I keep getting surprised, every time I am confronted with anti-men ethics, that are hiding in plain sight. Is there a silver lining?

Some disjointed occurrences:

Recently, a fella posted on r/amianasshole regarding an encounter with his family. He hugged his nephews and touched his teenage niece on the cheek and ruffled her hair. He was accused by his own brother of being a pervert, the same came from his niece ofc. While this might be a one-sided story or a unique instance, I was surprised by the hoard of commenters that equated this interaction with sexual assault, the post ended up being removed, because it was referencing.... violence!

I have been noticing women in social media venting against "men" in general. Recently a professional woman in social media explained that she is afraid for her life, because of femicides, her post getting so many likes-reposts. In my country of reference, more women die of drowning than because of femicide, if that says anything.

When I had my own dispute with fake accusations, so many women (and men) in my environment sided with the female, despite clear evidence of her being the perpetrator of abuse, just on the merit that I was the man.

All the teachers I have met explain to me how courts are still backward bending to women, despite a new reality.

A famous journalist who did a report in our country on this exact issue explained to me how judges and state attorneys explained off the record, that they like to "give the children to the mother" so that they are saved from "disputes".

I am trying to find a silver lining here, but I feel like a black guy after the abolishment of slavery. (I am not an American and that may be exaggerated, but you get my feeling).

WTF?