We have established that the type men that the majority of women desire are in the top 5% of all men (a generous percentage to give some wiggle room).

So, what if a lucky woman finds this HVM who embodies at least 3 of the 4 traits listed and he reveals that he intends to have multiple wives/girlfriends? What should she do?

Higher-status guys also tend to not want to get legally married either because they think it is unnecessary etc etc.

If your daughter was in this position what would you recommend she do? Live life with a bit of insecurity that he is never going to be fully committed to just her and that to the outside world, she would just be a long-time girlfriend and baby momma (even if he loves her, takes care of her, etc. just never marries her)? Or suck it up and be with a guy not as attractive, think the 80% of men, but will commit and be loyal, or recommend something else?

Also, not talking about a .001% man (like Christian Ronaldo not marrying his girlfriend). But more like a top 1%-5%.

Also, similar question, what if the sex with other women doesn't bother her but it is the lack of security that bothers her. What would you recommend she do?