The Permanent [Game] Noob & The Autistic Alpha (and how to fix it)

Vermillion-Rx · 2024-01-12T20:48:11+00:00

For those here that don't know me, I am one of the admins on our other site. I just recreated my reddit account from years ago to participate in TheRedPill here again

Edit: Game Noob in brackets as it can be substituted with anything they are permanently stuck on so far as content and application goes

Prestigious-Can-9125 · 2024-01-12T22:02:35+00:00

This was a solid post.... And was a mixture of both... And I lacked social fundamentals because I grew up isolated.

I moved to downtown Toronto, and socializing with friends drastically helped my social skills and my game as a consequence. All the skills that come from managing friendships and family dynamics does play out in game.

I didn't understand my value in the sexual market place it is higher than I perceived myself to be... I had trouble reading and understanding people's intentions and I can see social skills but I struggled to react to them and I struggled operating in hierarchies.

However I had autistic alpha traits because I was taught to work hard and have talents most people don't have.

enlightnedentity05 · 2024-01-13T06:24:38+00:00

TL Dr : Laying a foundation of social life is a cornerstone of game in the long term.

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TD5991 · 2024-01-15T06:40:49+00:00

Great post. I only digested it fully until now; thank you

imtranscending · 2024-01-16T03:22:59+00:00

Welcome back.

ineedabetterme · 2024-01-19T05:15:46+00:00

I think I fall towards Permanent Noob. My thing is though, what if you don't really enjoy socializing with people? Things like small talk. I've had a pretty isolated life like you describe I suppose, but it's just eh to go out and try to talk to people, trying to make friends. Like I don't really care about the average random person. Do you think that this could be an effect of being isolated my whole life, and that those fixes still apply? I feel like there was only one time I was really social and that was when I was a young adult working in a predominately women environment. Getting along, being friendly with coworkers and light flirting was fun. But now I go small talk random people in the grocery line and come off of it just feeling like a waste of time, which is weird cause deep down I want to be social.

Stockfromdablock · 2024-01-13T11:21:57+00:00

Salute OG! Welcome back and thank you very much for the insightful post!

Title	The Permanent [Game] Noob & The Autistic Alpha (and how to fix it)
Author	Vermillion-Rx
Upvotes	45
Comments	22
Date	January 12, 2024 8:44 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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