Hey guys hope everyone's well.

I would like to tell you about a girl that I went out a month ago. I'm asking just for feedback cause if I did something wrong I would like to know so I can avoid this in the future.

I matched with this girl on tinder and we quickly hit it off. After like 8-9 messages I set up the date. The date was great. We went to 2 bars, I was getting great energy from her and then we went for a walk. She was really into me. I told her while we were making out heavily, was grabbing her butt i "let's go to your place" she said no. Date ends, everything good.

In between we were texting just enough, not too much. I hate texting.

Second date was setted in 2 weeks time (she is travelling all the time and it happened to travel next week so I couldn't see her). I get there he greet each other and we go to a bar. After that we go for a walk. On the second date she didn't have that high interest of the first date. When I was kissing her she wasn't kissing me the same way as the first date. We ended the date by sharing a cab, we drop close to hers (not exactly to her place, it seemed like she didn't want me to know her location, which is fine) and went I tried to go to hers she declined.

After the 2nd we were texting again she was responsive but when i asked her for a date she told me she was going to italy for her friends birthday and then to her home country for easter and she didnt know if she would come back (i saw her stories so I guess she wasnt lyin)

My question is : If I asked her to come to mine do you guys think she would agree? The reason I didn't don't it's because I live at a friends place and he has people coming in all the time and they smoke and chill.. you know how it goes.. also the house is a mess from the people staying there and I didn't feel comfortable to bring her there. Didnt propose a hotel cause I thought its was gonna look too obvious that i was looking for sex.

So what do you think? Would it make a difference if I asked her to mine? What would you do?

Any questions just ask. And yeah, im still thinking about her sometimes but im mostly angry at myself cause maybe i shouldnt give a shit at all