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[–]MO_drps_knwldg 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is the one fundamental thing I’ve learned. If a woman is really into you, you will be a priority for her. She’ll reach out and make herself available, no matter how busy. These are the type of women you usually wind up dating or getting into a relationship with. The ones who are very interested in you off the bat, not the ones who forget about you, go silent, or are difficult to get a hold of.
If you’re really into her, reach out one more time, but have a date in mind and ask her. Don’t send a text like hope you’re doing ok, thinking about you, etc.
[–]Sidsmykid87 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve already asked her on a date when she gets back from her trip, and she said yes to that. This was a few days ago!
That’s the thing; she was making it a priority. She had turned her data on when she was not supposed to while out (costs her a bunch of money in roaming) so that we could continue talking, etc.
She was texting me good morning, wanted to FaceTime, etc. so I’m conflicted on if she’s interested.
Btw she approached me at the restaurant patio …I asked for her number, but she thought I was attractive and shot the shot
So I’ll message one more time to try starting a convo, if it goes no where I’ll write it off, and let her reach out if that’s something she wants
[–]TheBroMagnon 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She got a sunburn or something so she feels ugly and afraid to initiate in what might lead to video chat. There's not much private space to video chat, she realized. She's got a lot of distractions hitting all at once because she's on vacation with people.
She got a sunburn or something so she feels ugly and afraid to initiate in what might lead to video chat.
There's not much private space to video chat, she realized.
She's got a lot of distractions hitting all at once because she's on vacation with people.
The point is you can't know and there could be scenarios where she's still into you. Just take it easy and present yourself as outcome independent but without appearing tryhard about it.
[–]CocoBabeNYC -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can rationalize it however you want. The fact remains you over communicated, become just another boring guy who she won over easily and are no longer a priority in her life. You overchased and showed your cards as a loser.
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