Whether it be in person or online dating I can always get her attention, grab her number, dance with a women, etc. but eventually it goes no where. I think the problem may be that after I find out she’s interested I then show interest as well but it may come off as clingy. I’ve done research and found out about 80/100 rule and have been trying that (basically a tip to not show as much interest as the woman) but it always seem like I get ghosted or they go for another man (specially in bar setting or nightclub but that’s another topic in itself). Any tips on how to keep interest or how to push/pull with out being too distant?

PS the conversation skills are there and I’ve had them say they had great times on dates but I still get ghosted or they go for another man… and yes Ik I need to have options in case this happens but if all of them keep losing interest having options isn’t easy.

This is one of the last “obstacles” I need to overcome to actually have a dating life so all tips are welcome.