What Stage of the red pill am I on?

[deleted] · 2018-03-10T03:22:52+00:00

What are you doing about it?

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-03-10T04:15:44+00:00

Denial
Anger
Bargaining
Depression <--- You are here.
Acceptance

Brain_Beam · 2018-03-10T06:13:13+00:00

Id agree with others here, lift till all you can think about is how much your muscles hurt. Sleep, protein up, (rest) and repeat. Take some time for yourself, i was an ugly duckling myself and botched my highscool years. Lift now, it takes time. But soon the same girls doing this number on you will be walking up to you.

1gudboi · 2018-03-10T07:07:38+00:00

Everyone is right. I've felt like this before the red pill and before lifting. If I never took steps I'd be fat as fuck by now and id probably talk a lot less

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-03-10T04:17:54+00:00

Okay, this is your one victim puke.

I'll tell you what you need to do. First off, realize that wallowing in self-pity isn't going to make things better. You know what will? Lifting. Go to the gym and start lifting heavy ass weights. Do this until you can't any more. Then take a nap for 12 hours, get up and do it again.

[deleted] · 2018-03-10T05:34:59+00:00

You need to get to the gym and fucking lift.

9game · 2018-03-10T15:18:13+00:00

Denial - you brain is trying to reduce the pain of "knowing that being attractive man (looks+status+game) is only way which works", you've just wake up from the Blue Pill dream of whatever Blue Pill says that works eg: if I be nice and wait one day a nice girl will find me attractive for being me etc.

You virtually saying to yourself: "I'm such looser, but it is not my fault, it is because I not attractive, women hate me"

Don't worry, it is normal to feel/think this way at the beginning, more fun will be when you move into anger, where you start to hate women for all those lies they told you, and yourself for being so stupid to believe them. And you still from time to time will think that "life is not fair" Cheers :)

1gudboi · 2018-03-10T15:25:25+00:00

I've been through this kind of depression before. There are some things to understand:

1) No one is going to save you. No one outside of yourself can do anything to help you.

2) You've earned everything you have in life. What your life is like has a direct correlation with all the actions or lack thereof you've taken in life.

Death doesn't fix anything, being drunk all the time doesn't fix anything. We can't escape our problems. We have to face them head on. You are a man. You are a warrior. You have what it takes to turn your life around.

You don't hate the world. You hate your place in it. But luckily that's something you can change. Complaining does nothing. Being a Virgin with ADHD, Social Anxiety whatever is not the end of the world, there are obstacles to work through we all have obstacles. You are not a victim.

BurnieSlander · 2018-03-10T04:13:44+00:00

I’m not religious, but I have done enough psychedelics and meditating to know that you came to earth for a reason, so stop thinking about being dead and start thinking about your mission in life and what you want that story to be like.

Also, ADHD and social anxiety are not diseases, they are learned behaviors which you can change. Don’t let them have power over you.

Change your mindset man. Tweak your inner dialogue so that you’re telling yourself a story about the good things you have in life instead of constantly creating lists of everything that’s wrong.

Nothing is wrong with you, you just have some bad mental habits that need to be changed.

1gudboi · 2018-03-10T02:05:11+00:00

When I say the stuff about cobain. I don't directly say it like that. My mistake. I often reference him and his suicide. I'm not technically suicidal. I just feel lost and alone and I sometimes wonder if I really want to be alive.

LavaPipe · 2018-03-10T03:55:21+00:00

Holy dang man. Get some help or support. You need to start working on yourself and building a life that you actually enjoy. Being depressed and drinking yourself to sleep each night is not a stage of redpill and will only lead to more depression and drinking. Break the fucking cycle and things will start to look up

1gudboi · 2018-03-10T20:42:33+00:00

Youll built your wholelife on being a nice guy, thats why you feel so crappy, because you were supressing your true masculine power and thus also your self esteem.Your just waking up to the pain that has been backed up inside you for so long...Its like constipation, the shit eventually has to come out...you gotta allow yourself to feel the pain and its OKAY to have the pain, pain is release and growth. Look up "Dark night of the soul" or Shadow work.

Title	What Stage of the red pill am I on?
Author	1gudboi
Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	March 10, 2018 2:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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