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"Women like when you treat them like trash" Personal experience

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September 26, 2022

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Title	"Women like when you treat them like trash" Personal experience
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	September 26, 2022 1:31 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]PointWitty2145 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]mjornir 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]D3dKid98 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well... basically yeah. I mean, for example, why I think it is important to be yourself. Let's say you pretend to be "an asshole". Okay, so now you gotten yourself a girl, or girls.

How long do you think you can fake your persona until she or they eventually start seeing through that? Not only that you're lying to yourself, you're also lying to a girl that's gotten with you. She signed up for someone who she thinks is you when you presented yourself like that.

Other point is, you won't attract the girls you might like. If girl likes an asshole she wouldn't mind about your feelings or be emotional outlet for you. She will want that raw and dominant energy and won't think much or plan certain future with you (Sadly, I am aware of this and I know most of the girls I am with either I won't commit or they won't). Therefore, isn't it better to attract the girls that will like you for who you are and you will like them just the way they are?

For example, I doubt a weeaboo girl would like to be with an asshole. They prefer the "shy anime boy" types of guys. Which, if you're a geek, you're genuienly a shy person. You will have much better luck attracting such girls that like you because most girls will be attracted by personality and they will like your shy personality.

So yes, I think my point is to be yourself.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]D3dKid98 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Try board game clubs, anime conventions, anime themed parties and cafe's. Fix your hairstyle and apperance to fit that certain "anime" style and don't be afraid to go to these places and find events and stuff about it on instagram in your area.

Do not be too shy to meet people there. You can be shy in general but you shouldn't be shy when meeting them. For example "Hey, I'm David. I am quite shy and don't usually get to know many people, that's why I'm on my own here. Am I not bothering you guys if I hangout with you?" You made it known that you're shy but you showed them your intrest in associating with them. If they say "no" don't worry about it. You didn't come off as creepy nor anything and try with several people or groups and they will be glad to take you in as most of them are like you.

[–]blackedjet 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]NoOne_143 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link