I’ve been in a relationship for more than 10 years, then we broke up definitely (she wanted to marry and have a baby now or never and also wanted every life commodity while I was still waiting for a job) and now I’m back at my parents house.

I’m pretty successful in getting attentions from girls on Instagram and Tinder, but as soon they contact me, even hot girls, I never feel motivated enough in keeping the conversation going. Sometimes I even ignored date proposals from very hot girls. I just disappear at once and let them become fed up while suspecting I’m seeing someone else. Then they usually unfollow me.

But that’s the point, I’m seeing nobody.

I just lack completely in motivation and initiative, I feel constantly drained and exhausted and I have no drive in taking girls out for a date, struggling with their shit tests and their riddles to get their attentions and maybe reach the sexual part.

I don’t know what’s happening to me, but I’m spending the majority of my time hitting the gym, working and mindless scrolling stuff and girls on social networks.

I hired a psychologist but he’s an idiot douchebag that every time just mocks and ridicules me for my decision to go back to my parents house.

I understand he wants me to do stuff and go living alone because he thinks I’m depressed, but by mocking me in authoritarian ways he’s only making me talk less and close more into myself.

Maybe that’s just a vent, but maybe someone of you can give his two cents about my condition.