TL;DR: The Game Begins. It's been 10 years since I've been laid. Mostly, this was out of choice. Albeit this may seem shocking, and perhaps it may seem unfathomable - I've won in many other areas of life. Over the next year, I will be approaching women, every single day to go from 10 years of not letting laid to being the ultimate seducer. I believe it's possible, and I want to share my journey. I will be travelling all over the world to approach women, the plan currently is: Greece (where I am right now), Rome, Spain, France, Portugal, Dubai, Singapore, Los Angeles and New York.

Where I've Won: I'm financially secure, and able to travel the world and work from my laptop. I have an incredible physique. I've meditated with monks, yogis and tibetan tantric masters in the mountains, learning ancient secret wisdom. I've driven fast cars, I have set up charitable institutions, I have fashion stylists who dress me, and I am usually at red carpet events at The Grammy's, Cannes Film Festival etc. I've purchased and rented real estate. I've become a top c-level person in a multi billion dollar company, I've been on dates with some of the most beautiful models, actresses and well you can say I've just about 'won' in every other area of my life except women. People assuming dating often leads it sex, it doesn't. As a disclaimer, I've also hired some of the best 'seduction coaches' in the world to have 121 calls with them to discuss my interactions and learn where I could have done better - let's see if they are worth it.

Life's Changed: So life is at a stange place now. I'm young, in my very early 30's. My friends are either all married, with kids or in relationships. After 10 years of being without a women in my life, I don't feel lonely, but sometimes - I wish there was something who could experience this life with me. I want to be clear, it's not that I couldn't have got laid. I've had women who've wanted to sleep with me, who've outright told me. However, either logistics, or not having my own place nearby to where I could take them, or because in the UK I don't live alone and have had some family with me, it's been challenging. Sometimes the women were just visiting from other countries, etc. Environments and places have a certain energy. This isn't about should have/could have/would have. This is about stepping away from that energy - sometimes being in the same place for so long starts defining who you are and now I am travelling the world, believing in myself as Casanova, in the pursuit of love - one of the most beautiful feelings in the world, and I will be sharing that journey with you.

My Philosophy in life, if you watch this video - it very well symbolises my life, determination and the fearlessness to fail so much until I succeed: https://youtu.be/u1k3Rg6P6SU

Day 1 of Gaming:

7 approaches, 3 hours of day gaming, 1 instant date.

Women 1 [No success]: A beautiful short dark haired greek woman, walking her dog. She's the first beautiful woman I saw. Immediately that fear hits you - that sinking feeling internally, but as Mike Tyson said: "I'm not a little bitch", and just objectively speaking - I refuse to let a random women get inbetween me and my goal of being the best seducer and getting laid. So I approached her, but there was no flirting, I just needed to get the ball rolling and rather honestly I just asked her for directions to somewhere. She was responsive, but cold - her english wasn't perfect, but it began. I got it out my system, now let's go! I've often noticed in game that the longer you walk around in day gaming without approaching, the worse it gets mentally.

Women 2 [No success]: There was a protest happening in Athens, and there was a beautiful women just standing there and observing the entire thing in awe. I candidly went up to her, and said - 'hey, do you know what this is about?', she looked at me, laughed and smiled. We spoke for about 10 minutes, it was a great conversation, she was from Greece, spoke very sweetly, but was hesitant to say too much as she was a little shy about her English. After 10 minutes of speaking, her friend came along, and she left me. I said bye to the both of them, like an idiot when I could have asked her to introduce me to her friend and keep the conversation going to make future plans.

Women 3 [No success]: Ignored me totally. Looked at me, pretending she didn't hear. Was extremely fashionable, wearing Dior sunglasses, bright pink blazer like she'd just stepped out of a Vogue magazine.

Women 4 [No success]: Waiting for her boyfriend - she candidly smoked by the station opposite. Went in for a cold approach, she smiled and was sweet about it - we spoke for a few minutes, before het boyfriend came.

Women 5 [2 Set - No success]: Two tourists from the US. My first 2-set approach. I candidly asked for directions as an opener, initially I didn't know they were from the US. They told me they were from Dallas, naturally - just like most two sets one of them was super hot, the other not so much. A weird dynamic, because when the hot one said anything she would look at her friend for approval who would just nod. I should have got the less attractive one more involved. They were only in Athens for 1 night which kind of sucked, but either way I left the set way too early, and kicked myself within 15 minutes full-well known I could have made some plans to go out with them. It was just a case of the conversation trail running a little cold when you're warming up.

Women 6 [No success]: She was candidly smoking outside her work place, was super nice. Waiting for her sister before heading home together. We spoke for about 10 minutes, but as soon as her sister came we parted ways.

Women 7 [Instant Date secured]: After nearly 2 hours of approaching, I went somewhere to eat. At the restaurant, I saw a pretty solid 6 eating by herself. I was sat in the table right next to her, so I candidly asked her - hey, any recommendations? We started talking and after realising she was by herself, I asked if I could join her to which she agreed. I learned a lot about her, made her laugh, we enjoyed a good meal together. She was also travelling by herself, from Cologne in Germany, and was here until Sunday. She also lived 5 minutes from me, which logisitically was perfect. A single women, travelling by herself, in the same city - this has all the ingredients to get laid. Although we enjoyed a great meal together, we were laughing, and having a good time - her nature was very timid, very cautious as any single women abroad would be. We found out a lot about each other, likes, dislikes, etc. Then I proposed to go somewhere after, she didn't has any plans - so we went to a night time attraction in Athens, it was one of the oldest bars there, 115 years old and had still maintained it's style and drinks. After the dinner, I said I needed to grab something from my AirBnB and invited her to come and check it out (she was living in a really crappy hotel). She said how about we meet here in 10 minutes (at the end of the road). To which I agreed, I knew I didn't have her trust yet. Never the less, we met up and I lead the way as a man to the bar. We sat down, was warmly greeted by the owner, we ordered our first round of drinks, playfully having fun, teasing, joking. But throughout the interaction she was timid, it would take her 30 minutes to an hour just to finish her drink, she kept saying I afraid it's going to 'hit me out of nowhere', she wouldn't take pictures together because she thought she was ugly - weird. Lacked the attractive women qualities, afterall if she didn't think she was attractive, how would anyone else. We were in the bar for about 2 hours, and then I said let's go on a stroll near Athens Acropolis, which looks absolutely beautiful at night. We walked through the inner streets of Athens, with beautifully lit, romantic restaurants all along the way - with the right women it would have been perfect. We found a quiet hill, overlooking it, I had a bluetooth speaker in my pocket, we sat down on this hill, played my spotify playlist and just jammed. It was quite nice, but she was afraid to get intimate. I sort of realised at this point, that her personality throughout was too timid and cautious, and although it was a nice evening, this wasn't going to go anywhere. After about 20 minutes, we decided to call it a day and go home.

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Key Learnings:

  1. Have a better structure for the first 5 minutes of any interaction and avoid as many quiet periods. This is until she starts asking questions to you
  2. Get friends involved if they are there and learn how to involve their unattractive friend before they cockblock you. Ask them to introduce you to their friend!
  3. Be spontaneous, and have places to go instantly because you'll also bump into other tourists.

Notes:

  1. I do not want phone numbers or 'social media', until we've spoken for atleast 20+ minutes. This reduces flakiness.
  2. I am only interested in phone numbers, not social media. If they offer me their Instagram, I turn it down - that's such a pussy thing to get their FB or IG.

Where I struggled mentally with approaching today:

There is a constant fear that after 5-6 bad sets that I will need to call my best friend, my biggest supported and tell him or message him: "Bro - today I failed, no luck", and then recognising I am chatting shit to myself and recalibrating the self talk, positive thinking, affirmation at every stage that I am the best seducer, and I internally believe it, that I am lucky, and that I am winning and grateful to live this life. It's like the ying and yang, the fear tries to offset the positivity. Fundamentally, it's all energy and a construction of the mind, so I need to recalibrate the mind, the energy to refocus it on winning in this, just I have done in every other area of life.

My Motivation for today:

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLvHfHct/?k=1 - The contract with myself - Kobe.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLvH4fSh/?k=1 - Be about action, Beyonce

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLvHfuDk/?k=1 - I'm not a little bitch, Tyson

Tomorrow will be day 2, I plan on doing a lot more approaches. Stay tuned, if you're interested in my journey.