I know this girl since November. I’m 24 and she’s 22. We’ve known each other through mutual friends. I don’t text with her unless I need something from her and she never ever bothered me with her problems or anything like this. If we text I keep it short and playful.

She’s been doing a lot of favors for me while I don’t do jackshit for her – like getting drugs for me, or carrying them across the border, throwing house party at her place coz I wanted to play some music (I’m beginner DJ) and inviting me to places where she’s on the list and can take me as her +1 or most lately offering to give me for free her ticket to festival coz she can’t go.

She had a boyfriend that she’s recently broke up with like three weeks ago. She told me about their breakup but also she never gave any details on why and so on and I simply ignored that message and didn’t inquire anything coz it didn’t interest me.

Yesterday I went to her place to take something from her. I stayed for a while and she offered me tea, we smoked joint and I watched a half of football match at her place.

The thing that bothers me is this – she already got some fuckboy around who was at her place yesterday and also during that house party she threw last time.

My question is: what is she doing? I’ve never been in situation like this. I feel like she’s investing a lot in me and in my blue pill days it was usually me who was investing emotionally in girls and got shit in return.

I’m thinking of going Patrice O’Neal on her and telling her straight-forward that either we gonna start fucking or I’m not interested in keeping a friend like this but then again it’s nice to have a female minion like this around who can do stuff for you and admires you and treats you with respect.