I basically know the answer but does it really matter that much? In my experience if she wants to it doesn't matter what you ask her on. Damn near everyone 22 and younger is on snap so not sure why its sometimes frowned upon. Ive told a girl that ive tried to plan on text and snap that im not trying to play a guessing game and hope you dont "miss" me asking when she work or me trying to plan something. (Which she told me she just misses things and skips through but has no problems responding to half the text)

I assume the answer is just free attention and im not really trying to be that but why are girls so comfortable saying "i would want to if i didnt work" ( i know she i working). But not just say no or why agree Then cancel? Its also very confusing when i tell her "guess im not gonna take you out to so and so". And she goes "what why??? Wdym???" But when i ask im unlucky and she is working but doesn't want to communicate when she has time.

Im obviously dating and talking to other women. theres is not much upside to this chick besides being pretty hot so i never put much into it but i still wanted to to possibly happen. I doubt ill understand why women act like that.