I know that if a girl says raunchy dirty stuff to you in person, when you're both not in the bedroom, it's a test to see if you get all horny like a little teenager. I'd answer with something like "respect" and keep my cool if that was the case. But I kept sending dirt snaps back, telling her things i'm gonna do to her and and stuff like that. She even said she had masturbated over the thought of me.

I fucked this girl around new years, then she went away for college. We snapchat each other every few days or so, seeing what we were up to and just chatting. She tells me she is back down this weekend. She lives 20 minutes walk away from me (When she is in town). We had agreed that she would come and see me today for a fuck.

She text me yesterday saying she might not be able to make it tomorrow because she has stuff to do. I said "ok".

I'd been planning this for a few weeks, and had even asked my roommate to go out for a while so we can fuck as loud as we want.

Today I ask her if she is coming or should I make other plans, she said "make other plans this is taking ages" Then she sent a snap afterwards saying "I'm rubbish I know, sorry"

I haven't responded and am thinking of going no contact. Here's my questions:

1: She seemed really into me, saying she masturbated over me and saying I had a sexy voice in the morning. If she really wanted to fuck me again and wasn't just using me for attention, she would have come round this weekend right? It would only have taken an hour or so. Was I just being used for validation do you reckon? If she really wanted to fuck me, she would find a way right?

2:When sent dirty texts by a girl in general, should i respond in kind, or should I keep it short one worded answers, like it doesn't bother me too much? I don't want them to think i'm not interested, or do i?

Ive been lifting hard for a good 2 months again now, been smashing it at work, but this has really gotten me down and anxious for some reason. I feel like i;m not sexually enough for her or some shit.