Are we supposed to try and convince women to like you??

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-10-21T08:23:41+00:00

No, shouldn't try to convince anyone of anything.

The goal here is to improve your social skills so that 1) you're a more interesting person to be around and 2) you're more likely to notice when someone is attracted to you.

Club__Paradise · 2022-10-21T08:26:55+00:00

How you come you say you became good looking and now you're "ugly"?

Some guys run the whole "persistance" thing, but I hate it. I'm not going to chase women or play into their 'hard to get' game. I'll initiate and show I'm interested and from there the interest has to be mutual or I'm out.

If a woman isn't interested and you keep persisting it's just bad game as far as I'm concerned. It shows that you're coming from a position of scarcity, that you're low value and that you're really into her. Yeah, in rare cases it may pay off, but most often it will just turn them off even more. Guys shouldn't believe the movies, it's not how life tends to work.

Lately I've been having the issue of girls being really into me when they meet me and then later not seeming to like me anymore. It's fine for quick hook ups but nothing ongoing. Maybe they find me boring or something, I don't know..

Title	Are we supposed to try and convince women to like you??
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Date	October 21, 2022 7:12 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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