I'm curious to know if any of y'all had a certified 'out there' missus, but y'all had a few kids in tow, and splitting wasn't feasible economically NOR would it have wound up good for the kids (bad to worse situation if y'all did split)-- how'd ya deal? I mean, mine's dx'ed with a few things, but I think the docs missed a few crucial ones.

And yo- this ain't about 'strategies to trick/manipulate a b!tch', it's more along the lines of 'our marriage has BEEN sh!t, but I'm the stabilizing/economical force in this, I don't want my kids eating ramen in a shelter for the next 10 years' type of query.