Charisma seems to be one of the most important things in attaining any high SMV woman. I know highly charismatic guys who are skinny but have a source a magnetism towards them and pull women left and right without being buff or too attractive.

Ever since I was a kid I was a shy kid and did not talk much; I've never been loud or a 'social butterfly.' If I try I feel like I offend people or come off as really cocky and serious because of just not giving a fuck. People end up labeling me as 'that crazy guy' or 'that's just *insert name' being 'insert name.' I've tried being more social and charismatic but it would come off as very fake and forced and I don't feel like myself. How can I use my personality for my advantage when gaming women and making friends? I don't know how to describe it but I'm usually the guy best friends with the most charismatic guy in the room but labeled as 'crazy.'

When I'm alone with a woman I get an intimate feel from them and they enjoy being around me solely for the purpose of intimacy, but when going out they realize that I'm really not that social.