If you've been actively talking to a new woman, give them 3 strikes.

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If after 3 attempts you can't get her to meet up, stop pursuing. It's just pointless. It's unlikely from this point on, you're just another orbiter.

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I'm not saying you insist 3 times in a row she meet up with you, but through your general conversation throw it out there. Some guys like to cut them off after the first attempt because it's 'alpha' and recognizing self worth (which I understand), but I think you can be a bit more lenient then that.

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I have got women to hang with me and have sex after initially declining the first two. This can be passive ('Sorry I've got to go to the gym', 'So busy 😭') passive aggressive (ignoring the message) or straight up 'no I'm not coming out'.

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If she wants to meet up with you and fuck you, then she will. Women control the sex game it's just how it is. That's why you should just focus on inner game because life is easier when woman want you more than you want them. Lift weights, tend to your hobbies (Painting, paintball, playing in a band whatever), and focus 100% on what you feel is going to fulfill your life. Completely exclusive of woman. Or anyone for that matter.

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I'm not saying it's entirely impossible to bang a chick you've attempted to meet up with 7000 times, it's just that the chances are incredibly slim. And even if you do manage to finally meet up for a date, the process isn't even worth it and is overall degrading.

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It's a tiring cycle, but that's just the way it is. Be smart when you invest, for the sake of your well being.