So after years of game which has resulted in me sleeping with over 60 different women (would have been more if I had lower standards), I wanted to touch on this. A lot of you will come on this sub to look for wings and maybe even meet up with some in real life. What I wanted to do was share my take after years of meeting wingmen on online forums and pickup groups. I also wanted to share my experience with the pickup community. Here are some things I have noticed.

1 - Most Wingmen are absolute dog shit.

I have gone out with guys to wing with and most often found that they hardly even do an approach. At times, I even volunteered and told a wing "hey man, you find the set and I'll even open" only for them to stand around like deer in headlights. Now this is not even the worst of it, at times I'd say you are not doing that bad if you happen to have a wing like that. Sometimes, I have had wingmen that had been banned from certain venues because of how much they creeped girls out or even been thrown out of them.

For most wingmen, I say its a Pareto Principle. 20% you find are good but 80% are just absolute dog shit to the point that you might not even bother. My suggestion is find one solid wing for day game and one for night game, then just call it off.

2 - Majority of guys in "game" and the pickup community do not have their shit together at all.

You have 30 year old men that live with their moms way out in the suburbs but drive 30+ minutes to go game at a nightclub every weekend. When I was in NYC, I knew one pickup guy that would take the subway for over 30 minutes only to come into Manhattan and game at the bars. There he would collect numbers all night and then try to set up dates, only to complain about how often they flaked. I am pointing out some examples but most guys who are in the pickup and game community do not have their shit together at all.

Yet, these are the guys who are going out to "run game" and prioritizing going to nightclubs because "its a tough environment and will improve my game bro" over getting their shit together. It is truly a sad thing to see.

3 - Most men, whether into game or not, are awful at game and approaching when it comes to good looking women.

I knew one wing who was a promoter and another who also approached. The only thing is that these guys would approach obese girls and girls that didn't look good at all in order to protect their egos. Like it was so bad to where I would approach a two-set where both girls were hot, my wing would stutter and get nervous only to talk to the girls near us that looked hideous.

Don't get me wrong, some men love larger women. However, these guys didn't do it because of that. Most of these dudes did what they did because they were genuinely scared of beautiful women and used girls they weren't attracted to as a way to cope.

What you should take away from this is if you have the balls to confidently approach a hot girl at a bar, you are truly in the minority. Even the guys that do approach her are drunk as hell and coming off as sloppy. If you have the balls to confidently open a hot set at a bar while not being intoxicated, you are truly in the minority. When guys who read about game all day and are involved in game communities are going through this sort of shit, it makes you stick out that much more.

4 - When it comes to game and women, you quickly realize how most men are leeches, users, and deceptive.

Same guy who was acting snobby towards you at first immediately starts to be buddy buddy the second you start doing well with hot girls. I have known guys who were snobby towards me at first immediately warm up and try to be buddy buddy as soon as I started dating a hot girl or was partying with them. As much hell as the pickup community gives to women, men are even worse when it comes to using each other. The same guy who is acting like he is too good for you will become buddy buddy as soon as he sees you doing well with game.

At worst, you will also notice how the very guys will turn into your enemies once you turn them down. Its this weird logic where they were initially snobby towards you, then felt entitled to favors once they saw you had something they wanted (access to hot girls), and now turn vindictive when they realize you aren't so charitable.

5 - Most men do not even take ownership over the mistakes they make with women but blame factors out of their control to cope.

I had an Indian wingman that would just go and grind on girls out of the blue and he also smelled like shit. The dude had terrible breath and would drink a lot beer before he got the courage to walk up to girls. Then, no surprise, he would get rejected.

If you asked him why he did poorly with women? It's because all women are prejudiced against Indians.

The amount of men I have known like this is unreal.

Most men will screw up royally with women and do something really odd, not take any ownership over it, and then blame things like politics, feminism, racism, and all sorts of stuff for their lack of success with women.

Most of the times, when you read about some minority on here talking about how women are racist, 9 out of 10 times he is acting in very weird ways towards them.

Your takeaway.

By just being willing to approach, having your shit together, not using people without offering value in return, and taking ownership when you fuck up in game; I'd say you easily put yourself ahead of 90% of men out there when it comes to game. So don't be depressed reading this, just know that being a guy that is well above average is not that hard at all.