I understand things that seem obvious to you may feel as though it doesn't need backing. But I think people should back it up. If it is entirely obvious that men are just these horny heartless fucks then please, show me. What's sad about discussions about gender differences in the dating world is that people will say shit. And while its true that there is a noticeable population its often just a large minority.

Men have been repeating about their desires etc. And there have been movements about their thoughts and they get yelled at for being liars who just wanna white knight. So damn men for trying to prove they aren't these sex obsessed guys. Like there have been women saying their husbands were nicer when they lost weight. And him saying its not the weight is a liar. But if he said it was the weight then dsmn him too

On the flip apparently women are just these shallow fucks that will do anything for chads. Yet evidence shows that if the whole 80% of women chase 20% of men vs, then why are at the very least, more than 20% of people in monogomous relationships?

Women have been repeating their desires etc and yet she's a liar. So what if she says "yes I'm a shallow fuck. I won't date you unless you attractive? " now what. Damn if you say your desires don't fit the incel view you are a liar. Damn if your view fits their negative view, now you are just an asshole.

I just feel that people of all genders are kind of sad. Like y'all are just wallowing in self pity. I feel too many people just view the opposite sex as these evil people. And I don't get it. What are you doing then? Why keep shouting your hate when you can just be off on your own way? I mean stay quiet and leave others in peace?