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[–]kabungachungahoo 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Pretty sure she was just being friendly, since
You were at a funeral
She is your mom's friend
Come on dude, aunts are always nice to kids. Even i used to get some compliments from my mom's friends. They're just being nice ngl.
[–]TimmyTee93 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that’s where I’m not sure though. Like I’m almost 30 years old, have status good job, own my own house which we talked a little about. But just conversation wasn’t really typical, from what she was telling me she was going to Vegas, hitting up pool parties kinda living up a single/divorced lifestyle. I wouldn’t be asking this question if I was like 20 y/o I’m not really in the aunt stage of “oh he’s so cute/handsome” anymore. But yeah idk I was just looking for some clarity and maybe some humbleness as well. She’s technically my cousins friend from childhood but I would say she is like 50 + y/o as her son is around my age 29.
[–]Tactical_INTJ 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm not an expert but I can tell you life is not a porn movie. It probably won't go the way you're thinking.
[–]Liberaler 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you probably got the wrong vibe. On a conscious level she probably did not think of getting intimate with you - it's a funeral + you are her friends son "omg he's so handsome" is a quite usual thing family and friends of the family say when they meet up.
But maybe there was some connection when you two look at each other. Only you and her can know. Just because she has not thought about starting something with you, does not mean, she would not do it, given the opportunity. She probably does not think you are interested in her in that way, because she think she is too old for you. Btw, do you even know, whether she is single?
Imho you should create an innocent opportunity to meet up with her and then try to flirt, hit on her and escalate in person. Doing it via text or phone reduces your chances drastically.
[–]hosenka777 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only one way to find out. If you want to, you should go for it. Sounds like you do
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