Hi Sedditers, so I've been this typical nice guy, the needy one and the one without boundaries... My bad I know, some self awareness record...

I had this girlfriend who went on a trip and I planned a day out with her and did all the booking for the day next to her return date (paid bookings). She knew about all this but she extended her trip for two days so I was like no worries I'll shift the bookings to the next day after your new arrival date (don't scold me please, kids learn from their mistakes) to which she again extended her trip and the bookings couldn't be further extended so canceled them and TBH, even I didn't want to go ahead anymore with it.

What should I have said to her, I mean, I wanted to but I came off as strongly passive and seemed offensive my overthinking, so I didn't say anything and said its okay (facepalm). What could I have said, you know I liked her a lot but this is unacceptable kinda behavior... Now we're not together and all of a sudden this just hit me, so I came here... could I have been blunt and offensive or opposite of this? Should've I left her then and there, like block and everything, what's the deal with it?