Real vs Imagined SMV

RedPope · 2015-01-21T17:32:31+00:00

I do not want to discourage you, but this is going to be harsh. Hopefully you'll take it as a wake up call.

You don't understand what an Alpha Widow is. She does not "live her life overestimating her value" -- she is pining for a peak she can never again achieve. Most experience low self esteem and depression.
There are plenty of legitimate criticisms that can be made of PUA tactics, but the entire point of fake it until you make it is to "make it." If a man is actively working to make it real, it doesn't remain fake.

You are posting way too often. I have you RES tagged as "incorrect definitions" due to your frequent misuse of RP terminology. It is obvious you haven't done the required reading. Spend time applying TRP in the real world. Turn off the computer and go practice what you preach.

tombreck2 · 2015-01-21T16:45:47+00:00

Single women over 30 have an increasing, inflated self-estimated SMV because otherwise they would have already found a partner.

They must be confusing the mans after 30 SMV line on the chart with their own.

Rollo-Tomassi · 2015-01-21T17:40:58+00:00

I'm thinking you should probably read this post now:

http://therationalmale.com/2012/06/12/smv-in-girl-world/

By a combined effort of feminism, feminine primacy and its imperatives women have been socialized and acculturated to believe that their SMV profile encompasses and is synchronous with that of men. Since women are essentially men, Equalism (the religion of feminism) convinces women that their SMV schedule should at least be identical to that of men.

bsutansalt · 2015-01-21T21:32:31+00:00

Perception is reality.

What is real is one's SMV relative to the person observing them. Value is fluid and can vary from person to person, job to job, and situation to situation. Case in point, a rich guy with a Ferarri might have high SMV on display, but take away the car and then what? If the car was the only thing he had demonstrating his wealth, one aspect of a man's SMV, then he might not be perceived as high SMV at that point.

Another example are the obese and overweight American women thinking their SMV is higher than what it realisitically should be, but is affirmed to them because they still get mountains of attention from thirsty men. This might change when they hit they wall, but that's a discussion for another time.

One more example is the CEO versus the DJ. At his company nobody had higher billing than the CEO, but dump him off at a warehouse where a rave is in progress and nobody will give him the time of day, meanwhile the DJ has women lining up to screw his brains out. If you flipped things around and took that DJ to the CEO's offices the next monrning where he was interviewing for a job, he'd be lucky if any of the women there gave him a second look. See the difference?

Ultimately what the OP is labeling as "imagined" SMV is just self-esteem that's out of whack with reality, but that's already a known thing. The key is that value is perceived. We respond to the input we get from others. While we might know someone is a fraud and not deserving of praise or attention, those who don't know this can still treat that individual as though their value is higher than you perceive it as being.

yummyluckycharms · 2015-01-21T19:19:43+00:00

Charting a SMV profile for a pua would be hard, because if they are faking it, then their value wouldnt be accurately depicted.

Also, as pointed out - alpha widow doesnt live her life overestimating her value. In fact, I would argue that it is always decreasing as she chases to recapture the lost excitement but is getting older at the same time. Meaning there is nothing boosting her SMV

theproudbanana · 2015-01-23T02:12:53+00:00

So many things wrong in this post.

Even the reason behind the post is wrong.

The fake it till you make it, makes you "it".

A lot of people fake it and it works, so it should be in the SMV because its displayed as that SMV, it doesnt matter if the "true"(for some time) SMV is low-

Title	Real vs Imagined SMV
Author	RedPillSafe
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Comments	12
Date	January 21, 2015 4:39 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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