I've been in the PUA scene when I was younger and I still have great success in vegas. Text game strategy has usually been to flirt a bit and get her out for a drink. Usually this works in my favor.

Unfortunately, now that I'm married, I don't go to vegas as much, and I have to browse online on various platforms to find women to hook up with.

The current one I'm working on seems to text in spurts. She'll respond with one words to my texts during the day, but that's probably because she's a very busy, professional woman. "Haha". "Lol". However at night, when her husband is asleep, we'll initiate a long conversation 1-2 hours of chatting. She's revealed a lot about herself. We're both in other affairs as well, and she's told me straight up that she's still deciding if she wants to fuck me.

The only way to escalate is via chat. I fly into her city soon for work and ideally I'd like her already ready down to fuck. This has worked for me in the past, but she's different in that it's always me who initiates texts at night. I don't want to seem like I'm desperate, but at the same time, I hate having to initiate. If i leave her cold for a few days, she might seem like I'm not interested. So what's our strategy here? Do I continue initiating every other day or daily at night to get her to chat as a strategy to escalate, or do I just say forget her and if she wants me she can msg me first?