Often times when I'm hanging with a group of friends at an event.At the end of the event im confused what I should, I'm looking for anybody that needs help usually physical stuff.Although I want to conversate with girls, I feel selfish for doing it for myself.So I end up spending my time looking for people I already know. How can I put myself first, I don't hate women, I'm not a bad conversationist either.I just feel this heavy guilt that im doing this for myself, just do I can conversate with some pretty girl.