Fellas, check this out! So, there's this chick I knew a while back, right? She's all caught up in this super intense long-distance relationship with this dude from her hometown. Like, they're talking about the whole shebang – future plans, marriage, kids, you name it. He's legit her lifeline, calling her up every single day, being her emotional rock and all that jazz.

But here's where it gets wild: She used to cry over the phone with her boyfriend saying things like " You don't trust me? What have I ever done to offend you? How can you doubt me? She used to go to the extent of crying over long periods to convince her boyfriend. And he's all apologies, trying to smooth things over. She wouldn't pick up his calls for a few days. This used to happen almost every single day. This woman would keep crying on the phone and her boyfriend would keep apologizing and pacify her. This went on for as long as I can remember. However, as soon as the call was over, she would be back to her normal self and after a couple of hours, she would be getting cozy with her friends/roommates. This used to happen almost every single day, whether her BF calls or not, but she's always getting cozy with her friends afterward.

Then there's this one time her BF's bestie crashes at her place after a party, choosing her room over the spare room, even though there's space. Kinda sus, right? But hey, I shrugged it off, thinking he just felt more comfy crashing with her.

Fast forward a bit, she's living with a bunch of 5 dudes and another chick, and I pop by to check in. While we're chilling, I swipe her phone to check out some memes, and bam! I see she's logged into her BF's Insta. I was not sure if she had hacked into his account or if the boyfriend was sharing his password with her. Weird, right? But I don't say squat 'cause I'm not about that drama.But, as I had the phone in my hand I received a notification from her boyfriend's bestie, As per the message, she had visited his place and he sent a picture of her earring that she had forgotten in his place. I'm just like, "Aight, not my circus, not my monkeys."

Later, I crash by her bed, and in the AM, I hear her chatting away with her roomie in her "bathroom". But hey, it's none of my biz, right? Live and let live.

Cut to the afternoon, her boyfriend called her up and said that he wanted to go on a work trip with some colleagues. He was asking for her permission to go on the trip. But, she would not let him go on the trip. She started weeping saying that he does not listen to her, he does not care about her and so on. When he was adamant about going on the trip, she blocked him on Instagram and WhatsApp she received dozed calls on her Snapchat to unblock her.

I feel bad for her boyfriend, but you know what they say, to each their own, Maybe I should live and let live and let people do their thing and focus on my own journey.

Stay strong Fellas. Remember, Not Every Girl Is Relationship Worthy: Choose Wisely and Guard Your Heart

TL;DR: A girl manipulates her long-distance boyfriend emotionally, controlling him and even invading his privacy.