Hi, I am a super amateur when it comes to picking up girls in the club. I am decent looking and can hold good convos but it comes to initiating touch i tense up.

So last night I was dancing in a night club with my friends. There was a girl who was dancing near me and later ended up in front of me. She was dancing pretty close to me and her ass was rubbing all over me.

There were a few IOI’s like a few eye contacts when she was away from me, her refusing to leave when her friend called her (when shes dancing with me) and her trying to come closer to me on the dance floor.

Anyhow i was positive she’s into me but I just couldn’t get my hands on her. She kept on dancing in front of me and grinding on me but I didn’t do anything.

My question is: 1. If there is good signal to make a move when a girl is dancing/grinding on you when facing opposite? 2. What would be the move?

I’ve heard that holding her waist or hand can be a start but I get very shy to do that