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CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-22T12:02:06+00:00

People are always saying everything is cringe:

say hi to the girl in the gym? cringe? make a joke? cringe… ask for her number? cringe.

People who say something is cringe are just jealous because they don’t have the balls to go for the girl they want, so they don’t like to be reminded that other people have balls and actually get good results with the girls they like.

It affects their self esteem because if you pick up a girl in the gym for example, you remind them that it’s possible, and they would rather assume that in the gym it’s not possible because if it was and they can’t get a girl there, then that means they are incompetent and that hurts their ego.

So they tell you: “dude don’t approach girls in the gym that’s cringy as fuck, mate Girls don’t wanna be annoyed”

Imagine thinking talking with a girl automatically makes you annoying.

Trust me the truth is they don’t want to be shown that a guy can do what they wished they could, and if they see someone else succeed then they say:

oh it’s because she was easy”, or “because he had luck”, or “because he is good looking”, or “because he is white and i’m not”

or whatever bullshit excuse that comes to mind in order to protect their fragile ego and self-esteem.

2022-04-22T16:45:23+00:00

Don’t bother

orKKKun · 2022-04-22T11:54:26+00:00

Go and talk. Rejection better than regret

NefariousnessHot8495 · 2022-04-22T13:45:00+00:00

I walk up to girls all the time and have a chat with them. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Just keep it casual and give her a few compliments. But be sure to acknowledge her the next time you see her, don't start ignoring her all of the sudden.

NefariousnessHot8495 · 2022-04-22T15:11:50+00:00

Approach her when she’s done with her workout and ask her out for coffee or a drink somewhere. Make it nonthreatening and very casual. Don’t bother her when she’s working out other than to say hi and smile.

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