Last night I was at the club and I saw this happen. A Chad opens an interaction but the woman still has weary and closed body language. He disappears and leaves his "wingman" to talk to the girl. Over the course of 20 minutes her body language opens up she becomes receptive to the wingman and is having a good time. I watch the Chad wait for the right time jump in& break the conversation. He tells his "wingman" he needs to get the next round. The woman who previously was interested but weary of the Chad. Is now highly receptive.

That wingman just got personality proxied.

He did all the work for the Chad and got nothing out of it. I have been personality proxied before and only came to realize what was going on when a girl who was dating my Chad friend started listing out his personality traits and I realize they were mine. So I tested this theory by keeping away. And thier interaction would fizzle out. I tried this three other time and each time had similar results. When I stopped going out with my Chad friend his quality and numbers went way down.

I tried this with two other Chad friends and had the same results. I think this is the source of the "she is to smart to for him" situation. I think many wing men let's themselves be used as personality proxies or the smart woman will have a male orbiter who feeds her intellectual needs allowing her to mate simple on appearance.

If your personality is your greatest asset don't give it away for free or let someone directly benefit off your asset without reciprocation. The minute you see the signs that you are being personality proxied excuse yourself from the situation.let the Chad do his own work. Also be psuedo-honest. Next time he want to go out say. "I don't pull when you're around it must mean there is something wrong with me so I am gonna take sometime to work on myself". Then do the work.

This will also force your Chad friend to adjust his behavior. On some level he is aware that he was taking advantage of you so moving forward he might target girls in equitable groups. Work with you on better setups and mutual adulation. It might make him an actual wingman.