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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women approach with their eyes and their body language.
[–]Reasonable_Ad_6626 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women have a wide variety of choice.
If they approach you...you're dealing with a transgender that still has that hunter mindset
or a really really really desperate woman who wants her quick fix of validation...and those can be narcissists.
People who have been raised by a narcissistic parent are actually prepped for a narcissistic partner. Narcissists have a radar for people who are ready prepped for some good ol' emotional abuse and gaslighting.
You'll often be stuck in a cycle of attracting one after the other...untill you find out what exactly it is that you have that attracts them and makes them come to you..
It's often a lack of boundaries. They will test these early on.
And let's be honest social media platforms like Instagram are true heaven for narcissists. Stay away from Instagram girls.
[–]zisehuar 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What's the giveaway that they're narcissistic? Most people if not all seek validation. Isn't it a good thing that you're being approached because you're on the shy side?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Do girls approach men out of desperation?
YES!
I’m also quite shy so I don’t really like asking girls I find cute for there number for fear of getting rejected so I haven’t been with that many girls
If the girl approaches you why the fuck are you afraid of rejection?
and almost every single is a narcissistic who seeks validation from men.
Why do you think they are narcissistic and seeking validation? Is it because you don't return interest back because your fear of rejection?
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
...and only ever talk about themselves and how great they are...
Man that's what people like to talk about ...themselves... you should let them talk, be happy that you don't have to talk much...just tease what they say....
I’m just unsure whether the girls I’m attracting are low quality
"Low quality" is very broad and subjective, if you like them physically show some tolerance, let them talk, do your thing and escalate...
if I’d have been chance finding someone more nice and kind if I begin to take initiative and approach girls who are too shy to approach me
If a person talks about themselves it does not mean she's not kind ... it's just opening up for you to grab on....
I personally think your thinking about this matter is too constricted and intolerant
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too much over complication...to clarify:
Girls that approach me, 70-90% wanna fuck that day/night or in the immediate future. The rest just discovered how to signal males and just play without intent (for validation as you say) or don't like me when i open my mouth ...
[–]MasterTeacher123 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women for the most part only shoot their shot with guys they think are out of their league. It’s like a hail Mary play.
[–]zamboflu 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've approached once by a girl. She was too shy to talk to me but left me a note with her snap and number and told me she thought I was cute or whatever. I wasn't really into her tho. I did end up talking to her a bit on snap but I cut it off quickly. I wasn't very attracted to her physically, I think a lot of guy would be though.
[–]bod14850 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My own experience is way outdated, back in the’80s, but all the best relationships I had were started by the woman.
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