Background: I've gained so much confidence since I began working front desk at a hotel about a year ago. Furthermore, all of my coworkers commented on this before I left for another property. They saw me grow from a quiet, nervous, and insecure to low-key, calm, and confident.

This week, I'll be treating myself to a jacuzzi room (compliments of my previous employer) to celebrate my upcoming birthday. What do I need to do for the night to be successful? Logistically, I think everything is set up. I have transportation, my own room (a really nice one), and a fair amount of confidence. How do I get out of my own way and meet women when I go out on the town?