Background

I am 19 years old, 5'7, 152 lbs, 24% BF Indian male living in the west. I grew up as typical BP guy, wasn't the most popular kid in elementary/high school which means approval seeking/nice-guy behavior. [Possible also Low-t but I gotta get cheeked out proper]Currently in university pursuing a Bcom and not at all happy with my life.

Lifting 4-6 times a week, consistent for the past month, put on a bit of size.

Things I Need Help With

The rule of thumb is internalize; outcome independence, abundance mentality, and a sense of entitlement when it come to women.

But as someone with no experience in that field how do you get rid of that desperation when it comes to meeting and interacting with women?

I want to get laid I want to fuck but despite reading the sidebar, various supplementary texts,and lifting i'm still confused how to I kill this desperate beta self and become a man who is in control of his sexual life?