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[–]CompetitionFair7686 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
It’s not about looking to find out if she is interested, so it’s not about looking for signs.
It’s about walking up to her even if there are no signs at all, and talk with her in an outgoing way, and getting her to be interested by the things you tell her.
So you don’t need the girl to be interested initially, it’s what you tell her that will make her go interested even if she wasn’t initially interested.
So you need to approach now, without looking for any signal from her.
You have to go out there, and show your personality so that she starts liking you.
Seduction isn’t about going for girls who are indicating you they are interested, it’s about getting the girl you want even when she hasn’t even noticed your existence, and isn’t giving you any signal at all.
[–]JL2183 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow yeah that’s a good way to look at it, as I said to the other commenter I think the anxious part of me was looking for a reason to say fuck it leave it but you know what I’m just gonna go for it, what’s the worst that can heppen I’m looking for a new job anyway, ☺️
[–]Longjumping-Mine-145 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How do you get her interested if she was not intially?
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
By connecting with her, flirting and being a fun person that makes her feel positive emotions such as sexual tension.
[–]BenRegulus 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Unless she shuts you down before you even open your mouth 😄 do you have an advice for that?
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That happens when they feel you are nervous, awkward, hesitating or your dressing style is bad, or if you look dirty.
So be confident, high energy, dress fashionable, don’t hesitate, don’t even doubt for one second, don’t stutter and own what you are doing.
[–]BenRegulus 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sometimes they just reject you immediately because they have really strong opinions or precise preferences as well. Then you cannot do anything though. Just smile and wave 😄
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, part of the game is understanding and accepting that not everyone you like will like you back, because no one can be liked by everyone and that’s ok.
[–]Sup3rHD 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You dont know if she is really interested until you talk to her and ask her out.
All this thoughts are useless if u continue to ask youself: what she wants? Talk to her or just work
Yeah you know what ur right, I think the anxiety is just trying to find reasons not to do it, thank you and I’m gonna do it when we’re next finishing together
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