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[–]focus_flow69 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
First off great job and attitude to looking at improving yourself. I suspect it's your success sin helping your fathers business in the past that gave you new found confidence that carried into your social life.
Try to recapture that momentum by creating success in other areas of your life. Small successes will build on each other.
As for small town social group, that's gonna be a tough one if you don't vibe with em all that well. I would just try your best anyways and keep an openmind. And try to be curious and about their way of life and ask them ltos of questions for their perspective and don't judge them. I lived in a small town before and found that ppl were worried you would judge them or be snobby if you came from a larger city. But if you approach them with friendliness and a sense of curiosity about them, they will open up to you.
I had a similarly poor social upbringing. Nerdy, not many friends, gaming a lot etc. When I first started improving myself I tried not to let my past dictate my future. I figured skxne I had less time and experience practicing these things when I was younger, now is the time to reallt take charge and make sure I go the extra mile to make up for lost time. Life is a long journey brother, hope this helps, good luck!
[–]FluidMathematician42 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I know it's a tough one but I really need to build a social circle. The last summer I was alone, it was such a shameful and humiliating thing for me. My father tried to set me up with a girl indirectly, he presented me his friend, who has a 9/10 daughter. We actually had a date but after she ghosted me and I don't know why, she seemed interested. I also tried to hang out with my acquaintances but I was bored as hell with them. Thanks for your comment!
EDIT: I'd like to add that approaching friends should work. I talked with some people and many of them are in a similar situation - bored of the same social circle.
[–]FluidMathematician42 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have to ad something hahahahah
Talking about my village, there are like 1000 people there and I know all of the acquaintances, there are like 10 people in my age range. It's not a problem for me moving to other villages (they are a little bigger like 5-10k people), because I got a car
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