zen Approach/Outcome Independence/PeacockingAs simple as possible. Ideally, this will be a busy bar, 6+ groups minimum. Crowded and noisy are OK, so long as it's not uncomfortable. If the setting isn't right, don't even order a drink. Even cool bars have off nights. Walk in, look around, walk out. Try the next place. People are out somewhere. Go find them. Always start with a mixed group. My first two tables will never be women-only groups. "Hey, you guys look like you're having fun. My name is Pope." Offer your hand to the nearest guy. H… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 02:25 PM |
| 13 | I am Frankenstein's monster.This reminds me of Henry Rollin's essay: Iron and the Soul. All of you: Go read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 11:51 PM |
| 11 | (FR) The Zen Approach/Outcome Independence/PeacockingYou are only alone the first few minutes. Order your drink and pick a group having a laugh. Go to their table. Quick intro and a few minutes of chatter. No agenda. You're not trying to do anything, just meeting them. Only stay a few minutes. Leave on a laugh if you can. Now move to the group two tables over. Another round of intros, short chat, and a quick exit. Third group. Same thing. Excuse yourself to get another drink. Three short conversations. No rests in between. To anyone watching, you … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 04:55 PM |
| 3 | The Modern Woman's Sexual StrategyIn the US, doctors are prohibited from volunteering paternity knowledge. If you don't ask the question, they're not allowed to give the answer. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 02:38 PM |
| 14 | Getting What You Ask ForThere is only one correct response to this: Tits or GTFO! Our approach for ONS sex won't find us a LTR? We know. Guess what? Our approach for LTR won't land a ONS. We custom tailor our approach depending upon our desired outcome. The girl who says "no" is not a loss -- she wasn't offering what we wanted! We screen her out with the least amount of time wasted. No lies, no false hopes, just straight-forward honest efficiency. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 02:19 PM |
| 16 | The New ADHD Debate Every Woman Should Know AboutGives a new twist to this old joke: 25% of women in the United States are on antidepressants or other psychoactive drugs. This statistic is frightening because it means the other 75% are walking around untreated. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 12:13 PM |
| 4 | PSA: To all of the guys out there with a pregnant woman unsure about paternity... Find a Red Pill doctor!The mindset that a father-to-be would go to the gym rather than go to an ultrasound is just totally WTF to me. Yes. I would agree... But he never said that. He didn't once mention the gym. He explicitly stated he went to the ultrasound. So what the fuck were you responding to? What "balance" were you bringing with this comment? You don't sound even vaguely interested in this baby. Poor kid. Are you seriously going to continue defending that bullshit? No, not a woman So prove it. Be a man. Admit … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 11:59 AM |
| 52 | Plugged Back In: A dangerous psychological trap known as monk modeMonk mode is not a starting point. It is intended to smash plateaus after you have already made some initial changes and seen some gains -- physical and sexual. A temporary break to focus on further improvements? Great. Locking yourself away until ready to begin? Recipe for failure. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 10:48 AM |
| 26 | PSA: To all of the guys out there with a pregnant woman unsure about paternity... Find a Red Pill doctor!You don't sound even vaguely interested in this baby. Poor kid. That is normal. As a woman, it was/will be different for you. You'll have had months of direct bodily contact with the child, feeling every turn and stir. I remember my ex crying with joy the first time she felt the baby have hiccups inside her. That is powerful and creates a bond. Men don't experience that. We're shown a few blurry pictures. We hear some weird whale noises. That's about it. I put my hand on her belly for those hicc… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 10:28 AM |
| 17 | (FR) Running game on a girl with a fiance. Shoe store girl.Patrice explained on the Black Phillip Show how he would deliberately visualize his girls having the nastiest, filthiest sex with a horde of guys. This exercise helped him eliminate any feelings of jealousy and neediness. Kept them off the pedestal and destroyed any false delusions of purity. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 11:18 PM |
| 22 | The Modern Woman's Sexual StrategyAnd that's the minimum package. Sad fact is, most guys give away WAY more than half. Anything to avoid a conflict. I've seen men tell their attorney, "Give her everything." His attorney argues the ex has no right to certain assets, but the guy insists: "I don't care. I just don't want to fight anymore." Men really want to believe the fantasy that a wife should be your best friend. When that is proven false, most guys just want to crawl off and die. They are lost, betrayed, and hopeless. Disney d… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 10:44 PM |
| 3 | The Modern Woman's Sexual StrategyYes. Such a great series. I watched it a year ago while stuck in a hotel room during a blizzard. Amazing stuff. Available on the sidebar "Gender Studies is Nonsense" (under the "New Here?" section). All links still working I believe. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 10:15 PM |
| 52 | The Modern Woman's Sexual StrategyReplying to myself to expand upon this topic: ...women were eager to return to feminine roles after the hardships of WW2. Our grandparents and great grandparents had marriages that lasted. There were many reasons for this, not just a religious society that frowned on divorce. Previous generations lived in greater hardship. WW2, The Great Depression, WW1. Diseases, famines, banking collapses, and countless smaller wars. That was the past. Modern medicine and science have given us an age of extrem… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 10:04 PM |
| 8 | The Modern Woman's Sexual StrategyBiological or not, his role as parent is not part of the Modern Woman's Sexual Strategy. If you are curious, have a look in our sister subreddit: /r/RedPillParenting. I have a post in there titled "The Parental Effect" which you may find enlightening. I highly recommend watching the referenced documentary. It uses science to confirm many of your suspicions: [Later] life factors -- such as personality, happiness, drive, etc -- are not based solely on intelligence or genetics. Those are environmen… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 08:32 PM |
| 12 | The Modern Woman's Sexual StrategyYou can participate here without having read the thread that inspired this post. This topic is different enough to warrant it's own thread. The exact percentage of paternity fraud is unknown. It is frequently estimated to be around 4-10%. However: in studies that solely looked at couples [where] paternity was being disputed, there are higher levels; an incidence of 17% to 33% In other words, trust your gut. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 07:56 PM |
| 71 | The Modern Woman's Sexual StrategyWhen an alpha gorilla is deposed, the new leader frequently kills any infants. To protect themselves against this, female gorillas will often secretly fuck the secondary male when not in estrus. This plants the doubt of paternity in the beta's mind. In the event of his ascension, he may spare her infants. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 07:35 PM |
| 76 | The Modern Woman's Sexual Strategy...what would actually make them happy long term; a 1950s style TRP marriage? No. Conservatives view the past through rose-colored lenses. The only reason post-war marriages appeared happy was because women were eager to return to feminine roles after the hardships of WW2. There is only one person you can make happy: yourself. No matter what you do, you cannot make other people happy. Attempting to change her will be exhausting, expensive, and always temporary. If you are looking for a LTR, aggr… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Reevaluating TRP in your life: just women?I believe he was talking about finding different pieces of TRP useful at different stages in his life. Certain lessons were more applicable after he passed the anger stage. But regardless of who read him correctly: you're flat out wrong. It is perfectly OK to pick and choose from TRP's lessons. Life is not black and white. We don't all have the same goals. TRP is a philosophy, not the truth. We are still figuring some of this shit out, and sometimes a new theory contradicts established dogma. Un… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 10:18 AM |
| 1 | I find machiavellianism beta traitMaybe, when I later have a job or run a business I will understand importance of it Yes. Machiavelli was not writing for the young man starting at the bottom of the hill. If you're at the bottom, just fucking scramble. Hustle and climb. Take bigger risks. You have less to lose. Machiavelli's intended audience were men who had already achieved some significant altitude. His lessons emphasize gaining further ground, while minimizing the risk of backsliding. Caution and guile become critical when i… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Hand weights or bar & bench?Find a gym with a daycare. Seconded. Many of the big chain gyms have this at no extra charge. You will likely be required to call a day ahead to make an appointment, but that may even help you commit to your workout schedule. The quality of supervision isn't likely to impress you. Kids are mostly watching TV or playing with toys. Whatever. It's only 3-5 hours a week. You need the time for yourself, and they deserve a fit father. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/14 01:04 PM |
| 9 | Are you going to fuck your bros? If not, why is "bro code" suddenly the fashionable solution to dealing with the difficulties that women present? (Solutions need to actually achieve the original goal of getting laid)I am upvoting you as well, but I don't think you fully understand the arguments. In short, the purpose of civilization is to normalize the process of survival, eliminating the extreme challenges and making the process roughly manageable for an average person of average ability. That is the stated purpose of an ideal civilization. Do we still live in such society? Absolutely not. Those days are past. The balance has been upset. It is no longer manageable for the average male. Hence the existence … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Are you going to fuck your bros? If not, why is "bro code" suddenly the fashionable solution to dealing with the difficulties that women present? (Solutions need to actually achieve the original goal of getting laid)hiding in some cave of video games and masturbation Many will object to this phrase, but his overall point is correct. Read more monk posts and you'll observe a large segment are using monk mode to postpone facing women. Not all, but many are convincing themselves to disappear until they can emerge fully formed. Monk mode is not a starting point. It is intended to smash plateaus after you have already made some initial changes and seen some gains -- physical and sexual. A temporary break to focu… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 11:09 AM |
| 6 | Are you going to fuck your bros? If not, why is "bro code" suddenly the fashionable solution to dealing with the difficulties that women present? (Solutions need to actually achieve the original goal of getting laid)The Bro Coders we are calling out are not only preaching we respect the wives of close friends within our circle. They are condemning men who fuck married women, period. We are immoral. We are damaging the fabric of civilization. We are betraying the Bro Code. Bullshit. Some random tourist girl who didn't even ask my last name? I owe her husband nothing. She broke her vows, not me. I feel no guilt whatsoever for seizing the moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 10:46 AM |
| 5 | Are you going to fuck your bros? If not, why is "bro code" suddenly the fashionable solution to dealing with the difficulties that women present? (Solutions need to actually achieve the original goal of getting laid)I strongly endorse having a tight circle of male friends. They bring many benefits: companionship, emotional support, amusement, comfort, assistance, etc. All of these are valuable. Necessary even. Staying off their women is the cost to keep such friends. Many agree this price is worth the benefits. But how does "keeping my BP friends happy" qualify as a sexual strategy? It doesn't. At best, you can make a limp indirect connection. Friends make you feel good, feeling good makes you more confiden… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 10:19 AM |
| 6 | Are you going to fuck your bros? If not, why is "bro code" suddenly the fashionable solution to dealing with the difficulties that women present? (Solutions need to actually achieve the original goal of getting laid)Wake up. Civilization is nothing but rules enforced by armed coercion. Feminists have successfully lobbied to pull the teeth from all rules regarding fidelity. The social contract has been nullified. Your individual moral code is out of sync with the rules of civilization. Left behind. Cling to your righteous nobility if it gives you comfort, but don't preach your outdated bullshit as gospel. TRP concerns itself with the world as it is. If you want to discuss how the world should be, look elsewh… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Strategy Is Amoral/Everything is Permitted (RE: GayLubeOil's cuckolding post)Patriarchy used to have teeth. It was able to punish infidelity. To enforce a base level of morality. It wasn't always fair or impartial, but it was something. Those teeth were pulled, one by one, until no threat remained. Patriarchy died, but the fidelity myth persisted in culture. My post was in response to the quoted section. I attempted to explain why young men, despite having grown up in the era of Feminism, despite having firsthand knowledge of women's sexual transgressions, still manage t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 09:58 PM |
| 15 | Building a life filled with wild parties, cool friends, and attractive women after college.Anything with a "scene" is golden. Music and art top the list. Have for centuries. But only if your shit is good enough to be seen. Athletics are much more accessible. So many hot women run 5K. There are frequently social hours after. Ditto for mud runs and obstacle courses. Depending on your location: skiing, snowboarding, rock climbing, or cycling may be options. Many have clubs and group outings. Check meetup for population size, and rent before you buy. Carefully observe the gender balance b… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 02:23 PM |
| 9 | Sexual Strategy Is Amoral/Everything is Permitted (RE: GayLubeOil's cuckolding post)I'm 53 so I'm picking it up from a distance, but the youth I see let women do whatever they want. It's more likely old men who hold the older order of the Patriarchy that would feel shocked. I'm in my early 40s. Men of my generation and those that follow... they believe the Disney bullshit. Find your soulmate and live happily ever after. Girls outgrow those fantasies. The first time she borrows her sister's heels and steps out the door, she gets dickslapped by the truth. ALL these guys want me, … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 12:44 PM |
| 15 | Some TRP nuggets from my Russian Grandmother.When was the last time you bribed a cop in the US? Or greased a government clerk move your application off the slush pile? At the top levels, where the bribes are life-changing sums, yes, there absolutely is corruption in the US. But for a good portion of the world, this shit is everyday life. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Getting a Woman to Cheat is like Getting a Duck to Eat BreadEvery moment you spend on disloyal skanks is a moment lost finding something worthwhile. Every moment you spend on reddit... Every moment you spend sleeping... Every moment you spend taking a dump... ...all lost opportunities to find that mystical magical unicorn!! Hahaha. Which of us is "following folly"? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Getting a Woman to Cheat is like Getting a Duck to Eat Bread♂ Too many posters are confusing "amoral" with "immoral". This is the assertion of a fact, not an exhortation for you to personally take advantage of that fact. Ding ding ding ding! We have a winner! when [women] cheat they want to give their sexuality full reign. Alternatively, they have lost respect for their man, and thus the validation he offers no longer has value. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 10:57 AM |
| 0 | Getting a Woman to Cheat is like Getting a Duck to Eat BreadThis post was valuable just for the comments. Look at all the RP commenters who are still wearing bluepill blinders! Not you. Your argument is fine. I understand and agree. But look at all the crybabies with their panties in a bunch. "But but but morality honor respect...!" Hahaha! My kids are in bed. Santa's gifts are under the tree. I'm sipping a scotch and laughing my ass off. GLO poked a stick in the hornets' nest and it was fucking hilarious. Merry Christmas, TRP! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Getting a Woman to Cheat is like Getting a Duck to Eat BreadYou might be the reason someone kills themselves Bullshit! Lame ass guilt laden argument. Three people here: Loser who kills himself Woman who broke her vow Random stranger Of those three, you blame the third? Really? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 10:07 AM |
| 16 | Getting a Woman to Cheat is like Getting a Duck to Eat Bread♂ Well done. You cut through the kneejerk emotional bullshit. The red pill is about sexual strategy. [...] It has nothing to do with morality. Anyone who disagrees needs to read the sidebar: Sexual Strategy is Amoral. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 10:00 AM |
| 10 | Getting a Woman to Cheat is like Getting a Duck to Eat BreadThe first year is easy, everything is still new. The second and third are a breeze, as long as you continue to game. But by the fourth and fifth years she knows all your tricks. Gotta get creative to keep the thrill alive. As Patrice says: you've always got to have another level. Can you keep this going for FIFTEEN MORE YEARS? What if you add kids to the mix? Kids are serious thrill killers. Some men can pull it off easily. Very very few men pull it off, and only with extreme effort and diligenc… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 09:10 AM |
| 27 | Getting a Woman to Cheat is like Getting a Duck to Eat BreadClassic RP truth: Flirt with a single girl and you have to be the most attractive and interesting man around. With a married woman, you're only competing against one dude. And she cleans the skidmarks from his underwear. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Forever Alone and the Red Pill. When is the right time to get unplugged?From the little you've written, I'd wager you have good odds of success. Taking a walk is a great idea. If she doesn't want to walk, go sit on the hood and look at the stars, or some Christmas lights, the river, whatever. The best cure for nerves is to not hesitate. I'm repeating that again and again because it is so very fucking important. Once you have decided to do something: Do it immediately. This is one of the great secrets to life. The big difference between winners and losers. Men don't … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Forever Alone and the Red Pill. When is the right time to get unplugged?You're nothing like him. He refused to change. You're here. You're learning. And you're going to try, yeah? Am I right? Then you're 15 years younger, but already more man than that guy. How to show a girl your intentions? Easy. The hard part's already done. You already know her, you've established comfort, and you've got her alone. So kiss her. I'd do it before you get in the car. Easier while you're both standing. Kiss her without speaking, in one smooth movement, with zero hesitation. Don't co… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Give me a reason to not be angry... (AKA: Beyond the Anger Phase the Culture War begins) [x-post to /r/TheCultureWar]Removed my post. I completely misunderstood the point of your sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 11:18 PM |
| 28 | PAPER: 'Are Pornography and Marriage Substitutes for Young Men?' In most cases, hell yes!Another old guy here: 100% agree. Infidelity used to be risky. It would lead to brutal divorce rape. With No Fault Divorce becoming the norm, they no longer need any excuse. Loyal husband or cheating bastard? You will get raped either way. As always, laws differ state to state. Your first step should be sitting down for a free consult with a divorce attorney or two. Even if you don't plan on going through with the divorce, education is better than ignorance. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Top post on /r/AskReddit: What can you do that is NOT appearance based to make yourself more attractive? - Top comments are all TRP traits....Know how 80% of women try for the top 20% of men? We're only slightly more generous here. I'm interested in the top 30% of women. I could give a shit less what sort of loser males the other 70% are settling for. Your troglodyte buddy found himself an ogress? Wake-&-Bake bro hooked up with sloth-girl? Beta boy crowned a feminist? Good for them. Let's set our bar a little higher. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Forever Alone and the Red Pill. When is the right time to get unplugged?Why the fuck should I lead him anywhere? His bullshit was tedious and repetitive. He soured our night out. As I said in my other comment: He asked for our advice. We offered. He rejected it. My responsibility as a friend was fulfilled. I'm not a life coach. This isn't my job and he ain't paying me. If he motivates himself to change, if he comes to me with a sincere desire for advice, I will be there for him. That last sentence? We said that directly to him. This was months ago. Nothing has chang… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 07:29 PM |
| 3 | New here, how to deal with not being texted back?Learn day game. Get numbers while doing your regular everyday chores. I was at the store buying gifts. Approached four girls with this bold opener: "Christmas shopping?" First didn't want to talk to a stranger. It happens, don't apologize, just walk on. Second gave me her number after a 5 minute chat. Third and fourth were both flattered, but had boyfriends. "No problem," smile and walk on. Approaching those girls added maybe 10 minutes to my day. I didn't seek them out, these were just four att… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 07:03 PM |
| 7 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?The dude you describe sounds better than the US average. Most average guys aren't thin and don't have a few lovers. They are skinny-fat and have none. By definition, women have rejected them. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Forever Alone and the Red Pill. When is the right time to get unplugged?We were three guys who have above-average success with women. He asked for our advice. We offered. He rejected it. My responsibility as a friend was fulfilled. I'm not a life coach. This isn't my job and he ain't paying me. If he motivates himself to change, if he comes to me with a sincere desire for advice, I will be there for him. We still socialize. We'll grab lunch with him, but the guys no longer invite him out to the bar. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 02:39 AM |
| 17 | Forever Alone and the Red Pill. When is the right time to get unplugged?My friends and I have a FA friend. We always invite him out. He rarely accepts. One night he does... He tells us about girl he's interested in. She acts like she likes him, but always keeps him at arm's length. We explain what an orbiter is, why and how she's keeping him in orbit. He denies it. "She's not like that." Conversation moves on. Some of the other guys are talking sports. After a few minutes, FA guy shifts the topic back to himself and the girl. We give him advice. Let her know your in… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 11:49 PM |
| 5 | FR: Breaking The RulesI stated my case; you stated yours. I didn't change your mind; you haven't changed mine. Our arguments and terminology differ significantly, but we're both ultimately arriving at RP conclusions. Good night and happy holidays! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 10:04 AM |
| 9 | Women used to be just like youExcellent post. We should point out the role of the birth control pill, Plan B, and abortions. These changed the game for women. It gave them absolute control over reproduction, and are directly responsible for "their now unrestricted sexual nature". A man's options are dissatisfying (condoms) or permanent (vasectomy). As such, there has been no change in what boys are taught. Until a better male contraception is available, society will "keep man in the dark". | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 09:15 AM |
| 3 | FR: Breaking The RulesYour definition of "beta" is incorrect. Far too narrow. Supplication is just one beta trait. There is also cowardice, lying, shyness, and indecision. But not all are so negative: Compliments, empathy, generosity, and affection. These beta traits are powerful, when used sparingly. For guys running LTR game, they are essential. A man should be excessively masculine. He should display alpha traits in abundance. But remember: Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, right? Well, these particular beta … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 07:58 AM |
| 2 | FR: Breaking The RulesI'm sorry you got so many downvotes for your post. I am not offended by your questions. I'm in my 40s. At this stage in my life, I'm able to give something back at no significant cost to myself or my children. Letting a dying kid forget his illness and be a normal child for a day? That's some powerful stuff man. But, you are correct: This is absolutely not anything I'd mention when approaching a random girl at a bar. As I said in the section on Alpha/Beta balance, the bar scene requires extreme … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 02:03 AM |
| 12 | FR: Breaking The RulesAnimal analogies will always fall short. Alpha literally means the first. The one. In the pack, the Alpha is the only one permitted to breed. Does that sound like humanity? Of course not. Modern society has more resemblance to a headless swarm. Our alpha and beta displays still trigger ancestral instincts. Useful and influential, certainly, but much, much weaker. This is not the wild. Humanity is domesticated. Tamed by our own intellects, by our own societies, by our own laws. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 12:38 AM |
| 31 | Everybody is so afraid of TRP, they have to censor because people might read it and agree...Maybe they are afraid that every time it happens, TRP gains more subscribers? We do. No debate or question about it. Few months back, someone posted a traffic graph. Every major spike in TRP subscriber count was correlated with a hate thread making the front page. The censorship policies were a direct response to that. Edit: Couldn't find the original thread, but here is http://redditmetrics.com/r/TheRedPill. On 6/30 there was an EMSK thread ("The Red Pill Will Kill You Inside"). We gained 2300+… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 08:53 PM |
| 2 | 25 Ways To Be The Kind of Man People RespectFair point. I was far too brief in my explanation. You are correct to request clarification. At this stage in my life, I am no longer concerned with the mad scramble to rise from nothing to something. We all have to make that initial climb. The hustle can be quite thrilling. Enjoying it is useful. But the equation changes once you have something. Next time you're reading Machiavelli or Sun Tzu, notice how few words they spend discussing that initial stage. Those early climbers are not the target… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 08:42 AM |
| 5 | 25 Ways To Be The Kind of Man People RespectAgreed, 8 stood out like a sore thumb. Love of power is juvenile nonsense. I suggest this rewrite: "You are able to accept the responsibility of being in charge, and ready to exercise control when necessary." | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 02:37 PM |
| 2 | [video] Do we have 'rape culture' in the UK? two feminists, one red pill guy, with a 99% leftist audience.Agreed. Fuck you, OP. Typical televised babble. The 30 seconds where the lawyer spoke was the sole oasis of reason. A lone voice talking about the actual problem, the real and practical challenges of maintaining society, changes being made to the system in place... Hosts, panel, and audience alike all rushed and then ignored him. Chomping at the bit to resume the hysteria. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 02:16 PM |
| 42 | First hand Red Pill experience [experiment] on OKC. My head is spinning.Don't downvote. He isn't wrong. We see these threads monthly. These aren't experiments. OP is getting off on hollow validation from chicks by using a fake photo. Cheap and meaningless. Completely pointless. Making it real isn't so easy. The man in that photo put years into getting ripped. Become that man. Put in true effort and get meaningful results. Let us know when you've made some progress with that experiment. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 09:06 AM |
| 47 | I never would have received this without you TRP. THANK YOU ALL!!Stealth shit test. Everybody loves a puzzle. This girl is declaring she has finally put the last piece in place. Once you solve a puzzle -- no matter how awesome it was -- you put it away. I have no doubt she meant every bit of that praise. Pause for a moment to enjoy the warm fuzzy validation. You earned it. But the subtext is: "I figured you out. Now what?" | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 05:05 AM |
| 2 | NYT: The Vanishing Male Worker...First off, you need to learn the definition of extrapolation: To infer or estimate by extending or projecting known information. That is exactly what you are doing. Using current GDP information to make an estimate regarding China's future. It is not an insult. Extrapolation is an invaluable tool of mathematics and economics. My criticism was not that you used extrapolation. The problem is your assumptions regarding the future are naive. (minor) You assume growth will continue at the current pac… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 12:54 PM |
| 5 | NYT: The Vanishing Male Worker......as the rest of China reaches this... Believing Chinese growth will continue at its current pace is already a HUGE assumption. Extrapolating that growth to encompass the entire population is ABSURD. There is a joke amongst startup investors, mocking entrepreneurs with overeager projections. Ironically, I've heard it referred to as the Chinese Glove trap: "If we sell a pair of gloves to just 1% the Chinese market, we'll all be millionaires by Christmas!" | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 10:53 AM |
| 7 | What is Alpha?I find it comical that you're trying to redefine Alpha as "the opposite of stupidity" in an article that clearly and vehemently denies such associations. Christ, there's even a fucking Venn diagram. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 09:25 AM |
| 4 | ANTI-DUMP’S MACHINE: Intro to a Core RP TextNot for this comment, but for your article, you have most definitely earned a ♂ Thank you for collecting and presenting these articles. They are old but gold, and many here would not have seen them without your effort and commentary. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 09:05 AM |
| 11 | ANTI-DUMP’S MACHINE: Intro to a Core RP TextThere is so much gold in these posts! I particularly direct your attention to Part 4: Action. Please don't stop after reading the initial post! It sparks a debate that is even more informative. As explained by Pook, Anti-Dump was different from most PUAs, in that he didn't examine WHY a woman a woman did something. He only cared about her actions. How did she respond? How did she behave? He was beyond attracting girls. His "machine" was a tool to weed out girls who were not interested in him. I … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 07:59 AM |
| 14 | It's not the red pill truths that upset the masses as much as the socially unskilled ways they are presentedThe OP wrote a great article, about how we should moderate our tone when speaking to outsiders. But we are inside the TRP clubhouse, so I'm going to respond without pulling any punches: If you truly believe this bullshit, get your ass to therapy. Now. Find a practitioner who does cognitive behavioral therapy. They will most likely have you start keeping a mood journal. I guarantee, within a week or two, you will discover you have depressing thoughts far less often than you believe. They do not "… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 09:24 PM |
| 2 | [OFF-TOPIC]Which do you think has more value - Weight lifting or Martial artsThank you for the excellent response. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 10:35 PM |
| 1 | [OFF-TOPIC]Which do you think has more value - Weight lifting or Martial artsQuestion if you don't mind: I'm a RP dad with a young boy who is expressing interest in martial arts. I've gone to a demo and watched a class for kids his age (5-7). No idea how to judge what I'm seeing. Which styles progress and maintain value? Which have most lasting benefit? Edit: Hit google after asking this question. Read a few articles. This one stood out -- it recommends postponing until around age 10. I'd still like to hear opinions on styles, but it def makes sense to wait until he's ol… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 09:57 PM |
| 14 | (My) TRP starter pack.MFA has a really solid sidebar. Start by learning how clothes should fit. Next, read about colors. After that, you should unsubscribe. MFA is overrun by skinny teen boys, hipsters, and divas. Resist the urge to replace your entire wardrobe. Buy a few items at a time, starting with everyday stuff. Work and weekend clothes. Take your time. Wear your first purchases for a few weeks to make sure you're satisfied with the fit. Too muscular, too tall, or too heavy? You may never find clothes that fit … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Teach Your Children WellShow don't tell. Lead by example, not lecture. His every instinct is to emulate you. If you are a sad fuck with a miserable job and a shitty relationship, change it now. Otherwise that will be the baseline model for your son's future. If you are a RP man, passionately pursuing your goals and involved with a healthy, feminine woman, then your son will be starting ahead of the curve. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 07:42 AM |
| 35 | GayLubeOil's Gift Giving GuideYou dont want to spend good money and have it end up in the bin. Next time you're driving around town, count all the "We Buy Gold!" signs and billboards. Ever stop to wonder how these places stay in business? Who has all this unwanted gold to sell? Chicks with ex-boyfriends. Betas are so desperate to buy love, they spawned an entire resale industry. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Update: My attempt at losing orbiter status.No. You are underestimating the power of contempt. Women have no respect for orbiters. They are lower than dirt. Two months absence isn't going to change that. There are no tingles. She's just a bored housecat, batting around an old toy, trying to find out if it still squeaks. Bruno is 100% correct. No contact. Go find new girls. He'll be starting from zero with them, but that's several steps up from where this chick would rank him. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 11:03 PM |
| 3 | How To Get Equal Pay in Workplace - Make Men Stay Home With KidsThings got better once my eldest started school. We were happy again. Then we had a second child. The entire process was repeated, with the same jealousy and resentment. We eventually divorced. We have joint custody. The kids are doing good. Both in school now. They are happy and well adjusted. Their mother and I keep it cool, for their sake. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 05:37 AM |
| 1 | How To Get Equal Pay in Workplace - Make Men Stay Home With KidsI am going to have to figure out ways to navigate this going forward. One mistake I made was not taking time for myself. Keep going to the gym. Keep active in some hobby. Give her that time alone with the kids. Encourage her to do the same. We all need some private time, and, just as importantly, you need to remain fit and interesting to maintain attraction. Having young children can feel isolating. Repetitive chores become a boring routine. Seek out and befriend another couple with children. Br… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 05:16 AM |
| 25 | How To Get Equal Pay in Workplace - Make Men Stay Home With KidsWomen will resent you for doing this. I made a sizable sum of money prior to the birth of my first child. This allowed me to write my own ticket for a few years. I set up my job so I could work from home. Having grown up without a father, being an involved and loving parent was very important to me. My kid thrived. Money kept rolling in. My social and career status continued to climb. I still found time for hobbies, stayed fit, and even won a local elected office. But being a good parent was my … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 05:28 PM |
| 2 | "A letter to … the girl who accused me of rape when I was 15"I don't care much about Men's Rights. Most people don't. Boy's Rights are a different issue. The fact that this same article has gained such traction on the front page is due to the author's age. The general public is becoming more cognizant and sympathetic of the suffering of boys. If MRA have any sense, they will use Boy's Rights as the spearhead to push their agenda. Enact protections for boys, and then you can open a dialog about presumed guilt, male disposability, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 02:16 AM |
| 5 | My friend got divorced after 3 years. Wife wanted nothingCould be. Or the cost of the legal battle would be greater than the assets at stake. Or he'd already privately agreed to some favorable split. Or she'd already lined up new beta bucks with much deeper pockets, and didn't want to scare him away by going full bitch mode over chump change. Or emotions compelled her to make an illogical decision. Or the marriage was too short, or his assets protected and her claim weak. We don't know. There are many possibilities. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 06:38 AM |
| 2 | My friend got divorced after 3 years. Wife wanted nothingEvery state has different laws. I have true 50% custody (physical and legal) but I am still required to pay child support to my deadbeat ex-wife. Family court is not fair or logical. To any man facing divorce: get off the Internet and talk to a lawyer. Don't agree to anything, don't give away anything, don't bargain or negotiate until you speak with an attorney. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 06:23 AM |
| 12 | What the hell is so red pill about the Red Pill?Because there are hundreds channels on TV and radio, plus thousands of books and magazines, even government and universities, all selling a watered down version of the truth. Offering soft and gentle lies in exchange for your for cash and obedience. When someone finds TRP and exclaims, "This confirms everything I already knew!" what they're really saying is, "I was not wrong. I am not alone. I am not crazy. I knew I was being lied to. Finally!" | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 05:03 PM |
| 13 | Dealing with loneliness as you work toward becoming a top 10% manthe REAL reward is putting in the hard work day in and day out and seeing everything around you transform, to your accord, to the way you desired Great statement and I 100% agree. I have slept with beautiful women, owned expensive cars, traveled the world, and earned a fair stack of cash. But when I reflect back on what makes me feel best and most proud, it isn't the rewards for my efforts, it is the results of them. I am proud of the things I built. The changes I created. The stuff that only ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 04:36 PM |
| 2 | One of the top selling books on amazon. This proves what women want in a man.No one likes bots, but this post has zero content and no substance. At the minimum, OP could have at least posted the book's title and a summary sentence. Also, while not the worst, Amazon is famous for invasive Internet tracking practices. A text post would've been sufficient. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 04:23 AM |
| 10 | How to maintain frame: don't take anything women say seriously.He didn't say "only good for" he said "primary responsibilities." She may be good and useful at many other things, some of which he may appreciate, but the items he listed -- cleaning, conversation, companionship and sex -- are the duties she must fulfill for him to continue their relationship, Think of it this way: I had a LTR with a beautiful voice. Hearing her sing was delightful. I wouldn't dump her if she lost that talent. But if her sex drive suddenly plummeted to zero? I'd be heading for … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 03:42 AM |
| 2 | "And no one wants the nice guy because just like a slut, he gives his love to anyone who will take it"You added the word "used" to the conversation. That is your bullshit belief, not mine. My message was that women are not being taken advantage of. Desiring sex does not make a woman a victim or weak person. You white knights are the true misogynists. Never treating women as adults. Acting like they're frail children needing your gallant protection. Pure bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Being attractive with low SMVVery similar to OP. Random girls would initiate a conversation. But the instant I showed any interest, they were gone. Everyone though I was killing it, but I was a frustrated virgin chump. We toss around the phrase "validation" a lot here. In these cases it was quite literal. The girls wanted to know, am I truly hot enough to get the pretty boy? Once they had their answer, they were done. Gone. If I knew them what I know now, I'd have done some classic push-pull. Holding out that validation unt… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Being attractive with low SMVSpeaking for myself, I didn't work, didn't gain, didn't grow. I coasted on my natural advantages. It takes years to gain muscle. When you're a teen, gains are hard. Bones are still growing, metabolism is supercharged. The difference between the average guy and the high school's star athlete may only be 10 pounds. But in college, gains come much quicker. By 22 the difference may easily be 30 pounds. The athlete's years of effort are very noticeable. At 16, the pretty face is enough to compensate.… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Being attractive with low SMVFor a man, natural good looks are a bonus. A man builds himself. He starts with nothing. Invisible and disposable. A man makes himself attractive by becoming fit, successful, outgoing, and obtaining high status. These things all take a lot of work. If you were blessed with good genetics, you still have to do the same work, but you have some extra reserves. Greater potential. Joe Average can do everything right. Lift heavy, eat right, get a good job, play guitar, join a band, etc. If he learns ga… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 06:18 AM |
| 219 | "And no one wants the nice guy because just like a slut, he gives his love to anyone who will take it"Everything you said is correct, but change your outlook from this: Women crave being in the position of being taken advantage of To this: Women crave being taken No one is being taken advantage of. The badboy is giving her exactly what she wants. Pleasure, attention, excitement, etc. Girls are not victims, they are willing and eager participants in this exchange. Take them off the pedestal. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 03:53 PM |
| 15 | Being attractive with low SMVMy guess, based on my own long ago school days: You're in the cute phase. Very nice face, probably skinny, with soft, gentle features. You remind them of whatever pop teen icon. Think about those teen boy icons though. Go look up pics. What do they all have in common? They're all very young, obviously. Also, the three H's: Hairless, handsome, and harmless. They look feminine. As you're already discovering, girls don't fuck cute feminine boys. They collect validation and put it in their ego scrap… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 03:06 PM |
| 1 | 1,000,000 Subscribers ...... but we might be deadYou just explained to them that your looks and your paycheck matter more than their nice guy traits and they responded with "Yeah, man. So true." But did they show up dressed better the next day? Did they hit the gym? Excellent post. Very well said. You can build a big neon sign pointing to the right path, but the vast majority will still ignore it, and continue shuffling along towards failure. They're not just allergic to reality, they are comfortable with mediocrity. Success is scary, it's way… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 07:40 PM |
| 31 | The law of "Fuck yes or no."This article is advice for women, not for men. A man creates. Nothing exists in this world until a man creates it. Including attraction. I suspect the author gets it, but he sure doesn't explain it here. As written, this article is only half right. Only invest time on girls you're attracted to? Yes, absolutely. Reject girls who aren't projecting "fuck yes" enthusiasm? No. A man does not sit on his barstool waiting for Miss Right to find him. A man acts. He approaches and initiates. Pursuit is hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 07:16 PM |
| 4 | How to start a social life from nothing?Absolutely correct. Frankly, the "lone wolf" never works, at any age. It is a juvenile teenage fantasy. Equally as naive as being a white knight. Women are risk adverse, and a loner is high risk. He does not have the resources and friends of a socially accepted man. The outcast is weak, exposed, vulnerable. So too will be his woman. Join a group, then find a way to stand out in the group. This is the path to success. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 08:17 PM |
| 3 | SMV at work in real time, hilariouslyThat's the effect, not the cause. The answer is basic biology. Female sexuality is valuable. Male sexuality is worthless, until proven otherwise. Hundreds of eggs vs billions of sperm. Once a month ovulation vs 24x7x365 readiness. This is why women are valued for being chaste and men are not. This is why women are penalized for being sluts and men are not. Fools cry double standard, but their mistake is believing the genders are identical. Male and female sexual strategy are different. Neither i… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 08:27 AM |
| 19 | Gods be praised. A WOMAN explains the current trend on why men are opting out of marriage.I'd take a randomly selected citizen over any of the last 10 presidents. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 07:09 AM |
| 8 | Sometimes they date "down"To add a 4th reason: If the student excels and the school/degree is worthwhile, the US will happily import them. We have the most generous immigration policies of any major nation, which has allowed the US to remain on top despite the decline of our native educational system. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Is TRP biased against money and status?I don't know what forum you've been reading. TRP definitely promotes achieving status. We regularly tell guys to find a way to stand out. Status is the most obvious indicator of success and quickest route to attraction. This is such a given, it really doesn't need to be explained. Appearance, on the other hand, is something most men were taught to ignore. We were told it didn't matter. TRP exposes that as a lie. This is new information to many guys, so there is quite a bit of discussion. Money d… | /r/AlreadyRed | 24/08/14 05:08 PM |
| 10 | The Problem With PUA/Seduction Explained Pretty WellVery good response. All these factors combine to determine your SMV. Too many guys who use "not handsome" as an excuse often haven't made a serious effort on improving their clothes, body language, voice, etc. They're moaning that it's pointless to try, because they're starting as a 4, while some luckier guys get to start at 7. Tough shit. Work harder, dress better, get fit. Master the fundamentals. Make yourself a 6. Then take the next step. We can all think of a dozen celebs who look like shor… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 08:11 PM |
| 12 | Red Pill in a nutshell [How to avoid being BP]You can definitely apply this rule to your interactions with women. It will steer you right 9 times in 10. With men, you can be much more generous. Men are more likely to appreciate favors and reciprocate when needed. Start small. Some men will be deadbeats. You will learn to recognize and discard them with experience. Those that prove themselves are worth the effort. Having a close group of loyal men who genuinely look out for each other is priceless. Develop the ability to find or build these … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 07:27 AM |
| 13 | Red Pill Advice for Software EngineersQuit talking out your ass. This pronoun crap has been happening for over 20 years. It started in the liberal arts. Has nothing to do with Lovelace or CompSci. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 09:30 AM |
| 4 | "I was a former super hot chick, and now older woman. I can tell you a few things of what it is like from the other side." (second response)You are correct. The atheist movement, especially in the US, is tiny and irrelevant. Politically powerless. They serve only as a scapegoat to help Scare Out the Vote. Feminism is the true heavyweight. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 02:59 AM |
| 5 | Should I buy her (A Russian Girl) flower/s on the first date?Girls that are over 25 usually have sex within 2-3 dates and girls under 25 take 3-5. I have another 19yo and it took almost 7. unless they are super drunk and you pick them up in a club. I moved one sentence in your last paragraph. Made it much more accurate. Take them off the pedestal. Russian girls have ONS. You know they do. You want to go on 7 dates again to get laid? That's what happens when you follow the rules. "I expect flowers on the first date," is a shit test. Are you really going to… | /r/trpGAME | 10/08/14 02:13 AM |
| 97 | Ran into my ex the other day...Mom might have acted like she liked him, but I doubt it was sincere. I don't know his situation, but I doubt he has any "tips" to offer. Betas are the invisible man. Neither mom or GF gave him a second thought. He was there only as a placeholder until some better guy comes along. A faceless mannequin for functions where a date is required. Life support for a wallet. Daughter pisses off mom in some mundane quarrel. Mom rats out daughter. Hamsters that it was for her daughter's own good: "I helped… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/14 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Tony Soprano or how to be a beta with the illusion you're the top alpha of all alphasI agree. I have never understood people listing Tony Soprano as an alpha example. He's a tantrum-throwing crybaby with zero influence over his women. Even his shrink dominates him. The entire premise of the show was that even macho mobsters are regular guys (AKA wimps), with panic attacks, therapists, difficult kids, and nagging women. Not saying the show wasn't entertaining. They had some great writers and a very strong cast. But in every "Alpha examples in TV" thread, someone always nominates … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 06:58 AM |
| 2 | U.S. states receive federal money to issue child support orders, creating a perverse incentive.It's a job creation program. State will gladly hire a couple thousand enforcers and clerks if the Fed is paying the bulk of the bill. Politicians love it. Come re-election time, they can claim they created jobs. Bureaucrats love it too. One of the easiest ways to increase your clout and be promoted is to build a pyramid under yourself. Family court lawyers absolutely love it. The more persecution, the more cases, the more billable hours. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Just a simple question about fitness.I've heard from multiple girlfriend's friends that they assume I'm some douchey meathead or something and then they get to know me and I'm nothing what they thought. This right here is gold. Real men do not fit in a single box. Cultivate that perception. Simple and predictable is boring! | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 06:13 AM |
| 2 | My weakness: Low hanging fruitGood discussion all around. The more I think about it, the less certain I am of my original position. I've seen many examples of both reactions. Men with low or average SMV aren't even on her sexual radar. The fact girls saw him take home a normal-looking woman is a win. Gets them to re-evaluate you. Men with high SMV can get away with it. Pure and simple. A girl isn't going to write him off just because he took something easy. Things are more complicated for the men in the middle. His SMV is go… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 05:34 PM |
| 31 | My weakness: Low hanging fruitTrue, a woman would never say those words, but I wasn't writing for a female audience. A woman won't pause to reason it out, she'll just feel it: "Ewww, that's gross!" Men are berated for ranking women on a crude 1-10 scale, but women have their own well-established hierarchy. They know their ranking very well and jealously guard their position. When a woman says, "Men are pigs; they'll fuck anything," she isn't literally complaining that some guy fucked a dozen other women. She's unhappy, becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 09:34 AM |
| 26 | My weakness: Low hanging fruitTurning her down doesn't display high value, since it is naturally assumed you will reject her advances. Taking her home displays low value. It will be noticed. It will be remembered. "He fucks pigs. If I fuck him, people will think I'm a pig." Of course, that only matters if you're at a locals hangout where you will be recognized. Like you, I live in a major vacation town. Weekend after weekend of never seeing the same crowd twice. With such an abundance of tourist tail, wasting an evening to "… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Disaster when a girl fails to follow TRP theory.Doesn't matter where you got married. Each US state is required to recognize all other states' marriages and divorces. (This is why gay marriage is a national debate. Prior to DOMA, if a gay couple legally married in Massachusetts, and later moved to Utah, then Utah would be required to recognize them as married couple.) If Jane becomes a California resident (permanent habitation in state for 6 months) and files for divorce, then CA has jurisdiction over the divorce. Jurisdiction is determined b… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 07:05 AM |
| 22 | Increased sexual interest from Women after bulking-up/muscles?My three guesses: Frigid, old, or insecure. Some unfortunate women have never had a pleasurable sexual encounter. They are attracted to, but have less desire to be with, a man who is sexually appealing. Older women are trying to get off the carousel and lock down those beta bucks. She knows you will be wild and fun, but she also knows her eggs aren't getting any fresher. You look too masculine to be interested in marriage. Insecure women pedestalize top-quality men. Those women want men who is o… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 03:24 AM |
| 0 | Shaming women for being a whore is absolutely okay, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.It is not my responsibility to spoon feed you. Do your homework. Read and succeed. The point is, we want to be red pill and feel justified, correct? No. The point is we use RP to improve. We want those that would discredit our ideas to look foolish almost as fast as they speak up, correct? No. Our ideas are only worthwhile if they produce real results. If they do, then it doesn't matter what our critics say. Those critics are wrong and thus irrelevant. Exposing them is a pointless waste of time.… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 02:55 AM |
| -1 | Shaming women for being a whore is absolutely okay, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.You are so full of shit. Quit being a weasel. You've been here less than a week. Stop posting and start reading. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 03:45 PM |
| 4 | Shaming women for being a whore is absolutely okay, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.This is not a movement. We are not crusading. TRP does not give one shit about public perception or moral high ground. Our focus is facts, not ideals. The genders are not equal. That is a fact. A promiscuous woman is a loser and a fool. She starts with high value, but discards it through her actions. In contrast, men are disposable. We start with no value. We build value from a foundation of nothing. No man can be promiscuous until he has developed value. Men and women are playing different game… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 01:10 PM |
| 1 | There are more than two options.There are no alpha people. There are no beta people. This is just a lazy shorthand we use, and is not meant to be taken literally. Alpha and beta are used to categorize personality traits. We are composed of all these different traits. When we call someone a beta, we are not claiming he possesses no alpha traits. It is just shorthand for "displaying too many beta traits." The goal has always been to have the correct alpha/beta balance for the given situation. When we post blanket advice that men… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/14 09:17 PM |
| 10 | A great example of word mincing to get a crazy audience on your side.Your statements are all true, but he's not wrong. The most privileged women are the ones most likely to be dissatisfied. Most likely to be on mood meds. When an achievement is easy, its value is fleeting. Like a child celebrity burning through their money, these women piss away all these things. Those benefits were unearned. Gifts are taken for granted. They assume they can be replaced at will, again and again, with no meaningful effort. Make them earn something (your attention), and they'll val… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/14 03:33 PM |
| 11 | #WomenAgainstFeminism goes viral as people explain why they don't need feminism anymoreThere is no irony or hypocrisy. Other peoples' opinions are not our concern. Outsiders commonly mistake us for male rights activists. Their misunderstandings and ignorance of our beliefs are not our responsibility. RedPill is a philosophy, not a movement. Advocacy and recruiting are discouraged. There is no organized effort or goal to change the outside public. Our focus is changing and educating ourselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/14 01:21 AM |
| 9 | Drop any relationship, romantic or friendship, that does not bring happiness into your life.Congrats on making a change. I think you're moving in the right direction, but I'm going to add one piece of advice: This does not have to be a permanent abandonment. You can give these people a second chance. After you have taken time to internalize and cement your change, when all possibility of backsliding has been eliminated, you may then introduce family and friends to the new you. Go slow. One at a time. Make a guarded effort to reconnect. If they can accept and interact positively with th… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/14 12:24 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Know your value, push the limits to the point of being borderline arrogant. Do NOT play safe.Learn the difference between amoral and immoral. This married woman literally fucked the first neighborhood alpha she met. She is immoral. OP did not trick or deceive her. She offered sex and he accepted. He is amoral. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 08:01 AM |
| 3 | When is it okay to text back after no response?As a way to get the pointless conversation going again? Sure, whatever. But to arrange an actual meet? It won't work. Men lead. Keep it simple: "Hey. I'm going to be at [place] after work on [day]. Come meet me." | /r/trpGAME | 31/07/14 06:01 AM |
| 5 | When is it okay to text back after no response?...we've been going back and forth daily for quite some time now. I left out that in the past my messages have simply not gone through... Both are important details. Assume your message didn't go through. Go ahead and text her, but it's a new conversation. Do not mention the lost message. Do not mention you were waiting to hear from her. Let her think you got busy for 4 days. I suggest getting to the fucking point ASAP. Meet this girl, or quit wasting time. Time is man's currency. The more ready… | /r/trpGAME | 31/07/14 04:34 AM |
| 4 | What your workout says about your social classEven bluepill betas instinctively understand AF/BB. When beta men establish a nice, secure, prosperous club (execs, doctors, engineers, lawyers), they use conformity and peer pressure to guard against the introduction of beefy alpha types. Getting too big can limit your career. The swole guy will score lower in interviews than an equally qualified, but less threatening beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Inside the world of 'deadbeat dads': In and out of jail, unable, or unwilling to payIf you are behind on child support, your passport can be suspended. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Inside the world of 'deadbeat dads': In and out of jail, unable, or unwilling to payExcept their children won't be foreigners. That has been the US strategy since inception. We take the smartest and/or hardest-working people from around the world. We make them bust ass, but we let their descendents become Americans. I don't care what color this country is 30 years from now. Let the brown and yellow people pay my social security. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 03:57 AM |
| 2 | I think I learned this from you guys. Married life field report with a cool storyA wise man will consider what outcomes are most probable. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 09:35 PM |
| 11 | I think I learned this from you guys. Married life field report with a cool storyIt is a terrible idea. Puts you firmly in beta bucks category. She is indulging herself, while you take care of the mundane. Your contributions are invisible and will be taken for granted. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Don't be unattractiveI honestly feel like we're talking to women. They pick one line from the comments and ignore the rest. Nothing but emotional arguments. They keep telling themselves there is no point in trying. Success is impossible/not worth the effort/too time-consuming. A pack of comfortable little lies to justify their inaction. Allows them to be lazy without guilt. It is pure hamstering. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Don't be unattractiveSome children are indeed born without a jawbone, or even more serious facial deformities. Many hospitals and doctors will actually treat them for free. I'm going to take a wild guess that you don't have some nasty birth defect. You're just less than perfect. You weren't born #1, and you're too lazy to choose option #2. Here, let me spell out the 3rd choice: Be attractive Don't be unattractive Be a miserable quitter The laziness, not your jawbone, is why you're unattractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 08:01 AM |
| 6 | Don't be unattractiveJesus Fucking Christ, take the gun out of your mouth. Which of those 10 things is too much? You should be doing all of them even if you're voluntarily celibate. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 07:38 AM |
| 16 | My post-divorce dating experiences (40 yrs old, 3 kids)If you're beta, you'll probably be 40, married, AND lonely. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 03:59 AM |
| 5 | My[20F] boyfriend[21M] is being poisoned by The Red Pill. Help.RYO shops started popping up in the US the last few years. They are exploiting a tax loophole to sell cigarettes for cheap. The governments (state & federal) have very high taxes on cigarettes, but the taxes don't apply to tobacco sold in leaf form. You go into these shops and buy leaf tobacco, paper, and filters from the attendant. They have a factory-level machine that you then use to assemble and pack your own carton of cigarettes. Final cost runs about $25-$35 a carton, depending on the qual… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 03:41 AM |
| 24 | Millennials saying no to marriageIn case any guy reading this thinks his number is high, that this is some absurd case... it isn't. In my state, if you make $75,000 a year with two kids, and mother wins full custody, your child support payment is $1550 per month. For simplicity, assume the kids are twins, and mom divorced you on the twins' 8th birthday. Total after 10 years of support = $186,000. (My state is far from the worst. The same scenario in California could cost you over $1800 per month.) And that is JUST child support… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 11:54 AM |
| 3 | How does your post advance the discussion of sexual strategy?If you don't like what's being posted, try posting the types of articles you want to see. Only 5% of subscribers comment, and only 5% of commenters submit new articles. OK, those statistics are pulled straight from my ass, but it doesn't take many like-minded authors to influence the community's direction. Be one of them. Lead by example. Personally, I read these anger/whine/awakening threads and start a discussion on strategy. Have a look at my comment history. Probably 75% of my posts are some… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 07:19 AM |
| 24 | RP How To: Party Host GameFor guys who don't have the necessary social circle yet, this article probably seems pointless. Here's some advice I gave another dude 2 weeks ago on how to start building a circle: I never avoid social interactions but nobody really invites me anywhere. There's an old saying: "If you want to receive a letter, send a letter." Know who always gets invited? The guy who organized the previous event. Start simple: "Hey, I was thinking of grilling some burgers this weekend. You guys want to come over… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 06:53 AM |
| 14 | RP How To: Party Host GameSolid post and great advice. I just can't imagine doing that every month. Two, maybe three a year, is all I can handle. Additional positives: You'll end up playing matchmaker. Just by making introductions, you'll get a reputation as a grade-A wingman that will hopefully lead to reciprocation. You'll become the hub of the social circle. People will want an invite to your next party, so they'll make sure you're invited to yours. Roll in with extra girls and you'll always be invited. Additional neg… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 06:49 AM |
| 20 | Partying/going to bars is a bad way to meet womengirls are looking for something that makes them happy in a really immediate way that they don't really have to think about, like a good looking guy, or someone who's well connected and does all kinds of cool shit. So be that guy. Be happy, good looking, cool, and connected. Just don't give her what she wants. What does she want? She wants free validation, free entertainment, free status by association. The key word is free. She wants your time, your energy, and your presence, all without giving … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 06:24 AM |
| 5 | Using TRP to diffuse situationsI don't know if you're new to TRP, or if you've been here for ages, but you did fine. Focus on what you did right. It was a lot: You passed the initial shit test. You passed again when the test was escalated. You then initiated kino and maintained frame throughout. I don't know if she was attracted to you at the start, but she definitely was after. Doesn't really matter, does it? You've figured out how to build attraction. You can make this shit happen. That was good game. How good? When she cam… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 04:36 AM |
| 15 | Using TRP to diffuse situationsYes and no. They're mirroring their desires. What response does a guy hope for when he is attracted to a girl? He wants her to be friendly, nice and feminine. So how does the beta guy approach? By acting friendly, nice and feminine. What response does a girl hope for when she is attracted to a man? Someone assured, dominant and masculine. So how did she approach? By acting assured, dominant and masculine. Both are examples of bad game. The girls think beta boy is sexless. OP thought the girl wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 09:57 PM |
| 27 | Using TRP to diffuse situationsDude, she was hitting on you. Girl game is clumsy, especially when they're drunk and average-looking. They hate having to initiate, so they project hostility. You told her to do something (rotate the phone) and she obeyed. You touched her mouth and didn't get slapped, pushed or told off? She was interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 08:13 PM |
| 15 | I never knew...Welcome. Here is the part of your post that I found interesting: I dropped my sympathy for these weak guys who just let these girls walk all over them. These are girls who honestly are fun people and nice when you get to know them. But they have these betas trying to tame them and it's become so apparent to me that assertiveness, dominance , and Confidence are some of the things that we as men will fail without. Not only are these guys trying to tame them, they're doing it at the worst possible … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Stumbled upon this subreddit through an angry comment bashing it - now it has changed my lifeMen who try to "friend" their way into a woman's pants are the true manipulative liars. In TRP we call this a covert contract. It is the game plan of the bluepill and the white knight. It is passive, weak and does not work. Think back to your blue pill days. I'll guarantee most of us had some internal dialog where we thought, "If I do A, B & C she'll fall in love with me!" Problem is, you never told the girl about that contract. You didn't let her in on your true desires. If you did, she'd have … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 06:36 AM |
| 5 | If you are attracted to her, so is someone else.Yes, some women are better than others, just be careful you're not pedestalizing. Even high quality women are still women. She might be slower to turn on you, might resist her baser instincts a dozen times before caving in, but she is still a woman, and AWALT. Even the best of them are still just 2 chromosomes away from a chimpanzee. Same as us. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/14 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Guy gets slammed with $105K in debt from ex-wife, was able to pay it off in exchange for 2 years of his lifeDivorce law varies state to state. Where I live, unless you can definitively prove that ALL debt on a credit card was used by one person, it is join debt. If she bought something for the house (a shared asset) it can be considered joint debt. Gas for a car you both drove. Groceries. Anything. In my case, family court determined it was all joint debt, that we were both responsible, and that was that. The court placed no obligation on my ex-wife (or me) to make payments. In the eyes of the court, … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/14 06:18 AM |
| 10 | Spinning a few plates. How do I avoid the eventual relationship ultimatumRemember: "Women are the gatekeepers of sex; men are the gatekeepers of commitment." The second half of that equation can be just as powerful as the first. As with sex, both parties must be interested, but this time it is YOUR decision to make. You can say yes, no or maybe. If you say no, she can leave or she can stay. If she chooses to remain with you, then her decision is not your responsibility. If she leaves, then good for her. She made an adult decision. If you say maybe, she can leave or s… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 02:15 AM |
| 18 | Christopher Hitchens shows us how to handle a Feminist shit testNot from this interview, but one of his most humorous quotes: I am obsessed with sex. Ever since I decided my God given male member was going to give me no peace, I decided to give it no rest in return. -- Christopher Hitchens | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 01:25 AM |
| 50 | We Should Give Up Encouraging Girls To Do Science, Says Glasgow University Professor Dr Gijsbert StoetI had a FWB who was a single mom. She had a $30k hospital back office desk job. Always bitching about money. She was educated, well read, and far more computer savvy than most women. I offered to help her break into software QA. (With a medical insurance company I'd contracted for -- she used their software daily!) A couple months study, 3-4 books, and my reference would have doubled her money. Zero interest. She changed the topic every time. She wanted a shoulder to cry on, not a solution to he… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 08:38 AM |
| 4 | FR: Those that think there are unicorns, read this. [Wall of text]People are not alpha or beta. Alpha and beta are terms used to describe personality traits. We each have a mix of these traits, some alpha and some beta. Both have their strengths and uses. Dude cheated and got caught. He probably over-corrected to make her feel secure, and in doing so displayed too much beta, killing her attraction. Now that he's locked her down, he might revert to his previous, attractive, alpha personality... but I wouldn't bet on it. Chances are he'll get lazy and even less … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 08:14 AM |
| 83 | We Should Give Up Encouraging Girls To Do Science, Says Glasgow University Professor Dr Gijsbert StoetTop schools have limited slots. If you're wasting those slots on unmotivated women, you are undermining the institution. Haha, who am I kidding? These institutions undermined themselves 10+ years ago. America succeeds only because we brain drain the rest of the world. None of my doctors were born with Anglican names. Every software engineer of merit that I've worked with was either self-taught or an immigrant. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 07:44 AM |
| 1 | So, MGTOW's get a lot of hate. Why?I was going to go to bed, ha! OK, onto your bullet points: It's a fringe movement [...] Society-wide change happens on the fringes. Feminism was ignited by a small group of radicals [...] I agree completely. An even better example is the American Revolution. The American colonies were truly divided. One-third of the population were royalists, one-third indifferent, and one-third revolutionary. That last group was significant and vocal enough to spark a war and the birth of a nation. [...] popula… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 07:16 AM |
| 1 | So, MGTOW's get a lot of hate. Why?RedPope, I think I've seen you over at AlreadyRed, so please note that I'll be posting a much-improved version there and that I am open to big picture refinements and suggestions to what I've said here. You have, and I sincerely look forward to reading it! I'll try to give a more thorough reply once you post it. But please do not mistake me for a MGTOW member or advocate. I am neither. If I'm known for anything, it is for encouraging young men to become part of the 20% who get to participate in … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 06:11 AM |
| 2 | I just did the hardest job in the world in under three hours!Subscribe to r/RedPillParenting -- new sub and not very active, but hoping that changes. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 10:40 AM |
| 3 | I just did the hardest job in the world in under three hours!This discussion is on single mothers with FIVE kids. Totally different situation. Much rarer cases, and far less deviation. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 10:37 AM |
| 5 | My Journey from PUA to the RP, and Why I grown to respect TRP.Most TRP subscribers still advocate game. We've just moved past routines and lines. We still have material, but it is looser and unscripted. More natural, less rehearsed. The true distinction is a RP man's confidence is built upon his inner value, not the strength of his material. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 09:58 AM |
| 10 | So, MGTOW's get a lot of hate. Why?I am not MGTOW. In fact, I'm usually rather critical of them. But I hardly think this movement is "toxic to civilization." In fact, the MGTOW movement may be a necessary and natural reaction: The world population has QUADRUPLED in the last 100 years (1.8B in 1914, 7B today). Our current levels are not sustainable. The Earth cannot support us. We don't need to maintain, we need to REDUCE. Educated people are well aware of this, and consciously or not, they are the demographic reproducing the leas… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 09:34 AM |
| 4 | I just did the hardest job in the world in under three hours!No worries. My comment was flippant. We can disagree with how regularly men contribute. Hard numbers will be impossible to find. In my experience, of all the other couples I knew, the husband contributed. Some did more, some did less, absolutely. I'll freely concede that my sample size is small, regionally and culturally limited, etc. But all our wives still bitched that we did "nothing" to help. Shit, not only did I do all the stuff I listed above, I also paid for a maid to come every two weeks… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 12:28 AM |
| 6 | I just did the hardest job in the world in under three hours!Wasn't an insult or a joke. I was married for 10 years. When I came home, my second job began. Modern husbands contribute to the housework. The kids were at my side throughout the evening. I made dinner more often than not and did almost 100% of the laundry, plus all the usually "manly" maintenance and yardwork chores. I put the kids to bed every single night. Walking in, grabbing a beer, and watching TV uninterrupted? Before we had kids, yeah, maybe. But even then it was rare. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 11:26 PM |
| 8 | I just did the hardest job in the world in under three hours!Rare is the woman who rises to the challenge. If she has, then you should respect her. As the other comment says, she's demonstrated she is a responsible adult. I know a few who match your description as well, but they are a tiny minority. That's why my post very clearly said "9 out of 10." But the other 90% are riding on their coattails. Claiming they're working just as hard. That is bullshit. Another blue pill fairy tale. They are not responsible adults and they do not deserve respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 11:10 PM |
| 9 | Do you guys think women have a hardwired cognitive dissonance between what they "think" they want and what they are biologically attracted to?The key line in this story: "that door closed years ago" (got head and blew her off) She was likely holding onto some shame/anger from that blowjob, even though it was years ago. "I did that for him and he blew me off!" So now, years later, she rebuffs your advances and tells you she has other options. Her long lingering shame/anger was thus mollified. The barrier to attraction was removed. So by the time you drove her home, she was DTF. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 10:49 PM |
| 13 | I just did the hardest job in the world in under three hours!Husband comes home from work and he gets to relax What decade were you married in? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 10:11 PM |
| 54 | I just did the hardest job in the world in under three hours!Yeah they should try being a single mom with 5kids and a fulltime job. I have nothing but the utmost respect for these women. Do not respect a woman who voluntarily made a lifetime full of mistakes. The government is supporting those kids, not her. She doesn't have a fulltime job. If she did, the income would reduce her benefits. Hell, daycare would cost more than she'd make. She is a parasite. I've encountered too many of these women. 9 out of 10 didn't get into this situation due to some tragi… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 10:08 PM |
| 14 | Found this picture and thought it belongs here.This is fucking garbage and it isn't TRP. Lurk more and read the sidebar. Stop trying to reduce TRP to a fucking infographic. Alpha and beta are descriptions of personality traits. They are not some sort of fucking class system. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 09:10 AM |
| 13 | Wife wants to retire at 40, husband wants her to work. Whats a girl to do?I was going to make the same point. They both sound like fools in her story, completely unaware of any options except A & B. You came up with options C & D. I have a plan E that's even more extreme. The wife says: We don't need the money at this point (our retirement accounts and college savings for both kids are in good shape) Assuming this is true, the dude could sell the business and they could BOTH retire. Or at least take a year off to travel. (Cause frankly, being retired at 40 is fucking … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 02:15 AM |
| 13 | After years of analysis and experimentation, here are my cliff notes on having a fun, pleasurable, fulfilling lifeI never avoid social interactions but nobody really invites me anywhere. There's an old saying: "If you want to receive a letter, send a letter." Know who always gets invited? The guy who organized the previous event. Start simple: "Hey, I was thinking of grilling some burgers this weekend. You guys want to come over and watch Sporting Event/Game of Thrones/etc?" "There are some hot chicks at that Irish Bar. Let's grab a beer after work/class." "Have you ever tried my gym? I can get you a day pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 07:20 AM |
| 9 | Social game is the only gameNo offense meant, but your reply is all over the place. You seem confused. BP men are told women are special. Treat them right and be rewarded. That is a lie. You'll orbit plenty of female friends, but have no real success. BP men are told to study hard. Work extra hours and be rewarded. That is a lie. You'll be comfortable, but have no real success. The RP truth is in order to succeed, you have to stop doing what you're told, and start doing what actually works. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 04:08 AM |
| 3 | On LTR game and positive beta behavior. (Understanding the pluralistic mating strategies of women).Read the link Rollo posted in this thread. Your hypothetical alpha is "the manicorn"... lol | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 06:24 AM |
| 7 | On LTR game and positive beta behavior. (Understanding the pluralistic mating strategies of women).The guys who learn, gain, improve, and wait will build themselves into men of genuine value. When/if they choose to settle down, they will have the knowledge to select and the ability to acquire a young, loyal, feminine bride. You are worried that too many men will find TRP and follow this path? Accomplished men partnering with loyal women. Sounds like the foundation of a very strong society. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 06:19 AM |
| 15 | On LTR game and positive beta behavior. (Understanding the pluralistic mating strategies of women).He is, but Rollo correctly points out that: Most of us will have a far, far more difficult struggle reaching and maintaining alpha dominance. Climbing the mountain is hard. Taking a couple steps down from the peak is trivial. If she needs it, she will hamster her own beta image for you, whether you provide it or not. She will invent some reason to justify her attraction. "You don't know him like I do. Deep down, he's really nice!" I've made similar arguments when guys worry they'll go too far wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 06:00 AM |
| 28 | On LTR game and positive beta behavior. (Understanding the pluralistic mating strategies of women)."oh so if a wife doesn't feel like having sex that makes it ok to cheat?!" Always convert hypothetical tests to specifics. When a woman poses a hypothetical scenario, she isn't philosophizing, she is concealing. Blow away all pretense by answering directly. "Yes, if you cut me off, I will cheat. If you violate the contract, there is no contract." Ever notice how a political candidate never answers a hostile question? Instead he just goes straight to whatever message he wants to deliver. Reporter… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Oversaturation of new members within Redpill communityJust a quick follow-up: leftajar was true to his word and made a thread on TRP's main forum. It was solid fundamental material: A Lot of People Think RP is Anti-woman... His thread has 500 upvotes, 230 comments, and gold x2. The new freshman class is very eager and will listen to us veterans. | /r/AlreadyRed | 09/07/14 04:03 AM |
| 22 | A lot of people think RP is anti-woman... let's put that one to rest.Anger is the first stage of TRP, and we just had 1500+ new subscribers. An entire new freshman class. Rage is going to be more frequent the next month or two. Those that stick around will find that TRP offers much more that just a place to vent. After the anger comes understanding, and finally acceptance. That is when progress really begins. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 03:57 PM |
| 2 | The Apology EpidemicThe internet makes me sentimental for old-time lynch mobs. Back then, if people wanted to punish you, they had to leave the house and get their hands dirty. What a beautiful analogy. This sums up social media so perfectly. The laziest hate groups ever. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 05:53 AM |
| 70 | Asked a girl out while on a date with another girl...He might, but strongly I'd recommend against it. They go to the same parties, hang in the same social circles, and people probably know she has a BF. If he moves on her now, regardless of outcome, G1 can poison the well. He scorned her by withholding attention in favor of another girl. Hell hath no fury... Sometimes you gotta do whatever it takes to keep the peace. Sometimes the best play is the beta play. Apologize for ignoring her at the party. Make up for it by buying her a drink. Ask her how… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 02:09 AM |
| 3 | What does sales, politics, and TRP all have in common? - Persuasion and influenceMuch of PUA and TRP terminology comes straight from sales. Time constraints, establishing rapport, closing, etc. Even "last minute resistance" -- one of the most controversial topics in TRP -- is part of sales vocabulary! Game, like sales, feels fake when you first start. We've all encountered an inexperienced salesman who was too pushy, try-hard, or even "creepy." In contrast, a skilled salesman is smooth, pleasant, and efficient. He leaves both parties feeling satisfied, all while using the ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 01:32 AM |
| 16 | "Ladies of Reddit, what tastes in men do you have that you're not proud of?"Great observation. Absolutely correct. Recently, I was chatting with a group of girls. All in their late 20s. One was a 6, bit of a Plain Jane. I was far more interested in her friends. When I made a dirty joke, Plain Jane blushed while giggling. I swear she suddenly transformed into a 9! If I made a list of traits I find attractive in women, "shy" and "innocent" wouldn't make the cut. Especially in a girl north of 25. I'm in my 40s. I find timid or inexperienced women tiring. Been there, done t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/14 07:30 AM |
| 39 | Oversaturation of new members within Redpill communityUnfortunately, for every new guy who lurks and learns, there are two or three styling themselves as instant experts. I confronted one dude earlier today. He subscribed to TRP, then instantly went off to do battle against our critics. Kid seriously made over 50 posts in under 24 hours. This is not Eternal September. This was a single spike of 1500 new members. A new freshman class. We can welcome and orientate them, but TRP needs every endorsed contributor and mod to get involved. Please come hel… | /r/AlreadyRed | 06/07/14 10:34 PM |
| 16 | Having it out over "dread game" with r/punchingmorpheus "5 years of Reddit Gold" founder.TRP does not politic. If you'd been here longer than a month, you'd know that. How many of our mods and endorsed members over there aiding your cause? Did you change his mind? A sudden triumph of reason over ignorance? No. Just two nerds squabbling over vocabulary. TRP promotes real gains. Real improvements. Real change. You say high profile reddit account like it means something. Does he have a double neckbeard? Reddit is nothing. The Internet is nothing. The only value to any website is what y… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 08:11 PM |
| 27 | Having it out over "dread game" with r/punchingmorpheus "5 years of Reddit Gold" founder.No one cares about your silly Internet drama. Quit being a SJW. This is not a crusade and you are not our champion. TRP does not care what outsiders think. Engaging them is not productive. Let their accusations and falsehoods go unanswered. They don't matter. Arguing with them will not get you laid. Arguing with them will not lead to self improvement. Arguing with them will not make you a man. You can't change the world, but you can change your self. Stop being a keyboard warrior and go to the g… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 07:12 PM |
| 1 | 5 characteristics of good company. Who you should surround yourself with.Ah, this was your blog post. Looks like you've been busy spamming trueinnaga.me articles to multiple subreddits. Want some constructive criticism? Grow a thicker skin. Writing for strangers can be brutal, and the Internet is the most ruthless audience of all. My comment was mild. You need to toughen up. P.S. Might want to nix that article on 5 Ways to Maintain Frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 08:29 AM |
| 3 | 5 characteristics of good company. Who you should surround yourself with.You guys need to learn to be more critical. Almost every "Top X" blog list is worthless. This one is no different. Easily churned out blog filler. Just read the headings, skip the article: “You are the product of the five closest people in your life.” People Who Are Not Overly Judgmental People You Can Connect With People Who Add Value To Your Life People Whose Life You Can Add To People Who Drive You Let me be the hundredth person today to point you at the sidebar. Ignore this tripe and go read… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 05:29 AM |
| 3 | “First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, and then you win.”For most of the world, the fight is long over. Feminism was the revolution. We lost. They achieved victory slowly buy surely over the past few decades. We live under their rules now. Make an anonymous account and spend a few weeks venting if you must. But then put the anger behind you. Accept the injustice. Study the new reality. Learn their rules. Discover how to succeed inside their system. Discard your childhood fantasies of justice, karma, and happily ever after. You need to accept the world… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 05:10 AM |
| 7 | Be careful who you tell about The Red Pill.A lazy man thinks having one woman is easier than spinning plates. But because he is lazy, he can't keep even one. His marriage will last 6-8 years. She'll leave as soon as the youngest child is out of diapers. 3-4 years of alimony and 16 years of child support. Being a lazy man is too expensive. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/14 08:47 PM |
| 6 | Be careful who you tell about The Red Pill.The most and least successful guys have women saying crap about them to other people. AKA assholes and creepers. And any guy safely in the middle is invisible. Boring and dickless. Ideal husband material. So, there are our 3 choices: asshole badboy, dickless husband, or creeper rapist. Such wonderful options. Think I'll keep on being an asshole. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/14 08:36 PM |
| 12 | Witnessed defused public shit test in Prague.Feminism is a tightrope act rarely attempted without proven government safety nets. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/14 08:22 PM |
| 2 | How to ruin a good RedPill advice with just one BluePill pount.I agree. You can't help an addict until they hit rock bottom. Until then, you're just enabling. Soft truths and comfort just postpone the crash. If some dead-bedroom husband hears us say "don't ask her advice, just pick the restaurant" and implements only that one harmless and easy change -- without hearing the rest of what we have to say, without understanding the theory behind it -- his marriage may become 5% better, but it will still be 95% shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 10:35 PM |
| 3 | So why do we need the Red Pill? Exploring root causes among us subscribers.Not hard to find examples of TRP behaving as an echo chamber. There are a few topics that unleash a sort of herd mentality. But you are correct, this place is a rare oasis. It is refreshing, amazing and surprising to find a forum where you can disagree with anything so long as you present a coherent and plausible argument. Disagree with one of our core concepts? Tell us why we're wrong. Make a decent case. And we'll listen. We'll engage. We'll debate. We'll tell you why you're wrong, bury you in… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 10:13 PM |
| 14 | Post-wall woman is personally offended that less educated men participate in same speed dating event. More hamsters in the comment sectionGirl game used to be a thing. Being a wife wasn't about cooking and cleaning, women were expected to be charming and entertaining. Our grandmothers and great-grandmothers were taught music, crafts and arts. The softer skills and merry talents their hard-working husbands didn't have time to pursue. The piano used to be a household staple! After dinner, the family would gather to sing along while grandma played the piano. The entire house would be filled with music and joy. Am I the only man here … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 09:40 AM |
| 92 | "Inside the Angry Online Men's Rights Group Called 'Red Pill'"she caps it all off by saying the idea that men want sex from women is a "toxic belief" No, no, she actually claims the problem is that men want to get sex from women. She thinks it is healthy for men to want sex, but it is toxic when men want to get sex. WTF? Ma'am, we get sex by making women want sex. By being attractive, exciting and desirable men. By being sexy. That's our big secret. Stop trying to make this complicated. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 08:18 AM |
| 24 | Let's be honest and cop to the "manipulation" this subreddit propagates in order to "trick women into having sex" with us. (Been lurking for a few weeks, this is my first post here)I posted this in redpillschool's sticky thread, where he brought up this amazing point: Consider for a second that this is actually a belief people hold- that there is a way to trick a woman into sleeping with you. Fucking amen! Next time some woman says this shit, ask them HOW. What trick would make you pants-dropping wet for some boring-but-nice, unattractive, overweight, career drone? You won't get a direct answer to that, because there is no trick. There are no magic words. There is no gimmi… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 08:01 AM |
| 15 | The Direction of The Red Pill and a Welcome Message to Newcomerspeople don't actually give a shit about other people to the extent that I once believed I would have sworn it was a Dale Carnegie quote, but Google says otherwise. One of my favorites: "You probably wouldn’t worry about what people think of you if you could know how seldom they do." --Olin Miller Most men are invisible to most women. We refer to this as the 80/20 rule. 80% of women are chasing the same 20% of men. Your goal is to become part of that top 20%. It takes a lot of effort and is very … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 02:39 AM |
| 29 | The Direction of The Red Pill and a Welcome Message to NewcomersConsider for a second that this is actually a belief people hold- that there is a way to trick a woman into sleeping with you. Fucking amen! Next time some woman says this shit, ask them HOW. What trick would make you pants-dropping wet for some boring-but-nice, unattractive, overweight, career drone? You won't get a direct answer to that, because there is no trick. There are no magic words. There is no gimmick that will make her desire a man she doesn't find desirable. The "tricks" TRP will tea… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Natural Alpha vs Unnatural AlphaYour base concept is flawed. Alpha and beta describe traits, not people. There is no alpha man. There is no beta man. Our personalities are composed of a mix of many different traits. Some of these traits are alpha: selfish, driven, aggressive. Some traits are beta: caring, sympathetic, protective. Notice that none of these are negatives. These are all valuable and desirable traits in men. The strategy is to display the correct mix at the correct time. Chances are, like most of us, you've been r… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 04:27 PM |
| 8 | The impossible thing that EMSK is advocating: romance without chastityIf women want to bring back chastity, self-respecting men like us may revisit romance. But we aren't demanding this! We're fine with continuing our game as-is. Before TRP, many of us tried. We tried to find loyal, compatible women. We tried to be romantic and chivalrous. And women rejected us. Again and again and again. In a traditional society, being romantic and caring would have won us loving wives and happy marriages. But we don't live in that world. Haven't for generations now. Young women … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 03:57 PM |
| 4 | The Institution of Marriage is Fucked, Brah – TRP Observations While Stoned at a Wedding.You don't mention a single red pill point. OP is pretty bakey flakey. There was a lot of fluff, but there was RP content. Priest placing extra obligations on the man, but none on the woman. Bullshit toasts to the groom's success in "winning" the girl. Her wedding, not their wedding. But this statement was solid, and was worth reading the article: these kids just getting started out could have had $25K-$45K of seed money to start a business, buy a house, fund retirement, spend on something useful… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 09:57 PM |
| 3 | We all know of shit tests, and ways to defuse them and handle them. But that's going on the defensive. How do you go on the offensive (figuratively) and keep her on her toes instead, especially in an LTR?Women use shit tests to evaluate the quality of a man. You've been making progress and gains, right? Are you a better man now? Then you want her to re-evaluate you. She needs to witness your improved quality. She'll only believe it if she discovers it for herself. You want her to shit test you. Athletes don't spend months training and then ask their coach how to hide from the judges. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Hjernevask: challenging cultural notions about male and female sexuality (a case for TRP success).The entire series is available on the sidebar under the title "Gender Studies Is Nonsense" -- I can't link to it directly because of the bot. The thread is #10 if you sort TRP by Best: All Time. It has working links to all 7 episodes. Great stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 10:43 AM |
| 7 | The Parental EffectAs a single father, I would love to think that the countless hours I spent reading to my kids, helping with their homework, and taking them on adventures, will result in them becoming successful and happy adults. But the harsh redpill truth is that all our efforts as parents are indirect factors. This may be a hurtful awakening to us RedPill fathers (and mothers). If there is any positive takeaway, it is this: Worry less. You don't have to be perfect. Your small mistakes won't matter. Any incons… | /r/RedPillParenting | 27/06/14 09:24 AM |
| 8 | 13 Things A Woman Can Do To Be More Attractive To MenOn the sidebar, there's a great documentary series titled "Gender Studies is Nonsense" (under Getting Started section). The host travels the world, interviewing scientists and examining their methods. Part 1: The Gender Equality Paradox absolutely and completely destroys gender studies. Rips them to shreds. It is brilliant, amusing, entertaining, and the reason the series is sidebarred. Required viewing for all TRP subscribers! Part 2: The Parental Effect is equally fascinating, and is directly … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 08:49 AM |
| 16 | The American Dream Is Every Man’s NightmareDon't blame women for society thinking men are disposable. That concept is prehistoric. It doesn't take 100 men to impregnate 100 women. Never has. The tribe can risk losing 25 men on a dangerous hunt or raid. It might even prove beneficial. Among primates, deliberately disposing of "excess" males is standard practice. You note that your idolized working men were the survivors of WW2 and the Great Depression. Throw WW1 in the mix too, and what do you have? Three generations in a row where a sign… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 07:20 AM |
| 2 | On being "marriage material."If it was just this one chick, ignore it. She sounds broken. But if it happens again, remember this RP maxim: Perfection is boring. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 05:57 AM |
| 18 | 46-year-old mother of three wants a rich, tall man with a nice build.I think you guys have it all wrong. She's looking for an OLDER man. Some guy in his mid/late 50s. She's volunteering herself as a plate for a retired alpha. An old silverback who still has drive, but lacks the patience/energy to be chasing 25 year-olds. At 46, her kids are moved/moving out. She isn't shopping for another beta bucks. She wants one last taste of alpha before she gets shipped off to Catladyland. She is still slim, rare at 46. She is "sometimes wild" -- code for sex drive. Also rare… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 06:46 PM |
| 3 | What is the difference between the Red Pill and the PUA community?Game is not a dirty word. Your dad had game, your mom had game, your grandfather had game, your grandmother had game, on and on, from the beginning of time. Any time you're talking about increasing your value or raising your price, you're talking about game. Everything you just proposed are just different variations of game. It is a very broad category. Compare it to the word "diet." I need to gain weight, you need to lose weight, Tom just needs to maintain, Dick has vitamin deficiency, and Harr… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 05:51 PM |
| 94 | What is the difference between the Red Pill and the PUA community?I don't know who said it first, but the best analogy: PUA = learning to be a better salesman TRP = making yourself a better product For maximum result, do both. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 05:47 AM |
| 4 | She is not your shoulder to cry on - UPDATE: I slipped upMaybe I'll go game some hot chick tomorrow. Or this weekend... No, wait, got to take my little girl to two birthday parties for her friends this weekend. Ooooo! Maybe I can hit on all of the other mothers! In front of their husbands and all of our children! Dread game can be so much easier than you think it is. It doesn't have to be so ham-fisted. You don't have to go to the bar. You don't even have to flirt. I'll bet after every one of these events, your wife spends 20 minutes retelling all the… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 04:26 PM |
| 10 | The future of the Red Pill movementThere will always be unrest and violence. But the truth is, we're living in one of the best, most peaceful periods of human history. The last 50 years have been the top 0.01% of human exhistance. Even among our community, only a couple hundred guys will push themselves into the winning side of the 80/20 rule. They'll enjoy years of glory. But it takes a lot of effort to stay on top, and eventually they'll slip. Eventually we all lose our edge. Ease up. Relax. Many more, but still a minority, wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 06:20 AM |
| 12 | She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring.I think you picked the wrong example. She goes on Match.com for a couple months every few months and nothing comes of it. That is not a sign of the Wall approaching. She goes on match.com every few months to get a cheap validation fix. Its a great high. Of course nothing comes of it. She has zero intention of finding a man there. From your description -- former dancer and "still hot as hell" -- this girl could be 10 years from the Wall. She is in the top 1% of women her age. Doesn't have a guy t… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 05:23 AM |
| 9 | FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not reallyI disagree. Keeping your mouth shut was the correct response. There was nothing to gain there. She wasn't testing you, she was covering her tracks. The briefest smirk while taking a sip of beer is perfect. Anything more is just asking for drama. Shit, your silence even demonstrates to other women that you won't criticize or embarrass them if you hook up. Bonus points. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 09:06 AM |
| 6 | My friend's response to his parents "you gotta lock her down and put a ring on her"First, I commend you on giving a measured response to a hostile reply. I respect that, even though I continue to disagree with you. I did assume a default Western woman, but I don't think that significantly changes my criticisms of your actions. If anything, it makes them more peculiar. Why such extreme distrust of someone inclined to be more trustworthy? Not frightened at all of being cuckolded Yes you are. Every man is. This is part of our base programming. You can't change it. Only threatened… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 08:38 AM |
| 17 | My friend's response to his parents "you gotta lock her down and put a ring on her"You don't know shit. You aren't redpill, you aren't dark triad -- you're a clueless fool. You're playing poker and showing her all your hands before each bet. And they are all weak fucking hands. Of course she's showing you positive reactions. Here's what you have really communicated: "I really, really want a commitment. Probably something wrong with me, since I'm so eager." "I'm really frightened you'll cuckold me. Probably because there are so many better men than me." "When you do decide to l… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 04:55 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend called me and told me the doctor told her she has Herpes...She says she has been with three guys including me Only two other guys? OK. Get their numbers. Call them. See which of them had herpes. Find out when they last had sex. LOL! Good luck getting her to agree to that. If she admits to 3 partners, she's probably really had sex with 6, and given blowjobs for another 9. But she only had "feels" for 3, so the others didn't count. There are no unicorns. Next her. If you're going to risk herpes, go get it from some new girl. P.S., Get yourself re-tested a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 04:18 AM |
| 49 | Seeing misandry everywhere is getting to me.Do you frequent gay bars? No. You're not their audience. Mainstream media is no different. You are not their audience. Turn it off. Don't seek out videos or blogs. You are not a culture warrior. You're just a guy trying to have a good life. Yes, there is injustice out there, but you're not going to solve it. Delete the bookmark. Unsubscribe. Tune it out. Treat hardcore feminists the same way you would a holocaust denier. Doesn't really matter if they're right or wrong, they are a party-ending la… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Dressing for success...Not everyone fits neatly into size M, L, or XL. Those us us too tall/short/small were forced to buy over-sized. Loose, baggy clothing that looks like crap. The "learn how clothes should fit" advice is targeted at us. Odd sizes used to be impossible to find. Selection was often limited to one or two colors, and usually old man styles. Internet shopping has made things so much better in just the last 2-3 years. Easier to find and greater selection. This is a new change, and a lot of guys are not a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 07:52 AM |
| 6 | I am free.Improving your body and your career are excellent long-term goals. Put them in writing and track your progress. But for best results, mix in some short-term goals as well. These accomplishments will keep you moving forward: Travel. Do a weekend overnight in a neighboring city. Road trip to a state park you haven't visited. Doesn't need to be a lavish vacation. Take some new pictures, make some new memories, and cross something off your "Places to See" list. Update your wardrobe. Learn how clothe… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/14 07:11 AM |
| 10 | Game for younger chicks?you're an adult looking for pick-up technics on a women-hating forum. What woman-hating forum? TRP is a woman-loving forum. We hate the feminist movement, not the women it ensnares and betrays. That aside, your advice is not terrible. When dealing with young girls, you have to take a slower and softer approach. The only real difference I would suggest, is he should ask her out immediately, then get to know her. That's the purpose of the date. You don't need to take an attractive 22 year-old woma… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/14 06:02 AM |
| 12 | The Archetypal Modern Woman: "She fucks uncountable alphas, ignoring the beta who likes her, through her years of youth & prettiness. She realizes how empty it all is, but only once the wall approaches & the good times end, so she uses the last of her charms to husband-up the barely tolerable beta."All those social cues that make the ladies tingle also influence society at large. I got higher salaries and quicker promotions than the slobs around me because I am more physically fit, dress smarter, and have far better social skills than your hypothetical whoremonger. Trust me, all the guys at the executive level have game. The wasteful spending of my youth was an investment I've made back in multiples. Your whoremonger doesn't climb. He doesn't have the drive, need, or the hunger. He never l… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/14 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Fresh SalmonConsider that woman is an animal, and that the skinners of women, have deemed the best way to trap woman is with muscles, status, and wealth. Bait accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 06:13 AM |
| 15 | Only be kind to people who appreciate kindness.Equally as evil as becoming someone's friend because you hope it will get you closer to fucking them. Which is to say: not really evil. Deceptive and manipulative? Sure. Some cases may get quite extreme. We've all seen and heard horror stories of guys blowing their life's savings and other foolishness. But let's be honest. Those are the exceptions. The most common outcome is a brief friendship that fizzles out with some minor drama. After the 3rd or 4th time she hooks up with some random alpha, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Some of you are missing a vital point.A lot of the posts you're describing -- proclamations of established RP principles, repeated like religious mantras -- are attempts at self-motivation. Making a lasting change takes time. Establishing a new habit is a slow process. When a guy first starts hitting the gym it can take 3-5 months before he sees any gains. Twice as long before other people notice his progress. It is similar for mental changes too. Altering your personality takes as much effort as building muscles. Sometimes it helps… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 10:12 AM |
| 7 | Interesting observations from speed datingHow do you know they picked you? Is it because you picked the fuglies? FFS... Basic math, dude. 5 women picked him. 4 were matches from the attractive girls he selected. Meaning only 1 of the fuglies picked him. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/14 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Men's Weakness and Women's Belly FatYes, I understood, agreed, and upvoted your comment. My reply was merely that it is not "nigh impossible" to correct the mistake -- assuming he realizes it is a mistake. Apologies for not making it clearer that I agreed with your core point. The only "peer" relationships that work are those based upon classic separation of masculine and feminine duties. Not the romantic Disney drivel of the bluepill. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/14 02:28 AM |
| 2 | As a gay 24 year old, this sub has both revolutionized how I approach life and confused the hell outta meThere is the classic stereotype of a high-powered executive hiring a dominatrix. A hypothetical uber-alpha, maintaining a strong frame 24/7, surrendering to a woman in private. Submission is attractive to him because, in his real life, submission is taboo. He is fetishizing his weakness. Do these men exist? Absolutely. But it is uncommon and infrequent. TRP embraces generalities for a reason. Our strategies are targeted to work for the most common demographics of men, with the types of women the… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/14 01:57 AM |
| 0 | Men's Weakness and Women's Belly FatUnless you have spent years demonstrating weakness, recovery can actually be quite easy. Yes, she will test you to make sure your improvements are genuine, but subconsciously she wants you to succeed! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/14 01:10 AM |
| 57 | Men's Weakness and Women's Belly Fat(Some) men lie and say they don't find her belly fat unattractive. (Some) women lie and say they don't find your weakness unattractive. More advanced liars of both genders will even claim to be more attracted, now that you've opened up and let them seen the "real you." The greatest of liars will even convince themselves, and be genuinely surprised when attraction for their partner vanishes. "I don't know what happened. The spark went out." | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/14 01:02 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle anxiety?All great, but #8 is critical. Always reserve your primary focus to items that are immediate. If you're facing a decision or problem that won't be resolved for days or weeks: write it down and promise yourself you will review it later. Trust yourself to keep that promise. Schedule a time to worry about it later. Put it aside and focus on what you can do today. When the anxiety returns, remind yourself: "I'm going to figure that out on Wednesday. I don't have to worry about it yet." Writing down … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/14 05:11 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle anxiety?As cliche as the Nike slogan is, in this case it is 100% correct. Anxiety is a discomfort with uncertainty. The fear and conflict happens while you are struggling to make a decision. The worry that you will choose poorly. But, overwhelmingly, people who suffer from anxiety feel relief once they finally commit to a decision, even if it is later proven to have been the wrong choice. Once you start moving, there is no anxiety. Be biased to action. Commit to being more impulsive. Decide in advance t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/14 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Things have changed. Took the red pill a month ago - married with 2 kidsA young child recovering from surgery is not the norm. That was going to a rough week, no matter who took the duty. I'm a single father of two. Like you, I'm self employed. My business (tech contractor) allows me to work from home 80% of the year. When you're raising a child, the first years are very rough. No lie. Age 2 is hit or miss. But by age 3 most kids are pretty independent. It gets easier and easier. Shit, at 4 and 5 it was fun! I'd take a 15 minute break, play with some legos, and go b… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/14 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Feminism is Destroying Marriages and Why American Women Make Shitty WivesIn developing countries, you may be correct. But in Western nations, making a separate distinction for vanilla feminists is pointless. The "proper and good sociopolitical movement" is extinct. Their objectives were achieved. Their goals were surpassed. USA, Canada, UK, etc, are decades beyond the point of parity and equality. A woman's rights, status, legal protection, educational and economic opportunities exceed those of her male peers. They have achieved dominance. Western feminism now exists… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/14 04:11 PM |
| 8 | 1 Hidden Cam Reveals How Women Judge Men! Women's Double Standards Exposed.What happens when a boy is told the truth from the beginning? He decides his father is wrong. TV, movies, friends, and everyone else are repeating the lie. When dad is the lone voice of truth, it is easy just to categorize him as a woman-hater and ignore his crazy advice. Thanks to the Internet, the honest dad is no longer the lone voice speaking truth. Harder to dismiss when there are thousands of voices, backed up by our own videos, studies, etc. You may want to begin curating a collection of … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/14 09:14 PM |
| 12 | How To Write A Resume That Will Actually Get You A Job (And A Life)Does your quibble change the statement? Have fun getting paid 120k a year to write software that makes billions for the networking cult. Not at all. 60k or 120k is still nothing compared to what senior management is making. Doubt me? Look it up. If your employer is a publicly traded company, go look up their ticker symbol on Yahoo Finance. Executive compensation is public knowledge in public companies. Look for the executive base salaries, and their stock movements. Pick any VP who has been in t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 06:12 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill Truth About So-Called Rape CultureIt is no coincidence that LMR occurs when a woman finally has to accept some risk in the interaction. Until then, all risk was on the man. The approach, initiation, and escalation, with their risks of rejection and social blundering, were entirely his burden. But now, at the moment of truth, she has to make a decision to stop his advances, attempt to postpone, or consent to sex. There are unknown consequences and uncertain rewards with each choice. Her risk is making the wrong decision. Suddenly… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 03:58 PM |
| 13 | The "BroScience" component of TRPYou most certainly did not waste your time! Excellent and interesting contribution. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 07:28 AM |
| 4 | "So it's fair to get half of his stuff?" "Yes!"Different states have different laws. Only 9 of the 50 US states have community property laws. Even among them, there are many differences, compromises, and exceptions. Should things go to trial, the judge has a lot of leeway to do whatever the fuck they want. Divorce law may be "surprisingly fair" in your jurisdiction, but that is absolutely not universal. All the horror stories exist for a reason. With that said... you are absolutely right. Men marry poorly, do not plan ahead, and do not seek … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/14 02:31 AM |
| 9 | Are there any cases where acting beta is the best way to go?A guy going 100% alpha is going to repulse most women. We're talking great ape, fight-or-fuck, chest thumping bullshit. Only the most intoxicated club sluts find that appealing. The queens of the carousel. Our bluepill critics think we're instructing men to behave like that so they can score these bottom-of-the-barrel girls. Of course not. Everybody knows you never go full alpha. Think of SMV as being in constant flux. Alpha behaviors raise it. Beta behaviors lower it. There is no perfect level.… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/14 10:36 PM |
| 120 | Bill O'Reilly Goes Red PillI genuinely laughed out loud at 2:10. "When I first married my husband, he made a lot less. He was in residency." Yeah. She's so brave, marrying for love. She took a chance on some guy who had already completed his M.D. Not a golddigger, nope, no way. Never mind that he'll be making $200,000 just one year later. That's not important. Married for love. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 06:14 AM |
| 7 | Religion makes senseProstitution is legal where I live. They can work as a slump-buster, but that's about it. When a normal girl takes some random stranger home for a one night stand, she rarely feels satisfied after the act. She hasn't accomplished anything. Anyone can give away pussy. Same when a guy buys a prostitute. He hasn't accomplished anything. Anyone can spend money. It might be a rush the first time you hire a whore. But don't be surprised if you feel bored the next time. Prostitutes are masturbatory aid… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 02:31 AM |
| 12 | Playing the Hand You're DealtI spent most of my adult life trying to be better than average. Reaching the 70th percentile took moderate effort and returned moderate rewards. Trying to be the best requires true dedication. I dismissed it. Too much work. Didn't seem worth it. I made more than my peers. Had a nice car. Exercised enough to avoid getting fat. I usually had a girlfriend, but there were always long dry spells in between. The girls I got were fairly attractive, but they were lazy and motivated by security. The rela… | /r/AlreadyRed | 23/04/14 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Alpha moments by beta guysHis text was ignored. So what? This is high school level drama. It doesn't matter. He sees the girl outside. Did he talk to her? No. He shuffles back inside, cries into his pillow, and decides to leave her stranded tomorrow. Did he talk to her the next day? Stand up for himself? Lay down the law? Again, no. If you never set boundaries with a woman, you aren't entitled to act pissy when she ignores them. He's no longer an orbiter. That's good. But this was not an alpha moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 02:21 AM |
| -2 | Alpha moments by beta guysHigh school butthurt bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/14 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Looking for a guide to money, a topic we don't discuss enough.I'm in my 40s. All the low earners have been left behind. When all your peers have a good salary, your "identity" better be something more interesting than Wage Slave #5. Of the guys in my extended social circle, only two have status from their jobs: One is a business owner (100+ employees). The other is a judge. The rest of us have status from our passions. Top of the pile are an extreme whitewater/rockclimbing guy and a weekend pilot. We're all into golf and/or guns. Likewise, motorcycles, Jee… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/14 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Looking for a guide to money, a topic we don't discuss enough.Exactly. Accept that you are going to fail. So learn to fail fast and fail cheap. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/14 05:59 AM |
| 5 | Besides lifting, what are other ways men can look the best they can be?Plenty of good answers, but there's another in your own post: Right now, I'm a skinny guy and I've begun lifting like Hell. After going to a frat party, it looks like the only girls I'm going to be scoring with... Join the fucking frat! Status is not just money and job titles. It is also social connections. Frat guys have status because they are invited to everyone's parties. They get invited because they host parties. Pre-selection. Not the frat type? Join something! Learning how to join and pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/14 05:55 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on that recent "tinder study", aesthetics, and female rationalMFA's sidebar has some really strong advice, and leans towards the conservative. Focus is more on getting the correct fit with traditional basics. It is a good place to start. The most common mistake I see guys make is buying shirts too big across the back. The shoulder seam needs to naturally fall within an inch of the top of the shoulder bone. If your shirt doesn't fit there, donate it to charity, it will never look good. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/14 09:49 PM |
| 8 | Financial PlanningSecond on Boggleheads. Google it. Cuts away all the bullshit. Bare bones facts. Save Divide your savings into two piles. a. The big pile invest the Boggleheads way. b. Second pile for taking big risks. Enjoy. | /r/AlreadyRed | 19/04/14 09:52 AM |
| 4 | Once you swallow TRP, it's too late to throw it back up.This is solid advice. Male friends are your first outlet. If your problems are severe, you need to speak with a professional. Long-term anxiety and depression can be treated with drugs and talk therapy. Success rates for each separately are roughly equivalent (about 70%). Success rates for patients who combine drugs and therapy are moderately higher (around 80%). | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/14 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Anyone failing after short period of "success"(Improvements)?It takes time and repetition to change a habit. It is relatively easy to begin the process of change. You're passionate and the concepts are new. It is much harder to make change permanent. You're no longer excited and it becomes a chore. Establish an external process to keep yourself accountable. See thexeffect subreddit for a simple, but effective method. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/14 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Calling women gorgeous or beautifulMost of us shoot ourselves in the foot many, many times in the process of learning. Part of life. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/14 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Calling women gorgeous or beautifulI believe there is a point...where you can stop the gaming and take womens advice by just being yourself Nope. You turn it off, you turn her off. I don't want to be on my guard and game all of the time, I'm learning to be a man who doesn't have too. You're just being lazy, telling yourself: "I don't want to work this hard all the time!" Sorry. You're a man. You don't get to coast. Go listen to the Black Phillip show. Patrice and Dante talk about how you have to game more the longer you're with a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/14 07:38 PM |
| 24 | I advise you to play in the "Champions League" when it comes to pussy.Disagree with your final statement. A 10 doesn't ever feel like a 7. That's just the hollow, feel-good bullshit they want everyone to believe. Women created the pecking order, not men. They know their standing very well. She knows she is a 10. The confidence that comes from that position is not shaken by the attention her less attractive friend is getting. Rather, what they observe (and complain about), is that men will hit on any girl. A 10 wants a 10. She isn't upset because the male 10 won't … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/14 04:23 PM |
| 6 | Guy posts on /r/askvirgins about how shitty the advice on reddit is.You're condemning entire groups of people who had nothing to do with how you were treated, simply because they resemble the individuals who ostracized you in your early life. Eventually, you should forgive your bullies, be they male or female. For your own health and happiness. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/14 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Study: A woman's sex drive begins to plummet once she is in a secure relationshipMale and female strategies share one thing in common: neither is evil. Learn difference between immoral and amoral, and you can view each with improved understanding. Life will never be the Disney, fairy tale, Prince Charming, fantasy bullshit we were raised to believe, but it isn't evil either. You don't have to be a dark triad sociopath, taking and never giving. There are miles in between good and evil. Plenty of space for a man to build a happy life. A life founded on reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 07:17 AM |
| 44 | i want to propose to a slut, am i crazy?You claim she behaves because you demonstrated your willingness to leave. So now you're considering making a public promise to her that you won't ever leave. Wut? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 07:29 AM |
| 2 | McAlphaDick pulls my girl so I respond by pulling another one. She comes back like nothing happened.Not sure if you don't understand analogies, or if you just wanna brag about your mutt... Regardless, this ain't your well-trained dog. She doesn't even have a collar. Wandered over at the neighborhood picnic, sniffed your crotch, and stole an unwatched meal. Are you going to devote your time to training this dog? Its not some puppy. She's already full grown. Or will you just shrug it off, and get another steak from the grill? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 06:19 AM |
| 1 | A note on carousel-ridersIn case anyone is curious: The examination given around week 10-14 is a routine screening. If likelihood of Down Syndrome is high, it is followed by a more conclusive test. Abortion law varies by state, but most allow abortions until week 20-24. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 06:01 AM |
| 6 | A note on carousel-ridersYou are correct that chances of birth defect jump when the woman is 35+. At age 30, 1 in 960 At age 35, 1 in 340 At age 40, 1 in 84 At age 45, 1 in 38 That's a scary curve, and a good argument for not marrying a woman over 30. But lets be realistic for a moment. Even at 45 that is still only a 3% risk. A 3% chance of a defect that can be detected early in the pregnancy (10-14 weeks). Not exactly Russian roulette. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 05:46 AM |
| 46 | A note on carousel-ridersTrying to change a woman who's already on the carousel is futile. Waiting around for a unicorn bride is insane. Learn the 80/20 rule. Work to put yourself in the 20. Enjoy the ride. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 05:30 AM |
| 2 | McAlphaDick pulls my girl so I respond by pulling another one. She comes back like nothing happened.ALL bitches dig it. Doesn't matter if they're good or bad, or how healthy the relationship is. AWALT. They want you to do what OP did: demonstrate superior SMV. That brief moment of dread game reignited all her tingles. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 05:20 AM |
| 3 | McAlphaDick pulls my girl so I respond by pulling another one. She comes back like nothing happened."Never" is a stupid ideal. Respect is conditional currency. OP already said they're both college seniors and aren't putting a label on what they're doing. That implies this relationship probably has a built-in expiration date: graduation. This ain't some unicorn he's trying to train. He's just another cock on her personal carousel. Round and round she goes. He's just riding out what's left of the semester. It isn't his job to educate her on consequences. (The Wall will see to that.) No reason fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 05:17 AM |
| 1 | My Girlfriend Tried to "take a break" Last NightJust tell her you're taking a break. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/14 02:51 AM |
| 4 | Understanding Your Market, Understanding Alpha/Beta and Attraction (AKA Why red pill advice might be completely useless)you make plans, and the plans take place at the usual downtown hot spot Don't suggest bad plans. You don't take sand to the beach, and you don't bring a steak to the meat market. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/14 02:41 AM |
| 4 | Women admitting how many guys they slept with and not letting hubby know.Yup. PUAs hunting at bars and clubs. Drugs and booze and bad decisions. If you don't want a slut, don't shop at the slut store. Chubby girls need more validation and have less self control. They have to give it up to keep any man around. There are only two choices: If you want a LTR, target hot girls who don't do the bar scene. Or be content as just another cock on the carousel. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 08:54 AM |
| 9 | The effects of testosteroneReading, motherfucker. Can you do it? I posted saying wizards and dragons aren't real. Your reply is "So you think all wizards can turn into dragons?" No, bitch. They ain't real! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 08:14 PM |
| 1 | What does /r/theredpill have to say about this chart?Very solid stuff! Great argument for why guys can't be lazy. Men cannot be content to be above-average. "Better than most" is not good enough. 7's still lose. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What would you do? What does the brocode say?Edit: I talked to my friend And what did he say about you + her? Why are you asking us, when you could've asked him. "Should I let her stay?" and "Should I hit it?" | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Guy trolls Tinder using a male model...results are about as redpill as it gets. From our buddies at the misc.Thirsty men being lazy = validation train for below-average women. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 06:29 PM |
| 32 | The effects of testosteroneThis whole post is weak. Hollow bullshit about natural betas and natural alphas. Trying to mold reality to fit a flawed and imaginary hierarchy. There are no alpha and beta people. That ain't how shit works. It is a lazy shorthand, at best. A misguided and misleading simplification. There are traits and behaviors that we can classify as more alpha or more beta. Some are innate, some are learned. No one is a perfect alpha. Nor would you want to be. We are a blend of alpha and beta behaviors, beca… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 05:59 PM |
| 3 | TRP for the bi/bi-curious?I just don't like having to become manipulative to get it. You're doing it wrong. You don't have to be manipulative to get women. Try increasing your value instead. You will have better, more consistent, long-term results. Warning: Side effects may include increased confidence, improved health, and higher earning potential. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 07:19 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about the idea that gender is a "social construct"I was going to post that link. Every TRP subscriber should watch at least episode 1. Methodically tears apart every Gender Studies argument. Brilliant stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 06:51 AM |
| 0 | The Greatest of All Parents are MenFirst, thank you for your kind words. You are correct that most women are far better parents than my ex-wife. I have had the good fortune to know hundreds. Believe me, I have a good measure to weigh her against! My argument isn't that women are shitty parents. The opposite: There are far, far more good mothers than there are good fathers! The ratio is probably 10:1 in favor of women! But in parenting, as in most things, men have an incredibly higher likelihood of reaching the furthest point on t… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 04:12 AM |
| 1 | The Greatest of All Parents are MenEmotion. Choosing to have kids is not a rational or logical decision. You choose it because you want it. I grew up having family around me. Grandparents, great-grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins in all the surrounding towns. I cherish those memories and those people. I want to live my life surrounded by family. And I want to die knowing my family continues. I'm older than most people in TRP. I've been to funerals of family members. Not just once or twice. Too many, and increasingly too oft… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 03:45 AM |
| 3 | The Greatest of All Parents are MenA house isn't required. Depending on your location and market, it can make a lot more sense to rent. When buying, you're also gambling that school and neighborhood quality won't change during birth +X years. Planned pregnancies come out ahead. No question. But don't put it off too long. You need to have enough youth and energy left, especially during their first 12 years. You don't want to be too old to toss a toddler in the air, or to take a preteen on adventures in the outdoors. I'd say the id… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 03:19 AM |
| 2 | The Greatest of All Parents are MenThere's too many unknown factors for me to offer any specific advice, so forgive the assumptions in my response. Daycare suggests your kid is young. I'm going to assume 3-4. At this age, kids are incredibly flexible. She just needs personal time with you. A lot of it. Sometimes your active attention, other times just the reassurance of your presence. If you have to get stuff done, try to space it out. 20 minutes with her, 20 minutes on task, etc. Build her imagination. Make up stories featuring … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 02:24 AM |
| 14 | First situation like this, did I practice TRP or TBP?Bullshit. You set no rules, you followed hers. TRP thing would've been to fuck her, powerfully and without restraint, then say "see you at dinner" and leave. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | What or who appears to be an example of redpill but is not?Only if you're talking a small hermetic group. Any group large enough to support multiple leaders will eventually descend into politics. Competition between these leaders will, by necessity, result in the introduction of blue pill falsehoods. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/14 01:57 AM |
| 3 | What or who appears to be an example of redpill but is not?That's the red pill veneer, not the truth. It is why you had to qualify and limit your response to "real" conservatism. Might as well call it unicorn conservatism, because it is just as mythical and non-existent. Look past their slogans, examine their actions, and you'll see the bitter truth. Conservative politics are blue pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/14 01:39 AM |
| 4 | What or who appears to be an example of redpill but is not?Conservative politics. A thin veneer of "by your bootstraps" platitudes, covering a deep chasm of fear mongering and deception. Conservatives and liberals alike both need you to be afraid. They are competitors in the business of selling protection. Neither is RP. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 02:57 PM |
| 1 | AWALT/AMALT - Whether you're brand new or a veteran, read this.Men also have hypergamy but it isn't quite as harsh as women's, and generally revolves around her beauty and femininity For us older guys, fertility is another factor. We all know the tropes of a men having a midlife crisis: Buys a flashy car, loses 15 pounds, dyes his hair, etc. Turns out only married guys do that, and it has more to do with his wife's age than with his! His wife is no longer fertile. Consciously or not, he is signaling to other women that he still is. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 04:17 AM |
| 6 | AWALT/AMALT - Whether you're brand new or a veteran, read this.Anyone downvoting this post has not spent enough time around children. Kids are dark triad. They learn to hide it, some better than others. We bury that shit deep as we grow up, but it never, ever goes away. There are no saints. Only repressed sinners. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 04:03 AM |
| 4 | You ever notice how there is no male fat acceptance movement or short acceptance movement it is because women and society do not care about you.I know you get it, but in case anybody else doesn't: When we say women are the "fairer" sex, we are referring to the 4th definition of the word: fair — adj free from discrimination, dishonesty, etc; just; impartial in conformity with rules or standards; legitimate: a fair fight [...] beautiful or lovely to look at Men who believe the first two definitions will inevitably suffer a rude awakening. Women can be as biased, dishonest, and crooked as the worst of all men. They are weaker, so they hide… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 03:49 AM |
| 12 | Girl uninterested until I get attention from three other girls at bar.Which restaurant do you want to go to? The one with the best reputation but long lines, or the one with an unknown reputation but no wait? If you're a starving man, you choose the latter. But a well-fed woman will line up for a chance at the preferred selection. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Women Talk, Men DoWomen can do management roles. Leadership roles are a different story. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 07:27 AM |
| 14 | Girl uninterested until I get attention from three other girls at bar.Not stupid, just different. Their strategy is inherently lazy. No negative connotation intended. Laziness can be an asset. Why do the work others are willing to do for you? Why spend your all time to investigate some random guy, when you can have other women do it for ya? Let lesser bitches do the legwork, then scoop the prize at the last minute. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Superman as RPT?Superman is perfect. Perfect is boring. You want them to be interested? Be interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 06:47 AM |
| 1 | A lot of you will hate me for saying this but I am being honest with you.I'm trying to simplify my own post. What OP calls genetically gifted, I consider average. The average guy does not possess all the desirable genetic traits, but he has enough. Men with no genetic gifts are unlikely to reproduce. Very few are naturally in this group. Their ancestors did not reproduce either. Below-average men might reproduce, but they will have to sacrifice. Often by becoming a provider (beta bucks) or settling for an older woman. They have very little opportunity for recreationa… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 01:44 AM |
| 1 | A lot of you will hate me for saying this but I am being honest with you.OP: Thank you for inspiring me to write. These thoughts have been on my mind for some time. I do not disagree with you. But there is a lot more to be said. The Past Prior to civilization, we lived by primate rules. Smaller groups. There was one and only one Alpha. He kept all the women. His reign was often brief, but he was usually the only male reproducing. Excess males were outcast or killed young. The Alpha allowed only a couple young males to reach sexual maturity and remain with the pack. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 12:19 AM |
| 7 | Status isnt everything/why you should always stand up for yourself if you canDude got under your skin when you were teens. So much so that you obsessed over his flaws. You met him few years later as an adult and blew him off. What frame? What status? Doesn't sound like either of you had either. You did nothing and nothing happened. There was no risk. No reward. He is not competition. No longer a rival. Just some passing acquaintance from your past. Boys test and challenge each other during their teens. They discover their own strengths and limits by pushing against other… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/14 09:32 AM |
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